The Art of Love With Lucia

Lucia
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Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!

  1. Taboo Ways To Make Avoidants Miss You

    6D AGO

    Taboo Ways To Make Avoidants Miss You

    Most people think that dealing with an avoidant means explaining, checking in or trying to say things the "right way". That usually pushes them further away.In this episode, ex back coach Lucia walks you through taboo ways people unintentionally make avoidants miss them - by doing less instead of more. Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram #exback #avoidant #avoidantattachment #nocontact #nocontactrule

    10 min
  2. Blocking An Avoidant Is The Worst Mistake You Could Make

    FEB 4

    Blocking An Avoidant Is The Worst Mistake You Could Make

    Blocking an avoidant ex feels powerful - but it often does the opposite of what you want.Ex back strategist Lucia explains why blocking can quietly backfire with avoidant attachment, what it does to their nervous system and the new rule you need to understand before you decide whether to block or not. Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram #avoidantattachment #getexback #blockinganex

    9 min
  3. Why Rushing Always Fails With Avoidants

    JAN 28

    Why Rushing Always Fails With Avoidants

    When getting back with an ex, people usually say they're going to "take it slow", but rarely do. Dating expert Lucia explains why pace is the deciding factor, especially with an avoidant ex and why talking doesn't actually move things forward. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #exback #getexback

    10 min
  4. Why Being Patient With An Avoidant Backfires

    JAN 21

    Why Being Patient With An Avoidant Backfires

    Being patient with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it often kills attraction. Dating expert Lucia explains why attraction fades when you're waiting, being understanding, and "not putting pressure on it". If you've been trying to stay calm and do the right thing while nothing changes, this episode is for you. #avoidantattachment #breakups #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram

    9 min
  5. What Really Happens When You Stop Chasing Your Ex

    JAN 14

    What Really Happens When You Stop Chasing Your Ex

    When you've been dumped, the urge to chase can feel overwhelming, especially if you still want your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what actually changes when you stop chasing your ex, and why pulling back often shifts the dynamic in ways chasing never can. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #nocontact #breakuppodcast #gettingyourexback #getexback

    9 min
  6. What Your Ex Wants When They Text You

    JAN 8

    What Your Ex Wants When They Text You

    You've been in no contact and after weeks - or even months - of silence, your ex suddenly texts you. What does it actually mean, and should you respond right away or wait?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why exes reach out during no contact, what they're really looking for, and how responding the wrong way can sabotage your chances. Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram #nocontact #exback #getexback #nocontactrule

    9 min
  7. What Avoidants Do When They Secretly Want You Back

    12/31/2025

    What Avoidants Do When They Secretly Want You Back

    If your avoidant ex's actions are confusing, there's usually a very good reason. Dating/relationship expert Lucia exposes the subtle behaviors avoidants show when they're starting to change their minds about the breakup. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex #avoidantattachment

    9 min
  8. Think You’ll Never Hear From Your Ex?

    12/24/2025

    Think You’ll Never Hear From Your Ex?

    If you're convinced your ex will never reach out, you're probably wrong. Silence after a breakup triggers fear-based thinking, and your brain fills in the blanks with the worst-case scenarios. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the psychology behind why people assume they'll never hear from their ex, and why that belief is usually not based on reality. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #getexback #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule

    12 min
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