Trin Told Me

Trinity blair

FOR THE GIRLS FROM THE GIRL! The most honest advice from someone who has no degree but a lot of real-world experiences, and that's more important nowadays anyways. Questions, concerns or need advice? DM ME ON insta- trinyxo tiktok- trinity.blair

  1. 1D AGO

    The Ultimate Guide: Nailing the FIRST DATE & making him OBSESSED

    In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about first dates — the nerves, the excitement, and how to actually walk into one feeling confident instead of anxious. I break down why first dates feel so intimidating and how so much of that anxiety comes down to self-worth and overthinking. I share how I personally prepare before a date — from choosing an outfit that makes me feel powerful to doing my makeup in a way that feels like me, not like I’m trying too hard. We talk about how to break the tension naturally, how to keep conversation flowing without it feeling like an interview, and why asking deeper questions creates emotional connection way faster than surface-level small talk. I also explain why compliments should focus on identity and character, not just looks — and how maintaining a little mystery actually increases attraction. I get into the psychology of desire, why you shouldn’t rush physical intimacy on the first date, and why letting a man pursue and prove his interest changes everything. Most importantly, I remind you that dating isn’t about impressing someone — it’s about deciding if they impress you. If you’ve ever felt nervous before a first date or questioned your worth walking into one, this episode is for you. Confidence isn’t about being perfect. It’s about knowing you’re valuable before you even sit down at the table. Love you. Mean it. SUBMISSIONS HERE- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    33 min
  2. 5D AGO

    How to Use a DATING APP... but also why you shouldn't

    In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about the real psychological impact of dating apps—what they do to our self-worth, how they rewire the way we see connection, and why so many people walk away feeling frustrated, insecure, or emotionally drained. I share my own experiences using dating apps, what initially makes them so appealing, and why that quick hit of validation can slowly turn into dependency. We get into the psychology behind instant gratification, comparison, and why swiping can make genuine connection feel harder instead of easier. I also talk about why your value can’t come from matches, messages, or attention from strangers—and how to start building validation through self-trust, mastery, and confidence outside of dating apps. If you’ve ever felt discouraged, disposable, or confused while dating online, this episode is meant to help you step back and reconnect with yourself. At the end of the episode, I answer listener questions about relationships, boundaries, and self-respect, and leave you with a reminder that real love starts with how you treat yourself. Whether you’re currently on dating apps, taking a break from them, or questioning if they’re even for you—this episode is an honest conversation about choosing genuine connection over constant validation. SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

    35 min
4.9
out of 5
121 Ratings

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FOR THE GIRLS FROM THE GIRL! The most honest advice from someone who has no degree but a lot of real-world experiences, and that's more important nowadays anyways. Questions, concerns or need advice? DM ME ON insta- trinyxo tiktok- trinity.blair

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