What if unity requires us to lose? In this episode, host Jonathan Lewis sits down with Bishop Michael Mulvey, Bishop Emeritus of the Diocese of Corpus Christi, to explore why communion comes at a cost—and why loving someone does not require agreeing with them. Drawing on nearly five decades of involvement with the Focolare Movement, Bishop Mulvey reflects on its spirituality of unity, the power of living the Gospel together, and the example of Mary as someone willing to surrender her plans and follow the Holy Spirit. He explains why listening is essential to Christian life, how sacrificial love can overcome polarization, and why priests and Church leaders must choose God—not ministry, programs, or institutions—as their true ideal. Bishop Mulvey also shares what breaks his heart and gives him hope about the Church, his reflections on Pope Leo XIV’s witness to unity, and why every Catholic has a part to play in building a more welcoming and united Church. Episode Timestamps 00:51 — Growing up in a Catholic family in Houston 02:05 — An embarrassing—and memorable—childhood experience at Mass 03:48 — Bishop Mulvey’s path through parish, seminary, diocesan, and episcopal ministry 05:02 — Discovering the Focolare Movement and its spirituality of unity 06:45 — Living the Gospel in the devastation of World War II 08:40 — God is love: encountering Jesus in every neighbor 09:35 — Jesus forsaken and the choice to continue loving through suffering 10:25 — Mary’s presence, discipleship, and hidden work of giving life to Jesus 11:21 — Moving beyond ideas to live the Gospel together 12:14 — Why Christian wisdom grows through shared experience 14:49 — What does a spirituality of unity look like today? 15:25 — Unity has a price: becoming “all things to all people” 18:54 — Why the sacrifice required for unity is worth making 19:19 — Every person as a candidate for unity 20:04 — Leadership, discipline, mercy, and trusting the Holy Spirit 21:36 — How clergy and lay leaders can cultivate unity in their parishes 21:52 — Reaching out to those who disagree—and listening more than speaking 23:11 — Synodality, growth, and the danger of seeking security 24:20 — Choosing God rather than making an idol of priesthood or ministry 26:00 — Why we struggle to let go of our plans 27:08 — Mary and the spiritual practice of learning how to lose 29:17 — The seed must die in order to bear fruit 31:23 — What breaks Bishop Mulvey’s heart about the Church today 31:35 — Polarization, stagnation, and competing voices within the Church 34:21 — Why young Catholics give Bishop Mulvey hope 36:05 — Pope Leo XIV and the call to become a Church in communion 38:43 — Refusing to put popes—and one another—into ideological boxes 40:11 — Finding the thread of unity throughout the communion of saints 42:13 — What Bishop Mulvey wants those curious about Catholicism to know About the Guest Bishop Michael Mulvey is the Bishop Emeritus of the Diocese of Corpus Christi, Texas, where he served as bishop for nearly 16 years. A Houston native, he has served the Church in parish ministry, Catholic education, priestly formation, seminary leadership, and diocesan administration. Before his appointment to Corpus Christi, he served as vicar general and diocesan administrator for the Diocese of Austin. Bishop Mulvey has participated in the Focolare Movement’s spirituality of unity for nearly five decades.