Family Troubles with Dr. Joshua Coleman

Joshua Coleman
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Family Troubles with Dr. Joshua Coleman is a podcast dedicated to exploring and understanding the intricate dynamics of family life through a multifaceted lens. Hosted by Dr. Joshua Coleman, a seasoned psychologist with decades of experience, this show dives deep into the complexities of modern familial relationships, along with transformative strategies to foster healthier connections and mend broken bonds. Each episode will tackle a broad range of topics affecting families today - from estranged relationships and family conflict, to the latest research and evolving societal pressures. Discussions will be intellectually stimulating, offering a 360-degree view of the strains on family life through interviews with leading academics, psychologists, sociologists and historians. If you’ve ever asked: • Why do adult relationships with parents fall apart?• When is estrangement appropriate?• Is reconciling and healing after estrangement possible?• Why is estrangement becoming more common today? Then you’re in the right place. Whether you're a professional in the field or simply interested in understanding the current landscape of family dynamics, Family Troubles will provide valuable insights and thought-provoking perspectives. Join in as we unravel the modern challenges facing families, share expert opinions, and provide a space for learning about the evolving nature of family estrangement and relationships.

  1. 5d ago

    Billy Eichner: Before Becoming "Billy on the Street"

    In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with Emmy-nominated comedian, actor, writer, and Billy on the Street creator Billy Eichner to talk about his parents, coming out, grief, creativity, resilience, and the lasting power of unconditional love. His new audio memoir, Billy on Billy, reflects on his childhood, his long road to success, and the parents he credits with helping him become fully himself. Billy shares how his parents gave him the freedom to pursue his dreams without shame, even when they had fears and struggles of their own. We also talk about his coming-out story, the small moments of acceptance he still remembers decades later, and why a parent’s encouragement can become an emotional safety net that lasts a lifetime. Listen for more on: • Why Billy believes his success came because of, rather than in spite of, his parents • How raising a child without shame can build confidence, self-respect, and resilience • Billy’s moving and funny story about coming out to his parents at age 20 • Why the small things parents say and do can stay with children for decades • How his parents chose encouragement over projecting their own fears or disappointments • The childhood storytelling contest that became an unforgettable example of his father’s support • Why believing in who your child is can shape the person they become Tune into this episode of Family Troubles for a warm, funny, and moving conversation with Billy Eichner about parenting, identity, grief, acceptance, and the extraordinary impact of letting a child know they are loved for exactly who they are. Guest Links: Billy on Billy: An Audio Memoir Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/billyeichner/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@billyeichner?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/billyonthestreettv Dr. Joshua Coleman’s Links: Website: http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.josh.coleman Substack: https://substack.com/@joshuacolemanphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoshColeman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoshuacoleman/?trk=opento_sprofile_topcard Twitter X: https://x.com/drjcoleman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc-olRqS_o2xJlkpxWEEErg

    Billy Eichner: Before Becoming "Billy on the Street"

  2. Aug 11

    Does Wealth Make It Harder for Parents of Adult Children? Managing Director and Head of the Merrill Center for Family Wealth, Valerie Galinskaya

    In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with Valerie Galinskaya, Managing Director and Head of the Merrill Center for Family Wealth, to talk about wealth, inheritance, adult children, family communication, and the emotional complexity that can come with financial planning. Valerie and her team work with families navigating some of life’s most important financial decisions, but as she explains in this conversation, wealth is rarely just about money. It can amplify trust, uncertainty, resentment, gratitude, guilt, entitlement, and family conflict. And for parents of adult children, conversations about inheritance, gifting, fairness, and future planning can quickly become emotionally charged. We talk about why so many parents avoid discussing money with their adult children, what happens when expectations are unclear, and why disclosure does not have to be all or nothing. Valerie offers a helpful way to think about financial conversations as a “dimmer switch” rather than a light switch, where families can begin with purpose and structure before jumping straight into numbers. Listen for more on: • Why wealth can amplify existing family dynamics • The biggest misconceptions about inherited wealth and family happiness • Why many parents feel anxious about discussing money with adult children • How unclear expectations can create resentment, anxiety, or conflict • Why communication and prepared heirs matter so much in family wealth planning • The difference between disclosure and understanding • Why parents may need to clarify whether adult children have a voice or a vote • How families can think about fairness, equality, and equity differently • Why cutting a child out of an inheritance can have lasting emotional consequences • How wealth can shape identity, guilt, purpose, and family relationships Tune into this episode of Family Troubles for a thoughtful conversation about wealth, adult children, inheritance, communication, and how families can make clearer, more compassionate decisions around money. Guest links: Website: https://www.pbig.ml.com/ Dr. Joshua Coleman’s Links: Website: http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.josh.coleman Substack: https://substack.com/@joshuacolemanphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoshColeman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoshuacoleman/?trk=opento_sprofile_topcard Twitter X: https://x.com/drjcoleman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc-olRqS_o2xJlkpxWEEErg

  3. Aug 4

    Why Modern Marriage and Family Feels So Hard: Historian Stephanie Coontz Explains

    In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with Stephanie Coontz, Director of Research and Public Education for the Council on Contemporary Families and emeritus faculty of History and Family Studies at The Evergreen State College. Stephanie is one of the most influential historians of marriage, gender, and family life, and her work has helped reshape how we understand the myths and realities of family across history. Stephanie and I talk about her latest book, For Better and Worse: The Complicated Past and Challenging Future of Marriage, and why modern relationships can feel so difficult despite the fact that many people now have higher hopes for love, equality, and emotional connection than ever before. We discuss nostalgia, the myth of the “traditional family,” the pressures facing modern marriages, and why so much of today’s family conflict may be tied to larger social and economic forces. Stephanie offers a powerful way of thinking about family estrangement as a kind of “referred pain,” where people may blame parents, partners, or family members for distress that is also being shaped by broader cultural and economic instability. Listen for more on: • Why nostalgia for the past can be both comforting and misleading • What people often get wrong about the 1950s family • How economic insecurity and inequality affect marriage and family life • Why modern couples may have higher expectations, but less support • How social and economic pressure can show up as family conflict • Why family estrangement may sometimes reflect “referred pain” from larger cultural forces • What the “trad wife” movement reveals about gender, work, and nostalgia • How ideas about masculinity, femininity, and emotional expression have changed over time • Why the history of marriage is more complicated than the myths we inherit • How understanding family history can help us think more clearly about modern relationships Tune into this episode of Family Troubles for a fascinating conversation about marriage, family history, gender roles, economic pressure, and why the challenges facing today’s families are rarely as simple as personal failure. Guest links: Website: https://www.stephaniecoontz.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephaniecoontzauthor Dr. Joshua Coleman’s Links: Website: http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.josh.coleman Substack: https://substack.com/@joshuacolemanphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoshColeman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoshuacoleman/?trk=opento_sprofile_topcard Twitter X: https://x.com/drjcoleman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc-olRqS_o2xJlkpxWEEErg

  4. Jul 28

    What's It Like for the Child Who Isn't Estranged When the Other Is? With Celia Flinn

    In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with Celia Flinn, a school-based therapist in the Bay Area who brings both clinical insight and lived experience to the topic of sibling estrangement. Celia shares what happened when her sibling became estranged from her parents, how that changed her role in the family, and what it felt like to become the child who stayed. We talk about the often overlooked impact of estrangement on siblings. When one child cuts off contact, the sibling who remains can become the middleman, the emotional support, the “good child,” or the person expected to hold the family together. Celia describes the loneliness of that position, the pressure it can create, and the complicated grief of loving both the parents who are in pain and the sibling who has pulled away. Celia also shares the concept of the “glass child,” a term often used for siblings of children with serious medical or developmental needs, but one that can also apply in estrangement. It is the feeling of being present, but looked through, while the family’s emotional attention is focused on the person who is absent. Listen for more on: • How sibling estrangement affects the child who remains connected to the family • What it feels like to become the middleman between estranged family members • The pressure of being the “good kid” or the child who stays • Why siblings may feel both loyalty and resentment during family estrangement • How the “glass child” experience can show up in estranged families • Why parents may unintentionally overlook the pain of the child who is still present • The importance of boundaries when a sibling relationship becomes one-sided • Why communication requires both sharing your truth and tolerating someone else’s • How therapists can help or hurt when they encourage cutoff without exploring repair • Why slowing down, managing emotions, and listening can make reconnection more possible Tune into this episode of Family Troubles for a thoughtful conversation about sibling estrangement, family roles, communication, and the quiet pain carried by the child who stays. Dr. Joshua Coleman’s Links: Website: http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.josh.coleman Substack: https://substack.com/@joshuacolemanphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoshColeman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoshuacoleman/?trk=opento_sprofile_topcard Twitter X: https://x.com/drjcoleman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc-olRqS_o2xJlkpxWEEErg

  5. Jul 21

    Turning Pain into Purpose: A Conversation with Alphonso James

    In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with Alphonso James, a speaker, advocate, author, and exoneree who spent 32 years incarcerated for a crime he did not commit. At 17 years old, Alphonso was wrongfully convicted of murder and sentenced to life in prison, but his story is not only about injustice. It is also about resilience, forgiveness, faith, and the difficult inner work of becoming free long before he was physically released. Alphonso shares what it was like to enter prison as a teenager, how he survived solitary confinement, and the moment that began to change the course of his life. We talk about the power of being believed, the role of forgiveness, and how pain, trauma, and rage can either imprison us further or become part of a larger path toward healing. We also discuss what Alphonso’s experience can teach families about estrangement, bitterness, listening, and the possibility of reconciliation. His perspective is deeply moving, especially when he talks about forgiving the people who wrongfully imprisoned him, the cost of holding onto anger, and why sometimes the most healing thing we can offer another person is simply to listen. Listen for more on: • What it was like for Alphonso to be wrongfully convicted at 17 years old • How he survived 32 years in prison while maintaining his innocence • The moment someone finally said, “I believe you,” and why those words changed his life • How Alphonso taught himself to read and began his journey of self-discovery • Why forgiveness does not mean saying that what happened was okay • How bitterness can keep both ourselves and others emotionally imprisoned • What estranged families can learn from Alphonso’s approach to forgiveness • Why listening can be more powerful than advice • How trauma continues even after freedom, healing, and public success • Why true freedom is not only about leaving a physical prison, but breaking the prisons we carry inside ourselves Tune into this episode of Family Troubles for a powerful conversation about wrongful conviction, forgiveness, family, trauma, and what it means to turn pain into purpose. Guest links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealphonsojames/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the-alphonso-james/ Dr. Joshua Coleman’s Links: Website: http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.josh.coleman Substack: https://substack.com/@joshuacolemanphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoshColeman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoshuacoleman/?trk=opento_sprofile_topcard Twitter X: https://x.com/drjcoleman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc-olRqS_o2xJlkpxWEEErg

  6. Jul 14

    Gender Identity, Therapists and Culture as Paths to Estrangement with Sasha Ayad

    In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with Sasha Ayad, M.Ed., LPC, a Licensed Professional Counselor who has worked with adolescents for over 19 years and focuses on teens and young adults struggling with gender dysphoria and gender identity. Sasha and I discuss the complicated intersection of gender identity, therapy, adolescence, culture, and family estrangement. We explore why some parents feel shut out of conversations around their child’s identity, how therapists and cultural messages can shape family dynamics, and why curiosity, caution, and emotional nuance matter when families are navigating deeply personal and often polarizing issues. Sasha shares what she has observed through her clinical work with gender-questioning adolescents, as well as her consultations with families and parents. We talk about the importance of psychological exploration, the influence of online communities and cultural narratives, and how families can become divided when disagreement is treated as rejection or harm. Listen for more on: • Why adolescence can be such a complex time for identity development • How gender dysphoria and gender identity questions can affect family relationships • Why some parents feel excluded, blamed, or misunderstood in the therapeutic process • Why disagreement does not always mean rejection • How parents can stay connected when they are scared, confused, or uncertain • How gender identity conversations can become a path to estrangement when families lose the ability to talk openly Tune into this episode of Family Troubles for a thoughtful conversation about gender identity, therapy, culture, and the challenges families face when love, fear, disagreement, and identity collide. Guest links: Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1vAnk7bth6WuDDrW48Atce?si=597816e10e514b89 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/widerlenspod/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SashaLPC Dr. Joshua Coleman’s Links: Website: http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.josh.coleman Substack: https://substack.com/@joshuacolemanphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoshColeman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoshuacoleman/?trk=opento_sprofile_topcard Twitter X: https://x.com/drjcoleman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc-olRqS_o2xJlkpxWEEErg

  7. Jul 7

    Lindsey and Leslie Glass: How an Estranged Mother and Daughter Reconciled

    In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with Lindsey and Leslie Glass, a mother-daughter author and advocacy duo, co-founders of Reach Out Recovery, and authors of The Mother-Daughter Relationship Makeover, to talk about addiction, recovery, estrangement, and what it can take for mothers and daughters to find their way back to one another. Lindsey and Leslie bring both personal experience and professional advocacy to this conversation. Through their own story of addiction, separation, repair, and reconciliation, they offer a deeply honest look at how family relationships can go off track, and how healing can still be possible even after years of pain, conflict, or distance. We talk about the complicated emotional terrain between mothers and daughters, the impact of addiction and recovery on family life, and why reconciliation often requires more than love alone. It also takes accountability, boundaries, honesty, and a willingness to see the other person in a new way. Listen for more on: • How addiction and recovery can shape mother-daughter relationships • Why estrangement does not always mean the relationship is over forever • What Lindsey and Leslie learned through their own experience of conflict and reconciliation • Why accountability matters on both sides of family repair • How shame, blame, and old family patterns can keep people stuck • What families can do when love is still there, but the relationship feels broken Tune into this episode of Family Troubles for a moving conversation about addiction, estrangement, recovery, and the possibility of finding your way back to friendship, understanding, and love. Guest links: Website: https://reachoutrecovery.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reachoutrecovery/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ReachoutRecovery/ Dr. Joshua Coleman’s Links: Website: http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.josh.coleman Substack: https://substack.com/@joshuacolemanphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoshColeman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoshuacoleman/?trk=opento_sprofile_topcard Twitter X: https://x.com/drjcoleman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc-olRqS_o2xJlkpxWEEErg

  8. Jun 30

    Dating While Estranged: Revealing Personal Details in Early Romantic Involvement with E! Relationship Expert Dr. Darcy Sterling

    In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with Dr. Darcy Sterling, a NYC-based Licensed Clinical Social Worker, relationship expert, and host of E! Network’s Famously Single, to talk about what it means to date while estranged from a parent, adult child, sibling, or other family member. Estrangement can be painful enough on its own. But when you’re beginning a new romantic relationship, it can raise a whole new set of questions: When do you share it? How much do you say? Will the other person judge you? And how do you talk about something deeply personal without making it the whole story? Dr. Darcy and I discuss the challenges of revealing personal details early in dating, especially when those details involve family conflict, shame, grief, or unresolved relationships. We also talk about vulnerability, emotional pacing, and how to build intimacy without feeling pressured to disclose everything at once. Listen for more on: When to share family estrangement in a new romantic relationshipWhy estrangement can bring up shame, fear, or anxiety in datingHow much personal history to reveal early onThe difference between being honest and oversharingWhy timing matters when discussing painful family experiencesHow to protect yourself emotionally while still building trustWhat a partner’s response can tell you about their emotional maturityHow estrangement can shape intimacy, vulnerability, and connectionTune into this episode of Family Troubles for a thoughtful conversation about dating, disclosure, and how to navigate new relationships when part of your family story feels difficult to explain. Guest links: Website: https://www.askdrdarcy.com/ Podcast: https://www.askdrdarcy.com/podcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdarcysterling/ Dr. Joshua Coleman’s Links: Website: http://www.drjoshuacoleman.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.josh.coleman Substack: https://substack.com/@joshuacolemanphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoshColeman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoshuacoleman/?trk=opento_sprofile_topcard Twitter X: https://x.com/drjcoleman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc-olRqS_o2xJlkpxWEEErg

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Family Troubles with Dr. Joshua Coleman is a podcast dedicated to exploring and understanding the intricate dynamics of family life through a multifaceted lens. Hosted by Dr. Joshua Coleman, a seasoned psychologist with decades of experience, this show dives deep into the complexities of modern familial relationships, along with transformative strategies to foster healthier connections and mend broken bonds. Each episode will tackle a broad range of topics affecting families today - from estranged relationships and family conflict, to the latest research and evolving societal pressures. Discussions will be intellectually stimulating, offering a 360-degree view of the strains on family life through interviews with leading academics, psychologists, sociologists and historians. If you’ve ever asked: • Why do adult relationships with parents fall apart?• When is estrangement appropriate?• Is reconciling and healing after estrangement possible?• Why is estrangement becoming more common today? Then you’re in the right place. Whether you're a professional in the field or simply interested in understanding the current landscape of family dynamics, Family Troubles will provide valuable insights and thought-provoking perspectives. Join in as we unravel the modern challenges facing families, share expert opinions, and provide a space for learning about the evolving nature of family estrangement and relationships.

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