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07/12/2019

S2E23 - Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Black Dating Life

In the first segment, Jenn and Daren explain what it is like to maintain a relationship with one polyamorous person and one monogamous person. In the second segment, they discuss polyamory’s progress through history and some of its most common misconceptions. In the Interview, Jenn and Daren chat with Jasmine and Mo Banks from the Parenting Is Political Podcast and dig into the roles polyamory has played in their lives. In the Reflection, Jenn, Daren, Jasmine, and Mo all share the messages that they believe are most important for people to take to heart. Article for reference: *One Epic Chart Proves There's No Right Way to Be in a Relationship - https://www.mic.com/articles/114110/one-epic-chart-proves-there-s-no-right-way-to-be-in-a-relationship *Mama's Baby, Papa's Maybe: An American Grammar Book(by Hortense J. Spillers) - http://havensarchive.lss.wisc.edu/files/Spillers-%20Mamas%20Baby%20Papas%20Maybe.pdf *My Gender is Black - https://afropunk.com/2017/07/my-gender-is-black/ *7 Poly Terms Everyone Should Know, Whether You're New To Polyamory Or Monogamous - https://www.bustle.com/articles/161962-7-poly-terms-everyone-should-know-whether-youre-new-to-polyamory-or-monogamous *Do Married Millennials Cheat on Each Other? - https://amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/588286/ *Multiple Lovers, Without Jealousy - https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/07/multiple-lovers-no-jealousy/374697/ www.ThatBlackCouple.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Twitter: www.twitter.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Stitcher: www.stitcher.com/podcast/that-black-couple Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/I7nue367hsfjdjbsyxed2tpeoca?t=That_Black_Couple_Podcast Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.

07/12/2019

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1h 9m
10/06/2020

S2E27 - The Entanglement Episode (or How We Do Polyamory)

In the first segment, Jenn and Daren recap how the term “entanglement” exploded over the summer and how it exposed people’s ignorance around polyamory. In the second segment, they unpack what an entanglement is, debunk its negative stereotypes, and show how polyamory is all about responsibility, open communication, respect, and ongoing commitment. In the third segment, Jenn and Daren reflect on how society shapes how we believe we should live our lives even though every societal norm is just made up. Articles for Reference: * #ThatBlackCouple Ep 23 - Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Black Dating Life - https://soundcloud.com/thatblackcouple/thatblackcouple-ep-23-open-relationships * A "timeline" of Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith's relationship news - https://www.vulture.com/2020/07/will-smith-jada-pinkett-smith-august-alsina-timeline.html * Red Table Talk S01E10 - Facing Addiction: Jada and Adrienne Share Their Family's Story - https://www.facebook.com/redtabletalk/videos/606246693108143/?sfnsn=mo * Red Table Talk S03E12 - Jada Brings Herself to the Table - https://www.facebook.com/redtabletalk/videos/718425758995043/?sfnsn=mo www.ThatBlackCouple.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Twitter: www.twitter.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Stitcher: www.stitcher.com/podcast/that-black-couple Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/I7nue367hsfjdjbsyxed2tpeoca?t=That_Black_Couple_Podcast Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.

10/06/2020

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1h 6m
12/23/2025

S8E10 - Building the World We Want for Ourselves

In the final episode of season 8, Jenn and Daren explore the relentless pursuit of dreams and the journey to fulfillment. They share their personal experiences of moving to Maryland, overcoming challenges, and ultimately finding happiness in their new life. Most importantly, they emphasize the importance of perseverance and the joy that comes from achieving one's goals, despite the difficulties faced along the way.

12/23/2025

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34 min
08/01/2020

S2E26 - Why We Aren't Rooting For Everybody Black

In the first segment, Jenn and Daren talk through why Kanye West’s and Terry Crews’ recent headline-making actions are proof that we shouldn’t root for everybody Black. In the second segment, they dive into a deep discussion on how Black Entertainment has largely not been held accountable for advancing Black narratives in TV. They also explain why it is important that we hold people like Kenya Barris and Issa Rae accountable for their art while not “canceling” them. In the third segment, Jenn and Daren reflect on how the “slowed and reverb” movement captures the importance of putting the highest level of care into Black art and how holding Black folx accountable is a way to show love for all of the Black people. Articles for Reference: * Kanye West's Presidential Bid Is a Reminder We All Deserve Care and Need Accountability https://www.teenvogue.com/story/kanye-west-presidential-bid-deserving-care-needing-accountability * Terry Crews's Family Comment Perpetuates Toxic Masculinity https://www.teenvogue.com/story/terry-crewss-family-comment-perpetuates-toxic-masculinity www.ThatBlackCouple.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Twitter: www.twitter.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Stitcher: www.stitcher.com/podcast/that-black-couple Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/I7nue367hsfjdjbsyxed2tpeoca?t=That_Black_Couple_Podcast Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.

08/01/2020

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1h 22m
04/25/2025

S8E1 - Reintroducing That Black Couple

In this 2-part episode, Jenn and Daren kick off Season 8 of That Black Couple Podcast with their first-ever video episode, allowing listeners to finally see their dynamic personalities in action. Join them for a heartfelt and humorous exploration of love, friendship, and the origins of That Black Couple. They reflect on their journey together, starting from their fateful meeting in the chicken line at the University of Southern California in 2002. They share the story of how they became best friends, navigating the challenges of college life while forming a deep bond. From trust falls to late-night video game sessions, they recount the moments that solidified their connection. They candidly discuss the complexities of their relationship, including the initial confusion and miscommunication that almost derailed their budding romance. Jenn and Daren emphasize the importance of authenticity in their relationship and how their shared experiences shaped them into the couple they are today. They tease the upcoming episodes that will delve deeper into their life together, including their move across the country and the adventures of parenting. Socials: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/coloredconvosmedia www.ThatBlackCouple.com Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ColoredConvosMedia FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Threads: www.Threads.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Apple Podcasts: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/id1284072220?mt=2 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2M7GIQlWxG05gGq0bpBwma?si=xSkjzK0BRJW51rjyl3DWvw Pandora: https://www.pandora.com/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/PC:1000149014 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/That-Black-Couple-Podcast/dp/B0C12M7Q34/ SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/thatblackcouple Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about being Black, Queer, Polyamourous, and Creative in an Anti-Black world. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.

04/25/2025

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22 min
05/26/2025

S8E4 - Celebrating 19 Years of Marriage

In this anniversary episode of That Black Couple, Jenn and Darren celebrate 19 years of marriage and 22 years of being together. They dive into the dynamics of their non-traditional relationship, discussing their unique identities as a monogamous person and a polyamorous person. The couple shares insights on communication, the importance of understanding one's own needs, and how to navigate love and relationships outside of societal norms. Join them as they reflect on their journey and provide valuable tips for anyone interested in exploring polyamory.

05/26/2025

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45 min
12/19/2019

S2E24 - Lizzo, Black Feminism, and Everything We've Missed in the Last 4 Months

In the first segment, Jenn and Daren explain where they've been for the last 4 months while the podcast has been on hiatus. In the second segment, they discuss some of the major topics they've missed during the hiatus. They cover new polyamorous developments, the roster of Democratic Presidential candidates, the recent race issues at Syracuse University, Cynthia Erivo's racist comments, how Black feminism didn't come from white women, and all things Lizzo. In the Reflection, Jenn and Daren talk through their plans for the remainder of the podcast's season and for the coming season 3. Article for reference: * I teach at Syracuse University. Racist acts on campus have left me scared, tired and more motivated than ever. - https://www.thelily.com/i-teach-at-syracuse-university-racist-acts-on-campus-have-left-me-scared-tired-and-more-motivated-than-ever/ * Cynthia Erivo Addresses Backlash Over 'Ghetto American Accent' Comments - https://www.complex.com/pop-culture/2019/10/cynthia-erivo-addresses-backlash-over-past-tweets-allegedly-mocking-black-americans * Lizzo Doesn't Care That You're Mad About Her Thong Dress - http://www.mtv.com/news/3148532/lizzo-thong-dress-lakers-game-reponse/ www.ThatBlackCouple.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Twitter: www.twitter.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Stitcher: www.stitcher.com/podcast/that-black-couple Google Play: play.google.com/music/m/I7nue367h…ck_Couple_Podcast Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.

12/19/2019

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1h 9m
08/30/2025

S8E7 - Moving Away From Toxic Relationships

In this episode, Dr. Jenn and Daren discuss the importance of moving away from toxic relationships in various aspects of life, including friendships, family, and work. They explore how personal growth can lead to the end of certain relationships and emphasize the need for accountability, boundaries, and self-worth in maintaining healthy connections. The conversation highlights the signs of toxicity and the necessity of demanding better treatment from others.

08/30/2025

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39 min
10/31/2020

S2E28 - That (Queer) Black Couple: Gender Fluidity and Asexuality

In the first segment, Jenn and Daren talk through how the COVID-19 pandemic has been an opportunity for self-exploration and the start of new ventures. In the second segment, they discuss how they discovered their own sexual (asexual) and gender (gender fluid/genderqueer) identities and what those identities mean. In the third segment, Jenn and Daren reflect on how asexuality and gender fluidity/genderqueerness have shown up in their lives from childhood to present and why it is important to hold space for the full spectrum of identities people may have. Articles for Reference: * Asexuality Spectrum - https://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/119238-a-list-of-romantic-orientation * What's the Difference Between Non-Binary, Genderqueer, and Gender-Nonconforming? - https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/wjwx8m/whats-the-difference-between-non-binary-genderqueer-and-gender-nonconforming www.ThatBlackCouple.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Twitter: www.twitter.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Stitcher: www.stitcher.com/podcast/that-black-couple Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cDovL2ZlZWRzLnNvdW5kY2xvdWQuY29tL3VzZXJzL3NvdW5kY2xvdWQ6dXNlcnM6Mjc2MDExMzcwL3NvdW5kcy5yc3M?sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiLy9SxzN_sAhU6n3IEHUBdCgcQ9sEGegQIARAD Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.

10/31/2020

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50 min
09/30/2017

S1E6 - The Problem With #RelationshipGoals

In the first segment, Jenn and Daren discuss the "Black Love Documentary" that recently aired on OWN. They talk about the couples they loved, the ones they didn't, and the depictions of Black love that they hope are represented in the next season. In the second segment, they talk through why #RelationshipGoals is damaging and problematic both for those who are described with the term as well as those who use it to describe others. In the third segment, Jenn and Daren share personal stories of how #RelationshipGoals have been misapplied and how no one should aspire to have the relationship they have. Articles for reference: * CDC: Half Of All Female Homicide Victims Are Killed By Intimate Partners http://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2017/07/21/538518569/cdc-half-of-all-female-murder-victims-are-killed-by-intimate-partners *CDC: Half Of All Female Homicide Victims Are Killed By Intimate Partners http://watercoolerconvos.com/2016/08/04/the-demand-for-submission-is-literally-killing-black-women-in-the-united-states/ * How Jay-Z’s ‘4:44’ moment made me reassess my 4:45 http://watercoolerconvos.com/2017/07/20/looking-beyond-jay-z-444/ www.ThatBlackCouple.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Twitter: www.twitter.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Stitcher: www.stitcher.com/podcast/that-black-couple Google Play: play.google.com/music/listen?t%3D…fjdjbsyxed2tpeoca Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.

09/30/2017

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1h 5m

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