I Do This for a Living

Serenity Bohon

A show that asks how we can give as much time and energy to the things that matter as we do to the things that pay. I Do This for a Living is hosted by Serenity Bohon - sarcoma survivor, writer, and day jobbist, forever starstruck by anyone who finds meaning at work and in life.  Follow serenitybohon.substack.com for the newsletter. Visit serenitybohon.com/guest to be on the show.

  1. Jul 15

    Starting a Business and What I'll Never Do Again with Ashley Rott-Nettleton

    Meet Ashley Rott-Nettleton, Serenity's market research mentor and forever friend. Ashley leveraged a financial layoff (from a company that still desperately wanted to work with her) by starting her own biz! Now she has that client plus many others, is her own boss, and will "never go back." Ashley tells you how it's done (even when you're risk-averse!), and she and Serenity talk about work philosophy, negotiating for your worth, and never apologizing.  Chapters 7:37 Serenity's day job (finally!) or what is market research? 9:57 Participating in market research (it's not a side hustle) 13:59 Serenity's start in market research/meeting Ashley 20:47 When the workload fluctuates 24:25 The near impossibility of saying no in client services   28:09 Convincing experts that market research is legit 32:41  How to find remote jobs 40:46 One thing about Ashley's work that matters 45:24 Thank a business you love! Write a review 48:51 Ashley's quitting story 53:44 Salary negotiating - Ashley's story 56:20 Never again (insisting on the work-life balance you value) 1:01:04 From layoff to starting a business 1:08:51 Even the risk-averse can do it! 1:12:42 Is starting a business for you? 1:17:20 Work philosophy (do what you love vs. make enough for a life you love ) 1:21:47 Work with Ashley! 1:24:32 It worked for me (a request) 1:29:12 Stop apologizing at work Links Sign up for Ashley's panel to get paid for your opinions: https://insightrecruit.com/join-our-panel/ Hire Ashley to recruit for you: https://insightrecruit.com/services/ Ashley on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/insightrecruit/ FlexJobs: https://www.flexjobs.com/lp/remote-jobs1 (linger on the site for a while, then hover over the X to close it, and it might offer a discount) HireMyMom: https://www.hiremymom.com/ Serenity's sarcastic blog post about starting a business to crush your dreams: https://www.serenitybohon.com/blog/think-again I Do This For a Living is independently produced.  @serenitylive

    Starting a Business and What I'll Never Do Again with Ashley Rott-Nettleton
  2. Jul 8

    Your Calling is Who You Are (Humanity and All) with Kathy Nickerson

    It's The Mama Episode! Let's hear from Kathy Nickerson, mom of four (including your host, Serenity Bohon), emotional/spiritual mom to hundreds more, author, and eternal optimist. Kathy knew from a very young age that she wanted to be a writer, but it took her some time to admit it and go for it. Now, she has five books published in her "granny lit" series, a book for young readers called Jack and the Green Dragon, and a book on its way to readers soon, A Girl Called Something. Kathy and Serenity talk about childhood and how we bring things from it that we might need to learn to overcome. Kathy shares her work history and her mission during the pandemic to tell us all that it would be okay, a mission she hasn't stopped since. This episode is filled with meaningful stories and warm advice from a mama who loves the role and sees it as the calling she brings to everything she does.  Chapters 7:53 My dad was a farmer 13:09 I always wanted to be a mom (and a writer) 21:29 Bringing the writing dream into the light 28:17 Kathy's day job years 28:17 Kathy's weekly Facebook videos 39:54 Kathy's activities and how they all connect 43:00 Spearheading Regen, a recovery program 48:46 Kathy's "granny lit" book series 57:49 The new book, "A Girl Called Something" 1:04:23 Defining success 1:09:18 Matching our strengths to our activities 1:12:11 Your calling has strengths and weaknesses 1:22:23 Getting Back What's Missing (teamwork) 1:28:40 Parenting advice from a seasoned mama 1:36:20 People are the most important ingredient (It Worked for Me) Links Kathy online: https://www.kathynick.com/ Kathy on FB: https://www.facebook.com/KathyNick A mimeograph! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFIUm0DWA74   Regeneration (find a program near you): https://www.regenerationrecovery.org/ I Do This For a Living is independently produced.  @serenitylive

    Your Calling is Who You Are (Humanity and All) with Kathy Nickerson
  3. Jul 1

    Designing Your Work + Values Ecosystem with Nathan Bransford

    Nathan Bransford is the writer's champion, offering A to Z advice for writers about the craft of storytelling, finding an agent, navigating the publishing industry, and everything writers need to make their dreams come true. Don't leave if you're not a writer, though! This episode is for anyone who loves the stories people tell about their varied career paths. Nathan has amazing advice about determining your values and making them the pillars to build your work and life around. Everything that matters to us can exist in one integrated ecosystem that we build and refine as we go. Nathan believes in Extreme Calendaring to make this possible, i.e., if it's important to you, put it on your calendar. Nathan also has a sad/sweet childhood story about the beloved author Roald Dahl. And, along with all the talk of meaning and values, Nathan and I speak tongue in cheek about the sweet, sweet joy of money. It's all in this amazing episode with author, editor, and uncredited life coach Nathan Bransford. Chapters 00:23 Who is Nathan Bransford 3:34 Nathan's early career as a literary agent 8:11 Writing dreams and Roald Dahl! 11:51 What is a literary agent? 13:27 Starting his website/insider tips for writers 18:21 Leaving the literary agent gig 24:42 Work Pivots - CNET, Bridgewater, and more 36:15 Riding the waves vs. charting a course 41:25 A new career driven by values and meaning 47:36 Building the ecosystem (it's all connected) 52:10 Prioritizing meaning (with values pillars) 57:21 Nathan's editing/coaching services 1:04:39 Putting creative time in the ecosystem 1:11:10 What Nathan does for fun (World Cup!) 1:15:18 Why do we write? 1:22:35 Be the protagonist/hero of your own life 1:34:32 Extreme Calendaring (It worked for me) Links: Nathan's website: https://nathanbransford.com/ One of my favorite posts by Nathan, How To Live Creatively: https://nathanbransford.com/blog/2023/01/how-to-live-creatively Nathan's How To Write a Novel: https://nathanbransford.com/blog/2013/10/my-guide-to-writing-a-novel Nathan's Jacob Wonderbar series:  https://nathanbransford.com/blog/2010/08/jacob-wonderbar-and-cosmic-space-kapowhttps://nathanbransford.com/blog/2012/03/jacob-wonderbar-for-president-of-3https://nathanbransford.com/blog/2013/02/jacob-wonderbar-and-interstellar-timeRock Paper Tiger by Lisa Brackman: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/209739/rock-paper-tiger-by-lisa-brackmann/ We Need Diverse Books: https://www.diversebooks.org/ Pitchfork (where Nathan finds new music): https://pitchfork.com/best/ I Do This For a Living is independently produced.  @serenitylive

    Designing Your Work + Values Ecosystem with Nathan Bransford
  4. Jun 24

    Try the Side Gig; It Might Be the Calling with Lt. Joe Nickerson

    Meet my brother, Lt. Joe Nickerson. He started in law enforcement as a side gig and discovered it was the perfect fit for his specific strengths and calling. Joe describes his first experiences in the police academy as "life-changing." Learning a new job within law enforcement became Joe's next aha moment. Now he had found not just a calling but a role comprising everything he cared about most. I loved this conversation with one of my favorite humans. His connection to his calling is inspiring. Listen for that and stay for the great advice about finding your own strengths and leveraging them. Chapters 02:27 Early understanding of how work relates to identity 07:22 Joe’s 7-year-old self may have known 08:31 Planning a bivocational life (ministry + side gig) 11:48 Starting college 12:37 Law enforcement: the side gig 17:37 Law enforcement in rural America 20:41 Law enforcement: the calling (and how to get there) 33:06 Strengths finding: a new role in the department is a surprisingly perfect fit 35:45 Starting over in Omaha 40:44 Specializing again (negotiator training) 46:54 Naming AND aiming our strengths for success 53:56 Trusting the calling even when others doubt 1:00:11 Long-term goals, leaving a legacy, and never leaving the calling 1:06:13 Misconceptions about law enforcement 01:23:24 Feeling cohesion (what is cohesion?) 01:28:19 Come work for the Omaha PD! (the many possibilities of a job in law enforcement) 01:32:45 It worked for me Links Gallup strengths: https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/252137/home.aspx JoinOPD.com https://www.joinopd.com/  Omaha 360: https://empoweromaha.com/violence-prevention-omaha-360/ Other references Emotional Survival for Law Enforcement by Kevin M Gilmartin I Do This For a Living is independently produced.  @serenitylive

    Try the Side Gig; It Might Be the Calling with Lt. Joe Nickerson

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A show that asks how we can give as much time and energy to the things that matter as we do to the things that pay. I Do This for a Living is hosted by Serenity Bohon - sarcoma survivor, writer, and day jobbist, forever starstruck by anyone who finds meaning at work and in life.  Follow serenitybohon.substack.com for the newsletter. Visit serenitybohon.com/guest to be on the show.

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