Your daughter needs to see how a man should love her. Your son needs to see how a man should lead. And your marriage needs more than love. It needs boundaries, emotional intelligence, and the courage to stay out until 6 a.m. if that's what keeps you safe. In this deeply insightful, wildly entertaining episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with John, Ghana's self-proclaimed enjoyment president and owner of Soho, for a raw, unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about fatherhood, romance after 14 years of marriage, and why the most relevant people in Ghana don't go home until sunrise. John holds nothing back. He breaks down why fathers must invest time in their daughters or risk them falling for the wrong kind of man, how he sends his daughter flowers on Valentine's Day so she knows what it feels like to be admired, and the uncomfortable truth that if you're absent in your daughter's life any man can come and show her his idea of being loved. He reveals why changing diapers and warming milk at 3 a.m. is not abnormal but necessary, how emotionally drained partners lead to marriages that go haywire, and the one thing every father needs to teach his daughter: how she deserves to be dated. He also explains why he takes his daughter on dates, how his wife threatened him to send flowers before some boy does it first, and the moment his daughter found out it was him all along and asked why he was doing it. This isn't just about fatherhood. It's a masterclass in keeping romance alive after 14 years, why boundaries and emotional intelligence are the foundation of every lasting marriage, and how reflection is the key to responding instead of reacting. John dives into why he hosts his wife and her Wesley Girls friends at Soho for comedy nights, how he stays out until 6 a.m. not because he's reckless but because armed robbers operate between 11 p.m. and 4 a.m., and the one rule he gave his wife: if you're going out with your girls and you're not coming home before midnight stay where you are it's safer. He also shares why Soho is not just a party spot but a networking hub where business leaders, ministers of state, and high commissioners hang out, how you can lay the groundwork for a business deal on Friday night and sign the paperwork on Monday morning, and the one piece of advice he gives Richard before his first visit: sleep for two to three hours before you come you will need it. If you're a father wondering how to raise confident daughters, a husband trying to keep the spark alive after a decade, or someone who thinks going home at 3 a.m. is safer than staying out until sunrise, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to rethink everything you thought you knew about love, safety, and what it means to enjoy life while building something that lasts. Guest: John ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS to hear this
