Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

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Formerly Almost Adulting… but let’s call it what it always was. Welcome to DADDY ISSUES with Violet Benson. I brought the original name back. Because I am the OG Daddy Issues - the brand that started 12 years ago and turned a meme page into a movement. The name you've always known me by. So we’re done pretending. This podcast WILL change you... or at least your standards. We talk dating disasters, attachment styles, adulting, evolving past your patterns, confidence comebacks, mental health spirals, breakups, friendships, and how to stop chasing, settling, and playing small. Tough love backed by real psychology. I’m Violet Benson - Comedian, Daddy Issues meme queen, ex-accountant, soon-to-be-author, and your unfiltered Russian big sister. I’ll say what your therapist is thinking but won’t text you at 11PM. Welcome home. New episodes every Thursday. This isn’t Almost Adulting anymore. It’s Daddy Issues.

  1. 12 HR AGO

    WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

    WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! Whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR. Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict.  What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 01:03 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom 03:33 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings 04:23 Reason 2: Some men need space 06:03 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship 06:39 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship 07:35 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him 11:46 Step #2: Do not chase him 12:57 Men and women do things differently 13:34 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband 16:38 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach 21:16 Step #3: Focus on yourself 32:20 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict Get more content on: @violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    35 min

  2. 5 DAYS AGO

    Let's Talk - March 13, 2026

    Let's talk about.... that time I tased myself. That time I stabbed myself. How people pay to run marathons. My tiny feet. My crooked leg. Not surviving the zombie apocalypse. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    34 min

  3. 12 MAR

    Why You Chase and He Pulls Away (The Anxious-Avoidant Trap) with Thais Gibson

    Is your attachment style running the relationship? This week on Daddy Issues, Violet sits down with relationship expert Thais Gibson to break down why you chase, why he pulls away, and how subconscious wiring shapes the way you date. Thais Gibson is a best-selling author, counselor, and founder of the Personal Development School, known for her work on attachment styles and subconscious relationship patterns. They discuss the four attachment styles, the anxious-avoidant cycle, emotional triggers, and how childhood conditioning shapes the way you give and receive love. If the same dating patterns keep repeating in your life, this episode helps you understand why and how to start changing them. Connect with Thais Gibson: university.personaldevelopmentschool.com Thanks to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at Shopify.com/adulting  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1h 6m

  4. 5 MAR

    Act Like a Prize

    Daddy Issues starts now. This week, Violet Benson officially launches her podcast under the name that built her brand. After 12 years of building the Daddy Issues community, Violet shares the moment that pushed her to reclaim the name, protect what she created, and step fully back into the identity that started it all. Then Violet delivers a Russian big sister pep talk. She breaks down why so many women give girlfriend energy to men who can’t even text back, how “potential” keeps you stuck in the wrong relationships, and why confusion in dating usually means one thing: he’s not choosing you. She talks confidence, boundaries, self-worth, and the mindset shift that stops you from auditioning for men who were never going to pick you in the first place. If you’ve been romanticizing someone who gives you nothing, this episode is your reminder. You are the prize. TIMESTAMPS: 00:13 - Welcome to Daddy Issues: Violet announces the new podcast name 00:30 - Why Violet is reclaiming the Daddy Issues brand 02:38 - The moment that forced Violet to protect her brand 27:41 - The real episode begins: If he's confusing you, he's not choosing you.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    52 min

  5. 26 FEB

    The Conversation You’re Avoiding with Mel Robbins

    You’re not crazy. You’re anxious. This week on Almost Adulting, Violet sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack high-functioning anxiety in love — why women attach fast, date potential, ignore red flags, and stay in relationships where they can’t ask for what they need. Mel breaks down the 5 Second Rule, how to stop spiraling, time blindness, and the worst thing you can do when anxiety hits. They talk separation anxiety, loving someone who’s wrong for you, being right vs. being connected, and the obvious signs he just doesn’t like you. If you’re successful but secretly overthinking everything in dating — this one will hit. Thanks for supporting our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at Shopify.com/adulting. Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code ADULTING. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1h 21m

  6. 19 FEB

    How to Reinvent Yourself in 2026 After Losing Yourself

    After a month-and-a-half break and a big network move, your Russian big sister Violet Benson is back – and she’s starting 2026 the only way she knows how: with tough love. Violet breaks down the four shifts that changed her life – and can change yours too. • setting real boundaries (and holding the door open when someone wants to leave)  • radical self-awareness (aka stop lying to yourself)  • knowing exactly who you are  • and changing your perspective so you stop feeling like the victim in your own story She then breaks down why we romanticize the wrong people, the truth about “twin flames,” how you’ve been quietly self-sabotaging your love life, forgiving without apologies, and learning that sometimes the love story you’re chasing isn’t about another person – it’s about yourself. Today is the day you take your power back and start gaining confidence again after losing yourself in love. This episode is your reset. Don’t forget to leave a 5-star review when you’re done listening. Thanks for supporting our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY.COM/adulting See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    42 min

  7. 18/12/2025

    How To Master Your Emotions with Jay Shetty

    If you’ve ever wondered why you settle, sabotage, or shut down.. this episode tells you the truth. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta is joined by Jay Shetty - New York Times best-selling author, host of On Purpose, former monk, and one of the most influential voices in self-improvement, emotional healing, and modern spirituality. In this powerful conversation, Jay and Violetta dive into: the limits we place on ourselves (and each other)fear as an unformed boundarywhy timelines sabotage our growththe real meaning of love (beyond romance)how to build connection through vulnerabilityand how to rewrite the beliefs holding you back If you’re craving clarity, emotional growth, deeper love, or a fresh start, this is an episode worth revisiting. Some conversations deserve a second life. and don't forget to leave me a 5 star review on the apple podcast app when you're done listening!!!! WHAT TO LISTEN FOR: • 00:00 Intro • 02:15 The journey that took 10 years • 05:08 Deadlines vs. destiny • 06:13 Worst advice Jay ever received • 07:52 “We project our limits onto other people.” • 10:46 The three cancers of the mind • 12:45 How to change your feelings • 16:23 Best advice Jay ever received • 21:36 Why beginners should move fast • 28:19 The two lies we tell ourselves • 33:35 What unforgiveness does to you • 36:13 Different forms of love • 38:46 Is unconditional love real? • 41:26 Loving as a skill • 46:16 Fear as an unformed boundary • 50:05 The power of being alone • 53:08 Win or lose together • 58:52 What it really takes to make love work • 01:03:41 The 8 Rules of Love • 01:06:19 The myth of perfection • 01:08:35 Connect with the people who want you AND THAT IS ALL FOR 2025!!! WE WILL BE BACK IN 2026!! 3 Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues  Connect with Jay on: https://jayshetty.me/https://twitter.com/jayshettyhttps://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbV60AGIHKz2xIGvbk0LLvghttps://twitter.com/jayshetty https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty Think Like A Monk8 Rules of LoveSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1h 13m

  8. 15/12/2025 · BONUS

    GET HIM OBSESSED - CAPRICORN

    Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This December, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Capricorn man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 How to win over his ambitious and disciplined heart—and keep him hooked. 🔥 Foolproof ways to earn his trust and build a solid connection. 🔥 What he values most in a partner (and what will make him pull away). 🔥 The signs he’s losing interest—and how to reignite his commitment to you. 🔥 Proven strategies to win him back if he’s started to drift away. Whether you’re drawn to his drive and dependability or trying to reignite the connection, this episode will give you the tools to master the art of loving a Capricorn man. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    27 min
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Formerly Almost Adulting… but let’s call it what it always was. Welcome to DADDY ISSUES with Violet Benson. I brought the original name back. Because I am the OG Daddy Issues - the brand that started 12 years ago and turned a meme page into a movement. The name you've always known me by. So we’re done pretending. This podcast WILL change you... or at least your standards. We talk dating disasters, attachment styles, adulting, evolving past your patterns, confidence comebacks, mental health spirals, breakups, friendships, and how to stop chasing, settling, and playing small. Tough love backed by real psychology. I’m Violet Benson - Comedian, Daddy Issues meme queen, ex-accountant, soon-to-be-author, and your unfiltered Russian big sister. I’ll say what your therapist is thinking but won’t text you at 11PM. Welcome home. New episodes every Thursday. This isn’t Almost Adulting anymore. It’s Daddy Issues.

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  • Creator
    Violet Benson
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    362
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Copyright © 2026. All rights reserved.
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