Uncomfortable On Purpose

Marj Kupps
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I'm Marj Kupps, and this podcast explores womanhood, growth, ambition, wellness, and the uncomfortable process of becoming who you're meant to be. Each week, we dive into conversations that go beyond a 60-second reel, from friendships, family, and relationships to success, identity, money, purpose, and the pressure to have it all figured out. Think of this as a cup of tea with a friend and an invitation to question what you've been taught, what you've outgrown, and who you're becoming. Growth isn't always comfortable, and the most important conversations often aren't either.

  1. 2d ago

    Nobody Has Everything, But Everybody Has Something

    In this Sunday chat, we’re talking about the power of gratitude and how changing the way you look at your life can change the way you experience it. I share how a simple gratitude practice has transformed my perspective, why I was initially sceptical of Oprah’s gratitude journaling ritual, and how I’ve learned to stop rushing through the beautiful moments in my life. We also explore the relationship between gratitude and ambition, the psychology behind what we choose to focus on, and why you don’t need to have everything figured out to start making something meaningful out of what you already have. Because perhaps the problem isn’t that you don’t have enough. Perhaps you’ve become so focused on what you’re missing that you’ve forgotten to appreciate what you have. Nobody has everything, but everybody has something. It’s time to start recognising yours. In this episode, we’re exploring: How gratitude can transform your perspective.Why what you focus on influences what you notice.The art of slowing down and savouring life’s good moments.How to be ambitious without constantly feeling like you’re behind.Why you should stop waiting for perfect conditions to start.Learning to appreciate your present while working towards your future.

  2. Oct 25

    I Act Like I'm Rich (But It's Not What You Think)

    In this episode, I’m talking about something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately: the power of allowing yourself to experience pieces of your dream life before you’ve fully arrived. My husband and I live in an area I’ve always dreamed of living in, even though we’re not in our dream home yet. And driving the Jetour Dashing has made the life I’m working towards feel a little more tangible. It’s made me feel closer to the woman I’ve always envisioned becoming. I’ve come to believe that sometimes, you need to put yourself in environments that remind you of what’s possible. Go to that beautiful hotel in the neighbourhood you dream of living in. Order a coffee if that’s what your budget allows. Experience the atmosphere. Let yourself imagine a different kind of life. You don’t have to afford the entire menu to belong in the room. And no, I’m not telling you to go into debt, live recklessly, or pretend to have money you don’t have. I’m talking about being intentional about the life you’re building, making the most of what you can afford today, and refusing to believe that your current circumstances are the limit of what your life can become. Because sometimes, experiencing a small piece of the life you want is what helps you believe that it’s possible for you, too. In this episode, we talk about: Why you shouldn’t always wait until you’ve “made it” to enjoy your lifeHow your environment can influence your identity, mindset and aspirationsThe difference between living beyond your means and intentionally expanding your worldWhy experiencing the life you want can make your dreams feel more attainableBecoming your dream self before you have your dream life Your dream life doesn’t have to begin the day you finally achieve everything on your vision board. You can start building it, experiencing it and becoming the woman who lives it right now. Let’s talk in the comments. 🤎 — A little transparency: I’m currently partnered with Jetour South Africa, and the Jetour Dashing featured in this video is part of that existing partnership. This episode was independently created and is not a contracted campaign deliverable. #SelfDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #DreamLife

  3. Oct 23

    Should you follow your passion or choose a career that pays?

    We’re often told to pursue what we love, follow our dreams, and trust that everything will work out. But what happens when, years later, you look back and wonder whether following your passion was the right decision? In this episode, we get honest about the tension between passion, purpose, and financial security. My husband shares his personal experience of pursuing his passion for 10 years and why he now has regrets, prompting a bigger conversation about career choices, money, and the realities of building a life you love. We discuss whether following your passion is always good advice, whether it’s possible to turn something you love into a sustainable career, and how to balance what fulfils you with what pays the bills. Because sometimes, choosing a career isn’t just about what you love. It’s also about the life you’re trying to build. In this conversation: Passion vs. financial securityMy husband’s 10-year journey and career regretsIs following your passion a privilege?What happens when your passion doesn’t pay?Should you pursue your passion or prioritise a stable income?What we’d tell someone trying to figure out their career path Let’s talk: Have you ever regretted pursuing something you were passionate about? Would you choose passion or money if you had to pick one? Share your thoughts in the comments. We’d love to hear your perspective.

  4. Oct 18

    If you want to be successful, LIVE AS IF YOUR PARENTS ARE DEAD

    In today’s car pod, I’m talking about people-pleasing, the fear of disappointing your family, and learning to live life on your own terms. We explore the uncomfortable reality that our parents are human beings figuring life out for the first time, too and that loving and respecting the people who raised us doesn’t mean we have to let their expectations dictate our lives. Because sometimes, growing into yourself means making choices other people don’t understand. And sometimes, you have to be willing to disappoint people to stop disappointing yourself. Let’s talk about it. ☕ Subscribe for more conversations about personal growth, relationships, identity, and navigating the messy middle of becoming who you’re meant to be. #PeoplePleasing #PersonalGrowth #SelfDevelopment

  5. Oct 16

    Can You Still Have Sleepovers, Single Friends & Opposite-Sex Friends When Married?

    In this episode, my husband and I sit down for an honest conversation about friendship, marriage, boundaries, and what happens when two people don’t see eye to eye on what is appropriate in a relationship. We discuss whether married people should have friends of the opposite sex, whether it’s okay to maintain close friendships with single people when you’re married, and whether you should still be having sleepovers at your friends’ houses after getting married. We also get into what happens when you don’t like your partner’s friends, whether your spouse should have a say in who you’re friends with, and how to balance individuality with commitment. We don’t agree on everything, and that’s exactly what makes this conversation interesting. 😂 In this episode, we discuss: What happens when you don’t like your partner’s friendsHaving friends of the opposite sex when you’re marriedWhether married people should have single friendsSleepovers with friends after marriageBoundaries, trust, and respect in relationshipsHow much should marriage change your friendships? Now we want to hear from you: Do you think your partner’s friends can be a red flag? And should your spouse have a say in the friendships you maintain? Drop your thoughts in the comments. We want to hear both sides of this conversation! Subscribe for more honest conversations about marriage, relationships, personal growth, and becoming.

  6. Oct 11

    4 Mindset Shifts That Changed How I See Life (That Might Trigger You)

    In today’s Sunday chat, I’m sharing 4 mindset shifts that are changing the way I approach life, relationships, and building the future I want. From why I no longer believe every friendship breakup needs to end in a lifelong feud, to learning to see problems differently and accepting that not everyone will like you, these are some of the lessons I’m learning as I grow into the person I want to become. This is an honest conversation about protecting your peace, letting go of old ways of thinking, and realising that sometimes, the biggest changes start within you. Get comfortable, grab a coffee, and let’s chat. 🤎

  7. Oct 9

    Things we thought we’d have figured out by 27

    At 27, we thought certain things would look very different. We thought we’d be further along in our careers, own property, have children, and be in a completely different place financially. In this episode, Kudz and I have an honest conversation about the lives we imagined for ourselves, the expectations we put on our twenties, and what it feels like when reality doesn’t quite match the picture in your head. From careers and money to buying a home and starting a family, we talk about where we are, where we hoped we’d be, and learning to navigate the space in between. If you’ve ever looked at your life and wondered, “Is this where I’m supposed to be by now?” this conversation is for you. Welcome to Uncomfortable on Purpose ; conversations about growth, and becoming. Let’s talk about it: What did you think your life would look like by 27?

  8. Oct 4

    What It Really Feels Like to Build the Life You Asked For

    It’s been a while, friend. In this episode, I’m catching you up on what’s been happening in my life and behind the scenes of my journey as a creator. The exciting opportunities, the doubts, the comparison, the vulnerability, and the parts of growth that nobody really talks about. I’ve been learning that sometimes when you ask for a bigger life, you’re first given the lessons that prepare you to carry it. So if you’re in a season of becoming too, this one is for you. 🤍

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I'm Marj Kupps, and this podcast explores womanhood, growth, ambition, wellness, and the uncomfortable process of becoming who you're meant to be. Each week, we dive into conversations that go beyond a 60-second reel, from friendships, family, and relationships to success, identity, money, purpose, and the pressure to have it all figured out. Think of this as a cup of tea with a friend and an invitation to question what you've been taught, what you've outgrown, and who you're becoming. Growth isn't always comfortable, and the most important conversations often aren't either.

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