Let's Talk About Your Breasts

Dorothy Gibbons, CEO & Cofounder

The Rose Breast Center of Excellence presents Let's Talk About Your Breasts with Dorothy Gibbons. Each week, Dorothy hosts candid conversations with an array of people in the breast cancer community. From doctors and employees to donors and individuals who influence policy, you'll learn all there is to know about the disease which impacts so many women in our community.

  1. 1 day ago

    Peace, Love, and The Rose - A Sneak Peek at Shrimp Boil 2026

    Special Events Manager Shannon McNair takes us behind the scenes of The Rose’s annual Shrimp Boil, a nearly 40‑year tradition where fresh Gulf shrimp, auctions, raffles, and desserts turn a casual Saturday with 800 of your closest friends and family into a lifeline for breast health for women in our 45-county service area. Support The Rose HERE. Subscribe to Let’s Talk About Your Breasts on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeart, and wherever you get your podcasts. Key Questions Answered 1. What is The Rose’s Shrimp Boil and how did it begin?2. Why does the event feel more like a family reunion than a formal gala?3. How do silent and live auctions, raffles, and kids’ activities all contribute to fundraising?4. What food is served besides shrimp, and how do desserts and kid‑friendly options fit in?5. How does the mobile bidding system make it easy to participate in the auction from anywhere?6. What roles do volunteers, committee members, and staff play in making the event a success?7. How can local businesses, families, and individuals donate items for the auction or dessert table?8. How are tickets, tables, sponsorships, and underwriting structured so both families and companies can join?9. Why are unrestricted dollars from this event so important for covering unexpected needs throughout the year?10. What is new this year in terms of date, theme, and logistics, and how can people get involved? Timestamped overview 00:00 Dorothy opens the show with the standard introduction to Let’s Talk About Your Breasts and The Rose’s mission. 00:49 Roxann welcomes Shannon and asks her to describe her role as special events manager. 01:01 Shannon explains overseeing signature events and third‑party fundraisers that support The Rose’s mission. 01:34 They introduce the Shrimp Boil as The Rose’s longest‑running and largest event, approaching its 40th year. 01:41 Shannon shares the origin story of a community‑driven boat raffle that evolved into a major annual fundraiser. 02:41 She describes the atmosphere as casual, indoors at the Pasadena Convention Center, with a family reunion feel and 600 or more attendees. 02:59 Roxann notes there is more than food involved; Shannon adds details about DJ, emcee, and auction. 03:08 Shannon outlines the silent auction: dozens of items ranging from small baskets to big experiences like trips and electric bikes. 03:48 She describes the live auction and the energy brought by the auctioneer, as well as a cash bar supported by beverage sponsors. 04:16 They detail photo booths, popcorn, kids’ games, and adult games like the liquor toss, emphasizing fun for all ages. 05:23 Shannon highlights that survivors, their families, staff, and supporters all mingle, creating generational participation. 05:36 They discuss past themes and introduce this year’s 60s‑inspired Peace, Love and The Rose theme. 05:50 Shannon encourages attendees to dress up as much or as little as they like, from flower crowns to full costumes. 06:42 Roxann asks about donating auction items; Shannon explains that anyone can contribute goods, services, or gift cards. 08:06 Shannon explains the mobile bidding system, how guests register, receive outbid alerts, and check out without long lines. 11:20 They talk about 50/50 raffles staffed by roller‑derby volunteers who sell tickets throughout the room. 12:20 Shannon describes the volunteer and committee structure behind the event, with different leaders owning specific areas like desserts, bar, and kids’ zone. 14:16 They dig into desserts: long tables of homemade and bakery‑donated treats, from sheet cakes to famous pineapple upside‑down cakes. 17:01 Shannon notes that hot dogs and kids’ meals are available for those who do not or cannot eat shrimp. 17:48 Roxann notes the date change; Shannon explains moving to August 8 this year and mentions fresh Gulf shrimp as a highlight. 18:49 Shannon outlines pricing for individual tickets, tables, and sponsorship levels, plus underwriting options for specific elements like the photo booth. 19:56 They discuss buying tickets in advance versus at the door, as well as curbside pickup and why reserved tables work best for groups. 21:41 Roxann asks how the money is used; Shannon emphasizes the importance of unrestricted funds that help ensure no woman is turned away from care. 22:21 They recap the essential details and invite listeners to attend, volunteer, or donate to support the mission. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    25 min
  2. 26 May

    Navigating Side Effects, Fear of Recurrence, and Life After Treatment

    A casual night watching sports, a quick breast self-exam, and a lump that did not belong there. Faced with no insurance and four months of not knowing what to do, Felicia Kent walked into a neighborhood clinic, received a referral to The Rose, and heard the three words that changed everything: you have cancer. In this episode, she talks about choosing a treatment center, using research and strict adherence to medication to blunt chemo side effects, and learning to live with radiation fatigue, lymphedema, neuropathy, and a body that will never be the same. She also shares how faith, a determined daughter, an emotional support dog, and a calling to serve other survivors led her to start a nonprofit, finish her psychology degree, and focus on practical support and early mammograms in the African American community. Support The Rose HERE. Subscribe to Let’s Talk About Your Breasts on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeart, and wherever you get your podcasts. Key Questions Answered 1. How did Felicia find her lump and what kept her from seeking help immediately? 2. How does someone without insurance get from a neighborhood clinic to The Rose for diagnostic care? 3. What does it feel like to hear “you have cancer,” and how did Felicia share that news with her family? 4. How did she choose a treatment center and manage chemo, surgery, and radiation side effects day to day? 5. What practical strategies helped her reduce chemo side effects like nausea, mouth sores, and nosebleeds? 6. How is she now supporting other patients through a nonprofit, church outreach, and peer-to-peer work? 7. Why are mindset, faith, and social support so critical during and after breast cancer treatment? 8. How is she raising awareness about mammograms and access within the African American community? 9. What long-term issues like lymphedema, neuropathy, and fear of recurrence does she still live with? 10. How does an emotional support dog, movement, and counseling help manage post-treatment anxiety? Timestamped Overview 00:00 Episode opens, Felicia’s story as an uninsured survivor who reached The Rose through a neighborhood clinic is introduced.01:20 Guest host Shannon McNair welcomes Felicia and asks how she discovered her lump and used self-exams.01:40 Felicia describes finding the lump by chance, lacking insurance, and remembering The Rose from boutique work.02:40 She visits a nearby clinic, receives an immediate referral to The Rose, and later credits the team with saving her life.04:30 Telling her sister, leaning on prayer, and deciding early to be a testimony for others facing cancer.06:20 What she wishes she had known about treatment, side effects, and why she followed medication instructions exactly.07:40 Lesser-discussed chemo and radiation side effects like mouth sores, nosebleeds, and fluid issues, and how she managed them.08:40 Birth of her nonprofit work, finishing a psychology degree during treatment, and pursuing community health worker training.09:50 Current advocacy: blogs, peer-to-peer conversations, holiday outreach, and small gifts to patients during treatment.10:40 Common questions she hears about insurance, alternatives, and staying positive through harsh treatments.12:10 How to support someone with cancer when you do not know what to say, including quiet presence and simple statements of love.13:40 Encouraging friends and family to show up with meals, learning, and practical help, while survivors learn to express what they need.16:30 Holiday and year-round programs for patients, including Christmas deliveries, Valentine outreach, and church-based change collections for donations to The Rose.19:10 Focus on education and early detection in the African American community, especially for younger women and those wary of treatment.20:30 Balancing chemo, lumpectomy, graduation, radiation, and then managing fluid buildup and other late effects.23:50 How an emotional support dog, daily walks, and therapy help manage anxiety and fear of recurrence after treatment.26:00 Decision to delay reconstruction, experiences losing a young niece and a church member to breast cancer, and why that fuels her advocacy.27:20 She reflects on cancer as an ongoing learning experience, the importance of mental health care, and continuing in support groups. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    29 min
  3. 19 May

    How The Rose's Mobile Mammograms Bring Screening to 45 Counties

    Some women clear their calendar for a mammogram. Others step onto a 40-foot pink coach in their office parking lot. As director of mobile services at The Rose, Shelly Kot oversees a five-coach fleet that delivers the same 3D screening you’d get in a center to women across 45 counties in Southeast Texas. During this conversation, she talks about the moving parts that keep those rolling clinics on the road, the sick feeling when a generator or quality check shuts a day down, and why she still puts on a badge and does mammograms herself. She also shares how being raised by her grandparents, working inside both nonprofit and for-profit systems, and parenting a daughter shapes the way she teaches women to push for answers when something feels wrong. Support The Rose HERE. Subscribe to Let’s Talk About Your Breasts on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeart, and wherever you get your podcasts. Key Questions Answered 1. How does The Rose’s mobile mammography program work for workplaces, churches, and schools? 2. What is the difference between screening on a coach and services at a breast center? 3. How far do The Rose’s five mobile coaches travel across Southeast Texas? 4. What happens when a mobile coach or critical equipment breaks down on screening day? 5. How do quality checks on the road protect patients and keep standards high? 6. Why did Shelly choose radiology and then specialize in mammography? 7. What did she learn working in both nonprofit and for-profit breast centers? 8. How does she support fearful patients during mammograms and biopsies? 9. What life lessons from her grandmother guide how she works and leads? 10. What does it mean for women to advocate for themselves when something feels wrong in their bodies? Timestamped Overview 00:00 Episode begins, mobile mammography program introduced.02:00 Role overseeing five mobile coaches and 45 counties.03:00 How workplaces, schools, and partners schedule a mobile coach.03:30 Same 3D technology on coaches as in The Rose’s centers.05:00 Breakdowns, generators, and failed quality checks that can cancel a full day.06:00 Daily quality control on moving coaches and why it matters.07:30 Choosing radiology, then focusing on mammography and caring for women.11:00 Seeing the difference between nonprofit and for-profit breast centers.13:00 A typical mobile day, early starts, and full screening schedules.14:00 Why she still performs mammograms as a director to stay close to patients.17:30 The Rose’s mission to serve insured and uninsured women alike.19:30 Life with a police officer husband and their “no work talk” rule.20:30 Being raised by her grandparents and lessons from her grandmother.23:00 Hopes for her daughter’s health and self-advocacy.24:30 Core life lesson about kindness and the lasting impact of words. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    27 min
  4. 14 May

    Blindness, Breast Cancer, and Bold Choices: One Woman’s Unyielding Spirit

    Jennifer Parrish, Manager of Business Services at the Lighthouse of Houston, joins Dorothy to share her story. Parrish talks about managing work at the Lighthouse of Houston, overcoming transportation issues for treatments, and addressing misconceptions around breast cancer.  Despite facing breast cancer, legal blindness, and personal loss, Jennifer's resilience and positive attitude shine. She emphasizes the importance of self-care and seeks to inspire others through The Lighthouse’s podcast, Sightless Voices, Unleashing Potential. Support The Rose HERE. Subscribe to Let’s Talk About Your Breasts on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeart, and wherever you get your podcasts. Key Questions Answered 1.) What was Jennifer Parrish's oncotype score, and what did it imply? 2.) Why did Jennifer Parrish opt for surgery to remove her ovaries and fallopian tubes? 3.) How did Jennifer Parrish rate the difficulty of her breast cancer journey? 4.) Did Jennifer Parrish have time to grieve her father's passing? 5.) What challenges did Jennifer Parrish face in navigating healthcare facilities and appointments? 6.) What actions did Jennifer Parrish take to make her cancer experience more enjoyable? 7.) How did Jennifer Parrish manage her work during radiation therapy and her cancer treatments? Timestamped Overview 00:00 Jennifer Parrish: Inspiring journey overcoming challenges, inspiring empowerment. 03:40 Moved for better opportunities, settled in Houston. 06:41 Navigating challenges delays mammogram for blind patient. 09:46 Family support and friendships during cancer treatment. 15:11 Podcast helps raise awareness about cancer support services. 15:56 Used Google Maps, brushed up on Spanish. 22:11 Blindness intertwined with breast cancer challenge, manageable. 25:35 Need to relax more during recovery time. 27:00 Overheating scare during daily afternoon walk. 31:01 Understanding real issues fosters connection and empathy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    33 min
  5. 12 May

    Access to Treatment Takes More Than a Pathology Report

    Being uninsured, speaking a different language, or not understanding a 40-page form should never decide who lives or dies. In this episode, patient navigators Laura Tovar and Elizabeth Esparza walk us through what really happens after an uninsured woman hears “you have breast cancer” at The Rose. They explain how they review applications before diagnosis, sit in the room with the radiologist, and answer the first question they always hear: “How am I going to pay for this?” They also talk about the maze behind assistance programs for uninsured patients, what it takes to keep coverage from lapsing in the middle of chemo, and the impossible choices some families face during their breast cancer journey. Along the way, Laura and Elizabeth share what it costs them emotionally to carry these stories, why they sometimes cry with husbands and children, and how quilts, gas cards, summer camps, and rent assistance become part of making sure no woman has to face breast cancer or the paperwork alone. Support The Rose HERE. Subscribe to Let’s Talk About Your Breasts on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeart, and wherever you get your podcasts. Key Questions Answered 1. What does “patient navigation to treatment” mean at The Rose, and how is it different from scheduling or basic navigation? 2. How do Laura and Elizabeth first learn about a woman, and what happens between her initial mammogram and a positive diagnosis? 3. What are the main treatment access programs for uninsured women in this episode (Harris Health/Gold Card and Medicaid for Breast and Cervical Cancer)? 4. Who qualifies for Medicaid for Breast and Cervical Cancer, and how do income, age, citizenship, and “working quarters” factor in? 5. Why do many newly diagnosed women worry more about cost and payment than about the cancer itself? 6. How do navigators match patients with facilities and oncology practices that actually accept their specific Medicaid HMO plan? 7. What happens when Medicaid coverage lapses during chemo, and how do Laura and Elizabeth intervene to get treatment restarted? 8. How do they explain a breast cancer diagnosis differently to small children, teenagers, and spouses, and why are husbands often the most visibly shaken? 9. What are some of the hardest situations they see, including women moving counties or divorcing to meet eligibility rules, or being asked for large deposits to start chemo? 10. How do Laura and Elizabeth support patients with complex applications, missing documents, language barriers, and repeated denials from eligibility offices? 11. What other practical resources do they connect families to, such as food assistance, utility and rent support, camps for kids, gas cards, wigs, bras, and comfort items? 12. How do they cope with the emotional toll of this work while trying to remain steady for patients and their families? Timestamped Overview 00:00 Dorothy opens with how insurance status, language, and paperwork can determine who lives or dies, and introduces patient navigators Laura Tovar and Elizabeth Esparza.01:45 Laura and Elizabeth share how long they have been at The Rose and the roles they held before moving into patient navigation to treatment.02:35 Dorothy explains “sponsorship” as intake for assistance programs and why The Rose avoids the word “charity.”03:10 Elizabeth defines patient navigation to treatment as helping mostly uninsured, newly diagnosed women find a path into actual cancer care.03:50 Elizabeth describes reviewing applications a day or two before diagnosis to anticipate which treatment program might fit.04:25 Laura walks through what happens on the day a woman learns she has breast cancer and how navigators stay with her after the radiologist leaves.05:30 Elizabeth outlines key treatment programs: Harris Health (Gold Card) for county residents and Medicaid for Breast and Cervical Cancer (MBCC).06:00 Laura and Elizabeth explain MBCC eligibility, including age limits, income guidelines, citizenship, legal residency, five-year residency rules, and working quarters.08:20 They describe the questions women ask first after diagnosis, centered on cost, payment, and whether existing coverage at The Rose will extend to treatment.09:20 Laura explains why The Rose refers many MBCC patients to Texas Oncology and how they choose facilities that accept specific Medicaid HMO plans.10:30 They discuss how confusing HMO choices and insurance concepts are for women who have never had coverage and fear they will have to “pay it back.”11:20 Dorothy notes that many major cancer hospitals do not accept these plans, increasing reliance on a smaller network of providers.12:00 Laura and Elizabeth talk about the need to renew Medicaid every 12 months, how patients can forget during treatment, and what happens when coverage expires mid-chemo.12:35 They describe calling Medicaid, troubleshooting reasons for termination, and sometimes getting coverage reinstated within days.13:40 Dorothy asks how much information patients actually absorb at diagnosis; Laura and Elizabeth estimate many do not hear most of what is said.14:10 Laura explains follow-up calls, longer consultations, and sometimes separate visits to help spouses and children understand the diagnosis and plan.15:10 They share that husbands often cry more than patients because they feel helpless and unable to “fix” the situation or pay for care.16:30 Elizabeth describes how they tailor explanations for children by age, avoiding the word “cancer” with very young kids and framing treatment as strong medicine.17:10 They talk about the emotional toll of this work, the difficulty of holding in tears, and moments when they cry alongside patients.18:20 Dorothy raises the growing number of women who do not meet changing criteria for key programs and need entirely different solutions.18:55 Elizabeth describes families uprooting their lives to move into Harris County so they can qualify for Harris Health coverage.19:40 Dorothy notes some women feel forced to divorce to reduce household income enough to meet eligibility rules.20:20 They mention stopgap strategies like GoFundMe campaigns, cash-pay arrangements, and sliding-scale clinics that still remain expensive for women living paycheck to paycheck.21:20 Laura and Elizabeth share examples of women being asked for large deposits, including a $15,000 payment to begin chemotherapy.22:10 They discuss the complexity and length of application packets like the Harris Health form and why careful completion matters.22:40 Laura explains how nerves cause patients to make simple errors—wrong dates, missing boxes—that delay approval for months.23:30 They describe helping women who were diagnosed elsewhere but come to The Rose for help with Gold Card or other eligibility obstacles.24:10 Laura outlines how they review documents, join three-way calls with agencies, and clarify what paperwork is actually missing.24:50 Elizabeth explains why they personally deliver applications to eligibility centers instead of relying on patients who lack transportation or time.25:35 Dorothy reflects on her earlier belief that a diagnosis and pathology report would be enough, and how language and bureaucracy proved otherwise.26:20 She recalls that the realization of repeated denials and confusion led directly to creating the Patient Navigation to Treatment program.27:15 Elizabeth shares work with Rice University and Camp Kesem to connect children of cancer patients with supportive summer programs.28:10 Laura and Elizabeth list other resources they connect families to, including food banks, rent and utility help, medication support, gas cards, wigs, bras, prostheses, and comfort bags.29:20 Dorothy highlights the impact of donated quilts, heart pillows, and small items that remind women someone cares about them.30:00 Laura and Elizabeth admit that the work is overwhelming at times, especially when they cannot find a path to treatment for a particular woman.30:30 Dorothy closes by emphasizing that, for most uninsured patients, Laura and Elizabeth are the bridge to treatment and invites listeners to recognize and support this work. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    31 min

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The Rose Breast Center of Excellence presents Let's Talk About Your Breasts with Dorothy Gibbons. Each week, Dorothy hosts candid conversations with an array of people in the breast cancer community. From doctors and employees to donors and individuals who influence policy, you'll learn all there is to know about the disease which impacts so many women in our community.