The UnSerious Christian Podcast

KJ&Zoe

Serious about faith. Unserious about everything else. Two women navigating the Christ-following world with plenty of laughs along the way.

  1. 8h ago

    Put the Camera Down 📵😭 | Cringey Things That Were NEVER Supposed to Be Filmed | The Unserious Christian Ep. 33

    Some things were never meant to make it online. And yet… here we are. 👀😂 In Episode 33 of The Unserious Christian, we're talking about the age of social media and how the camera has become so normalized that things have ended up on film that absolutely should not have. From the deeply personal to the just plain uncomfortable — we are begging y'all: put the camera down. 📵 Here's what we got into: 🔞 Sex on Camera — how intimacy became content and why that is a problem we cannot ignore 🙏🏾 Secret Place on Camera — when your prayer life, worship, and private moments with God become a performance for the internet 😭 Crying on Camera — is it authentic vulnerability or has grief become a trend? 👶🏾 Children's Faces Online — relatives posting babies and kids when the parents have explicitly said no. Where is the line and who gave you permission? We live in a world where the camera is always rolling — but just because you CAN film it doesn't mean you SHOULD. 😤✨ This one is funny, convicting, and way too real. Come ready. 😂🙏🏾 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheUnSeriousChristianPodcast 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.unserious.chr?lang=en 📘 Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581319423636 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunseriouschristian/ 🔔 Subscribe & tell us in the comments — what's the cringiest thing you've ever seen make it onto somebody's camera that should have stayed private? #PutTheCameraDown #SocialMediaCulture #TooMuchOnline #TheUnseriousChristian #ChristianPodcast #PrivacyMatters #KidsonSocialMedia #CryingOnCamera #ChristianYouTube #DigitalBoundaries #ChristianMillennials #PodcastForChristians #UnseriousChristian #NewEpisode #BlackChurch #ChristianContent #SocialMediaBoundaries #Oversharing #ChildrenOnline #FaithAndCulture

  2. Aug 12

    I Need You to Survive" 🎶 | Do Women Need Men & Men Need Women? | The Unserious Christian

    div]:bg-bg-000/50 [&_pre>div]:border-0.5 [&_pre>div]:border-border-400 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8"> _*]:min-w-0 gap-3 standard-markdown"> "Do you need me?" 👀 … In Episode 31 of The Unserious Christian, we're getting into one of the most loaded questions in relationships, faith, and culture — do women actually need men, and do men actually need women? From Zoe sitting with the question to the very real truth that men need to feel needed — we unpacked ALL of it and kept it honest. We kick things off with our Question For The Room and then dive straight into the conversation that had us in our feelings a little bit. 😂🙏🏾 Here's what we got into: 🎶 "I Need You to Survive" — what that Hezekiah Walker classic has to do with gender dynamics and the body of Christ 🤔 Do women actually need men? — beyond the practical, what does Scripture and lived experience say? 💪🏾 Men and the need to feel needed — where does it come from and is it biblical? ❤️ What we genuinely love about men — and what the men in the room love about women 🕊️ God's design for interdependence — are we built for each other or is that just romantic? This one is equal parts thoughtful, funny, and real. Come ready to feel something. 😭✨ 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheUnSeriousChristianPodcast 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.unserious.chr?lang=en 📘 Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581319423636 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunseriouschristian/ 🔔 Subscribe & tell us in the comments — do you think men and women truly need each other, or is that just a feeling? #INeedYouToSurvive #DoWomenNeedMen #ChristianRelationships #TheUnseriousChristian #ChristianPodcast #MenAndWomen #GenderDynamics #ChristianYouTube #FaithAndRelationships #BiblicalDesign #ChristianWomen #ChristianMen #HezekiahWalker #ChristianMillennials #PodcastForChristians #UnseriousChristian #NewEpisode #BlackChurch #FaithAndLove #ChristianHotTake

  3. Aug 5

    Y'all Seen Shame? 😭 | Where Did Class, Decorum & Social Niceties Go? | The Unserious Christian Ep. 32

    We need to talk. 😤🙏🏾 In Episode 32 of The Unserious Christian, we're calling out the elephant in the room — shame has left the building and nobody seems to notice. From dating married men unapologetically to bonnets in public to kids wilding out at weddings — we are asking the hard question: where did couth go? We kick things off with our Question For The Room: A video went viral of a woman saying she refused to give up her "good" man just because he happened to be married to someone else. She felt it was unreasonable to sacrifice her happiness for a stranger. …We had thoughts. 👀 Then we get into it: ⛪ Has leaving the church cost us our social compass? — Are kids acting out at weddings because nobody is teaching them how to move in spaces anymore? 🏝️ Martha's Vineyard & the Oak Bluffs video — What it revealed about class, culture, and who still follows the rules 🛏️ Bonnets & pajamas in public — Where is the line and who moved it? 👗 Dress codes are dying — Weddings, workplaces, and why it matters more than we think 💎 Places of influence & wealth still follow traditional rules — So why are we acting like decorum is outdated? Shame is not the enemy. Sometimes she is exactly what we need. 😂✨ 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheUnSeriousChristianPodcast 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.unserious.chr?lang=en 📘 Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581319423636 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunseriouschristian/ 🔔 Subscribe & tell us in the comments — what's something people do in public that you cannot believe is now considered normal? #WhereDidCouthGo #SocialDecorum #ClassAndCulture #TheUnseriousChristian #ChristianPodcast #Shame #DatingMarriedMen #MarthasVineyard #OakBluffs #BonnetInPublic #DressCode #ChristianYouTube #BlackCulture #ChurchCulture #ChristianMillennials #PodcastForChristians #UnseriousChristian #NewEpisode #SocialNiceties #BlackChurch

  4. Jul 30

    Ask Her Anything 👀 | Christian Women Answer Your Most Burning Questions | The Unserious Christian Podcast

    Y'all asked. We answered. No filter. 🙏🏾😂 In Episode 30 of The Unserious Christian, we're opening up the floor for Ask Her Anything — where Christian women get to answer the questions everybody is thinking but nobody is saying out loud. From sexual temptation to relationship dynamics to that one question women cannot stand — we went there so you didn't have to. We kick things off with our Question For The Room: If your guardian angel could leave you a performance review, what would it say? 😭 Then we answer YOUR questions: 🔥 Do women actually want to have sex? — Yes, we're talking about female sexual temptation in the church 💬 If your man asked you to stop doing something that wasn't sinful — just his preference — would you do it? ✨ Do you need to be perfect before approaching a Christian woman? — The honest answer 👫 The "are we just friends?" situation — Should he address it or just keep hanging out? 😤 Why do women HATE the question "what do you bring to the table?" — We will explain everything No topic was off limits and we kept it all the way real. This one is for the men who actually want to understand Christian women — and for the women who finally feel seen. 👏🏾 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheUnSeriousChristianPodcast 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.unserious.chr?lang=en 📘 Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581319423636 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunseriouschristian/ 🔔 Subscribe & drop YOUR question in the comments — we might answer it next time! #AskHerAnything #ChristianWomen #ChristianRelationships #TheUnseriousChristian #ChristianPodcast #ChristianDating #WomenOfFaith #ChristianYouTube #FemaleChristians #ChristianSexuality #BringToTheTable #ChristianAdvice #FaithAndRelationships #ChristianMillennials #PodcastForChristians #UnseriousChristian #NewEpisode #ChristianHotTake #BlackChurch #AskMeAnything

  5. Jul 22

    Swipe Right for Jesus | Dating as a Christian Man

    Men's Month continues — and this week we went THERE. Our guest Lens is sitting down for one of the most honest conversations about Christian dating from a man's perspective that you'll find anywhere on the internet. No clichés. No Sunday school answers. Just real talk about what it actually looks and feels like to date with intention, faith, and the pressure of being a man in today's Christian dating culture. Here's what we're unpacking: 💍 Sex, Abstinence & Marriage Expectations — What are Christian men's ACTUAL expectations of sex in marriage? Are they practicing abstinence — and why or why not? And do men really have a harder time staying sexually disciplined than women? We're asking it. ❤️ Practical Compatibility vs. Cosmic Connection — How much of a relationship should be logical and grounded vs. spiritually led? Which one matters more — and can you have both? 📱 The Dating Profile Swipe Left — What's an automatic no on a woman's dating profile? What do men need to see before they even consider committing long term? 😬 The Pressure of Pursuit — What is it actually like being expected to initiate and pursue? What do women not understand about what it costs a man to put himself out there — and how does rejection affect confidence over time? 🏃 Why Men Run — There's a theory making its rounds on TikTok: if a man falls in love but isn't ready to become who he needs to be, he runs. Lens tells us if he thinks that's true. 🔥 Drop It Like It's Hot — The Christian Dating Hot Take — We close it out with the unfiltered hot take on Christian dating culture. This one might start some conversations. QFTR: What will make you swipe LEFT on someone's dating profile? Drop it in the comments 👇 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheUnSeriousChristianPodcast 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.unserious.chr?lang=en 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581319423636 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunseriouschristian/

  6. Jul 16

    What Men REALLY THINK pt 2 The Unserious Christian Ep. 28 | Men's Month

    div]:bg-bg-000/50 [&_pre>div]:border-0.5 [&_pre>div]:border-border-400 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8"> _*]:min-w-0 gap-3 standard-markdown"> In Episode 28 pt. 2 of The Unserious Christian, we pulled up a panel of Christian men and asked them everything we've always wanted to know — and they did NOT hold back. This is Week 2: Curiosity — Men in the Landscape of the Church, and it's one you do not want to miss. We kick things off with our Question For The Room: What is something you would tell all Christian women about Christian men? Then the panel gets into it: ⛪ Why are men in the minority in the church — and what does that say about us as a body? 👔 Has your definition of manhood shifted since coming to faith? 🔥 Gender roles in the church — are they biblical, cultural, or both? 🤫 What the church expects from men that nobody actually says out loud 🤝🏾 Real accountability amongst men — does it actually exist? 😤 Vulnerability in male friendships — and how it shows up in their relationship with God 💍 Do men really marry Ms. Right Now? 🚩 Key indicators that tell you a man is NOT the one 📖 Topics they wish the church would preach more ☕ Their most unpopular Christian hot takes 💔 Where the church is failing men — an honest answer This conversation is long overdue. Whether you're a Christian man trying to feel seen or a Christian woman trying to understand — this episode is for YOU. 📣 Church Announcements: 📲 We're going live weekly on TikTok — follow us so you don't miss it! 🎥 BCI Conference Vlog is coming — stay tuned! 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheUnSeriousChristianPodcast 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.unserious.chr?lang=en 📘 Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581319423636 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunseriouschristian/ 🔔 Subscribe & drop your thoughts in the comments — what do YOU think the church is missing when it comes to men? #MensMonth #ChristianMen #MenInTheChurch #TheUnseriousChristian #ChristianPodcast #ChristianPanel #GenderRoles #ChristianAccountability #FaithAndMasculinity #ChristianYouTube #BlackChurch #ChristianWomen #ChristianRelationships #ChurchCulture #ChristianMillennials #PodcastForChristians #MenOfFaith #UnseriousChristian #NewEpisode #ChristianHotTake

  7. Jul 9

    What Christian Men REALLY Think About the Church | Men's Month 👑 | The Unserious Christian - Ep. 28

    div]:bg-bg-000/50 [&_pre>div]:border-0.5 [&_pre>div]:border-border-400 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8"> _*]:min-w-0 gap-3 standard-markdown"> In Episode 28 of The Unserious Christian, we pulled up a panel of Christian men and asked them everything we've always wanted to know — and they did NOT hold back. This is Week 1: Curiosity — Men in the Landscape of the Church, and it's one you do not want to miss. We kick things off with our Question For The Room: What is something you would tell all Christian women about Christian men? Then the panel gets into it: ⛪ Why are men in the minority in the church — and what does that say about us as a body? 👔 Has your definition of manhood shifted since coming to faith? 🔥 Gender roles in the church — are they biblical, cultural, or both? 🤫 What the church expects from men that nobody actually says out loud 🤝🏾 Real accountability amongst men — does it actually exist? 😤 Vulnerability in male friendships — and how it shows up in their relationship with God 💍 Do men really marry Ms. Right Now? 🚩 Key indicators that tell you a man is NOT the one 📖 Topics they wish the church would preach more ☕ Their most unpopular Christian hot takes 💔 Where the church is failing men — an honest answer This conversation is long overdue. Whether you're a Christian man trying to feel seen or a Christian woman trying to understand — this episode is for YOU. 📣 Church Announcements: 📲 We're going live weekly on TikTok — follow us so you don't miss it! 🎥 BCI Conference Vlog is coming — stay tuned! 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheUnSeriousChristianPodcast 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.unserious.chr?lang=en 📘 Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581319423636 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunseriouschristian/ 🔔 Subscribe & drop your thoughts in the comments — what do YOU think the church is missing when it comes to men?

  8. Jun 18

    I Got Questions! | The Questions We'd Never Ask Out Loud 🤫✝️

    What would you ask if you knew there'd be zero judgment? No side-eyes. No "I'll be praying for you" with a raised eyebrow. Just the truth. In this episode, we're going role by role through church culture and asking the questions we're too afraid to say out loud, because of how it might look, who might hear it, or what it might cost them. We're asking: 🙋 The Lay Member — The everyday church-goer who shows up, serves, and smiles… but has questions they've never felt safe enough to ask. 👵🏾 The Church Mother — The one everyone looks to for wisdom and strength. But what does SHE wish she could ask without everyone assuming she already has it all figured out? 🧒 The Youth — Growing up in church doesn't mean you don't have doubts. We're giving the next generation room to ask what they've been holding back. 👨‍👩‍👧 The Pastor's Kid — Living under a microscope your whole life. What questions get swallowed because of whose kid you are? 🎤 The Pastor — Yes, even the one behind the pulpit has questions they're afraid to voice. What does leadership cost when you're not allowed to not know something? 🆕 The New Member — Still learning the culture, the language, the unspoken rules. What do they wish they could ask without feeling like an outsider? This episode is about giving every seat in the building permission to be human. Question for the Room: What's something you hope is in Heaven or the New Earth? Drop your answer in the comments 👇 (We have a feeling this is going to get good.) 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheUnSeriousChristianPodcast 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.unserious.chr?lang=en 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581319423636 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunseriouschristian/ #ChurchCulture  #ChristianPodcast #UnSeriousChristian #PastorsKid #ChurchMother #NewMember #Christianhumor #ChristianCommunity #RealTalkFaith #ChristianGrowth #PodcastForBelievers #ChurchLife #Christiancomedy

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