CapacityConvos

RaQuel Hopkins
  • 5.0 (8)
  • MENTAL HEALTH

Capacity Convos is a space for meaningful conversation about who we become when life asks more of us.Hosted by RaQuel Hopkins, the show brings together people whose lives and work reflect real capacity—individuals who have stayed present, taken responsibility, and continued to grow without shrinking in the face of challenge. These conversations move beyond trends and surface narratives to explore the decisions, beliefs, and moments that shape a life.Capacity Convos invites listeners into thoughtful dialogue that lingers encouraging reflection, perspective, and a deeper engagement with life itself. 

Episodes

  1. 6H AGO

    Stop Being a Victim | Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman on How to Rise Above

    Episode 4 features psychologist Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman, author of Rise Above, in a powerful conversation on resilience, victimhood, self actualization, and personal growth. Dr. Kaufman shares his early experience being placed in special education due to an auditory processing disability and the self advocacy that helped him challenge limiting narratives about his potential. From there, we explore the psychology of vulnerability, survival mode, identity, and what it truly means to rise above adversity without denying pain. This episode challenges the idea that suffering should define you and instead offers a framework for integrating hardship while continuing to grow. What we cover: • The impact of early labels and self advocacy  • Healthy vulnerability versus vulnerable narcissism  • How trigger warnings and framing shape anxiety and perception  • Suppression versus avoidance and values based action through ACT  • Moving beyond survival mode  • Individual and collective victimhood traits  • Wounded healers versus dark empaths  • The psychology of authenticity and its impact  • Self verification theory and reinforcing identity  • Empowering youth toward future focused meaning and self actualization Follow RaQuel on Instagram: @raquel_the_capacity_expert Subscribe on YouTube: @capacityconvos Join the newsletter: newsletter Subscribe, rate, and share CapacityConvos

    46 min

  2. FEB 16

    From Panic To Self Acceptance With Ashley

    Ashley shares her 20 plus year journey living with generalized anxiety disorder and panic disorder after her first panic attack at nineteen. What began as a diagnosis slowly became an identity, leading her to question who she was if she could not trust her own brain. In this conversation, we unpack the difference between labels and lived experience, the quiet ways anxiety reshapes life choices, and how to reclaim agency without forcing yourself into extremes to prove you are capable. Ashley also shares the practical tools that help her manage anxiety and why acceptance, community, and responsibility matter more than appearances. What we cover:  • When a diagnosis becomes your identity  • The danger of romanticizing mental health labels  • Anxiety beyond “I cannot do crowds”  • The lose lose cycle of over proving yourself  • Separating true preferences from anxiety driven avoidance  • Tools that help including MBSR, CBT, EMDR, grounding and breathwork  • The truth about “high functioning” anxiety  • Medication as one tool within a larger plan  • Launching anxious.outloud to reduce isolation and add humor Connect: Follow Ashley at @anxious.outloud Follow RaQuel on Instagram: @raquel_the_capacity_expert Subscribe on YouTube: @capacityconvos Join the newsletter: newsletter Subscribe, rate, and share CapacityConvos

    33 min

  3. JAN 30

    She Turned Down Chemo And Chose Herself

    A powerful conversation with Kelly about capacity, agency, and choosing life in the face of uncertainty. She shares her rare ampullary cancer diagnosis, how she self advocated across hospitals, and why she declined chemo to pursue a clinical trial. We dive into self trust during a major career transition to a federal executive role, finding the right support system at work and at home, and redefining relationships and priorities. Kelly reflects on preparing for death while fully choosing to live through travel, joy, and perspective, anchored by the mantra : you cannot wait until life is not hard before you choose to be happy. What we cover : How to listen to your intuition when the stakes are high Navigating medical decisions with clarity ownership and self trust Balancing ambition health and identity during major life shifts Letting go of roles relationships and expectations that no longer fit Choosing presence joy and meaning without waiting for life to get easier Why you’ll love Kelly: She embodies self-trust under pressure She models what it means to build capacity in real life, not theory She reminds us you don’t wait for life to get easier before you choose to be happy Follow RaQuel on Instagram: @raquel_the_capacity_expert Subscribe on YouTube: @capacityconvos Join the newsletter: newsletter Subscribe, rate, and share CapacityConvos

    47 min
  4. I Had Suicidal Thoughts But I Survived: A Talk With My Dad

    JAN 19

    I Had Suicidal Thoughts But I Survived: A Talk With My Dad

    In the premiere episode of CapacityConvos, therapist and capacity expert RaQuel sits down with her very first guest, her dad, for a raw, funny, and deeply human conversation about mental health, faith, family, and what it really means to have capacity. Together, they explore the difference between mental health and mental illness, generational beliefs about therapy and discipline, growing up with limited resources, the role of church and hope, surviving dark seasons, and the importance of giving people their flowers while they are still here. RaQuel’s dad shares openly about his own mental health struggles, the resilience that carried him through, and what makes him most proud of his daughter today. This conversation is honest, reflective, and grounding, offering perspective across generations while reminding us that capacity is not about perfection but about persistence, support, and hope. What we cover : Mental health vs mental illness and challenging the idea that medication is the only answer Growing up with scarcity, faith, and the power of hope Candid discussion of suicidal thoughts and choosing to keep going Parenting, identity, and being more than one role Public criticism, empathy, and telling hard truths with love Legacy, gratitude, and giving people their flowers now Guest RaQuel’s dad Veteran, straight shooter, and devoted to family, faith, and honesty Content note This episode includes candid discussion of suicidal thoughts. If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. In the United States, call or text 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. For other countries, please check local resources. Follow RaQuel on Instagram: @raquel_the_capacity_expert Subscribe on YouTube: @capacityconvos Join the newsletter: newsletter Subscribe, rate, and share CapacityConvos

    31 min
  • 4 Episodes

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
8 Ratings

About

Capacity Convos is a space for meaningful conversation about who we become when life asks more of us.Hosted by RaQuel Hopkins, the show brings together people whose lives and work reflect real capacity—individuals who have stayed present, taken responsibility, and continued to grow without shrinking in the face of challenge. These conversations move beyond trends and surface narratives to explore the decisions, beliefs, and moments that shape a life.Capacity Convos invites listeners into thoughtful dialogue that lingers encouraging reflection, perspective, and a deeper engagement with life itself. 

Information

  • Creator
    RaQuel Hopkins
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    4
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 CapacityConvos
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    CapacityConvos

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