Trin Told Me

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FOR THE GIRLS FROM THE GIRL! The most honest advice from someone who has no degree but a lot of real-world experiences, and that's more important nowadays anyways. Questions, concerns or need advice? DM ME ON insta- trinyxo tiktok- trinity.blair

  1. 1D AGO

    The Ultimate Guide: Nailing the FIRST DATE & making him OBSESSED

    In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about first dates — the nerves, the excitement, and how to actually walk into one feeling confident instead of anxious. I break down why first dates feel so intimidating and how so much of that anxiety comes down to self-worth and overthinking. I share how I personally prepare before a date — from choosing an outfit that makes me feel powerful to doing my makeup in a way that feels like me, not like I’m trying too hard. We talk about how to break the tension naturally, how to keep conversation flowing without it feeling like an interview, and why asking deeper questions creates emotional connection way faster than surface-level small talk. I also explain why compliments should focus on identity and character, not just looks — and how maintaining a little mystery actually increases attraction. I get into the psychology of desire, why you shouldn’t rush physical intimacy on the first date, and why letting a man pursue and prove his interest changes everything. Most importantly, I remind you that dating isn’t about impressing someone — it’s about deciding if they impress you. If you’ve ever felt nervous before a first date or questioned your worth walking into one, this episode is for you. Confidence isn’t about being perfect. It’s about knowing you’re valuable before you even sit down at the table. Love you. Mean it. SUBMISSIONS HERE- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    33 min

  2. 5D AGO

    How to Use a DATING APP... but also why you shouldn't

    In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about the real psychological impact of dating apps—what they do to our self-worth, how they rewire the way we see connection, and why so many people walk away feeling frustrated, insecure, or emotionally drained. I share my own experiences using dating apps, what initially makes them so appealing, and why that quick hit of validation can slowly turn into dependency. We get into the psychology behind instant gratification, comparison, and why swiping can make genuine connection feel harder instead of easier. I also talk about why your value can’t come from matches, messages, or attention from strangers—and how to start building validation through self-trust, mastery, and confidence outside of dating apps. If you’ve ever felt discouraged, disposable, or confused while dating online, this episode is meant to help you step back and reconnect with yourself. At the end of the episode, I answer listener questions about relationships, boundaries, and self-respect, and leave you with a reminder that real love starts with how you treat yourself. Whether you’re currently on dating apps, taking a break from them, or questioning if they’re even for you—this episode is an honest conversation about choosing genuine connection over constant validation. SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    35 min

  3. FEB 6

    How To Get A VALENTINE...(using psychology and confidence)

    Valentine’s Day is coming up, and in this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about everything—how to get a Valentine, how to move through dating with confidence, and how to protect your self-worth no matter your relationship status. I share my own experiences, the psychology behind attraction, and the exact mindset shifts that actually make a difference when it comes to love. We talk about researching your “target,” making the first move without feeling awkward, and using everyday moments and events as low-pressure ways to get closer to someone you like. I also break down why confidence and scarcity are so powerful in dating—and how assuming you’re already chosen can completely change the way people respond to you. This episode includes a Freaky Forecast where I explain what different Valentine’s gifts say about the person giving them, plus a real-life love story analysis that highlights the subtle signs of mutual attraction people usually miss. Whether you’re single, talking to someone, healing from a breakup, or just trying to love yourself a little more, this episode is here to remind you that you don’t need a Valentine to have an amazing day—but when you do have confidence, love tends to find you anyway. SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    31 min

  4. FEB 2

    Is He Cheating on You? LETS FIND OUT.. (catching a cheater 101)

    In this episode, I talk about red flags in relationships, especially when it comes to cheating, and why learning to see the signs early can save you so much time, energy, and heartbreak. I share a personal experience from high school when I was cheated on, the red flags I ignored, and what that situation taught me about self-worth, intuition, and emotional boundaries. We get into how insecurity shows up as jealousy and control, what manipulation and gaslighting actually look like in real life, and why being dismissed or blamed in a relationship is never okay. I also share my thoughts on catching a cheater, not through confrontation or spiraling, but through awareness, silence, and trusting your gut. This episode is for anyone who’s ever questioned themselves, stayed too long, or felt like something was off but couldn’t explain why. You deserve a partner who listens to you, respects you, and adds peace to your life, not confusion. Your intuition isn’t dramatic. It’s protective. Submissions- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    38 min

  5. JAN 30

    Getting the Guy who is Out of Your "LEAGUE"... is possible.

    In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m breaking down the idea of “dating leagues” and why they’re not real—they’re a mindset. We talk about how believing someone is “out of your league” is usually the very thing keeping you from them, and why the only real separation is the story you tell yourself. I share how your frequency shapes your life, why confidence is assumed beauty, and how attraction works when you stop chasing and start positioning yourself to be seen. We get into self-love, mystery, and the mindset shift of assuming you already have what you desire instead of wanting it from a place of lack. I also walk you through a simple, step-by-step formula for getting the attention of someone you think is out of reach—without forcing, begging, or shrinking yourself. This episode is about showing up as your best self, trusting your worth, and remembering that love responds to confidence, not insecurity. If you’ve ever felt like someone was “too good” for you, this episode is your reminder: leagues aren’t real, but your self-belief is. And that changes everything SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    30 min

  6. JAN 26

    Dear My High School Self...This Is Everything You Should Have Known

    THIS IS A RE-UPLOAD THE LAST FILE GOT CUT SHORT -In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m reflecting on high school, self-worth, and all the things I wish I had understood sooner. I talk about how those early years quietly shape the way we see relationships, confidence, and ourselves—and how unlearning the wrong lessons is part of growing into who you’re meant to be. We get into self-belief, why your thoughts truly do create your reality, and how confidence can open doors you didn’t even know were there. I share why embracing femininity is a strength, not a weakness, and how dressing for yourself can completely change the way you move through the world. This episode is about romanticizing your life, trusting your uniqueness, and knowing that you deserve love and respect simply because of who you are—not because of what you prove, chase, or tolerate. If you’re healing from your past, learning to believe in yourself, or stepping into a more confident, empowered version of you, this conversation is for you. You are special. You are here for a reason. And it really does get better when you start choosing yourself. SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    44 min

  7. JAN 23

    Does He Actually Like You? Deciphering Mixed Signals

    In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m breaking down one of the most confusing parts of dating: mixed signals. We talk about what they actually mean, why they mess with your head so much, and how to stop overanalyzing every text, pause, or energy shift. I get into the real signs of interest—texting habits, effort, body language—and why consistency will always tell you more than words. We also talk about overthinking in relationships, what it reveals about your emotional state, and why silence doesn’t automatically mean rejection. Plus, we dive into a Freaky Forecast segment where I explain what the things you overthink the most say about you—and how to soften your mind instead of spiraling. This episode is all about remembering your worth, trusting attraction over chasing, and understanding that love is meant to meet you halfway. If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Does he like me or am I crazy?”—this one’s for you. And as always, I love you guys so much. Submissions here- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    30 min

  8. JAN 19

    The Blueprint for Becoming an Influencer

    In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m sharing my journey from being a casual TikToker to becoming a podcaster and full-time influencer — and everything I wish I knew when I was just starting out. I talk about why understanding your why matters more than anything, and how setting the right intentions can completely change the way you show up online. I get into the real challenges of content creation, from finding inspiration to staying consistent when growth feels slow. We talk authenticity, personal branding, and why being yourself is actually your biggest advantage — even when it feels uncomfortable or unclear at first. This episode is for anyone who’s ever thought about creating content but didn’t know where to start, or felt stuck comparing themselves to others. I break down how to navigate the influencer space, stay motivated, and trust that success is possible when you stay patient, intentional, and true to who you are. If you’re building something — online or in real life — this is your reminder that everyone starts somewhere, and your journey is allowed to unfold in its own time SUBMIT QUESTIONS HERE-https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    33 min
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FOR THE GIRLS FROM THE GIRL! The most honest advice from someone who has no degree but a lot of real-world experiences, and that's more important nowadays anyways. Questions, concerns or need advice? DM ME ON insta- trinyxo tiktok- trinity.blair

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  • Creator
    Trinity blair
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    93
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Trinity blair
  • Show Website
    Trin Told Me

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