The Wisdom Trust Podcast for Gay Men 50+

Loren Crawford
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The Widsom Podcast is for gay men in the second half of life who are seeking deeper connection, greater purpose, and a stronger sense of belonging. Through honest conversations, personal stories, and thoughtful discussions, we explore what it means to build a life that feels fully alive after 50. Together we'll talk about friendship, purpose, wellbeing, spirituality, relationships, personal growth, and navigating life's transitions with wisdom and authenticity. Whether you're looking for your next chapter, your people, or simply a reminder that you're not alone, you'll find meaningful conversations and practical insights to support your journey. Because nobody should have to navigate this chapter of life alone.

  1. Sep 16

    Gay Men Over 50: It’s Time to Find Your People

    Send us Fan Mail What does it take to rebuild your life—and find your people—after 50? In this episode of The Wisdom Trust, Loren Crawford talks with Steven Nofziger, a 55-year-old gay father whose journey has included a conservative religious upbringing, coming out later in life, rebuilding family relationships, moving across the country, finding love, and creating a new community. When Steven moved to Boston, he made a decision: he was going to show up. He joined a gay ski club, a tennis group, a running group, and Gay Fathers of Greater Boston. Slowly, those experiences became friendships, belonging, and a new life. Today, Steven helps create the kind of community he once needed himself. Loren and Steven also talk about the “second adolescence” some men experience when coming out later, sobriety, joy, creativity, staying active, friendship, resilience, and the wisdom we inherit from gay men who came before us. At the heart of this conversation is a simple challenge: Finding your people requires showing up. If you're a gay man over 50 looking for deeper friendship, connection, chosen family, and a richer second half of life, join us inside The Wisdom Trust. And when you arrive, don't stay on the sidelines. Come introduce yourself. We want to know you. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Subscack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Gay Men Over 50: It’s Time to Find Your People

  2. Sep 9

    Gay Men Over 50: It’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Yourself

    Send us Fan Mail Is it ever too late to reinvent yourself? After more than 20 years in real estate, Ray Aubel reached a point in midlife when the career he'd built no longer felt rewarding. Then the pandemic created space to ask a bigger question: What did he actually want to do with the rest of his life? That question eventually led Ray to train as a hypnotherapist and positivity coach working largely with the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode of The Wisdom Trust, Loren Crawford talks with Ray about changing direction later in life, the fear that comes with starting again, the old emotional patterns many gay men carry, and why our past doesn't have to dictate our future. They also explore shame, internalized homophobia, emotional awareness, purpose, and the importance of being genuinely ready for change. Ray's message for anyone wondering whether they've waited too long: "It's never too late and you're never too old." The Wisdom Trust is a podcast and community for gay men over 50 exploring friendship, purpose, belonging, reinvention, chosen family, conscious aging, and what it means to create a richer second half of life. Join The Wisdom Trust community for more conversations about navigating this stage of life together. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Subscack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Gay Men Over 50: It’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Yourself

  3. Sep 2

    Coming Home to Yourself: Sex, Desire and What You Really Want

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when the life you’ve built looks good from the outside—but inside, you feel like you’re disappearing? In this episode of The Wisdom Trust, Loren Crawford talks with UK-based sex and intimacy coach Michael Dresser about sex, touch, pleasure, desire, and what it means to come home to yourself. Approaching 40, Michael had a long-term relationship, successful career, beautiful home, friends and an active social life. But he describes feeling as though he were suffocating. Leaving that life began a much deeper journey. Michael rediscovered his sexuality and his relationship with his body. He spent time deliberately single. He began listening to what he calls his “inner compass.” And he started asking a question many of us may lose touch with over the years: What do I actually want? Loren and Michael also explore intimacy and touch, pleasure beyond orgasm, old patterns that once protected us, the difference between feeling pulled toward something and feeling that we “should” do something, and why letting go of fixed outcomes can open unexpected doors. For gay men over 50, this conversation offers a different way to think about sexuality—not as something separate from the rest of life, but as one possible part of connection, authenticity and being fully alive. If this conversation opens something up for you, join The Wisdom Trust community for more important conversations with gay men over 50 about connection, friendship, purpose, aging and living more consciously. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Subscack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Coming Home to Yourself: Sex, Desire and What You Really Want

  4. Aug 26

    Change Your Space, Change Your Life: A Fresh Start After 50

    Send us Fan Mail What if making a change in your life could begin with something as simple as organizing one drawer, one closet or one box? In this episode of The Wisdom Trust, Loren Crawford sits down with professional organizer Michael Villarroel to explore the connection between our physical spaces and our emotional wellbeing. Michael shares how he left a more traditional career path, became a single father, built his own business, and found work that feels aligned with his natural gifts. They talk about clutter and overwhelm, sentimental possessions, simplifying your home, finding purpose after 50, and why reinvention doesn’t have to happen all at once. The conversation also turns toward a question many gay men will face as we grow older: How do we create homes, friendships, chosen families and communities that allow us to age with greater connection and independence? Sometimes the next chapter doesn’t begin with a giant leap. Sometimes it begins with one box. The Wisdom Trust is a podcast and community for gay men over 50 exploring friendship, belonging, purpose, chosen family, conscious aging and creating a richer second half of life. Join us and become part of the conversation. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Subscack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Change Your Space, Change Your Life: A Fresh Start After 50

  5. Aug 20

    Your Life Can Get Bigger After 60—If You Let It

    Send us Fan Mail Your life can get bigger after 60. When Jack Kohler’s marriage ended five years ago, he suddenly had to face one of his greatest lifelong fears: being alone. What followed wasn’t a quick transformation. Jack filled his calendar because being home alone frightened him. He struggled with Friday nights and New Year’s Eve. He questioned his worth when there wasn’t someone beside him. Slowly, he began discovering something different. He could take care of himself. And as the fear loosened its grip, his world expanded. In this conversation, we explore loneliness versus being alone, learning to choose yourself, friendship and community after 50, physical and emotional wellness, creativity, self-trust, and the unexpected possibilities of getting older. Jack shares a beautiful metaphor for this stage of his life. After his marriage ended, he felt as though he were suspended between two trapezes. At first, he thought he was falling. Then he realized he was flying. And eventually he began wondering whether he needed to grab another trapeze at all. For gay men over 50 who are questioning a relationship, facing an ending, living alone, rebuilding their social lives, or simply wondering what else might be possible, this is a conversation about what can happen when fear stops making our decisions. The Wisdom Trust is a community for gay men over 50 who want richer conversations, deeper connections, conscious aging, and more from the second half of life. Join us and be part of the conversation. Resource: Loneliness - Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection, John C Cacioppo and William Patrick Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Subscack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Your Life Can Get Bigger After 60—If You Let It

  6. Aug 13

    What If the Life You Built No Longer Fits?

    Send us Fan Mail For many of us, the second half of life brings a strange realization. The career, beliefs, roles, or expectations that carried us this far may not be the things that carry us forward. In this episode of The Wisdom Trust, Loren Crawford talks with Gregg Taylor about what it means to listen when something inside you says it’s time for a change. Gregg’s life has included career reinvention, going back to university at 50, recovery from alcohol addiction, coming to terms with being gay, wrestling with Christianity, and eventually finding a way to bring the different parts of himself together. But this conversation isn’t really about changing careers or even starting over. It’s about becoming more fully yourself. Gregg shares a powerful lesson from decades of helping people through career and life transitions: sometimes we know years before we act that something no longer fits. We stay because it feels safe. But as Gregg says, “Playing it safe is not safe.” For gay men over 50, that question can go especially deep. We’ve lived through enormous changes in how the world sees us—and often in how we see ourselves. The second half of life gives us an opportunity to ask what we still want to carry forward and what we’re finally ready to leave behind. We talk about: • Why careers and identities can have an “expiry date” • Going back to school and reinventing yourself after 50 • Why the transition after leaving a career can take longer than expected • Learning to hear the quiet voice telling you something needs to change • Gregg’s struggle to reconcile being gay with his Christian faith • Moving beyond internalized homophobia toward a more integrated life • Why purpose and community matter as we age • How our experiences can eventually become wisdom • Why the future doesn’t have to be a repetition of the past Chapters 00:00 — Welcome to The Wisdom Trust 01:27 — Meet Gregg Taylor 04:15 — When what got you here no longer fits 06:09 — Rethinking retirement and purpose 09:26 — Gregg’s first major career pivot 14:38 — Making a big change at midlife 19:58 — Why playing it safe isn’t always safe 22:16 — Leaving the daily grind behind 27:37 — Becoming more authentic and integrated 29:59 — When sexuality and spirituality collide 34:15 — The moment Gregg could no longer pretend 37:24 — Putting God “on the shelf” 38:23 — Finding a healthier way to be gay and spiritual 44:39 — Turning experience into wisdom 45:39 — Building a future instead of repeating the past 47:28 — Why gay men need deeper community 51:43 — Closing thoughts The Wisdom Trust is a podcast and community for gay men over 50 who want more from the second half of life—more connection, meaning, friendship, honesty, purpose, and possibility. If conversations like this are what you’ve been looking for, come explore The Wisdom Trust community. You don’t have to figure out the next chapter alone. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Subscack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    What If the Life You Built No Longer Fits?

  7. Aug 6

    It's Never Too Late to Choose Yourself: Finding Yourself Again After 50

    Send us Fan Mail Many of us spend years taking care of everyone else. Our careers. Our partners. Our responsibilities. The expectations we've carried for decades. Then one day we wake up wondering... Where did I go? In this heartfelt conversation, Matt Fugate shares how leaving a toxic work environment helped him rediscover the joyful, authentic person his husband thought he'd lost. The moment his husband said, "I had lost you...and now you're back." everything changed. Together we explore why choosing yourself isn't selfish, why permission often comes before transformation, and how small daily choices can reconnect us with the life we've been longing for. If you're a gay man over 50 wondering whether life still has another chapter waiting for you... This conversation is for you. In this episode: Why many of us slowly lose ourselves without noticingGiving yourself permission to choose differentlySelf-care vs. selfishnessRediscovering joy after midlifeThe importance of chosen family and communityHow one small decision can change everythingChapters 00:00 Welcome to The Wisdom Trust 01:02 Meet Matt Fugate 06:23 The moment everything changed 11:58 "I had lost you..." 15:24 Giving yourself permission 22:32 Why self-care isn't selfish 31:11 Community changes us 42:08 Matt's Wisdom Moment If this conversation speaks to you, we'd love to welcome you into The Wisdom Trust—a growing community for thoughtful gay men over 50 who want deeper connection, purpose, and authentic conversation.  If this conversation speaks to you, we'd love to welcome you into The Wisdom Trust—a growing community for thoughtful gay men over 50 who want deeper connection, purpose, and authentic conversation.  If this episode helped you, please like, subscribe, and share it with another man who may need this reminder: It's never too late to choose yourself. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Subscack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    It's Never Too Late to Choose Yourself: Finding Yourself Again After 50

  8. Jul 29

    What If Your Purpose Was There All Along? A Conversation on Aging, Freedom & Soul

    Send us Fan Mail What if you stopped trying to figure out your purpose... and started noticing the thread that has been running through your life all along? In this episode of The Wisdom Trust Podcast, Loren Crawford sits down with author, music historian, songwriter, and self-described Soul Ambassador, David Nathan. At 78, David reflects on a remarkable life that took him from London to New York, into the world of soul music, and ultimately into a deeper understanding of purpose, creativity, intuition, and conscious aging. Together they explore: Finding purpose later in lifeWhy intuition matters more than strategyReinventing yourself after 50The freedom that comes with agingCreativity, music, and self-expressionWhat it means to live authenticallyThe wisdom that only comes with experienceFor gay men over 50, this conversation offers a powerful reminder that there is no expiration date on growth, creativity, joy, or becoming more fully yourself. The Wisdom Trust is a community for thoughtful gay men who want deeper connection, meaningful friendship, emotional honesty, and a richer second half of life. 👉Find David here: https://davidnathan.com/  👉Learn more and join The Wisdom Trust community. (links below) Chapters 01:25 Introduction to David Nathan 05:50 Music as a spiritual path 12:55 The song lyric that shaped his life 19:10 Discovering purpose through a lifetime of clues 25:45 From "British Ambassador of Soul" to "Soul Ambassador" 32:35 Freedom from labels and expectations 41:40 Receiving appreciation and recognition 50:55 Aging, joy, and redefining fun 59:05 Trusting intuition over fear 1:07:25 Wisdom for the second half of life 1:13:25 Where to find David Nathan Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Subscack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    What If Your Purpose Was There All Along? A Conversation on Aging, Freedom & Soul
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The Widsom Podcast is for gay men in the second half of life who are seeking deeper connection, greater purpose, and a stronger sense of belonging. Through honest conversations, personal stories, and thoughtful discussions, we explore what it means to build a life that feels fully alive after 50. Together we'll talk about friendship, purpose, wellbeing, spirituality, relationships, personal growth, and navigating life's transitions with wisdom and authenticity. Whether you're looking for your next chapter, your people, or simply a reminder that you're not alone, you'll find meaningful conversations and practical insights to support your journey. Because nobody should have to navigate this chapter of life alone.

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