The Millennial Sandwich

The Millennial Sandwich
  • 5.0 (9)
  • Parenting

A podcast for millennial women in the sandwich generation balancing motherhood, daughterhood and more.

Episodes

  1. 6d ago

    Is Marriage Supposed to be Hard? Partnership as Parents with Eli Weinstein

    Having kids is going to change your relationship — that's inevitable. But that doesn't mean your partnership is doomed after you have kids. Eli Weinstein, LCSW therapist, host of The Dude Therapist and author of From I Do to We Do is here to break down our most pressing questions about partnership as parents. Think... Is marriage supposed to feel hard?Will we be okay without date nights?Is it normal for my marriage to feel different now that we have kids?How do I address issues in my marriage when I just don't have the emotional capacity for another tough conversation?Am I terrible person for losing my patience with the people I love the most?Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce don't fight...is that #relationshipgoals?Anita and Zara talk to Eli about the way marriage and partnership change for members of the sandwich generation.  Chapters: 00:00 Understanding Relationship Dynamics 02:10 The Impact of Parenthood on Relationships 04:06 Millennials and Relationship Challenges 06:40 Navigating Change in Relationships 09:30 The Reality of Disconnection in Parenting 10:03 Navigating Resentment in Relationships 12:32 The Importance of Communication and Vulnerability 13:29 Utilizing Journals for Relationship Clarity 16:32 Daily Check-Ins: A Tool for Connection 20:55 Understanding the Challenges of Marriage 22:43 The Balance of Kindness and Patience 26:44 Managing External Stressors in Relationships 29:40 The Myth of Fairness in Partnerships 32:17 The Importance of Acknowledgment in Relationships 35:06 Navigating Social Media Comparisons 37:50 Understanding Relationship Dynamics and Communication 41:36 Addressing Resentment and Building Connection 45:06 Creative Ways to Date Your Partner 49:38 Coping with Grief and Caregiving in Relationships 52:13 Millennial Sandwich Generation Insights Topics covered: Marriage after kids, marriage, communication, therapy, millennial parenting, social media and relationship expectations, dating your spouse Thanks for listening to The Millennial Sandwich! Don't forget to follow, subscribe and connect with us on social media

    54 min

  2. May 27

    Are Millennials Financially Doomed? With Financial Advisor Bonnie Mangold

    It's not in your head: Millennials really are fighting an uphill battle when it comes to finances.  We're navigating astronomical childcare costs, an unstable job market, inflation, and more...and while still paying back our student loans. Meanwhile, we're being told the reason we're financially strapped is because we overspend on lattes and avocado toast. On this episode, financial advisor, mom of two, and eldest daughter Bonnie Mangold joins Anita and Zara to talk about the financial realities of being a millennial in the sandwich generation. This isn't your standard financial breakdown — Bonnie gets real about the emotional nature of money, the uncomfortable nature of talking about money in families, and the importance of addressing generational cycles around finances. She answers all our most pressing questions like: Should I create 529 accounts for my kids?What should I put in my 'if I die' binder?Are lattes actually the reason I can't afford a house?Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Bonnie Mangold and her background 01:48 Target demographic: Millennials and their financial stressors 03:01 The impact of rising childcare costs and student loans 04:16 Starting with defensive financial planning 05:31 How to protect your cash cushion from inflation 06:50 The importance of legal documents and family financial planning 08:02 Supporting aging parents and long-term care considerations 13:33 Financial advice for parents on saving for children 14:44 The importance of self-care in financial planning 16:07 Creating a family financial binder and sharing information 17:52 Intergenerational financial planning and professional help 19:42 The value of delegating financial tasks 21:06 Bonnie’s personal financial situation and family planning 23:42 Using state incentives like Pennsylvania’s 529 plan 25:29 The basics of a secure financial position 26:23 Homeownership: emotional vs. financial considerations 27:56 Budgeting for a home purchase 29:50 Communicating about finances with partners 32:57 Supporting family and managing expectations 39:28 Practical steps to regain financial control 44:25 Common financial mistakes millennials make 44:44 College savings: overrated or essential? 45:04 Talking to parents about legal and financial planning 45:23 Are millennials doomed financially? 46:49 Balancing lifestyle choices and financial goals 48:03 The true cost of having children and family planning 50:32 The importance of financial security for generational health 51:54 Bonnie’s virtual practice and how to connect 52:23 Final thoughts: Self-care and financial independence Topics covered: financial planning, millennials, family finances, emergency fund, long-term care, home buying, financial literacy, generational wealth, legal planning, savings strategies, emergency funds Thanks for listening to The Millennial Sandwich! Don't forget to follow, subscribe and connect with us on social media

    53 min

  3. May 20

    The Content-ification of Caregiving, 'Yesteryear' & 'Rugrats'

    Anita and Zara discuss the evolution of media representation of caregiving. From 'Leave it Beaver' and other depictions of 1950's suburbia, to the social media-driven landscape we're currently navigating, representation of caregiving has evolved...but has it really changed all that much? The hosts dig into their opinions, share thoughts on the buzzy tradwife novel Yesteryear, reflect on the cartoon that raised us (Rugrats!), and end with a rapid fire round of "which social media mom archetype would our nostalgic TV faves embody today?" 00:00 Navigating the Millennial Media Landscape 03:06 The Evolution of Parenting Media 05:49 The Impact of Social Media on Caregiving 08:15 The Performance of Motherhood 10:50 The Double-Edged Sword of Social Media 12:54 The Role of Women in Modern Media 15:26 The Intersection of Caregiving and Mental Health 17:05 The Challenges of Aging and Caregiving 19:41 The Importance of Sharing Caregiver Experiences 21:53 The Shift in Conversations Around Women's Health 24:16 Rebranding Aging and Longevity 25:45 Rethinking Longevity and Functionality 28:45 Driving Independence and Safety in Older Adults 29:10 The Impact of Media on Aging and Family Dynamics 31:05 Navigating the Sandwich Generation 37:23 The Influence of Nostalgia and Social Media on Parenting Topics covered: Social media, millennial motherhood, media representations of motherhood, sandwich generation caregiving, intergenerational conflict, tradwives, tradwife content Thanks for listening to The Millennial Sandwich! Don't forget to follow, subscribe and connect with us on social media

    38 min

  4. May 13

    Everything You Think You Know About the Mental Load is Wrong with Leah Ruppanner

    Leah Ruppanner, a sociologist and the author of Drained, joins Anita and Zara to discUss the complexities of mental load. In this conversation, Leah debunks common misconceptions and explains how emotional thinking work impacts burnout and gender norms. This conversation offers research-backed insights and practical advice for understanding and managing mental load in everyday life. In this episode we cover: Mental load as emotional thinking workThe eight types of mental loadGender differences in mental loadImpact of social norms on mental loadStrategies to manage and reduce mental loadChapters 00:00 Understanding the Mental Load 04:44 The Emotional Aspect of Mental Load 09:13 Gender Dynamics in Mental Load 13:43 The Importance of Acknowledgment 18:36 Navigating Modern Challenges 23:14 The Future of Mental Load Awareness 26:10 Navigating the Mental Load of Modern Motherhood 29:49 The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health 33:38 Understanding and Managing Mental Energy 36:54 Intergenerational Perspectives on Mental Load 43:08 Finding Balance and Permission to Rest Thanks for listening to The Millennial Sandwich! Don't forget to follow, subscribe and connect with us on social media

    45 min

  5. May 6

    What Does it Mean to be a Good Daughter? with Dr. Allison Alford

    Dr. Allison Alford, PhD, a researcher and the author of Good Daughtering, joins Anita and Zara to discuss the concept of daughtering, its emotional labor, and its significance across generations. Discover how recognizing and valuing daughtering can transform relationships, foster resilience, and expand our understanding of womanhood. Key Topics The concept of daughtering and its originsEmotional labor involved in daughteringGenerational differences in daughtering expectationsChapters 00:00 Introduction to Good Daughtering 02:55 The Concept of Daughtering 05:27 The Emotional Labor of Daughters 08:20 Generational Perspectives on Daughtering 11:01 Recognizing and Valuing Daughtering 13:55 The Role of Communication in Daughtering 16:40 Navigating Complex Family Dynamics 19:04 Parenting Daughters in a New Era 21:23 Exploring Immigrant Experiences and Cultural Identity 22:33 Creating Personal Rubrics for Daughtering 24:38 The Dynamics of Sibling Relationships in Daughtering 27:54 Navigating Changing Family Roles and Responsibilities 32:27 The Burden of Daughtering in a Systemic Context 35:02 The Essence of Daughtering Beyond Loss 36:39 The Lifelong Journey of Daughtering 40:56 Empowering Women Through Good Daughtering Topics covered in this episode: daughtering, emotional labor, women, generational roles, family dynamics, recognition, mental health, identity, feminism, social support Thanks for listening to The Millennial Sandwich! Don't forget to follow, subscribe and connect with us on social media

    42 min

  6. May 6

    Guilt, Friendship and The Baby-Sitters-Club Series with Saumya Dave

    Saumya Dave, psychiatrist, author, and mental health advocate joins Anita and Zara to discuss the complex emotions of guilt, the importance of authentic friendships, and the societal expectations placed on women and mothers. She shares personal stories, insights from research, and practical advice on navigating mental health and relationships in modern life. Key Topics The different types of guilt and their impact on womenThe importance of authentic friendships and social connectionSocietal expectations and their influence on women and mothersThe role of vulnerability and honesty in mental healthStrategies for managing guilt and fostering self-compassionChapters 00:00 Introduction to Saumya Dave 00:35 The Intersection of Psychiatry and Writing 04:25 Understanding Daughter Guilt 05:10 Exploring Guilt in Motherhood 09:08 Cultural Perspectives on Guilt 11:11 The Evolution of Dad Guilt 12:52 Challenging Societal Expectations 14:59 The Complexity of Maternal Instincts 16:37 Redefining Guilt and Emotional Awareness 19:02 The Guilt of High Achievers 20:32 The Mental Toll of Role Switching 23:05 Generational Conversations and Emotional Labor 24:04 Friendship Dynamics in Adulthood 26:55 Navigating Guilt in Social Lives 28:45 The Complexity of Boundaries 30:45 The Impact of Ghosting on Relationships 32:15 The Power of Vulnerability in Friendships 33:51 Influence of Childhood Literature on Women 34:09 The Babysitter's Club 36:20 The Dichotomy of Good and Bad: Sweet Valley High 38:58 Media Representation and Parenting Dynamics 41:47 The Importance of Friendships in Resilience 44:33 Connection Through Voice Notes: A Survival Tip Covered in this episode: mental health, guilt, friendships, women, motherhood, societal expectations, self-care, emotional well-being, parenting, women’s health, eldest daughters, nostalgic book series for millennial women Thanks for listening to The Millennial Sandwich! Don't forget to follow, subscribe and connect with us on social media

    45 min

  7. May 6

    Surprise, We're in the Sandwich Generation (and You Probably Are Too)

    What happens when a journalist who covers parenting and a physician who cares for older adults enter the sandwich generation? If Zara Hanawalt and Dr. Anita Chandra's experiences are any indication, no amount of expertise can truly prepare you for what it's really like to be in the sandwich generation.  Join longtime friends Anita and Zara they explore the complexities of the millennial sandwich generation, balancing parenthood, daughterhood, and personal identity.  This episode offers insights, nostalgia, and community support for those navigating multi-generational caregiving and self-care. Key Topics The concept of the sandwich generation and its challengesThe impact of social media and cultural shifts on millennial parenting and daughterhoodThe emotional and mental load of multi-generational caregivingNostalgia for the 90s and its influence on millennial identityThe importance of community, friendship, and self-care in stressful timesChapters 00:00 Welcome to the Millennial Sandwich Generation 02:20 Friendship and Shared Experiences 04:55 Nostalgia and Growing Up in the 90s 07:54 The Reality of Adult Responsibilities 10:30 Navigating Work-Life Balance 13:12 The Invisible Load of Caregiving 15:09 Understanding the Sandwich Generation 17:54 The Emotional Toll of Care Work 20:20 Redefining Care and Support 23:11 The Pressure of High Expectations 25:44 Finding Joy in the Chaos 27:51 Creating a Community of Support 36:34 Introduction to Nostalgia and Pop Culture 36:50 Millennial Moms and Dads in Nostalgia 37:37 Conclusion and Feedback on the Episode Thanks for listening to The Millennial Sandwich! Don't forget to follow, subscribe and connect with us on social media

    39 min
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A podcast for millennial women in the sandwich generation balancing motherhood, daughterhood and more.

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    The Millennial Sandwich
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