Love Letters with Jason & Ros

Jason and Ros Hamilton

Greetings, Great People, and welcome to 💌 Love Letters with Jason & Ros!  After 30+ years of marriage—with tests, trials, and triumphs, we know we would not have made it without Christ being first and at the center of our marriage.  That’s why we created Love Letters with Jason & Ros, a safe space to share wisdom, laughter, insights, and biblical truths about love. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, married, or a parent, this podcast is for you!  On each episode, we pick a letter of the alphabet (like “L” for LOVE) and engage in conversation, examining the impact each topic has on our lives.  Together, we’ll share stories, challenges, and real-talk tidbits, plus provide biblical truths and prayer to help you thrive.  Between episodes, we will post shorts that keep the conversation going by addressing your questions and comments.Subscribe below and join the journey as we LIVE OUT OUR LOVE LETTERS together—one episode at a time!

  1. 3d ago

    "C" is for Covenant: Why Marriage Starts Here

    Send us Fan Mail “I didn't realize I was trying to become a wife; then God said, 'Wait a minute, you're My daughter first!'” Discover the significance of one marriage, two covenants, and what it means to be “all in!” ------------------ In E14 of Love Letters with Jason and Ros, we’re talking about “Covenant,” and we’re keeping it real! With fewer than 40% of couples receiving premarital counseling, many enter marriage unaware of their first covenant—let alone the second! We’ve officially kicked off Season 2 of Love Letters with our new series, “Building Healthy Marriages,” starting with the key element by which every strong marriage must start and stand: Covenant! Discover why covenant is the foundation for everything else in your marriage, and why understanding it can change the way you love, communicate, and build together. We Cover: What a covenant actually is, and how our covenant with God through Jesus becomes the foundation for how we love our spouseThe 5-part marriage covenant found in Genesis 2, and what each part meansHusband and Wife covenant roles and responsibilitiesThree truths that changed how we view marriageWhy we must recognize, receive, and remain “all in” with both covenants  Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome to Season 2 of Love Letters01:53 – Our three main points for today02:29 – What is a covenant?03:18 – POINT 1—We have a covenant with God through Jesus.09:28 – POINT 2—We have a covenant with each other09:58 – The first wedding in Genesis 216:34 – Three fundamental beliefs about godly marriage27:06 – POINT 3— Committing to maintain both covenants30:49 – How to maintain the marriage covenant (Ephesians 5)34:49 – Five elements of staying "all in"41:05 – What the research says about connection and intimacy42:33 – Your Power Takeaway: Recognize, Receive, Remain43:37 – Your Love Letter Challenge44:20 – Closing prayer References and Resources: One Extraordinary Marriage: “Average Sex Life in Marriage: What the Research Shows (And What Actually Matters)”   https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/average-sex-life-marriage/ Good Therapy: “Premarital Counseling: Building a Strong Foundation for Marriage”   https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/modes/premarital-counseling Episode Scriptures/Passages— [NKJV], [NIV] All Scripture References taken from Bible Gateway:  https://www.biblegateway.com/  Our Covenant with God, the Father, Through Christ Jesus: 1 Corinthians 11, verse 25John 1, verse 12John 14, verse 151 John 5, verse 3Our Covenant with One Another, as Husband & Wife: Genesis 2, verses 18-25Genesis 1, verses 27-281 John 3, verses 16-18 3. Our Commitment to Both Covenants- Be All In: John 13, verse 34Ephesians 5, verse 21Ephesians 5, verses 22-28 Power Takeaway: "If you want to experience a healthy, fulfilling marriage: Recognize, Receive, and Remain in both covenants, under God’s divine protection. This is God's WAY and WILL for all of your love relationships.” This Week's "Live Out Your Love Letter" Challenge: Identify one or two areas in your relationship with God and in your marriage where you haven't fully recognized, received, or remained in covenant. Write it down, pray about it, and talk about it with your spouse. Then commit to being intentional about doing something different this week. 💌 We want to hear from you! What did you learn?What surprised or inspired you the most?What topics would you like to see discussed on Love Letters? Everything in one place: JasonAndRos.com Live out your Love Letter. 💌

  2. Jul 8

    How to Have Romance With Finance!

    Send us Fan Mail Can love and money really work together? In Episode 12 of Love Letters with Jason & Ros, we dive into “F” Finances and share how to create “Romance with Finance” in your marriage! Money mismanagement can be one of the greatest sources of stress, discontentment, and division in marriages and love relationships. Challenges like debt, misappropriation, unrealistic expectations, lack of vision, and poor or no planning can quickly turn marital bliss into chaos! Yet, when finances are handled with wisdom, unity, and Godly principles, couples can build stability, strengthen trust, and move toward lasting success. In this episode, Jason & Ros share interesting facts, fun conversation, and powerful insights on: Financial fundamentals for relationshipsHow financial ignorance is not blissThe real results people experience when they honor God with their financesThe common challenges couples face when the “money is funny”Practical strategies for overcoming financial difficulties... togetherChapters: 0:00       Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros- Topic Introduction2:06       Navigating the Fundamentals of Finances 11:30     Our Story: Financial Ignorance is NOT Bliss21:20     The Real Results of Honoring God w/Your Finances25:18     When the Money is Funny- Financial Challenges!31:48     Biblical Truths— Deuteronomy 8, Verse 18 and Matthew 25, Verse 2133:35     Overcoming Financial Difficulties47:38     Love Letter Finance Challenge48:13     BONUS: Gold Nuggets of Giving & Investing52:34     Closing PrayerResources: Connect with Jason and Ros at: https://linktr.ee/jasonandros  5 Financial Fundamentals: Living— Setting a realistic budgetGiving— Honoring the Lord with your financesSaving— Establishing funds for emergencies and incidentalsInvesting— Sowing into your future, retirement, and eventual passingJust for You— Enjoying the fruits of your labor (modestly)Scripture References:  Deuteronomy 8, Verse 18 - "And you shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power to get wealth, that He may establish His covenant which He swore to your fathers, as it is this day.”Matthew 25, Verse 21 - "His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.”Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge: Pray for a Vision for Your Finances If you are struggling with managing your money, and it's negatively impacting your relationship with your spouse, get help right away.Everything in one place: JasonAndRos.com Live out your Love Letter. 💌

  3. Jun 25

    You Won’t Truly Know Purpose Without This Insight

    Send us Fan Mail Do you really know what Purpose is? The truth may surprise you, especially when it comes to purpose in your love relationships!   In Episode 11, we explore the true meaning of “P” for Purpose in a dynamic conversation with our special guest, Pastor Erik Luchetta, a longtime Bible teacher of theological studies and a trusted friend! Together, we challenge some of the most common misconceptions people carry about purpose, and why having the right perspective can potentially impact how we love, live, and relate to one another with positive results.    Top Three Things Purpose is Not: It’s not your job or positionIt’s not a “calling” or “anointing” over your lifeAnd… it’s not your gifts, talents, or abilitiesThe truth? Every person has one purpose, but it’s lived out in many unique ways.  And yes… even your love relationships have purpose! Pastor Erik helps us unpack how understanding God’s design for purpose brings clarity to relationships, the appropriate love alignment, ultimate forgiveness, and divine peace in how we should live out our faith, individually and collectively! Chapters: 0:00         Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros3:10         Introducing Pastor Erik Luchetta3:42         Defining PURPOSE & God’s Plan for Humanity  VS. Individual Calling8:44         God’s Will On Earth As It Is In Heaven- Matthew 6, Verse 1011:12       The Cost of Fulfilling Godly Purpose 13:44       What It Means to Be Human24:02       Living Out Purpose in the “Little” Things33:03       The Importance of Forgiveness in Fulfilling Purpose42:30       Interesting Statistics on Purpose47:24       How Purpose & Love Contribute to the Greater Good1:02:57    Biblical Truth- Colossians 3, Verse 231:06:20    Love Letter Challenge on Purpose!  Episode Resources: Lakewood Bible Study “Living In Your Purpose.” Erik Luchetta and Jeremy Marrone, September 2024. https://www.lakewoodchurch.com/watch-online/06E587AE45D62f542B9F7930DE16Scripture References: Matthew 6, Verse 10 - “Your kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.”Colossians 3, Verse 23 - “And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men,”Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge: Discover your purpose by answering these 3 questions. What do you love to do and would do without getting paid or if no one was watching?What is your why and motivation behind fulfilling purpose?Are you willing to start "small" and possibly stay "small?"Everything in one place: JasonAndRos.com Live out your Love Letter. 💌

  4. Jun 12

    Embracing the Gift of Singlehood!

    Send us Fan Mail Are you currently living single? Get ready as we uncover the truth about God's gift of singlehood and how to embrace it in your love relationships. In Episode 10: Embracing the Gift of Singlehood, we sit down with Pastor Jacqui Hill-Goudeau, author, administrator, exceptional Bible teacher, and longtime friend. Jacqui breaks down common myths about being single, answers those burning questions, and shares how to live a successfully single, healthy, and whole life God's way.  We discuss the challenges of living single in the 21st century, share interesting statistics, and unpack the truth about the two singlehood statuses — whether you are single while waiting (you desire a spouse) or single while walking (you do not have a desire for a spouse). Chapters:  0:00       Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros2:11       Meet Special Guest— Jacqui Hill-Goudeau       3:06       Choosing to be Single & Stigma5:26       “Jacqui’s Single Seasons Story”9:55       Loving Yourself & Being Genuine13:35     God Is Your Ultimate COVERING 21:17     “The Single Wife”26:09     Singlehood Challenges30:45     Waiting Well in Your Single Season44:26     Bible Truths- 1 Corinthians 748:00     How to Embrace Singlehood50:21     “A Shopper’s Guide to Dating”55:01     Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge56:48     Closing Prayer Episode Resources: Follow Jacqui — https://www.wisdomspeakstoday.com Order Jacqui's books on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jacqui-Hill-Goudeau/author/B0G6GMB58K Scripture References: 1 Corinthians 7, verse 7 (Apostle Paul) “But I wish everyone were single, as I am. Yet each person has a special gift from God, of one kind or another.” (NIV)1 Corinthians 7, verse 32b  “…He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord, how he may please Him…” (NKJV)o   1 Corinthians 7, verse 34b  “…In the same way, the unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit…” (NKJV) Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge: Read 1 Corinthians 7 and discover your gift. Has God called you to walk in singleness and wholeness? Or has He given you a desire for a spouse? Both are gifts from God. Learn what yours is and embrace it as you walk with Him in faith during your single season.Everything in one place: JasonAndRos.com Live out your Love Letter. 💌

  5. Jun 10

    “H.O.T. Level” Relationship Goals!

    Send us Fan Mail Every love relationship needs to be at the “H.O.T. Level!”  And no, we’re not talking about chemistry, we’re talking about next-level Honest, Open, and Transparent conversations. Episode 9, introduces “H” for H.O.T. — which means “Honest, Open, and Transparent.” Jason & Ros explain why reaching H.O.T. level conversation is your: Ultimate relationship goal.Essential next level beyond basic communication.Key to deeper trust, connection, and growth in love. This episode builds on E3: “C” for Communication and takes it further — sharing how to move from talking to truly connecting. We unpack: What H.O.T. communication really looks like.Why honesty, openness, and transparency are relationship game-changers.What typically prevents couples from having H.O.T. conversations?How to overcome fear, defensiveness, and shutdown.How H.O.T. conversations can transform your relationship.If you’re ready to end surface-level talking and start building a genuine connection, this episode is for you. Chapters: 0:00     Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros1:30     The What, Why, and How of H.O.T. Conversation 3:06     The Significance of Being H.O.T.8:03     Three Levels To Communication10:13   “We Get H.O.T.”- How Our Conversation Journey is Still Progressing16:00   When H.O.T. Turns Cold— Challenges of Being H.O.T.21:00   Biblical Truths— Zechariah 8, Verses 16-1722:40   Overcoming Through H.O.T. Conversations- Power Takeaways37:20   Love Letter Challenge & Closing Prayer40:09   Bonus: H.O.T. Blooper! 😊Additional Content & Notes: 3 Levels of H.O.T. Communication: Every relationship has a “journey” to take and “purpose” to fulfill, and communication is the key to getting it there.  Level I –  Basic conversation and understanding of each other that lead you to the altar (“I Do”)Level II – Specific conversations that keep you connected (“I Love You”)Level III – Intimate conversations that keep you committed to each other (“I Am With You Through It All”)H.O.T. Conversation Takes: VulnerabilityTrustForgivenessPatienceHumilityOvercoming Through H.O.T. Conversations: Practice— Start with something small that you can be honest, open, and transparent about.Recognize Fear's Presence— Fear of rejection, abandonment, or loss; is a tactic of the enemyPray & Acknowledge God— Allow the Holy Spirit to lead and guide your tongue, providing a strategy for communicating wisely.Choose a Time— Give a heads-up to schedule an appropriate time.Choose a Place— Set an environment conducive to having hard conversations. Bible Truth: Zechariah 8, Verses 16-17 - "But this is what you are to do: Speak the truth in love to each other. Render true and sound judgments that lead to peace in your gates. Don’t plot evil against each other, and stop your love of telling lies that you swear are the truth. I hate all these things, declares the Lord.”Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge: Practice being “vulnerable” with your loved ones! Everything in one place: JasonAndRos.com Live out your Love Letter. 💌

  6. May 29

    Can Faith Make or Break Your Relationships?

    Send us Fan Mail FAITH is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not yet seen! But what happens when the dynamic of a love relationship is added? Episode 8 explores “F”— Faith and what it looks like when your relationship of two becomes three, with Jesus at the center!  Join Jason & Ros as we discuss the firm foundation of faith in your love relationships. BOTTOM LINE: Faith is what love stands on when life gets hard, truth is tested, and unity is challenged. Watch & Explore with us in conversation about: What faith really means in relationshipsWhy it’s essential to lasting loveHow faith is tested — individually and collectivelyWhat happens when couples agree (or disagree) on truthHow to establish, navigate, and maintain faith through every season Faith has the power to strengthen relationships — or strain them — depending on what it’s built on. In this episode, we encourage you to examine your foundation, grow spiritually together, and allow faith to deepen your love for God and for one another. CHAPTERS: 0:00       Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros1:55       What Is FAITH in Your Relationship?3:55       The 5 Cs of Faith8:51       “The Love Triangle” –  Our Faith Journey Story17:23      When Faith is Put to the Test19:14      Facing Faith Challenges Head-On27:18      Biblical Truths— Jude 1, verses 20 and 21a28:25      How to Overcome Through Faith- Your Power Takeaways41:13      Your E8 Love Letter Challenge & Closing Prayer RESOURCES: Donnie McClurkin (1996). Stand [Song]. On Donnie McClurkin; McClurkin D. (Producer), Warner Alliance  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donnie_McClurkin Bible Study Fellowship International—  https://www.bsfinternational.org/  THE FIVE (5) C'S OF FAITH: As you’ve committed to loving each other, it's vital to establish if faith will be a part of your relationship. If so, what will it look like for you as a couple? The 5 C’s of Faith provide a guideline to establishing faith. CONNECT: Work to ensure that your faith foundation aligns with each other (Crucial)COMMUNICATE: Share your history with faith in God and Jesus, “religious” experiences. What is your basis of “truth?”CREATE: Work together to build your faith foundation as a couple. Below are a few examples.Study togetherPray togetherWorship togetherServe in ministry togetherCONTINUE: Maintain your faith foundation, nurture it as you continue to grow together.Individual Faith, considering and supporting each other.CORRECT: Learn to make adjustments as you both grow in faith and/or when challenges come.WAYS TO OVERCOME RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES THROUGH FAITH SALVATION - Receive it (single or couple)FIRM FOUNDATION - Let God’s Word (the Bible) be the basis of:TruthYour guiding light for lifeThe final authority in your life and every love relationshipPRAYER – Pray together without ceasingNot out of religious ritual, but naturally through your LOVE relationship with God and each other.Pray in faith through every trial and triumph WORSHIP & SERVICE - Will help continue to build and strengthen your faith in GodSTAND - When the tests and rough challenges come to try you, stand firm together and face it head-on.God is with you in it, through it, and out of it!Standing in faith will not always be about the challenge, sometimes it’s for prayer petitions, guidance, and new open doors.CONVICTION (awareness of wrong behavior) vs. CONDEMNATION (self-judgement)Conviction of the Holy SpiritAcknowledging sinHeartfelt repentanceMoving forward in graceSCRIPTURE REFERENCES: Jude 1, Verses 20-21 "But you, dear friends, must build each other up in your most holy faith, pray in the power of the Holy Spirit, and await the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ, who will bring you eternal life. In this way, you will keep yourselves safe in God’s love."Everything in one place: JasonAndRos.com Live out your Love Letter. 💌

  7. May 12

    The Dazes, Crazes, & Phases of Parenting!

    Send us Fan Mail Parenting is a blessing and one of the greatest challenges we'll ever face! In Episode 7, "P" for Parenting, we talk honestly about the dazes, crazes, and triumphant phases of being parents in a modern world, and why there's no one-size-fits-all approach.  Indeed, children are a gift and an inheritance from God; yet parenting today comes with learning curves, strategies, various styles, and specific outcomes we cannot control.  BOTTOM LINE: We must parent with prayer, patience, unity, God's Word, and the leading of the Holy Spirit,  even though the results will NEVER be up to you! Chapters: 0:00       Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros2:33       Laying the Foundations of Parenting, What We Need to Know5:39       Modeling Faith in the Family9:12       Why Parenting Styles & Alignment Matter10:10     "It's Rough Out in These Parenting Streets!"— Our Parenting Stories11:21     Jason's Childhood & Upbringing15:55     Ros' Childhood & Upbringing21:53     How Childhood Experiences Impact Parenting22:50     Impact of Work & Ministry on Parenting35:14     Parenting Challenges are INEVITABLE!52:53     Biblical Truths— Ephesians 6, verse 4, and Proverbs 22, verse 654:49     Overcoming & Parenting God's Way57:32     Winning with "The 4 Cs of Parenting."   1:08:17   Your E7 Love Letter Challenge & Closing Prayer Additional Notes: THE FOUR (4) C's or PHASES OF PARENTING: This phase process helps kids develop their: Identity, Values, Critical Reasoning, and Communication Skills. COMMANDER— Establish the foundation of right and wrong. Includes the why, even if they don't understand it yet. Yes, because…No, because… The "Because I said so!" phrase doesn't work or teach kids how to express themselves, or make logical decisions between what's right and wrong, best and worse.COACH— Establish core values and encourages reasoning.Would you rather do this… or that?Is this decision within the boundaries of your values?Have you considered the possible consequences?As the coach, you make the final decision; however, always explain why. They may not agree or understand, or it may make them angry with you. However, your final decision must be based on your family's values.COUNSELOR— Encourage independence and responsibility.Allow them to make the decision and be responsible for the consequences.This phase works best while they're still in your home or in college.They're paying rent and other key bills related to their transition into young adulthood.CONSULTANT— Practice "Patient Availability."Young adults, out of your home, being there when they need youChallenges Arise: Ask them whether they need you to listen or want your advice.Moms, there comes a point when your sons are no longer your "baby," encourage manhood.Consider allowing "One stimulus package" as a bailout plan.Scripture References: Ephesians 6:4 "Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."Everything in one place: JasonAndRos.com Live out your Love Letter. 💌

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Greetings, Great People, and welcome to 💌 Love Letters with Jason & Ros!  After 30+ years of marriage—with tests, trials, and triumphs, we know we would not have made it without Christ being first and at the center of our marriage.  That’s why we created Love Letters with Jason & Ros, a safe space to share wisdom, laughter, insights, and biblical truths about love. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, married, or a parent, this podcast is for you!  On each episode, we pick a letter of the alphabet (like “L” for LOVE) and engage in conversation, examining the impact each topic has on our lives.  Together, we’ll share stories, challenges, and real-talk tidbits, plus provide biblical truths and prayer to help you thrive.  Between episodes, we will post shorts that keep the conversation going by addressing your questions and comments.Subscribe below and join the journey as we LIVE OUT OUR LOVE LETTERS together—one episode at a time!