Happy Rebel Podcast

Sandra Ann Miller

Welcome to the Happy Rebel Podcast, where we undo the anger and fear that got us here. Host Sandra Ann Miller, a.k.a. The Happyist, is your certified guide to eudaimonic happiness. WTF is that? Stick around and find out. Are you ready to change your life and the world? Good! Let’s get happy and disrupty. 

Episodes

  1. Becoming Attractive

    MAR 9

    Becoming Attractive

    One day, I’ll give you the full list of all the words I don’t like in the arena of self-development. We’ve covered Coach and Gratitude; now we can add Manifesting to it. Abundance, as well.   So many of these words have been warped by toxic positivity and co-opted by grifters that I just can’t. So, I don’t. Even though I do have certifications in Law of Attraction and Trauma-Informed Abundance. LOL. I know. There is good work within these fields, but it’s also a little groady.   I’m not so much about manifesting as I am about attracting. Being magnetic in life and just drawing good things to you. Abundance? I’d rather have plenty, a profusion, a plethora or copious amounts. It makes it more fun, right?   Part of being a happy rebel is creating the life you want, being the person you want and having what you want. Not in a toddler-having-a-tantrum way, but in living a truly satisfying life. Satisfying for you, not by anyone else’s definition. Happy Rebels are free to be ambitious, successful, or totally chill with what some would call a quiet life. Do you.   This is also part of creating the world we want. Showing everyone there’s plenty of room at the table and wondrous amounts for all to share. So don’t think I’m going all The Secret on you. I’m going beyond that. We are going to be attractive. Not manifesty. Attractive.   Are you ready to attract what you want? Let's get into it!  Follow the podcast on Instagram, Threads and Facebook @HappyRebelPodcast and go deeper into your eudaimonic wellbeing at The Happyist Substack. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts and DM a screenshot of it to me on Instagram (@happyrebelpodcast) along with your preferred email address to receive a free month of The Happyist Substack plus a discount on a continuing subscription. (Please note, this is a manual process. The only AI I use is *actual* intelligence.) Be a Happy Rebel VIP! Join our email group! To work with me, or for further inquiries, please visit TheHappyist.me Ready to start your own podcast? Consider Buzzsprout as your host. They make it easy and affordable. Use my referral link for a $20 credit on any paid plan. ©2025-2026 Happy Rebel LLC All Rights Reserved Music: "Punk Attitude" by Flash Fluharty licensed via PremiumBeats

    17 min
  2. Cult-Proof

    FEB 23

    Cult-Proof

    Pick a cult, any cult. There are so many to choose from. Some active. Some defunct. But what do they all have in common? It’s not just the grift or the coercive control. It’s that good people go to them to find happiness. So, if you think you’re too savvy to fall into a cult, you might be right. But, are you happy enough? I take back the savvy thing. Many smart people enter groups thinking they’re doing something for the greater good of humanity, or themselves. And many people don’t realize they’re even in a coercive-control group until it’s too late. Because they’re keeping their eye on the prize.  We stay cult-proof by cultivating our eudaimonic wellbeing. Let's explore that. Follow the podcast on Instagram, Threads and Facebook @HappyRebelPodcast and go deeper into your eudaimonic wellbeing at The Happyist Substack. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts and DM a screenshot of it to me on Instagram (@happyrebelpodcast) along with your preferred email address to receive a free month of The Happyist Substack plus a discount on a continuing subscription. (Please note, this is a manual process. The only AI I use is *actual* intelligence.) Be a Happy Rebel VIP! Join our email group! To work with me, or for further inquiries, please visit TheHappyist.me Ready to start your own podcast? Consider Buzzsprout as your host. They make it easy and affordable. Use my referral link for a $20 credit on any paid plan. ©2025-2026 Happy Rebel LLC All Rights Reserved Music: "Punk Attitude" by Flash Fluharty licensed via PremiumBeats

    14 min
  3. Bringing in the Joy

    FEB 16

    Bringing in the Joy

    Now is probably the worst time to talk about being happy. But, really, it’s the best. Once again I have to stress what happiness actually is and is not. Happiness is not being giddy, or blissfully ignorant and it’s absolutely not toxic positivity. Actually, happiness is really calm, and certain, and present and centered. When I say it’s a superpower, I mean it. And when I say it’s punk as f**k, I mean that, too. It’s self-confidence and resilience. It’s being fully empowered. And don’t we want and need all of that right now? Easier said than done, I know. And I do know. The first version of this brought me to my knees. How are you coping with this version? Let's talk about it. Follow the podcast on Instagram, Threads and Facebook @HappyRebelPodcast and go deeper into your eudaimonic wellbeing at The Happyist Substack. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts and DM a screenshot of it to me on Instagram (@happyrebelpodcast) along with your preferred email address to receive a free month of The Happyist Substack plus a discount on a continuing subscription. (Please note, this is a manual process. The only AI I use is *actual* intelligence.) Be a Happy Rebel VIP! Join our email group! To work with me, or for further inquiries, please visit TheHappyist.me Ready to start your own podcast? Consider Buzzsprout as your host. They make it easy and affordable. Use my referral link for a $20 credit on any paid plan. ©2025-2026 Happy Rebel LLC All Rights Reserved Music: "Punk Attitude" by Flash Fluharty licensed via PremiumBeats

    11 min
  4. Breaking the Negativity Bias

    FEB 9

    Breaking the Negativity Bias

    One of the more effed up things about being human is how our brain works. Or maybe the malfunctions. For example: The Negativity Bias. This is where our wee melons decide to give more weight to negative information and experiences than positive ones. Talk about tipping the scale.  And, to a point, I get it. We needed to be hyperaware of danger back when we were dragging our knuckles. But we aren’t now. Yes, we are living in a truly cruel and dangerous time at the moment. Which is why we need to be super cognizant of the negativity bias so we don’t ignore the positive. And, gawd, there’s no way that word doesn’t sound toxic right now, so bear with me here. Where do you land on the negativity bias spectrum? Are you quicker to get a hit from the doom and gloom, or are you able to let some good news in and balance the scales? Let's talk about it. Here's that nifty link to that research article as promised. https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1908369116 Follow the podcast on Instagram, Threads and Facebook @HappyRebelPodcast and go deeper into your eudaimonic wellbeing at The Happyist Substack. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts and DM a screenshot of it to me on Instagram (@happyrebelpodcast) along with your preferred email address to receive a free month of The Happyist Substack plus a discount on a continuing subscription. (Please note, this is a manual process. The only AI I use is *actual* intelligence.) Be a Happy Rebel VIP! Join our email group! To work with me, or for further inquiries, please visit TheHappyist.me Ready to start your own podcast? Consider Buzzsprout as your host. They make it easy and affordable. Use my referral link for a $20 credit on any paid plan. ©2025-2026 Happy Rebel LLC All Rights Reserved Music: "Punk Attitude" by Flash Fluharty licensed via PremiumBeats

    16 min
  5. The Other Resistance

    JAN 26

    The Other Resistance

    Resistance comes in many forms, but the one I want to talk about is the one we do to ourselves. Which is the absurd version. Why do we NOT do the things we know we need to do for our own betterment? It’s baffling, and something I’ve pondered for a while, because — HELLO! — I’m guilty of it, too. And here’s the nugget of it: The reason we resist doing something that we know is good for us is not because we believe it will be hard or because we’re afraid to fail; it’s because we know it will work. And we will have to change. And how many of us really want that? Let's get into the hows and whys of this other form of resistance, including the way our nervous system plays a role. And, as promised, here's the link mentioned in the post: https://www.polyvagalinstitute.org/whatispolyvagaltheory Follow the podcast on Instagram, Threads and Facebook @HappyRebelPodcast and go deeper into your eudaimonic wellbeing at The Happyist Substack. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts and DM a screenshot of it to me on Instagram (@happyrebelpodcast) along with your preferred email address to receive a free month of The Happyist Substack plus a discount on a continuing subscription. (Please note, this is a manual process. The only AI I use is *actual* intelligence.) Be a Happy Rebel VIP! Join our email group! To work with me, or for further inquiries, please visit TheHappyist.me  Ready to start your own podcast? Consider Buzzsprout as your host. They make it easy and affordable. Use my referral link for a $20 credit on any paid plan.  ©2025-2026 Happy Rebel LLC All Rights Reserved Music: "Punk Attitude" by Flash Fluharty licensed via PremiumBeats

    10 min
  6. The Radical Act of Self-Love

    JAN 19

    The Radical Act of Self-Love

    Right up there with happiness, self-love is super misunderstood. What is your reaction to it? Did you get the ick? Does it make you want to put on Birkenstocks and touch grass? Or do you nod in acknowledgment that self-love is the shit and we should all be doing it? I get it. Self-love is a bit on the woo end of things. It seems incongruous to being humble. Like you have a big-ass ego. That you think you’re perfect and your you-know-what doesn’t stink. Nope. It does. We know that. Light a match. Let's talk about what self-love is and isn't, and why it can help change the world. Really. I'm serious. Let's go! xo Follow the podcast on Instagram, Threads and Facebook @HappyRebelPodcast and go deeper into your eudaimonic wellbeing at The Happyist Substack. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts and DM a screenshot of it to me on Instagram (@happyrebelpodcast) along with your preferred email address to receive a free month of The Happyist Substack plus a discount on a continuing subscription. (Please note, this is a manual process. The only AI I use is *actual* intelligence.) Be a Happy Rebel VIP! Join our email group! To work with me, or for further inquiries, please visit TheHappyist.me Ready to start your own podcast? Consider Buzzsprout as your host. They make it easy and affordable. Use my referral link for a $20 credit on any paid plan. ©2025-2026 Happy Rebel LLC All Rights Reserved Music: "Punk Attitude" by Flash Fluharty licensed via PremiumBeats

    12 min
  7. Let's Get Happy and Disrupty!

    JAN 5

    Let's Get Happy and Disrupty!

    Let me back up to the beginning. How this all got started. I was in a pretty bad mood from 2016 through 2022. Wonder why? And that meh mood lingered even after some of the dust settled. It was in late-December 2022 that I realized I couldn’t take feeling that miserable anymore. And what I was experiencing was internalized. I didn’t share it with the world. Much. But I knew that something had to change. That I had to change. So I did what any smart, sane, self-caring woman would do. Call my therapist? LOL. Nah! I Googled “happiness”, and stumbled upon a course to be, of all things, a happiness coach. My initial reaction was to laugh out loud, thinking, “Oh. My. Gawd. How absurd!” When I was done cackling, my second reaction was, “Oh my gawd. That’s exactly what I want to do.” And, of course I started doing all this right when everything went wrong! As I've watched the last year unfold, I realized that fighting fire with fire doesn't work. Being angry doesn't work. Being sad doesn't work. (And, yes, there's a helluva lot to be angry and scared about.) What I believe will work (and no one will see coming) is a happiness rebellion. Because when we are truly, deeply, authentically happy, we are fully in our power. We just need to understand happiness a bit better to make that work. Change your life, change the world. Are you ready to get happy and disrupty? Let's go! xo Follow the podcast on Instagram, Threads and Facebook @HappyRebelPodcast and go deeper into your eudaimonic wellbeing at The Happyist Substack. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts and DM a screenshot of it to me on Instagram (@happyrebelpodcast) along with your preferred email address to receive a free month of The Happyist Substack plus a discount on a continuing subscription. (Please note, this is a manual process. The only AI I use is *actual* intelligence.) Be a Happy Rebel VIP! Join our email group! To work with me, or for further inquiries, please visit TheHappyist.me Ready to start your own podcast? Consider Buzzsprout as your host. They make it easy and affordable. Use my referral link for a $20 credit on any paid plan. ©2025-2026 Happy Rebel LLC All Rights Reserved Music: "Punk Attitude" by Flash Fluharty licensed via PremiumBeats

    15 min
  8. SEASON 1, EPISODE 1 TRAILER

    The Happy Rebel Podcast is Coming!

    This is the Happy Rebel Podcast. I’m Sandra Ann Miller, a.k.a. The Happyist, your certified guide to eudaimonic happiness. WTF is that? Stick around and find out.  Let’s undo the anger and fear that got us here, and change the world by changing our lives. It’s possible. Probably probable. So why not give it a try since that whole fighting fire with fire thing hasn’t really worked. We, as a culture, as a people, don’t fully understand happiness. We think it comes from outside of us. That it’s fleeting, something we have to earn or deserve. That we must pursue it. None of that is true.  We also mistake happiness for toxic positivity, blissful ignorance or just ignoring what’s going on around us, saying, “It’s fine. I’m fine. Everything is fine!” Nope.  Happiness requires presence, intelligence and integrity. Which is why it may elude some people. But not you! You’re here for a reason. And that’s to understand happiness better and bring the real deal into your life. Happiness is a super power. It is resistance, it is resilience, it is rebellion and punk AF. What it isn’t is difficult to have or keep…once you understand the hows and whys of it. Which are so basic, you will blush. Fair warning: I am GenX, my first language is sarcasm, and I’m allergic to BS. And one of the things that makes me very happy is swearing. I’m good at it. You’ll get used to it. The best thing about being a happy rebel is that you don’t have to give up things you love or become a different person. Nope. You will evolve, though, into the very true you. And that will start a ripple effect, inviting others to be happy rebels, too. This podcast will come out in four, 10-episode seasons each year — winter, spring, summer and fall — starting on Monday, January 5th, 2026. Follow the pod on the show’s website, happyrebelpodcast.com, to be in the know of what’s going on and coming up. You can join us on Instagram, Threads and Facebook at HappyRebelPodcast and, if you can’t wait for January to be a happy rebel, swing by TheHappyist.Substack.com for a weekly dose. And, if my voice sounds familiar, that might be from my first podcast, A Sassy Little Podcast. I’m still sassy, but there’s nothing little about being a rebel. So, are you ready? Say YES! Let’s get happy and disrupty. Follow the podcast on Instagram, Threads and Facebook @HappyRebelPodcast and go deeper into your eudaimonic wellbeing at The Happyist Substack. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts and DM a screenshot of it to me on Instagram (@happyrebelpodcast) along with your preferred email address to receive a free month of The Happyist Substack plus a discount on a continuing subscription. (Please note, this is a manual process. The only AI I use is *actual* intelligence.) Be a Happy Rebel VIP! Join our email group! To work with me, or for further inquiries, please visit TheHappyist.me Ready to start your own podcast? Consider Buzzsprout as your host. They make it easy and affordable. Use my referral link for a $20 credit on any paid plan. ©2025-2026 Happy Rebel LLC All Rights Reserved Music: "Punk Attitude" by Flash Fluharty licensed via PremiumBeats

    3 min

Trailer

Ratings & Reviews

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About

Welcome to the Happy Rebel Podcast, where we undo the anger and fear that got us here. Host Sandra Ann Miller, a.k.a. The Happyist, is your certified guide to eudaimonic happiness. WTF is that? Stick around and find out. Are you ready to change your life and the world? Good! Let’s get happy and disrupty.