How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

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How to Get the Girl (formerly Ask Women) is the podcast where men finally learn what actually works with women. Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice. Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who tell you exactly what makes them lean in… and what makes them walk away. No fluff. No theory. Just honest female insight and practical tools you can use immediately to get the girl — and keep her. New episodes every week.

  1. MAR 9

    (Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

    🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    45 min

  2. MAR 9

    What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

    🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    45 min

  3. MAR 2

    How He Became Confident With Women in Just 5 Weeks

    🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/jpyiooEg9qo Most men know that confidence is the key to attracting women. But here's the problem — confidence is almost impossible to fake. Women see right through it instantly. So what do you do if you're just... not there yet? In this episode, you'll hear from Marcel — a man who walked into my Inner Circle program without an ounce of real confidence. And I could feel it. I'll be honest with you — when I first met him, I felt superior to him. Which is something I feel with most men who come to me for help. But then something happened. Just 5 weeks into the 8-week program, Marcel shifted. The man I was looking at wasn't the same guy who showed up on day one. Suddenly I was seeing him as an equal — as a man any woman could feel genuine attraction for. Not fake confidence. Not "techniques." A real, internal transformation that changed how women experienced him. In this conversation, Marcel walks you through exactly what shifted — the mindset changes, the inner work, and how he went from feeling small and unnoticed to believing in his core that he's a great catch. If you've ever wondered whether real confidence is something you can actually BUILD (not just fake), this episode will show you it's possible — and faster than you think. 🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr This is the same exercise I give to every man in my Inner Circle program. It's designed to help you identify and step into your most confident, authentic masculine energy — so you can show up with presence and power in every interaction with women. 📞 Ready for your own transformation? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod YouTube: youtube.com/marnikinrys IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: ✅ Why faking confidence never works — and what to do instead ✅ The internal shift that transforms how women experience you ✅ How Marcel went from feeling invisible to choosing the women he wants ✅ What actually changed in just 5 weeks (it's not what you think) ✅ The difference between surface-level techniques and real confidence ✅ How to believe in your core that you're a great catch Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    27 min

  4. FEB 26

    The Biggest Female TURN ON of ALL Time? (Over 10,000 Women Surveyed)

    Become A Man Women Want NOW (Go Here): https://becomeamanwomenwant.com/ Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game. Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of. Once you know this secret, you will be able to attract more women than ever before. You will instantly multiply your dating options and have women craving to be with you. And that’s a guarantee. In this episode, Marni reveals the biggest female turn on of all time — and how you can use that to attract the women you desire. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnKiL462Dng Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    17 min

  5. FEB 23

    How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect

    Learn to do AFTER the attraction phase to keep the girl here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/beyond_attraction_skills In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so you can be an amazing in the bedroom with women ;) MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAA104g1ZVA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    12 min

  6. FEB 23

    Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women

    🔥 Download the FREE DISC Chart Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/downdisc 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://winggirlmethod.com/bookcall Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another? It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach. In this episode, Wing Girl Nadia breaks down our DISC chart that categorizes women into 4 personality types. You'll learn how to quickly identify which category a woman falls into, and exactly how to approach, flirt, and connect with her based on her type. Once you understand this framework, you'll never waste time using the wrong tactic on the wrong woman again. You'll know within minutes of meeting her exactly how to create attraction. If you've ever wondered why "being yourself" works sometimes but not others—this episode explains everything. 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/G4cXVFxabO4 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod 👋 Youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    27 min

  7. FEB 19

    How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect

    Want to flirt like a pro with women? Get the F Formula NOW: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-flirty-now Did you know that it's possible to attract women WITHOUT saying a single word? It's true and it's doable by ANY man... YES even you ;). In this episode, Marni reveals exactly how to attract women without saying a word using the NATURAL effects of your body language. Body Language is the quickest and easiest thing you can alter to actually change how women see you. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QdXCidXhNSw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    18 min

  8. FEB 17

    Private Message From Marni

    The Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift.  Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week.Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and become the men they’ve always want to be.Marni will be your host, your best female friend and your own personal Wing Girl.  She’s heard it all before and will deliver the best of the best insider information to help you turn women on.New episodes every Monday and Thursday.Help us by leaving a review and sharing our podcast!It’s time to turn women on! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Get the Girl (formerly Ask Women) is the podcast where men finally learn what actually works with women. Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice. Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who tell you exactly what makes them lean in… and what makes them walk away. No fluff. No theory. Just honest female insight and practical tools you can use immediately to get the girl — and keep her. New episodes every week.

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