Thriving Kids

The Child Mind Institute
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  • MENTAL HEALTH
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Parenting can feel overwhelming when kids struggle with anxiety, behavior, school, or big emotions. Thriving Kids is a podcast for parents and caregivers who want clear, honest answers about child and adolescent mental health. Hosted by Dr. Dave Anderson, a clinical psychologist at the Child Mind Institute, each episode focuses on a common parenting challenge — from tantrums to school struggles — with practical strategies grounded in science. You’ll hear direct, expert guidance from clinicians who work with kids and families every day. New episodes every week, with companion newsletters for easy reference.

  1. 1D AGO

    How Social Media Affects Your Teen’s Mental Health (and What to Do)

    Parents and caregivers may have a lot of worries about their teens using social media, from encountering harmful content to cyberbullying. But what do teens themselves say about how social media affects them day to day? In this episode of Thriving Kids, Dr. Dave Anderson sits down with Dr. Linda Charmaraman a senior research scientist at the Wellesley Centers for Women and founder and director of the Youth, Media & Wellbeing Research Lab. Dr. Charmaraman's research follows kids from middle school into high school. She shares what teens say actually helps their well-being (social support, finding community, learning, exploring identity) and what tends to hurt (peer dynamics, exclusion, comparison, and hits to self-esteem). They also talk about what works at home: Keep screens out of bedrooms and protect sleepUse screen limits to support daily life, not as punishmentStay curious so your kid keeps talkingFocus on relationship quality and communication, not perfect controlThe key message for every kid: No matter what happens online — even if it’s embarrassing or scary — you can come to your parent, and they will help you through it. Further reading The Family Media Plan – American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)When Are Kids Ready for Social Media? – Child Mind InstituteHow Phones Ruin Concentration – Child Mind Institute

    35 min

  2. MAR 6

    Independence, Routines, and College Success Q&A

    Part 3 of 3: What actually helps students succeed in college? In this episode of Thriving Kids, our clinicians offer practical guidance for families preparing for the transition to college. From understanding accommodations to building routines that support mental health, this conversation focuses on actionable steps. Moderated by Dr. Morgan Eldridge with Dr. David Friedlander and Dr. Adam Zamora, this episode covers: • Academic supports and documentation • Counseling centers and mental health care • Self-advocacy in college • How parents can support teens' independence College Readiness Toolkit Our toolkit has guidance for teens — along with a section for parents — on how to get a good start in college and navigate this important period of building independence. Download it here: https://childmind.org/topics/college/#toolkit

    33 min

  3. MAR 5

    Executive Function, Procrastination, and the College Brain

    Part 2 of 3: College demands a new level of self-management In this episode of Thriving Kids, our clinicians unpack executive functioning and procrastination — and why struggling to start a task isn’t about laziness, but about skill development and brain maturation. In this moderated conversation led by Dr. Morgan Eldridge with Dr. David Friedlander and Dr. Adam Zamora, you’ll hear: • What executive functioning actually involves • Why procrastination can become a cycle • How brain development affects follow-through • Why building these skills matters in college College Readiness Toolkit Our toolkit has guidance for teens — along with a section for parents — on how to get a strong start in college and manage this transition. Download it here:  https://childmind.org/topics/college/#toolkit

    9 min

  4. MAR 4

    Why College Can Feel Harder Than Expected

    Part 1 of 3: Why does college feel overwhelming — even for strong, capable students? In this episode of Thriving Kids, our clinicians explore why the transition from high school to college can be harder than expected. Students move from a structured, familiar environment to one that demands independence, self-management, and new social connections. You’ll hear a moderated conversation led by Dr. Morgan Eldridge with Dr. David Friedlander and Dr. Adam Zamora that covers: • Why anxiety and depression often emerge freshman year • The impact of losing structure• The emotional adjustment of leaving home • How belonging affects mental health College Readiness Toolkit Our toolkit has guidance for teens — along with a section for parents — on how to get a good start in college and navigate this critical period of building independence. Download it here:  https://childmind.org/topics/college/#toolkit

    20 min

  5. FEB 26

    What to Say When a Child Sees or Experiences Racism

    Talking to kids about racism and discrimination can feel intimidating. But in this episode of Thriving Kids, Dr. Dave Anderson and Dr. Isha Metzger discuss how to start the conversation early, keep it practical, and support kids in ways that match their age and situation. What you’ll learn: How to convey a clear definition of racism that goes beyond “one person being mean”How microaggressions show up in everyday life, even when someone “didn’t mean it”Why kids might show stress from experiencing racism through behavior (withdrawal, irritability) or physical symptoms (headaches, stomachaches)How to help your child respond if they experience discriminationHow to teach ally behavior: what to say, when to get help, and why speaking up in the moment mattersWhat to do if your child causes harm: Reflect → Repair → RelearnKey takeaways: Start the conversation early and keep it going. Don’t wait for a single “big talk.”Use direct, factual language. Kids do better with simple, clear wording.Practice a few “in the moment” phrases your kid can actually say, like: “That’s not okay.”If your child is targeted: validate first, then problem-solve.If your child is the one who said something harmful: stay calm, name the impact, and coach a better next step.From the episode: M&M exercise  Use a small bag of M&Ms to talk about difference and unfair treatment: Observe differences (color, shape, cracked shells)Ask: “Are any better than the others?”Connect it to how people can get treated unfairly based on how they lookKeep it simple: same on the inside, differences add valueTips from the Thriving Kids tip sheet: Talk about it. Kids are likely to encounter racism and discrimination at a young age. Put aside any discomfort and talk about these topics with your kids early and often.Be direct and factual. When you’re explaining racism for the first time, it’s important to use clear, straightforward language.It’s ok to show emotion. When talking with your children about racism or specific events that have happened due to racism, it’s okay to express your own feelings of anger, hurt, or sadness. This helps normalize these reactions and validate what your child may already be feeling.Take a multimedia approach. Share books, movies, TV shows, YouTube channels or anything else with age-appropriate content related to the issues you are trying to tackle. These can provide additional information, context and characters for kids to relate to.Listen and validate. Even young children are perceptive and may be scared or confused by things they’ve seen or heard. Ask open-ended questions and give them plenty of space to answer. Little kids can also express themselves through drawings or acting things out with toys.Teach advocacy. Just as you may have encouraged your child to stand up for friends who are treated unkindly, teach them to speak out if they witness or experience discrimination firsthand – if it is safe to do so.Plan a course of action. There’s nothing worse than feeling helpless, so if your child comes to you with a troubling experience or concern, help them develop a response. Remind them that it’s not always on them to respond, and depending on the situation, there may be reason to make a report with the school or authorities.Further reading Free Guides and Resources – Dr. Isha MetzgerPositive Parenting, Thriving Kids – Child Mind Institute

    42 min

  6. FEB 19

    Q&A: Filling Your Cup Without Guilt

    In this Q&A episode of Thriving Kids, Dr. Dave Anderson follows up on last week’s conversation with Dr. Joanna Kim about parental self-care and the invisible labor of raising kids. He answers listener questions about guilt, exhaustion, and how to make “filling your cup” realistic in a normal week. In this episode, we cover: “How do I help friends who feel guilty taking time away from their kids?” Reframe from quantity to quality time. Try a one-week experiment: take a little time back, then notice what changes (energy, patience, connection).“I’m a chronic yes-person. What do I say no to?” Sort non-negotiables, want-to-dos, and energy drains. Practice saying "no" for a short window (a few days), then decide what boundaries should stick.“I get homework from my child’s therapist and forget. I feel like I’m failing.” You’re not failing. Your therapist wants honesty. Build a simple system for tracking and prioritizing, then accept that some tasks won’t happen every week.“I have no time. Work, dinner, bedtime, repeat. What can I do?” Start by naming what actually calms you (food/drink, movement, sleep, connection, faith/spiritual practices, quiet). Then look for small pockets to repeat, not a perfect routine.“Any clever tricks to get a break without my kids interrupting?” Tricks can work in the short term, but the long-term goal is modeling normal boundaries: “I’m taking 20 minutes. I’ll be back at ___.” Key takeaways: “Self-care” doesn’t require money or big blocks of time.Start with minutes, then build.Your goal isn’t more time with your kids — it’s better time with your kids.Boundaries often matter as much as adding new habits.If you’re working with a therapist/coach, missed homework is useful info — it helps you set a plan that fits your real week.

    27 min

  7. FEB 12

    How Can I Take Care of Myself So I Can Be The Best Parent I Can Be?

    Self-care for parents isn’t selfish — it’s fuel. In this episode of Thriving Kids, Dr. Dave Anderson talks with Dr. Joanna Kim about what real self-care looks like for busy parents — especially those who feel guilty about taking a break. We cover: • Why self-care can feel like a privilege or unrealistic • How to “fill your cup” in 1 to 5 minutes (no spa day required) • The science of parent engagement and what gets in the way • How sleep, boundaries, and saying no protect your energy • Why modeling rest and balance matters for your kids From tea with a daily quote to pocket Sudoku to sleeping in without guilt — this episode is about small, doable changes that help you show up as the parent you want to be. Follow Dr. Kim’s Engaging Families Lab:Instagram: @engagingfamilieslabWebsite: engagingfamilieslab.org Further reading The Impact of Parental Burnout – American Psychological Association (APA) Mental Health Resources for Parents – Mental Health America (MHA) Why Self-Care Is Essential to Parenting – Child Mind Institute

    35 min
  8. How Parents Shape Their Child’s Stress — and What Actually Helps

    FEB 5

    How Parents Shape Their Child’s Stress — and What Actually Helps

    In this Thriving Kids Q&A episode, Dr. Dave Anderson answers parent questions about child stress, anxiety, avoidance, burnout, and coping with big emotions. Building on a recent conversation with Dr. Dylan Gee, a professor of psychology at Yale University, this episode focuses on how kids learn to respond to stress — and how parent behavior can either ease anxiety or reinforce it over time. Dr. Anderson addresses common situations parents face, including school anxiety, physical symptoms of stress, over-scheduling, achievement pressure, and burnout. He explains why avoidance often makes anxiety worse and how parents can support kids without pushing too hard or being too accommodating to their anxiety. In this episode, you’ll learn: How kids pick up on parental stress — and how to change your own venting habitsWhy avoidance increases anxiety over timeWhy anxiety often shows up as stomachaches or headachesWhy reassurance can backfire — and what to do insteadHow accommodation can unintentionally reinforce anxietyHow to support over-scheduled teens under college pressureWhat teen burnout looks like after prolonged stressSimple tools to reset a child’s nervous system before tests, games, or performancesThis episode draws on evidence-based approaches from cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), child development research, and clinical practice. It’s designed for parents of kids navigating anxiety, perfectionism, stress, and emotional overload. Further reading (Video) How do I help my child cope with stress? – Child Mind InstituteThe Art and Science of Mindfulness – Child Mind Institute   For more expert guidance and free family resources, visit: https://childmind.org/resources

    22 min
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Parenting can feel overwhelming when kids struggle with anxiety, behavior, school, or big emotions. Thriving Kids is a podcast for parents and caregivers who want clear, honest answers about child and adolescent mental health. Hosted by Dr. Dave Anderson, a clinical psychologist at the Child Mind Institute, each episode focuses on a common parenting challenge — from tantrums to school struggles — with practical strategies grounded in science. You’ll hear direct, expert guidance from clinicians who work with kids and families every day. New episodes every week, with companion newsletters for easy reference.

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  • Creator
    The Child Mind Institute
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Child Mind Institute
  • Show Website
    Thriving Kids

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