Ask A Vet Podcast

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Ask A Vet Podcast is a long-form conversation where veterans share their service experiences in their own words, with respect and control over what they choose to talk about.

  1. What They Never Told You About Playing Rock & Roll in a War Zone

    3d ago

    What They Never Told You About Playing Rock & Roll in a War Zone

    Stephen Davy was drafted out of a Toys R Us toy gun department in 1967, joined the Air Force to avoid the Army, and ended up loading napalm, two-thousand-pound bombs, and 2.75 rockets at the Pleiku Air Base bomb dump in the Central Highlands of Vietnam. But the part of his story you've never heard is what happened on the weekends: Stephen and his buddy Tom Glenn formed a rock band that played Camp Holloway, Engineer Hill, Fifth Special Forces, and just about every Army camp within reach of Pleiku, often going AWOL to do it, and sometimes catching helicopter rides back to base from pilots who wanted to do loops with the band gear in the cargo hold. In this episode, Stephen shares the close calls (rocket attacks, a tunneled-in VC sapper team, a leopard outside the rehearsal door), the absurdity (a pet macaque named Colonel Spiker who got drunk in the Airmen's Club), and the quieter moments that stayed with him most — visiting the orphanage outside Pleiku with clothes his parents shipped from the States. He also talks honestly about coming home to Andrews Air Force Base, the PTSD no one was naming yet, getting robbed at gunpoint multiple times working nights at a 7-Eleven, and how a Washington Post want ad eventually led him to a 50-year career as a master violin maker in Laguna Beach. CHAPTERS 00:30 Growing up — Navy dad, Boonville to Florida to DC  07:00 The draft notice 08:30 Basic training at Lackland — getting punched, losing a spleen  12:00 Munitions school in Denver and meeting Tom Glenn  14:00 Learning to load bombs, fuse rockets, and mix napalm  20:00 Arriving in Pleiku — Central Highlands, Fifth Special Forces, MIKE Force  26:00 First rocket attack and the bunker in the tall grass  38:00 Forming the New Generations Band  50:00 Pleiku City, the Montagnards, and the orphanage  58:00 Going AWOL to play Camp Holloway and Engineer Hill  1:08:00 Flat tire on the way back from a gig  1:11:00 The colonel who saved the band from being broken up  1:20:00 Two GIs straight out of the field singing "Hold On, I'm Comin'"  1:25:00 Helicopter loops with the band gear  1:28:00 Leaving Pleiku under ground fire  1:32:00 Coming home — Andrews AFB, security details, and a bank robbery  1:47:00 Apprenticing under violin masters Tom Nerado and Albert Mollier  1:51:00 Vietnam, Agent Orange, and looking back  1:55:00 Colonel Spiker the monkey Subscribe for more interviews with the men and women who served. If you or a Veteran you know has a story that should be heard, we'd love to hear from you at humanographyproject@gmail.com.  🎖️ Curious Humanography is proud to partner with Utah Honor Flight, helping veterans visit memorials built in their honor. To learn more or support their mission, visit UtahHonorFlight.org and honorflight.org. If this story moved you, please consider liking, commenting, and subscribing — it helps us continue sharing stories that deserve to be heard. #AskAVet #VietnamVeteran #VietnamWar #USAirForce #Pleiku #OralHistory

    1h 52m
  2. What They Don’t Tell You About Taking Fire on the Mekong River Delta

    Jun 23

    What They Don’t Tell You About Taking Fire on the Mekong River Delta

    Gary Howard grew up in Atlanta and joined the Navy in 1968 to stay one step ahead of the draft. A few months later he landed at Tan Son Nhut on the night of Tet '69 – the whole countryside on fire, Intel telling everyone this year would be worse than last. It wasn't. What followed was a year as a Naval advisor with the Vietnamese Marines in the Mekong Delta: helicopter landings, MEDCAPs in remote villages, climbing telephone poles to lay phone lines, sleeping topside under a mosquito net with his M16 next to his head, and yes, waterskiing on the Mekong behind a mail-order Johnson 75 outboard. In this episode Gary walks us through OCS at Newport, gunnery school, the bus ride into Saigon, the rocket that missed because his hat fell off, the mortar attack that interrupted a winning poker hand on his birthday, the overturned boat that gave him lifelong claustrophobia, and the moment a young woman spit on him at SFO when he finally made it home. After Vietnam he ran a nuclear weapons rework plant in Yorktown, went to law school in Texas, and tried jury cases in Arizona for forty years. CHAPTERS  00:48 — Drafted, so I joined the Navy  02:06 — OCS at Newport (and getting caught asleep)  03:30 — Gunnery school in Virginia Beach  07:09 — Amphibious and small arms training  08:25 — Landing in Vietnam on Tet '69  13:16 — Bus ride into Saigon 16:25 — Aboard the USS Mercer  19:36 — A 40-foot boat and 13 crew  22:51 — MEDCAPs, DENTCAPs, and winning hearts and minds  23:57 — Waterskiing on the Mekong  26:36 — The rocket that missed  27:58 — The telephone pole story  30:24 — Mortars on my birthday  35:42 — Food, heat, and the mosquitoes  36:12 — R&R in Hawaii  36:46 — Emergency leave home  40:11 — The girl at SFO who spit on me  43:22 — Two and a half years at a nuclear weapons plant  45:43 — Law school and forty years of trials  49:46 — What Vietnam taught me  51:05 — The overturned boat and lifelong claustrophobia  57:23 — Adjusting to "thank you for your service" Subscribe for more interviews with the men and women who served. 👉 If you’re a Veteran struggling with VA benefits, click this link to schedule a free consultation: https://ameconsultation.com/ref/AVPP1211J20A26YXO Disclosure: This is a referral partnership with American Medical Experts. We may receive compensation if you book through our link. If you or a Veteran you know has a story that should be heard, we'd love to hear from you at humanographyproject@gmail.com.  🎖️ Curious Humanography is proud to partner with Utah Honor Flight, helping veterans visit memorials built in their honor. To learn more or support their mission, visit UtahHonorFlight.org and honorflight.org. If this story moved you, please consider liking, commenting, and subscribing — it helps us continue sharing stories that deserve to be heard. #VietnamWar #VietnamVeteran #USNavy #AskAVet #BrownWaterNavy #MekongDelta #Tet69 #OralHistory

    1 hr
  3. What They Don't Tell You About Life on a Nuclear Submarine

    Jun 17

    What They Don't Tell You About Life on a Nuclear Submarine

    In 1963, a kid from Las Vegas with no money and a father enlisted in the Air Force earned appointments to all three service academies. A retired Army colonel teaching high school math gave him one piece of advice: "if you want choices, go to Annapolis" and it set Tim Martin on a path into the most secretive community in the U.S. military: the Silent Service. In Episode 46 of Ask A Vet, Tim takes us deep inside the Cold War nuclear Navy. Hand-picked for Admiral Rickover's legendary nuclear power program, Tim served aboard the USS John Adams (SSBN-620), a Polaris missile boat carrying 160 nuclear warheads — more destructive power than every bomb dropped in World War II — and later aboard the fast attack USS Permit (SSN-594), the "Steely-Eyed Killer of the Deep." He tells the stories submariners rarely tell: trailing a brand-new Soviet missile submarine for 38 straight days without being detected. Surviving the exact same casualty that sank the USS Thresher, a seawater flange blowout at 1,300 feet. Snagging a fishing net with his periscope at 2:30 in the morning. Watching Apollo 13 launch through the periscope. A swim call in the middle of the Panama Canal. And the day his captain made him the boat's official Shark Control Officer. Tim went on to a career in nuclear power and today serves on the USS Utah (SSN-801) Commissioning Committee — and he's the first submariner ever featured on this show. If you enjoy these stories, subscribing is free and it genuinely helps us preserve more of them. CHAPTERS 00:30 — A Las Vegas Kid Gets Appointments to All Three Academies 07:15 — Plebe Year, the Chronometer Answer & Falling for Submarines 12:45 — Rickover's Nuclear Program: Sawed-Off Chairs, Nuke School & the Idaho Prototype 19:00 — USS John Adams (SSBN-620): 16 Polaris Missiles, 160 Atom Bombs 22:30 — Earning His Dolphins: Thrown Over the Side in Guam 28:43 — THE DRAGNET STORY: 2:30 AM, Periscope Up Under Two Spotlights 35:45 — Life at 300 Feet: Six On, Twelve Off, Movie Night & Fixing Everything 40:30 — USS Permit, "Steely-Eyed Killer of the Deep": Trailing a Soviet Sub for 38 Days 49:00 — Nuclear Torpedoes & the 1974 Anti-Nuclear Protest in Japan 59:00 — The Thresher, the Scorpion & Surviving a Flange Blowout at 1,300 Feet 1:06:49 — Creaking Hulls, Angles & Dangles, and How You Evade a Torpedo 1:19:40 — Ice Cream Over Sonar, the Army-Navy Game Heist & Apollo 13 Through the Periscope 1:30:30 — THE SHARK STORY: "You're the Shark Control Officer" 1:35:30 — Rickover's Legacy, the USS Utah & Life After the Silent Service 👉 If you’re a Veteran struggling with VA benefits, click this link to schedule a free consultation: https://ameconsultation.com/ref/AVPP1211J20A26YXO Disclosure: This is a referral partnership with American Medical Experts. We may receive compensation if you book through our link. If you or a Veteran you know has a story that should be heard, we'd love to hear from you at humanographyproject@gmail.com.

    1h 43m
  4. What They Don't Tell You About Your First Firefight in Afghanistan

    Jun 12

    What They Don't Tell You About Your First Firefight in Afghanistan

    In Episode 45 of Ask A Vet, we sit down with Aaron Hinds, a Georgia kid who turned down a Navy SEAL contract and a nuclear program to do the one thing he'd wanted since he was fourteen: be an infantryman. Aaron takes us from Sand Hill at Fort Benning to the 10th Mountain Division at Fort Drum, through brutal pre-deployment "tryouts" where only two dozen men made the cut, and into Afghanistan's fighting season at FOB Shank, better known as Rocket City. He shares what it's really like the first time rounds snap over your head, the frustrating reality of rules of engagement, the 45-minute firefight that made it into Ricky Schroder's docuseries "The Fighting Season," and the unforgettable Special Forces soldier in a Captain America t-shirt. But the heart of this episode is what came after. Aaron opens up about losing more friends at home than he did overseas, finding a therapist through the nonprofit HickStrong, getting his service dog Ace through Healing for Heroes, and learning that the same mind that survived a war can be pointed at helping people. As Aaron puts it: "I can do great things and I can do terrible things…and I have to decide which one I'm gonna let control my actions." If you're a veteran who's struggling, you are not alone. Reach out to the resources below or dial 988 and press 1 for the Veterans Crisis Line. 🎖️ Resources mentioned in this episode:  • HickStrong (free therapy for veterans & first responders): https://www.hicksstrong.org/ • Healing for Heroes (service dogs for veterans): https://www.healing4heroes.org/ • Veterans Crisis Line: Dial 988, then press 1 “The Fighting Season” (2015): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4006826 📺 Subscribe for a new veteran's story every episode.  🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and everywhere you listen. CHAPTERS  00:33 – Growing up in Stapleton, Georgia  03:11 – Turning down a SEAL contract to join the infantry  06:05 – Fort Benning: Drill sergeants, weather machines & "Chuck Norris"  15:10 – Fort Drum & the 10th Mountain Division  19:18 – Training to fight: glass houses & complex simplicity  21:30 – Tryouts: competing for a slot to deploy  27:03 – Shipping out: Ireland, Romania & landing at Bagram  29:23 – FOB Shank, a.k.a. Rocket City  36:46 – Rules of Engagement 39:22 – Fighting Season  51:00 – The 45-minute firefight & the B-1 show of force  1:02:04 – The A-10 pilot with the angelic voice  1:04:37 – Pitch Perfect, surf & turf Fridays and badminton diplomacy  1:12:01 – The frustration of ROE  1:14:34 – Coming home  1:31:51 – Therapy, HickStrong & a service dog named Ace  1:43:17 – Final Thoughts & Reflections  #AskAVet #Veterans #Afghanistan #10thMountain #Infantry #VeteranStories #MilitaryPodcast

    1h 53m
  5. What They Don't Tell You About Being a Combat Medic Turned Infantry Officer

    Jun 9

    What They Don't Tell You About Being a Combat Medic Turned Infantry Officer

    Stephan Wolfert enlisted as a medic in 1986, became an infantry officer, trained for elite special operations, and was on a fast track to a full military career…until two devastating losses in the same year broke something in him. A chance encounter with Shakespeare's Richard III in a small Montana theater changed the course of his life forever. Today, Stephan is a licensed psychotherapist, Shakespeare actor, and founder of De-Cruit, a groundbreaking program using Shakespeare's verse to help military veterans heal from PTSD and trauma. With over 20 peer-reviewed journal articles backing his work, what started as one veteran's personal catharsis has helped thousands find language for the unspeakable.In this episode, Stephan talks candidly about growing up on the rough north side of La Crosse, Wisconsin, fleeing to the Army as his only way out, the rapid rise through elite military training, the grief that broke him, and why he believes we recruit soldiers but never truly "decruit" them — and what that costs all of us. 🔗 Learn more about De-Cruit: www.decruit.org CHAPTERS: 3:02 – Why He Joined the Army 5:45 – Becoming a Combat Medic 7:06 – Basic Training & What Surprised Him 12:40 – Advanced Training & Becoming an Officer 18:05 – Iran-Contra, Central America & Shifting Beliefs 22:55 – Getting His History Degree & Turning Down Regular Army 28:47 – JRTC & National Training Center: Elite Field Training 34:33 – Ranger School & What Almost Ended It 37:42 – The Arctic Training Story (A Favorite Army Memory) 42:53 – The Losses That Broke Him: Deaths in Training & a Soldier's Suicide 49:49 – Going AWOL: A PTSD Episode on an Amtrak Train 54:14 – Whitefish, Montana & a Shakespeare Play That Changed Everything 58:31 – Turning Down the Military for Good 1:02:12 – Ranger School: The Concussion That Cost Him the Tab 1:13:19 – Graduate School & the Birth of Cry Havoc 1:16:36 – Creating DeCruit: Shakespeare as Medicine for Veterans 1:29:02 – The Research: What the Data Actually Shows 1:37:43 – Veterans, Childhood Trauma & ACE Scores 1:46:44 – How to Find DeCruit & What's Coming Next 1:48:35 – The Real Cost of War & What We Choose Not to Fix 1:55:34 – Final Thoughts & Reflections If you or a Veteran you know has a story that should be heard, we'd love to hear from you at humanographyproject@gmail.com.

    1h 57m
  6. Veteran Podcast What They Don't Tell You About Being a JAG Officer in Vietnam Combat

    Jun 4

    Veteran Podcast What They Don't Tell You About Being a JAG Officer in Vietnam Combat

    In EP 43 of Ask a Vet, Ron Holdaway shares a remarkable journey from growing up in Wyoming to serving as a senior Army lawyer involved in historic cases during Vietnam and beyond. Discover his perspectives on military justice, the Vietnam War, and the lessons learned from a lifetime of service. CHAPTERS: 01:00 - Growing up in Wyoming & becoming a lawyer 02:37 - ROTC, JAG Corps & early military career 07:21 - First assignments & court-martial work 12:04 - Postings in Hawaii, Germany & Vietnam 14:39 - First war crime case & combat refusals 16:10 - Deployment to Vietnam 21:36 - Arrival & life in Vietnam 27:15 - Living under fire & shrapnel injuries 31:00 - Soldier shoots fellow soldier on drugs 33:01 - The 1st Cavalry Division 36:20 - War crimes, mutilation & drug enforcement 43:53 - The Mealy incident 45:07 - Lieutenant Calley's court-martial & media fallout 48:18 - Leaving Vietnam & anti-war sentiment back home 51:33 - Pentagon, Europe & promotion to Colonel 59:38 - Chief Judge & career reflections 63:43 - Final thoughts on Vietnam & life lessons 🎖️ Ask A Vet is dedicated to documenting and preserving veterans' stories in their own words, on their own terms, before their stories are gone forever. If you believe these stories matter, please subscribe, like, comment, and share. Your support helps us preserve the voices of those who served. ✈️ Ask A Vet is proud to partner with Utah Honor Flight — giving veterans a free trip to Washington D.C. to visit the memorials built in their honor. Every flight is free to veterans and made possible by generous donors. Learn more or support the mission at utahonorflight.org or find your local hub at honorflight.org.

    1h 6m
  7. What They Don't Tell You About Hunting Soviet Submarines in the Vietnam Era

    May 29

    What They Don't Tell You About Hunting Soviet Submarines in the Vietnam Era

    In Episode 42 of Ask a Vet, we sit down with Navy veteran Tom Hopkins: a man who spent 20 years chasing submarines across the Pacific, Atlantic, and Mediterranean, surviving fire control lock-ons off the coast of China, harrowing carrier landings, cold catapult shots, and engine failures that nearly put him in the water. And somehow, he never stopped loving every minute of it. Tom grew up in Salida, Kansas, the son of an Air Force bomber pilot who flew unarmed DC-3s over the Himalayas in WWII — and who died in a B-47 crash when Tom was just 12. That loss shaped everything that came after: the draft, the Navy, the jets, the submarines, and the psychological reckoning in his final year of service that taught him PTSD is very, very real. From the flight line at Kingsville, Texas to carrier operations on the USS Ticonderoga and USS Kennedy, from S-2 Trackers to computerized S-3 Vikings, from a night aboard the USS Sabalo diesel submarine to Civil Air Patrol missions near Hill Air Force Base — this is a story of service, sacrifice, and a lifelong love of flight.

    2h 12m
  8. What They Don't Tell You About Being a Cobra Pilot in the Vietnam War

    May 25

    What They Don't Tell You About Being a Cobra Pilot in the Vietnam War

    In Episode 41 of Ask a Vet, we sit down with Walter Cox, Vietnam-era Army warrant officer, helicopter pilot, and Price, Utah native. Walter flew both Cobra gunships and Huey slicks with the 7th/17th Air Cavalry and Alpha 2/27 at Camp Holloway in Pleiku, South Vietnam. He walks us through what it was like to learn to fly in the tiny TH-55 trainer, transition to the sleek and lethal AH-1 Cobra, and ultimately find his calling in the Huey — hauling troops, supplies, and ARVN advisors across the Central Highlands. He recalls his first time being fired upon, the B-40 rockets that barely missed his crew, a bullet hole discovered in his rotor head days after a mission, and the devastating loss of fellow pilots that still stays with him. Walter is also open about the silence he kept for decades after coming home — the airport with no welcome, the PTSD he still navigates, and the memories he's had to push down just to get through. This episode is a remarkable window into the everyday heroism of a generation of veterans who served quietly and came home to even quieter streets. 🎙️ Ask a Vet is a podcast dedicated to honoring and preserving the stories of veterans.

    1h 20m
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Ask A Vet Podcast is a long-form conversation where veterans share their service experiences in their own words, with respect and control over what they choose to talk about.

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  • Creator
    Curious Humanography
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    49
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Curious Humanography
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    Ask A Vet Podcast

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