The Ex-Baptist Sisters Podcast

Vikki Mansheim

Join sisters Vikki and Taniya as they share a weekly topic from their IFB (Independent, fundamental Baptist) childhood and tell how they were able to leave an oppressive, restrictive cult-like religion. They are reclaiming their past for good and building an online community of survivors as well as educating anyone curious about cults, toxic religion, and exposing church abuse.

  1. 2d ago

    Furnishing the Bait | IFB Quotes from the Pulpit

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Connect & Support: Patreon & Discord Community: [Patreon Link / patreon.com/exbaptistsisters]Email Us Your Story: exbaptistsisters@gmail.comInstagram: [@exbaptistsisters]TikTok: [@exbaptistsisters]Facebook: [The Ex-Baptist Sisters Podcast]This week, Vikki and Taniya are back for a necessary Part 2 unpacking the toxic overlap between Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) dogma and modern politics. Starting with the horrifying political ad run by Vivek Ramaswamy weaponizing Amy Acton’s childhood sexual abuse, the sisters dissect the twisted logic used to smear victims, protect abusers, and divide the world into the domineering and the dominated. They draw a straight line from national political rhetoric back to the very sermons they grew up hearing from prominent IFB evangelists—Jack Hyles, Lester Roloff, Phil Kidd, Bob Jones Sr., and Ralph Sexton Jr. From pastors comparing young girls to "meat on the counter" to the pervasive lie that modest clothing shields women from harm, Vikki and Taniya explore the tragic reality of the "patriarchal bargain," how women were conditioned to do the dirty work of shaming one another, and why calling out abuse out loud is the only way forward. Plus: a celebratory shoutout to friend-of-the-pod Matthias going mega-viral with his Lord of the Rings chess set! Content Warning: This episode contains frank, detailed discussions of child sexual abuse, statutory rape, grooming, religious trauma, misogyny, and victim blaming.

    Furnishing the Bait | IFB Quotes from the Pulpit
  2. Oct 22

    Pluck Your Eye Out, You Creep | Modesty and Modern Misogyny

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Links: Shane Gillis Clips: https://www.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/s/LKtNX7topV Trump Rally: A fight broke out at President Trump's rally in Youngstown, Ohio ... www.facebook.com › CBSNews › videos › fight-breaks-... Genevieve Bernadette Article: https://genevievebernadette.substack.com/p/are-they-lonely-enough-yet University of Chicago Incident: https://www.cnn.com/2026/10/15/us/university-of-chicago-sexual-assault-allegation-video https://www.facebook.com/cnn/videos/a-21-year-old-woman-reported-being-sexually-assaulted-during-a-party-at-an-alpha/4474263316147110/ Connect & Support: Patreon & Discord Community: [Patreon Link / patreon.com/exbaptistsisters]Email Us Your Story: exbaptistsisters@gmail.comInstagram: [@exbaptistsisters]TikTok: [@exbaptistsisters]Facebook: [The Ex-Baptist Sisters Podcast] In this episode, we dive headfirst into the unbroken chain of misogyny connecting fundamentalist church culture to secular "bro" and mainstream media culture. Spurred by Shane Gillis’s viral Saturday Night Live monologue mocking women’s gym attire as "artificial bait," we examine how secular commentary mirrors the exact theological frameworks we grew up with in the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) movement. From Jack Hyles’ and Jack Schaap’s pulpit purity rhetoric to modern gym discourse and frat-house culture—including the recent Cornell University case and an assault at a University of Chicago fraternity—we unpack how society consistently strips men of moral agency while placing the sole burden of male self-control onto women's bodies. We break down the toxic concept of "defrauding," contrast purity standards with Jesus's actual words in Matthew 5, and discuss writer Genevieve Bernadette’s viral insight on how holding men accountable isn't aggression—it’s the expiration of unearned privilege. Trigger Warnings Sexual assault, gang rape, and fraternity violence (detailed mentions of the Cornell University case and University of Chicago incident)Statutory rape and sexualization/predatory commentary regarding underage girls and teenage minorsPurity culture, modesty policing, and religious spiritual abuse / victim-blamingPhysical assault and political violence (discussion of a rally attendee being assaulted)Domestic violence and murder-suicide statistics

    Pluck Your Eye Out, You Creep | Modesty and Modern Misogyny
  3. Sep 10

    Just As I Am Without a Skirt | The Exclusionary Nature of IFB Churches

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! https://www.maddiezahm.com/ Connect & Support: Patreon & Discord Community: [Patreon Link / patreon.com/exbaptistsisters]Email Us Your Story: exbaptistsisters@gmail.comInstagram: [@exbaptistsisters]TikTok: [@exbaptistsisters]Facebook: [The Ex-Baptist Sisters Podcast] In this episode of the Ex-Baptist Sisters podcast, Vikki and Taniya explore how the rigid, exclusionary culture of the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) movement shaped their childhoods, distorted their relationships, and dictated who was considered "safe" or worthy of connection. Prompted by a listener whose non-IFB family experienced subtle alienation at an IFB Christian school, the sisters examine how high-control religious environments enforce conditional acceptance through superficial markers of holiness like dress codes, modesty rules, and church attendance. Reflecting on their own time inside the "in-crowd," Vikki and Taniya unpack the quiet condescension, fear-based paranoia, and intense guilt instilled by purity culture and fundamentalist doctrine, contrasting it with the authentic, unconditional love they now value. The conversation turns vulnerable as they discuss the profound loneliness and grief of deconstruction, the loss of lifelong social networks, and Vikki’s experience facing church betrayal and victim-blaming after speaking out about surviving childhood abuse by a trusted mentor. From laughing over the absurdity of performative piety to finding comfort in secular friendships, neighborly kindness, and the music of artists like Maddie Zahm, Vikki and Taniya share an honest, relatable look at what it takes to unlearn religious bias, untangle moral anxiety, and rebuild life on one’s own terms.

    Just As I Am Without a Skirt | The Exclusionary Nature of IFB Churches
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Join sisters Vikki and Taniya as they share a weekly topic from their IFB (Independent, fundamental Baptist) childhood and tell how they were able to leave an oppressive, restrictive cult-like religion. They are reclaiming their past for good and building an online community of survivors as well as educating anyone curious about cults, toxic religion, and exposing church abuse.

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