Faith Jenkins

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  1. Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Person (And How to Finally Stop) | Faith Jenkins

    May 22

    Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Person (And How to Finally Stop) | Faith Jenkins

    Most people learn how to love the hard way. What if you didn't have to? Faith Jenkins is a TV judge who has presided over more divorce cases than most people will ever witness in a lifetime. She has also been through roughly 10 serious relationships of her own, waited until 42 to marry, and did both pre-engagement and premarital counseling before saying yes. She knows this terrain from every angle. What she learned will shift the way you think about every relationship you are in or hoping to find. The true measure of someone is not who they are when things are going great. It is who they are under pressure. Pain is inevitable, she says. Suffering is optional. You cannot be cynical about love and expect to attract it at the same time. That single idea might change everything. Somewhere between the heartbreak and the closed doors is the version of you who is finally ready, and that is the person your partner actually gets to meet. Faith married the right person six months after writing down that she would. She did not fight the breakup that made space for him. She radically accepted it, let it go, and stepped into the biggest open door of her life. Faith’s book: Sis, Don't Settle: How to Stay Smart in Matters of the Heart Faith’s website Faith on YouTube Faith on Instagram In this episode you will: Understand why emotional maturity, not chemistry, is what separates a healthy ending from a destructive one Learn Faith's practice of radical acceptance and how separating your feelings from the facts protects your peace through breakups Discover why doing pre-engagement counseling before getting engaged gives you real clarity on alignment before pressure sets in Recognize the hidden reasons so many people settle, from fear of loneliness to past experiences that erode self-worth Apply Faith's approach to staying open to love after betrayal, and how reframing your past protects your future partner from paying for it For more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1931 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Follow The Daily Motivation for essential highlights from The School of Greatness More SOG episodes we think you’ll love: Lewis Howes Solo [Find The PERFECT Relationship] Esther Perel Matthew Hussey TOPICS Faith Jenkins, Sis Don't Settle, emotional maturity, radical acceptance, red flags in relationships, divorce and marriage lessons, love languages, pre-engagement counseling, heartbreak recovery, choosing love consciously Get More From Lewis! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 16m
  2. The Orange Squeeze: What Comes Out Under Pressure Is What's Inside | Faith Jenkins

    May 29

    The Orange Squeeze: What Comes Out Under Pressure Is What's Inside | Faith Jenkins

    Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1931DM Faith Jenkins is a divorce attorney who's seen it all, and she says the courtroom strips people down to what they're really made of. Her analogy is simple. Squeeze an orange and you get orange juice. Every time. Doesn't matter if it's cold or hot, stressed or comfortable. What's inside is what comes out. The same is true for people in divorce. She waited until 42 to get married. Watched her own parents split when she was 13. And at 21, went full CSI on a boyfriend's Manhattan apartment because she knew something was off. She's lived all sides of this. And what she'll tell you is that walking away from someone you love doesn't have to be destructive. It takes one thing most people are still working on: emotional maturity. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Topics divorce lessons, emotional maturity, relationship character, breakup behavior, Faith Jenkins, walking away with peace, how to end a relationship, love and divorce, character under pressure, self-awareness in relationships Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    7 min
  3. The 8 Steps To REALLY Be A High-Value Woman NOBODY SHARES! | Lisa Bilyeu

    08/10/2022

    The 8 Steps To REALLY Be A High-Value Woman NOBODY SHARES! | Lisa Bilyeu

    Has being a people-pleaser become part of your identity? Are you the person everyone knows they can rely on when they need something? Feeling like you're stuck in a rut and lacking the confidence you need to go after what you want isn’t serving you. In fact it’s leaving you feeling more like a low-value add in every relationship and situation you find yourself in. News flash homie! We are all high value! Lisa’s about to break down 8 traits of a high value woman and give you the boost and motivation you need to tap into your high value super power. Join Lisa and these amazing women to see how you can increase your value today! Sara Jakes Roberts is a woman of faith and the bestselling author of Woman Evolve. Her episode is absolute fire and will leave speechless in tears. Check out her full episode here: https://youtu.be/IbriO6QIxoU Elle Russ is a bestselling author, master coach and badass when it comes to women’s confidence You can catch her full episode on confidence and find out her superpower here: https://youtu.be/c5J8vR0fwzc Chalene Johnson is not only an entrepreneur, fitness coach and business coach she’s a fighter that proved herself to be a high value woman against the odds. You can checkout her inspiring full conversation with Lisa here: https://youtu.be/yn0GgM4wguI Faith Jenkins is an attorney, Divorce Court TV Judge, entrepreneur and bestselling author of the book, Sis Don’t Settle. In her episode with Lisa she really unpacked what it meant for her to be single as her option and something with her power, watch the full conversation here: https://youtu.be/zgmQHz0OqCE SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to High Value Woman 0:24 | A High Value Woman Doesn’t Need A Man 5:59 | A High Value Woman Has Self-Esteem 15:33 | A High Value Woman Has a Growth Mindset 17:34 | A High Value Woman Has a Self-Care Routine 25:47 | A High Value Woman Has Standards 31:40 | A High Value Woman Has Ambitious Goals 34:36 | A High Value Woman Celebrates Her Achievements 37:08 | A High Value Woman Listens to Her Intuition Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1 hr
  4. I Won't Settle (Guest: Faith Jenkins)

    12/14/2022

    I Won't Settle (Guest: Faith Jenkins)

    Have you ever been tempted to rent-a-boo to accompany you to the family holiday dinner? Are you tired of the intrusive question, "Why are you not married?" Best-selling author, Faith Jenkins, penned the pain of singleness yet gives you hope in her transformative book "Sis, Don't Settle". She joins the yellow couch for a convo titled, "I Won't Settle". Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifey See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 6m
  5. Why Most Relationships FAIL & How To Find A High Value Partner w/Faith Jenkins EP 1221

    01/28/2022

    Why Most Relationships FAIL & How To Find A High Value Partner w/Faith Jenkins EP 1221

    Today’s guest is Faith Jenkins. She started her law career as a litigator in a New York City law firm before becoming an assistant district attorney prosecuting criminals in Manhattan. Over the last decade, she’s been the host of shows such as Judge Faith and the popular series Divorce Court, which focuses on helping couples resolve personal and legal disputes. She’s written a new book called Sis, Don’t Settle: How to Stay Smart in Matters of the Heart. In this episode we discuss how to not settle in your relationships, how to have emotional maturity in your relationships, the subtle red flags that most people miss when finding a partner, the biggest reasons marriages fail, the keys to look out for in a high value partner and so much more! For more go to: www.lewishowes.com/1221 Check out Faith's book: Sis, Don't Settle The Power of Erotic Intelligence with Esther Perel: https://link.chtbl.com/732-pod Find Lasting Love with Matthew Hussey: https://link.chtbl.com/811-pod   Get More From Lewis! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 19m
  6. The 3 Critical Building Blocks of All Life-Long Relationships EP 1475

    07/28/2023

    The 3 Critical Building Blocks of All Life-Long Relationships EP 1475

    The Summit of Greatness is back! Buy your tickets today – summitofgreatness.com –  Esther Perel will help you understand why relationships are hard for some people in business or with an intimate partner, the different ways to make a relationship work, and how to manage distressed relationships. It’s an incredible interview packed with valuable insights. Faith Jenkins discusses how to not settle in your relationships, how to have emotional maturity in your relationships and why this is so key. She also identifies the subtle red flags that most people miss when finding a partner, the biggest reasons that marriages fail today, and the key things to look out for in a high-value partner. Matthew Hussey is a speaker, New York Times Bestselling author, columnist for Cosmopolitan Magazine, and dating expert on ABC’s digital series What To Text Him Back. His corporate clients include Hugo Boss, The Perfume Shop, Virgin Gyms, Procter & Gamble, Bare Escentuals, U.S. legal giant Weil Gotshal & Manges, and global management consultants Accenture. 50,000+ men and women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. In this episode you will learn, About “activation energy” and why things like Tinder destroy itWhy space is important in all healthy relationships and how to use it strategicallyThe four stages of all relationshipsThe first step you can do to get out today and attract a healthy relationshipHow to have emotional maturity in your relationshipsFor more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1474 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Esther Perel’s full episode: https://link.chtbl.com/1291-pod Faith Jenkins’ full episode: https://link.chtbl.com/1221-pod Matthew Hussey’s full episode: lewishowes.com/944 Get More From Lewis! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    56 min
  7. 3 Keys To Thrive In Your Relationships | Faith Jenkins EP 249

    05/14/2023

    3 Keys To Thrive In Your Relationships | Faith Jenkins EP 249

    http://www.lewishowes.com/mindset2023 - Order a copy of my new book The Greatness Mindset today!   Faith Jenkins shares 3 keys steps to build a healthy, thriving relationship, and why teamwork is so critical in a long term relationship.   Check out the full episode: http://www.lewishowes.com/1221-pod    Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter

    6 min
  8. The Top 3 Mistakes That Destroy Relationships—From a Divorce Judge Who’s Seen It All | Faith Jenkins (Fan Fav)

    06/30/2025

    The Top 3 Mistakes That Destroy Relationships—From a Divorce Judge Who’s Seen It All | Faith Jenkins (Fan Fav)

    This is a Fan Fav episode. Faith Jenkins—celebrated attorney, former Manhattan prosecutor, and current host of Divorce Court and Killer Relationships—joins me for one of the most powerful conversations we’ve ever had about love, relationships, and why so many seemingly solid unions unravel. Faith lays it all out: the hidden issues from our past that quietly sabotage our relationships, the role of resentment and unspoken expectations, and how the external pressure to “just pick someone” can land you in heartache—or worse. With deep candor about her own 20-year journey as a single woman, Faith reveals the self-work, boundaries, and radical honesty required to not only find love but to build a relationship that actually lasts. From the dangers of settling to the critical importance of therapy and emotional maturity, Faith shares the blueprint behind her new book, Sis, Don’t Settle. This episode is a masterclass in learning to love yourself first, embrace rejection without losing your self-worth, and choosing a partner who adds to your happiness instead of completing it. If you want to break cycles of heartbreak and step boldly into lasting, authentic love, this is the conversation you’ve been waiting for. SHOWNOTES 00:00 – You can be the total package at the wrong address: Why singleness isn’t a defect 01:16 – The real roots of breakups and divorce: People don’t have relationship problems, they bring personal problems into relationships 05:50 – Bringing happiness to your ever after: Why you must own your own joy before seeking a partner 08:44 – The three choices in dating: Accept, reject kindly, or (don’t!) try to rebuild someone 11:53 – Resentment: The silent destroyer of love and how ignoring red flags leads to disaster 15:47 – The cost of staying too long: Why “choosing history over happiness” keeps you trapped 18:56 – Are you both committed to the same commitment? The (often unasked) question that saves relationships 24:45 – Faith’s journey to love after 40: Letting go of cynicism and writing her own “love manifesto” 36:48 – The danger zone: How external pressure and timelines push women to settle 46:17 – Doing your due diligence: Why Faith went to therapy before saying yes to forever FOLLOW FAITH JENKINS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/judgefaithjenkinsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/JudgeFaithJenkinsTwitter: https://twitter.com/FaithJenkinsEsq CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    52 min
  9. Embracing Your Single Season: 6 Ways To Do It Up! | Faith Jenkins PT 2

    11/09/2023

    Embracing Your Single Season: 6 Ways To Do It Up! | Faith Jenkins PT 2

    What up homies and welcome back for part 2 of this power-packed episode with Faith Jenkins - who is spilling the tea and taking us through the 6 lessons she’s learned to master the single life. First things first! Being single is a choice not a prison sentence, and when you live your life with intention and being everything you want to be, settling for a pulse just to shut everyone up is not an option (not when you’re part of the Women of Impact community of super empowered women). Faith Jenkins is about to share proven tips for doing the single life well no matter what stage of single you're at (actually it’s more like 6 secrets that are no longer secret, but they are life changing). The pot of priceless lessons for mastering the art of being single continues now… Welcome to Women of Impact - where being single is celebrated, not single-shamed, and while you’re here check out the 6 Steps to Master Your Single Soulmate Journey with Faith Jenkins: https://sisdontsettle.thinkific.com/courses/sis-dont-settle-six-steps-to-master-the-single-to-soulmate-journey  Follow Faith Jenkins: Website: https://judgefaithjenkins.com/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JudgeFaith  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/judgefaithjenkins/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/judgefaithtv   SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    48 min
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