Homeschool Better Together with Pam Barnhill

Pam Barnhill
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Are you ready for homeschooling to feel joyful again? Do you need support as you learn alongside your kids? Welcome to Homeschool Better Together. Hosted by Pam Barnhill, this podcast shares how to stop questioning if you are doing enough and create a homeschool experience that fits your family. Each Tuesday, we break down the big ideas into manageable chunks to give you the confidence and resources you need to finally step out of the overwhelm and into the wonder. Homeschool stories and practical tips are delivered straight to your earbuds full of inspiration and encouragement. They are perfect to listen to while running errands or folding a load of laundry. No matter what homeschool method you use, you’ll learn how to remove the overwhelm from your homeschool so you can focus on building relationships. To stay connected and learn even more about the Homeschooling Better Together resources, join the free community: https://pambarnhill.com/homeschool-better-together-podcast/

  1. JAN 27

    Are These Homeschool Voices Stealing Your Joy?

    Ever feel like you’re drowning in homeschool advice, but your confidence is getting lost in the flood? You’re not alone—and in this episode, I’m joined by our amazing Member Success Manager, Laney Homan, for a real talk chat about filtering all those voices and finally trusting your own judgment. We’ll dish on how the “information overload” of today’s homeschool world is light-years away from the early days of conventions and catalogues. (Spoiler: The algorithm does not know what you actually need.) We get candid about how too many voices can stir up self-doubt—making you second-guess decisions or chase the elusive promise of a homeschool formula that simply doesn’t exist. Want to know who is actually worth listening to? We’ll share how to spot a wise mentor, why good community matters (but isn’t everything), and how to sidestep the guilt bombs and prescriptive “this is the only way” messaging that can wreck your confidence. Plus: A big announcement! Laney’s taking over as host for the next season of the podcast, and I couldn’t be more excited for the new combos and encouragement she’ll bring to your earbuds. What you’ll learn:Why today’s homeschoolers are swimming in input—and how it’s different from the “good ol’ days.”Why information overload can actually sabotage your confidence (and what to do instead)How to filter curriculum promises, “expert” advice, and the allure of homeschooling quick fixesWhat makes a good homeschool mentor—and giant red flags to dodgeHow to find real encouragement and honest support (without sliding into a homeschool pity party)The three levels of community…and why local support still mattersWays to avoid the shame/should/“if you don’t, you’ll fail” trapPam’s biggest soapbox about absolutes and humility in homeschool leadershipWhy Laney will be your new host for the next season (and why that’s downright awesome!) Resources mentioned:Join our free Homeschool Better Together Community

    34 min

  2. 11/18/2025

    Christmas School for the Soul

    Are you overwhelmed by the pressure to create Pinterest-perfect holiday memories in your homeschool? (Spoiler: so was I, and I’ve got some epic fails to share as proof!) If you’re feeling weighed down by Christmas school plans, elaborate crafts, and a to-do list longer than Santa’s, this episode is your permission slip to do less and experience more peace. This week, I’m sharing why “Christmas School for the Soul” is a better plan than another jam-packed checklist. We’re reframing holiday homeschooling: less pressure, more joy. I’ll tell you about my own holiday mishaps (candy kiss countdown disaster, anyone?), what I’ve learned about letting go of perfection, and exactly how a simple morning time routine can offer both you and your kids the holiday anchor you actually need. Let’s trade “doing more” for making meaning and let beauty do the heavy lifting. Whether you’re on top of things or not, this is your invitation to step off the treadmill and just be together. (Bonus: Don’t miss your FREE Advent Morning Time plans, made for your heart, not your checklist.) What you’ll learn:Why you might need Advent Morning Time as much as your kids doHow “Christmas School for the Soul” can be your stress antidoteThe danger of the holiday homeschool perfection trap (plus, my own hilarious fails)Three steps to a simpler, soul-filling holiday homeschoolWhy choosing a single “anchor” tradition is enoughHow to replace “more” with “meaningful” (and cut the guilt)How music, art, and poetry can do the hard work for you (so you don’t have to!)The real reason behind doing school during the holidays—and how to reclaim peace Mentioned resources:FREE Advent Morning Time PlansJoin our free homeschool community

    13 min

  3. 11/04/2025

    Trade Overwhelm for Joy

    Ready to trade overwhelm for joy this homeschool year? If you’ve ever wished for a homeschooling break that actually refills your cup without the speaker overload of a massive conference or the pressure to “do it all,” this episode is your permission slip. I’m sitting down with Barbara Cozens to talk about what really happens at a We Gather Together Beach Retreat. Barbara traveled to the 2023 retreat from snowy Nevada for some well-deserved rest, good company, and inspiration. She’s sharing her honest take on what surprised her, what she brought home for her own kids, and why she believes every mom needs time away before she reaches burnout. If you’re debating whether to join us at the retreat, have big “what ifs” about coming alone, or don’t even own a pair of flip-flops, this is the episode to press play. It’s about connection, permission to rest, and finding YOUR people—even if it feels a little nerve-wracking at first. What you’ll learn:The difference between homeschool conferences vs. our soulful beach retreat (no decision fatigue—promise)Why you don’t have to “do Morning Basket perfectly” to get big benefits (Barbara’s light bulb moment)How to build authentic connections even if you’re an introvert flying soloThe surprising things you can get out of a 3-day retreat (hint: it’s not just about new teaching tips)Simple ways to bring retreat wisdom and peace back into your daily homeschoolTips for first-time attendees: travel, what to expect, and how we make it easy and welcoming Resources & Mentions:Homeschool Mom Beach Retreat Info PageAsk us anything about the retreat: info@pambarnhill.comFree Homeschool Better Together Community Ready to fill your own cup so you can pour into your homeschool? Come relax, reset, and find your people. Barbara, I, and a beach chair with your name are waiting. For the full show notes visit: https://pambarnhill.com/hsbt50

    27 min

  4. 10/21/2025

    When Handwriting Isn’t Clicking (And What Really Matters)

    What’s the real story behind “bad” handwriting? Is it just a phase, or a red flag? And what should you actually do when your kid melts down every time you pull out a pencil? In this episode, I’m joined by Sarah Collins, a homeschool mom, licensed occupational therapist, and founder of Homeschool OT, to debunk some common OT myths and offer practical, encouraging advice for homeschool parents concerned about handwriting, motor skills, and when to seek extra help. You’ll hear: How Sarah pivoted from OT homeschool skeptic to trailblazer serving families worldwideThe #1 question every parent should ask if their child struggles with handwriting (hint: function > form)Simple ways to support reluctant writers (think: core strength before cursive!)What really matters for writing readiness, warning signs to watch for, and when it’s time to seek professional support (without guilt or shame)Lots of fun, judgment-free encouragement for new and veteran homeschoolers Resources Mentioned: Sarah’s site, resources & podcastInstagram: @homeschoolotImproving Handwriting Without Actually WritingA Chameleon Tale (Sarah’s sensory-regulation picture book)Free Homeschool Community For full show notes and a transcript of today’s episode, head to pambarnhill.com/hsbt49

    42 min

  5. 10/07/2025

    Adaptability Is Your Homeschool Superpower

    How many times have you set out to have a “consistent” homeschool, only to get derailed by spilled cereal, a surprise dentist appointment, or, let’s be real, your own epic meltdown? (Just me? Didn’t think so.) Let’s bust this myth right up front: Consistency in homeschool is NOT about never missing a day, nailing every lesson, and marching through the schedule like a robot from a Tesla demo reel. So what IS the secret? It’s adaptability. True, sustainable consistency, the kind that survives germs, grief, “one of those days,” and whatever else life throws at you, is built on having a plan that bends without breaking. In this episode, I break down how you can actually plan for adaptability and why it’s not a cop-out, but instead, it’s the key. What you’ll learn:How adaptability is the true backbone of homeschool consistencyPractical ways to scale schoolwork when time or energy are shortSimple “last resort” activities that count as connection, not failureThe value of planning your Plan B ahead (not during the drama)Why “good enough” still builds a powerful homeschool habit—more than you think Resources Mentioned:Atomic Habits by James ClearHomeschool Consistency BootcampFree Homeschool Community Want to make your Plan B list and finally ditch the guilt on messy days? Now’s the time: join our Homeschool Consistency Bootcamp! Doors close October 17th—let’s build real-life consistency together. For full show notes and a transcript of today’s episode, head to https://pambarnhill.com/hsbt48

    12 min

  6. 09/23/2025

    One Small Habit That Transforms Your Homeschool

    Are you drowning in interruptions, curveballs, or the chaos of real-life homeschooling—and wondering if you’ll ever get back to consistent days? You’re not alone, friend! This week on the Homeschool Better Together Podcast, I’m joined by DaLynn DeWitt—a South Texas homeschool mom of three, rodeo wife, and self-confessed “all or nothing” personality—who opens up about what it really looks like to homeschool when life goes sideways. DaLynn shares how her school year started with ceilings leaking, family camping out in one bedroom, a kitchen-turned-homeschool zone, and zero hope of a “normal” routine. And yet—she found this was actually one of her most consistent, joyful years ever. (Spoiler: You do NOT need a perfect plan or a Pinterest-ready schoolroom to make homeschool work—you just need a launch point and a whole lot of grace). We talk about the power of starting with just one thing (even if it’s just reading the Bible or a good book), using tools like the Minimum Viable Day, and how to climb out of a rut after illness, loss, and every possible interruption. DaLynn shares her brutally honest take on mindset, figuring out your “good enough” day, and learning when to keep pushing—and when to step outside and catch your breath. If you’re stuck in a season of hard, or just want practical ideas (and a good laugh) on building better routines, you do not want to miss this episode. What you’ll learn:What to do when your “perfect” plan is torpedoed by life (construction, illness, travel… you name it)How starting with just ONE anchor habit can launch the rest of your homeschool dayThe magic of the Minimum Viable Day (when it really is “good enough”)Moving forward after a school slump, setbacks, or ‘failing’ weeksGiving yourself grace—and permission to do less, not more—when everything falls apartWhy consistency doesn’t require perfection (and actually thrives on the opposite)The real secret sauce to building homeschool momentum—and keeping it when you’re tired, grumpy, or overwhelmed Resources mentioned in this episode:Put Your Homeschool Year on AutopilotHomeschool Consistency BootcampWonder StudiesHomeschool Better Together Free Community For full show notes and a transcript of today’s episode, head to pambarnhill.com/hsbt47

    24 min

  7. 09/09/2025

    Homeschool Off Track? Time for a Reboot

    Raise your hand if your homeschool year already feels like it’s veering off course. (Don’t worry, mine’s up too.) Let’s be real: there’s no such thing as one smooth, perfectly consistent homeschool year. Enter…the homeschool reboot. This episode is your practical pep talk for starting over, with zero guilt. I break down why a homeschool reboot isn’t just normal, it might actually be your greatest superpower as a home educator. Whether your family was hit by The Cold That Would Not Die, your house imploded (literally), or you just looked around and realized Morning Time hasn’t happened since February, hear me loud and clear: the restart button is there for a reason, and pressing it is healthy, not humiliating. We’ll cover exactly what a reboot is, why “falling behind” is a myth, and how to refresh your homeschool with grace (for everyone, including yourself). What you’ll learn:How to reset your homeschool without guilt or dramaThe “three core things” strategy for making a reboot stickGrace-filled mindset shifts that make restarts feel lighter, not heavierWhy starting fresh (again) is a homeschool superpowerEasy ways to refresh your physical and mental homeschool spaceWhy celebrating your restart is not just allowed—it’s necessary Resources Mentioned in This Episode:The Grace-Filled Reboot Download (grab your checklist, print it, use it anytime)Free Homeschool Community For full show notes and a transcript of today’s episode, head to pambarnhill.com/hsbt46

    13 min

  8. 08/26/2025

    High School Foreign Language Credit, No Textbook Required

    Ready to actually use a foreign language in your homeschool—and give your high schooler credit for it? This episode is a breath of fresh air for every parent who’s ever tried to check the “foreign language” box…and wondered if anything was actually sticking. Today, I’m joined again by Adelaide Olguin, founder of Talkbox Mom, whose innovative program teaches families to use a second language in real life (think: snack time, errands, or even brushing teeth). She and her husband, Hector, have raised their three boys across five continents, speaking multiple languages wherever they go. Recently, Adelaide expanded Talkbox Mom to serve high schoolers too. If the idea of high school “credit” makes your palms sweat, don’t worry: she’s sharing exactly how to make real-world fluency count for both your transcript and your family connection. We chat about what it takes to homeschool high school foreign language with confidence and joy—even if you’re learning right alongside your teen, juggling multiple ages, or terrified of testing. Wondering if you can keep things hands-on and still get a transcript-ready result? This episode will have you saying “da,” “sí,” or just plain “yes, please!” What you’ll learn:The common pressure (and myth) around “doing high school foreign language right”—and how to actually serve your studentWhy most traditional programs leave kids unable to actually speak another language (even after years of study)How Talkbox Mom’s high school program works (yes, including record keeping, grading, and what “counts” as a credit)Practical ideas to integrate language learning with real family life—no need to become a grammar drill sergeantEasy ways to adapt if you have teens and little ones (or a teen who surprises you with a “random” language they want to study)Why fluency opens up opportunities for college, career, travel, and communityHow to handle grading, cultural projects, and “testing”—especially if you’re learning right along with your teenReal-life encouragement for the “type A” mom who needs a system (but wants actual results) Resources Mentioned:Talkbox Mom + Free Starter Pack and all other resources Adelaide mentionedYMB #54 Natural Foreign Language Learning: A Conversation with Adelaide Olguin (Podcast)Language Learning Made Fun With a Fluency Approach (Podcast) For full show notes and a transcript of today’s episode, head to pambarnhill.com/hsbt45

    40 min
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Are you ready for homeschooling to feel joyful again? Do you need support as you learn alongside your kids? Welcome to Homeschool Better Together. Hosted by Pam Barnhill, this podcast shares how to stop questioning if you are doing enough and create a homeschool experience that fits your family. Each Tuesday, we break down the big ideas into manageable chunks to give you the confidence and resources you need to finally step out of the overwhelm and into the wonder. Homeschool stories and practical tips are delivered straight to your earbuds full of inspiration and encouragement. They are perfect to listen to while running errands or folding a load of laundry. No matter what homeschool method you use, you’ll learn how to remove the overwhelm from your homeschool so you can focus on building relationships. To stay connected and learn even more about the Homeschooling Better Together resources, join the free community: https://pambarnhill.com/homeschool-better-together-podcast/

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