The Human Intimacy Podcast

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Intimacy is a fundamental human experience that goes far beyond romantic relationships. Join us as we dive into the deep and multifaceted layers of human connection, exploring everything from friendship and family bonds to self-love and vulnerability. Through thought-provoking conversations with experts, personal stories, and practical advice, we’ll uncover the secrets to nurturing meaningful relationships in a fast-paced digital world. From exploring trust and fostering emotional intimacy to navigating conflicts and rediscovering oneself, we’re here to discover the essence of what it means to truly connect with others and ourselves. Whether you’re seeking to improve your relationships, gain insights into human behaviors, or simply crave a meaningful conversation that enriches your understanding of human connection, you won’t want to miss a single episode of The Human Intimacy Podcast.

  1. 2D AGO

    Spiritual Intimacy: Being Seen, Sharing Meaning, and Deepening Connection (Episode #104)

    Spiritual Intimacy: Being Seen, Sharing Meaning, and Deepening Connection In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore the often-misunderstood concept of spiritual intimacy. Moving beyond narrow definitions of religion, they discuss spirituality as a deeply human experience—how we make meaning, experience stillness, share vulnerability, and feel connected to something greater than ourselves. Through personal stories, cross-cultural insights, and reflections on nature, trauma, loss, healing, and disclosure, this conversation highlights how spiritual intimacy can exist in marriages, families, friendships, and even therapeutic spaces. The episode also addresses spiritual wounding, attachment injuries related to faith, and how creating safety allows partners to share their deepest beliefs, doubts, and experiences. Ultimately, this discussion invites listeners to slow down, reflect on their own spiritual story, and consider how allowing themselves to be fully seen—without judgment—can lead to profound bonding and connection. 📚 Resources Mentioned Unbroken – Laura Hillenbrand The Betrayal Bond – Patrick Carnes The Art of Confession – Exploring confession and disclosure across spiritual traditions Mindful eye-contact meditation for couples (used in intensives) Impact Letters, Disclosure, and Emotional Restitution as sacred relational moments Reflective exercise: Writing your personal spiritual narrative 📅 Upcoming Event: Human Intimacy Conference Join Dr. Kevin Skinner and leading experts for the Second Annual Human Intimacy Conference, focused on healing from sexual betrayal, trauma recovery, and rebuilding connection in relationships. 🗓 Dates: March 13–14 🌐 Register here: 👉 https://bit.ly/humanintimacy 💸 Coupon Code: 30off Use this code at checkout to receive 30% off your registration.

    27 min

  2. JAN 28

    Creative & Intellectual Intimacy: Growing, Playing, and Building Meaning Together (Episode #103)

    Creative & Intellectual Intimacy: Growing, Playing, and Building Meaning Together Episode Summary In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore creative and intellectual intimacy—two often overlooked but deeply powerful ways couples build connection, trust, and shared meaning. Rather than viewing intimacy as a checklist or a linear process, they describe it as a living, dynamic experience—one that ebbs and flows through shared ideas, curiosity, problem-solving, creativity, play, and growth. Through personal stories—reading books aloud early in marriage, building businesses, learning to dance, creating art, and dreaming about the future—they illustrate how couples grow closer when they think, create, and imagine together. The conversation also highlights how intellectual intimacy becomes a meaningful trust-builder, especially after betrayal, when partners begin sharing what they are learning, how they are changing, and what is happening in their inner world. When paired with creativity—planning, building, playing, or envisioning something together—these forms of intimacy foster bonding, growth, and renewed joy in the relationship. Listeners are invited to reflect on a simple but transformative question: Are we growing together—or have we stopped creating and learning side by side? For those who want to deepen these conversations and continue growing together, Dr. Skinner and MaryAnn invite listeners to the Second Annual Human Intimacy Conference (March 13–14). The conference brings together leading voices in healing, intimacy repair, grief, sexual reintegration, and relationship growth—and offers couples a powerful opportunity to learn together, reflect together, and strengthen both intellectual and creative intimacy. 🎟 Register here and receive 40% off for a limited time: 👉 Coupon Code: 40off https://humanintimacy.zohobackstage.com/HumanIntimacy2ndAnnualConference#/

    28 min

  3. JAN 21

    Verbal & Emotional Intimacy: Using Your Voice to Create Deeper Connection (Episode #102)

    Verbal & Emotional Intimacy: Using Your Voice to Create Deeper Connection Episode Summary In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and Maryanne Michaelis continue their exploration of intimacy by focusing on verbal and emotional intimacy. They discuss how curiosity, vulnerability, and emotional expression create deeper connection—while assumptions, fear, and unspoken emotions quietly erode it. Through personal stories, clinical insight, and practical examples, they show how verbal intimacy often opens the door to emotional intimacy—and how safe, intentional communication strengthens relationships with partners, children, and community. The episode also addresses why intimacy can feel unsafe after trauma or betrayal and how to begin rebuilding connection in healthy, realistic ways. Key Topics Covered The connection between verbal intimacy and emotional intimacy Why curiosity (“Tell me more”) deepens connection How assumptions block intimacy—even in long-term relationships Using “I feel” statements instead of blame or shame Emotional safety, boundaries, and timing in disclosure The role of community in helping people find words after trauma Applying intimacy skills in parenting and everyday relationships Understanding inner circles of trust and emotional access Notable Concepts Referenced Psychological safety as the foundation for intimacy Mirror neurons and emotional attunement Self-disclosure vs. emotional flooding Differentiation in relationships Trauma-informed communication The healing power of shared experience and community 🌟 Upcoming Event: Second Annual Human Intimacy Conference The themes discussed in this episode—connection, vulnerability, emotional safety, and repair—will be explored in depth at the upcoming Human Intimacy Conference. 📅 March 13–14 📍 Online | Mountain Time This two-day conference is designed for individuals and couples seeking healing and deeper connection after betrayal. It includes: Separate individual and couples tracks Live and recorded expert presentations Trauma-informed yoga sessions On-demand access to all recordings Bonus access to last year’s full conference recordings 🎟️ Special Discount: Use coupon code 40OFF to receive 40% off registration (Valid through the end of January) 🔗 Register here: https://humanintimacy.zohobackstage.com/HumanIntimacy2ndAnnualConference#/ Listener Reflection Questions Who in my life feels safe enough for deeper verbal and emotional intimacy? Where do I assume instead of asking curious, open questions? What emotions have I been holding inside that may need safe expression? Closing Thought Verbal and emotional intimacy grow when we show up, stay curious, and speak honestly—without blame or assumption. Intimacy isn’t about perfect words; it’s about presence, safety, and the courage to be seen.

    34 min

  4. JAN 14

    Psychological Intimacy: The Foundation of Trust, Safety, and Healing After Betrayal (Episode #101)

    Psychological Intimacy: The Foundation of Trust, Safety, and Healing After Betrayal In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis take a deeper dive into the seven types of intimacy, focusing specifically on psychological intimacy as the foundation of all connection. They explore how honesty, trust, loyalty, and commitment are disrupted by betrayal—and why secrecy and deception, more than behaviors alone, create trauma. The discussion highlights how vulnerability, accountability, and repair rebuild safety over time, especially in relationships impacted by betrayal trauma. This episode offers clarity, compassion, and practical insight for couples navigating healing and reconnection. Resources Relationship Intimacy Test & Intimacy Pyramid Free assessment and companion materials HumanIntimacy.com → Free Courses → Companionship Course Reclaim: Healing from Pornography and Rebuilding Your Life Podcast and course for individuals seeking recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors Available at HumanIntimacy.com Rise: Hope & Healing After Sexual Betrayal Podcast and course created specifically for betrayed partners Available at HumanIntimacy.com Human Intimacy Conference – March 13–14, 2026 Online conference featuring leading experts on individual healing, recovery, and relationship repair Registration link: 2nd Annual Human Intimacy Conference 2026 Use 40off to get 40% off your registration

    33 min

  5. JAN 7

    The 7 Types of Intimacy: Reclaiming Connection in a Disconnected World (Episode #100)

    The 7 Types of Intimacy: Reclaiming Connection in a Disconnected World Episode Summary In this milestone 100th episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis reflect on two years of conversations—and over 50,000 downloads—by returning to the very heart of their work: human intimacy. This episode introduces Dr. Skinner’s Intimacy Triangle (or Pyramid), a framework he developed more than 20 years ago to help individuals and couples understand that intimacy is far more than sex. Instead, deep, lasting connection is built from the ground up through seven distinct but interconnected forms of intimacy: Psychological Intimacy – the foundation of safety built on trust, honesty, loyalty, and commitment Verbal Intimacy – sharing information and everyday experiences Emotional Intimacy – expressing feelings, fears, hopes, and vulnerabilities Cognitive / Intellectual Intimacy – engaging ideas, beliefs, and curiosity together Creative Intimacy – bonding through shared projects and co-creation Spiritual Intimacy – connection that transcends words, often felt in shared meaning, values, or sacred moments Physical / Sexual Intimacy – the natural expression that emerges when the other layers are present Dr. Skinner and MaryAnn explore how modern culture often reverses this order—placing sexual intimacy at the foundation—and how this inversion contributes to loneliness, disconnection, and relational distress. When intimacy is rebuilt from the bottom up, relationships become safer, deeper, and more resilient. This episode also sets the stage for upcoming conversations that will break down each layer of intimacy in depth, offering listeners practical tools for healing, repair, and growth. Key Takeaways Intimacy is multidimensional, not synonymous with sex Psychological safety is the cornerstone of all healthy connection Skipping layers of intimacy leads to counterfeit connection and deeper loneliness When intimacy is repaired holistically, emotional and physical closeness naturally follow Strong relationships are foundational to mental health, resilience, and well-being Resources Mentioned Free Human Intimacy Podcast Companion Course Includes: The Intimacy Triangle / Pyramid A self-scoring intimacy reflection tool The Relationship Intimacy Test 👉 Available at HumanIntimacy.com Book: Rebuild Your Relationship After Sexual Betrayal by Dr. Kevin Skinner (Includes access to the Relationship Intimacy Test) Upcoming Event Dr. Skinner will be offering an in-depth two-hour training for couples on the Intimacy Repair Method at the upcoming conference: 🌿 2nd Annual Human Intimacy Conference Dates: March 2025 What to Expect: Expert presentations Live Q&A Practical tools for rebuilding intimacy after betrayal Deep dives into connection, safety, and repair 🔗 Register here: https://humanintimacy.zohobackstage.com/HumanIntimacy2ndAnnualConference#/ If you’re beginning a new year with a desire for deeper connection, healing, and meaningful relationships, this episode offers both a powerful framework and a hopeful path forward.

    27 min

  6. 12/31/2025

    Nine Simple Practices That Strengthen Relationships (Episode #99)

    Nine Simple Practices That Strengthen Relationships Summary In Episode #99 of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis celebrate their 99th episode by sharing nine powerful practices couples can use to strengthen connection, deepen trust, and build meaningful intimacy. Each principle is grounded in years of clinical experience, neuroscience, and relationship research—while remaining practical and accessible for real-life relationships. Together they explore why emotional safety is the foundation of all connection, the importance of ownership over blame, and how consistent attunement builds emotional closeness. They emphasize spending intentional time together, rebuilding trust through small daily actions, learning to emotionally regulate before communicating, and facing—not avoiding—conflict. They also highlight how positive relational interactions nurture bonding and why dreaming and planning for the future together creates shared hope and purpose. Listeners are encouraged to start small, picking one area to work on, knowing that meaningful relationships are built one intentional step at a time. Key References & Influences These concepts draw from established research and recognized thought leaders in relationships, trauma, emotional regulation, and neurobiology: Polyvagal Theory & Safety Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. Emotional Attunement & Attachment Siegel, D. J. (2010). The Mindful Therapist: A Clinician’s Guide to Mindsight and Neural Integration. Trust and Relationship Repair Gottman, J. & Silver, N. (2015). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Gottman, J. (2011). What Makes Love Last? Ownership vs. Blame / Emotional Responsibility Brown, B. (2015). Rising Strong. Conflict Resolution & The Zeigarnik Effect Zeigarnik, B. (1927). On Finished and Unfinished Tasks. Psychologische Forschung. Hope & Future Orientation Seligman, M. (2018). The Hope Circuit: A Psychologist’s Journey from Helplessness to Optimism. Trauma, Safety & Human Connection van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score. Conference Invitation If you’re ready to go deeper in strengthening your relationship, we invite you to join us at the Human Intimacy 2nd Annual Conference. Use coupon code 50off to receive 50% off registration (limited time): https://humanintimacy.zohobackstage.com/HumanIntimacy2ndAnnualConference#/   Online Supplemental Course: (It’s Free) The Human Intimacy Companion Course

    37 min

  7. 12/24/2025

    The Gift of Your Presence: Why Showing Up Matters More Than You Think (Episode #98)

    The Gift of Your Presence: Why Showing Up Matters More Than You Think In this heartfelt Human Intimacy Podcast episode, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore the powerful impact of truly being present in the lives of the people we love. During a season filled with busyness, distraction, and endless to-do lists, they invite listeners to slow down and consider the deeper message presence communicates: You matter. I see you. I care. Through meaningful personal stories—celebrations, graduations, family milestones, healing conversations, and everyday moments—Kevin and MaryAnn reflect on how presence fosters connection, emotional safety, belonging, and joy. They also discuss how curiosity, vulnerability, emotional attunement, and reducing distraction can transform relationships, reduce loneliness, and nurture human intimacy. Listeners are encouraged to offer the gift of presence intentionally this season: celebrate others’ wins, sit with them in pain, express appreciation, forgive where needed, and take time to let people feel seen and “felt.” Because when we show up, we don’t just fill space—we change hearts, regulate nervous systems, strengthen bonds, and remind each other we are not alone. Resources & Links Human Intimacy Conference — March 13–14, 2026 Join leading experts including Dr. Jill Manning, Dr. Karen Strange, and others for two powerful days of learning, healing, and connection. Includes pre-conference Q&A with experts and full session recordings. 👉 Register here: https://humanintimacy.zohobackstage.com/HumanIntimacy2ndAnnualConference#/ Use Coupon Code: 50off for 50% off (valid through December 31) Human Intimacy Courses & Online Programs Explore courses to support healing from betrayal, emotional regulation, rebuilding intimacy, and relationship connection. 👉 https://www.humanintimacy.com Referenced Concepts / Recommended Reading Dan Siegel — Feeling Felt & Interpersonal Neurobiology Irving Yalom — Presence and relational connection Research on loneliness as a public health concern and the power of human connection

    24 min

  8. 12/17/2025

    The Stories We Tell Ourselves: How Meaning, Shame, and Assumptions Shape Our Relationships (Episode #97)

    The Stories We Tell Ourselves: How Meaning, Shame, and Assumptions Shape Our Relationships Summary In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and licensed clinical social worker Marianne Michaelis explore the powerful—and often invisible—stories we tell ourselves about who we are and how others see us. Even when people share the same experience, their interpretations can be radically different, shaped by past wounds, shame, fear, and unmet needs. Through clinical examples, personal stories, and everyday moments of misunderstanding, they unpack how the brain naturally fills in gaps to create meaning—and how those meanings can quietly dictate our emotions, reactions, and relationships. The conversation highlights common shame-based narratives such as “I’m too much,” “I’m not enough,”or “I don’t matter,” and how these stories become internalized as truth over time. Dr. Skinner and Marianne emphasize the importance of awareness, fact-checking, emotional ownership, and curiosity—both toward ourselves and others. Healing begins when we slow down, speak our stories in safe places, challenge old assumptions, and allow compassion to replace judgment. The episode closes with an invitation to approach others—and ourselves—with deeper curiosity, asking not “What’s wrong?” but “What’s the story?” Resources & References Skinner, K. – Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal Tutu, D. & Tutu, M. – The Book of Forgiveness Brown, B. – I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn’t) Siegel, D. – Mindsight Human Intimacy Podcast – Episode on Emotional Ownership Journaling as a tool for emotional processing and self-reflection Concepts referenced: Shame narratives Emotional ownership Fact-checking internal stories Fight-or-flight responses and meaning-making Compassion vs. judgment The Human Intimacy 2nd Annual Conference (discount 50% off Coupon Code = 50off

    31 min
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Intimacy is a fundamental human experience that goes far beyond romantic relationships. Join us as we dive into the deep and multifaceted layers of human connection, exploring everything from friendship and family bonds to self-love and vulnerability. Through thought-provoking conversations with experts, personal stories, and practical advice, we’ll uncover the secrets to nurturing meaningful relationships in a fast-paced digital world. From exploring trust and fostering emotional intimacy to navigating conflicts and rediscovering oneself, we’re here to discover the essence of what it means to truly connect with others and ourselves. Whether you’re seeking to improve your relationships, gain insights into human behaviors, or simply crave a meaningful conversation that enriches your understanding of human connection, you won’t want to miss a single episode of The Human Intimacy Podcast.

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