Inchstones with Sarah | Autism Parenting & Neurodiversity Insights

Sarah Kernion | Profound Autism Mom and Advocate for Neurodiversity
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Autism, neurodiversity, and parenting come together on Inchstones, where we illuminate the real lives of profound autism mothers and caregivers.

  1. Autism Parenting and Travel: Real Strategies, Inclusion, and Caleb’s Courageous Travels

    6D AGO

    Autism Parenting and Travel: Real Strategies, Inclusion, and Caleb’s Courageous Travels

    Autism parenting often changes what families believe is possible—especially when it comes to travel. In this episode of the Inchstones Podcast, Sarah Kernion speaks with Jennifer Wallace of Caleb’s Courageous Travels about navigating travel with autism. They discuss autism travel tips, sensory considerations, preparation strategies, and how community support can make travel more accessible. This conversation is grounded in real experience and offers practical guidance for families raising children with autism, including those with nonspeaking autism. Travel may look different, but with the right preparation and mindset, it can still be meaningful. Find Jen & Caleb and their travels on INSTAGRAM: @calebscourageoustravels Chapters (00:00:00) - Caleb's Courageous Travels: On Autism Moms(00:03:08) - How to Prepare for a Trip With a Neurotypical Child(00:05:37) - How Have You Been Affected by Autism Travel?(00:10:17) - How to travel with an Autism Child on an Airplane(00:16:05) - Traveling with autism is a challenge(00:18:35) - Caleb's courageous travels inspire autism moms(00:21:47) - Believing in Your Child(00:25:47) - This Mom's Journey to the World With Autism

    27 min
  2. Autism Parenting and the Nervous System: Why Change Starts with Us with Sara Intonato

    MAR 26

    Autism Parenting and the Nervous System: Why Change Starts with Us with Sara Intonato

    Autism parenting often challenges not just what parents do—but how they think, regulate, and respond. In this conversation, Sarah Kernion speaks with Sara Intonato about the internal shifts required to support a child with autism, particularly in the context of nonspeaking autism and emerging communication methods like open spelling. At the center of the discussion is self-regulation. The nervous system of the parent becomes part of the environment the child experiences, shaping engagement, connection, and communication. Rather than focusing only on external interventions, this conversation reframes change as something that begins within the caregiver. Sara shares her journey parenting her son Rocco, highlighting the role of community support, the emotional discomfort that often accompanies growth, and the moment parents realize they cannot return to previous assumptions. The dialogue also explores the tension between accepting “that’s just autism” and remaining open to possibility—without losing grounding or discernment. This episode positions autism parenting as both an external and internal process: one where advocacy, communication, and personal growth intersect. Through caregiver stories and lived experience, it emphasizes that parents are not passive participants—they are active change makers in shaping their child’s environment and future. JOIN AUTISM CHANGEMAKERS WITH SARA INTONATO HERE: https://www.skool.com/autismchangemakers/about Chapters (00:00:00) - Sarah Antonato on Autism Change Makers(00:00:43) - Sarah Antonado on Healing for Autism Parents(00:05:47) - Autism Change makers: The Journey(00:11:40) - Nervous System Awareness(00:18:11) - Sarah on Parenting with Autism(00:21:55) - The Surprising Truth of Healing Your(00:25:31) - Open Spellers: The Work of Parents(00:29:43) - Autism Changemakers: Thank You!

    34 min
  3. Autism Parenting Isn’t Linear: The OODA Loop, Orientation, and Reality

    MAR 24

    Autism Parenting Isn’t Linear: The OODA Loop, Orientation, and Reality

    Autism parenting often forces a complete reorientation of how life is understood, planned, and experienced. In this conversation, Sarah Kernion and Alex Vohr explore the OODA loop—Observe, Orient, Decide, Act—not as a military concept, but as a framework for navigating the complexity of special needs parenting. At the center of the discussion is orientation: the lens through which parents interpret reality. When a child’s development diverges from expected paths, preconceived models of parenting no longer hold. What replaces them is a continuous process of adaptation, where feedback, engagement, and lived experience reshape how decisions are made. The conversation connects complexity theory with motherhood, highlighting how incremental progress—inchstones—becomes the true measure of growth. Radical acceptance emerges not as resignation, but as a strategic shift that allows parents to update their orientation and move forward with clarity. Drawing from military strategy and real-life caregiving, this episode reframes autism parenting as an adaptive system—one that requires constant engagement, flexibility, and the willingness to evolve. SPEED KILLS (Amazon) SPEED KILLS (Digital) Alex Vohr is a retired United States Marine Corps veteran who served 25 years, including multiple combat campaigns and humanitarian relief operations. Since retiring from the Marine Corps, Alex has worked in commercial industry as the Assistant Vice President of Operations at the Florida East Coast Railway, the Vice President of Logistics at New Fortress Energy, Vice President for Government Affairs at Trailer Bridge and is currently the President of OneLNG. In addition to his primary logistics specialty, Alex is a defense acquisition professional, a military planner, and an educator. He served as the Director for the School of Advanced Warfighting, a graduate-level curriculum focused on planning and decision-making in war. Alex holds three advanced degrees, his most recent in strategic studies from the Marine Corps War College. He has authored articles on Leadership, Disaster Relief, and decision-making in the Marine Corps Gazette and in Military Review. Alex resides in Florida with his wife, Susan, and they have three children.

    32 min
  4. Severe Autism, Caregiving, and the System That Fails Families with National Council on Severe Autism's, Jackie Kancir.

    MAR 17

    Severe Autism, Caregiving, and the System That Fails Families with National Council on Severe Autism's, Jackie Kancir.

    Autism parenting at the severe and profound end of the spectrum often reveals a reality that systems are not built to support. In this conversation, Autism Mom Sarah Kernion speaks with Jackie Kancir, Executive Director of the National Council on Severe Autism (NCSA), about the growing gap between what families need and what existing structures provide. Drawing from both personal experience and national advocacy work, Jackie outlines how caregiving for children with severe and nonspeaking autism places sustained pressure on families—emotionally, financially, and physically. The conversation explores how current systems frequently respond only in moments of crisis rather than building proactive, comprehensive support. Central to the discussion is the concept of crisis planning: not as a last resort, but as a necessary framework for families navigating autism parenting at high levels of need. They also examine the mental health risks faced by caregivers and the importance of building support systems that extend beyond the individual to include the entire family unit. This conversation calls for a shift in autism advocacy—one that centers the realities of severe autism, listens to caregivers, and prioritizes sustainable, systemic change. J About Jackie: Jackie Kancir is the Executive Director of the National Council on Severe Autism (NCSA) and Patient Advocacy Director for Cure SynGAP1. She writes and speaks at the intersection of disability policy, moral philosophy, and authentic experience — arguing from first principles that a just society is measured by how it treats the people it finds most inconvenient to serve. Her advocacy work occupies contested ground. The severe autism community she represents — nonverbal, intellectually disabled, and dependent on lifelong supports — is frequently sidelined even within mainstream disability spaces. Jackie'ss response to that erasure is to write her way through it: op-eds, testimony, public statements, and personal essays that translate policy failure into something a family sitting in a crisis at 2 a.m. can recognize as true. She is a former military spouse and brings to her work the particular clarity that comes from rebuilding a life after the structures you relied on stop holding. She is a brain tumor survivor and the single mother of a 22-year-old with severe autism, profound intellectual disability, and the rare genetic disorder SynGAP1-RD. She brings to her advocacy work the same thing most parents do: no other option. Chapters (00:00:00) - Jackie Cancer on Autism and the Challenges(00:00:51) - Jill's fight for severe autism families(00:12:14) - On Veteran Mothers and their PTSD(00:18:15) - Crisis planning for severe autism parents(00:26:26) - Why False Narratives Are So Inviting(00:27:18) - How to Get Involved in Autism Advocacy

    33 min
  5. The Profound Autism Conversation We’re Not Allowed to Have with Tyler Hudson

    MAR 12

    The Profound Autism Conversation We’re Not Allowed to Have with Tyler Hudson

    Parenting profound autism reshapes identity in ways few people outside the experience fully understand. In this conversation, Autism Mom Sarah Kernion and Tyler Hudson, Dad to teenage son Lyric with profound autism, engage in a candid discussion about autism parenting, grief, advocacy, and the tensions within modern autism discourse. The dialogue centers the lived realities of families raising children with profound autism and nonspeaking autism—where caregiving is intensive, victories arrive in inchstones, and advocacy often requires navigating competing narratives of acceptance and prevention. Together, they explore the emotional terrain that accompanies autism parenting: the quiet grief parents carry, the societal discomfort surrounding severe disability, and the political language that can sometimes obscure the needs of those requiring the highest levels of support. The conversation challenges listeners to expand their understanding of autism advocacy by centering caregivers and profoundly autistic individuals whose experiences are often marginalized in public discourse. Through personal reflections and thoughtful debate, they call for a more honest conversation about support, prevention, and the future of autism care. Chapters (00:00:00) - Tyler Hudson on Activism for Autism(00:01:24) - Celebrations of Autism Parenting(00:03:31) - The role of fathers in profound autism parenting(00:10:03) - The Grief Response to Autism(00:16:21) - Grief for a profoundly autistic child(00:21:48) - On The Politics of Autism(00:25:28) - Autism and the Second Voice(00:26:29) - Understanding the OODA loop(00:29:32) - Autism's Identity First(00:34:49) - Separation of the DSM-5(00:35:10) - Autism and the DSM 5(00:42:03) - Blaze on the Autism Spectrum(00:48:07) - profoundly autistic speakers on identity politics(00:53:12) - Tell Him, Not Me(00:58:33) - A father's voice for profound autism(01:03:37) - Headstones: The End

    1h 4m
  6. Autism Parenting and Personal Growth: Jess Daily on Boundaries, Rest, and Community

    MAR 5

    Autism Parenting and Personal Growth: Jess Daily on Boundaries, Rest, and Community

    Autism parenting often requires mothers to live at full capacity—emotionally, physically, and mentally. In this conversation, Sarah Kernion sits down with Jess Daily, coach, podcast host, and mother of a child with profound autism and a rare genetic condition, to explore what it means to build a life that is not just survivable, but sustainable. Jess’s journey into motherhood began unexpectedly through foster care and evolved into advocacy and deep personal transformation. Drawing from both professional experience in consulting and her lived reality as an autism parent, she shares how intentional boundaries, nervous system regulation, and community support can help caregivers move beyond survival mode. Together they discuss the delicate balance between career, caregiving, and self-preservation, as well as the importance of slowing down enough to recognize the small moments that define parenting children with complex needs. At the heart of the conversation is a simple but powerful truth: autism parenting is not a journey meant to be navigated alone. When mothers connect, reflect, and support one another, resilience becomes something shared rather than carried in isolation. Jess Daily is a personal and professional coach, podcast co-host, and special needs parent who knows firsthand what it means to live at full capacity. After 15 years in business consulting and HR tech, she co-founded SBF Studio, where she helps people move from survival mode to sustainable living through her Space. Boundaries. Forward. framework. As a parent to a child with profound autism and a rare genetic condition, she brings lived experience to her work around rest, nervous system regulation, and building a life that actually fits. She coaches, she writes, and she keeps it real. You can find her Substack JXTPSTN here: https://jessicadaily.substack.com/ Chapters (00:00:00) - Inchtones: A Mother's Story With Special Needs(00:00:45) - What is Your Story of Parenthood?(00:04:38) - Why I Slow Down in My Career(00:11:26) - A Special Needs Parent's Need for Space(00:17:24) - Reorienting to Normal after a Child's Cancer Diagnosis(00:24:44) - Jess Daly on Her Special Needs Mom Journey

    26 min
  7. Nonspeaking Autism and NeuroFit Connections: A Holistic Approach to Child Development with Dr. Timothy & Jackie Beck

    FEB 26

    Nonspeaking Autism and NeuroFit Connections: A Holistic Approach to Child Development with Dr. Timothy & Jackie Beck

    Autism parenting often means navigating systems that focus on behavior before biology, compliance before connection. In this conversation, Sarah Kernion sits down with Dr. Timothy and Jackie Beck of NeuroFit Connections to explore a developmental approach to autism and nonspeaking autism that begins deeper—at the level of primitive reflexes, sensory integration, and foundational neurological patterns. Through the lens of inchstones—the small, cumulative shifts that create meaningful progress—they discuss how developmental delays are often rooted in incomplete neurological integration. Rather than treating symptoms in isolation, NeuroFit Connections examines the interconnected systems of child development, including vestibular and proprioceptive pathways, and designs individualized therapy plans tailored to each child’s profile. The discussion centers autism parenting not as passive observation but as active participation. Parental involvement is not optional in their model—it is essential. By equipping families with understanding and tools, they aim to remove barriers so children can move toward independence and confidence at their own pace. For families navigating autism, especially nonspeaking autism, this episode offers a perspective that reframes progress as neurological bridging rather than behavioral compliance. It highlights the power of belief, the importance of holistic assessment, and the hope found in incremental, observable change. Coach Jackie and Dr. Tim are the founders of NeuroFiT Connections, Eastern North Carolina’s only Melillo Method™ center. They specialize in helping children with learning, behavioral, social, and developmental challenges by addressing the root causes—often underactive areas of the brain—rather than just managing symptoms. Blending neuroscience, holistic health, and targeted brain-based fitness, their program is grounded in leading research and designed to strengthen brain function and improve quality of life. Their mission is simple but powerful: clear the path for every child to thrive, succeed, and become who they were meant to be.  www.neurofitconnections.com Chapters (00:00:01) - NeuroFit Connections(00:00:52) - NeuroFit Connections(00:03:11) - Primordial Reflexes(00:07:05) - What is an ASD one-on-one therapy?(00:08:20) - Vestibular and auditory neuropsychology, part 1(00:14:13) - Asperger's and Adhd: The Bridge(00:18:53) - The Importance of the Work of the CoVID Team(00:21:19) - NeuroFit Connections: How to Find a Neurodiversity

    23 min
  8. Autism Parenting and AAC: Building Communication Through Collaboration with Rose Griffin of ABA Speech

    FEB 24

    Autism Parenting and AAC: Building Communication Through Collaboration with Rose Griffin of ABA Speech

    Communication is not an accessory skill in autism support, it is foundational. In this conversation, Autism Mom Sarah Kernion speaks with Rose Griffin, speech language pathologist and BCBA, about the intersection of speech therapy, ABA, and AAC in supporting students with autism and complex needs. Rose’s work lives at the overlap of two fields that are often siloed: speech therapy and applied behavior analysis. Rather than competing frameworks, she presents them as collaborative tools that, when aligned, can accelerate communication growth for autistic students. The discussion highlights joint attention, engagement, device trust-building, and the slow—but meaningful—progress that defines real communication development. They address a tension many autism parents recognize: practitioners frequently receive limited training in AAC, leaving families to navigate gaps in implementation. Rose shares her mission through the ABA Speech Connection to empower both practitioners and parents with practical tools and shared learning. This conversation centers one core truth: communication changes outcomes. When professionals collaborate and families are equipped, students with autism gain access—not just to language—but to agency. Rose Griffin, MA, CCC-SLP, BCBA, is a certified Speech-Language Pathologist and Board Certified Behavior Analyst with a passion for helping SLPs, BCBAs, and RBTs work together to support all autistic learners. She is the founder of ABA SPEECH, an organization dedicated to professional development that unites your team—and transforms communication through customized consultations, engaging trainings, and the ABA SPEECH Connection CEU Membership. Rosemarie is also the host of the popular ABA SPEECH Podcast, where she shares practical strategies. A highly sought-after speaker, she enjoys connecting with professionals at the local, state, and national levels. Her book "Say It With Me" is scheduled to come out in July of 2026. She can't wait to share easy to use strategies to encourage communication with professionals and parents alike! At the heart of Rosemarie’s work is the mission of ABA SPEECH: Keeping therapy fun and functional and collaborating along the way. All of Rose's work and her ABA Speech Connection Membership can be found here: www.abaspeech.org Chapters (00:00:01) - ABA Speech Guest(00:00:56) - BCBA and Speech Therapist: The Intersect(00:05:28) - Speech Therapy for the Rest of us(00:12:48) - Autistic Students Need Two iPads(00:14:46) - Communication targets for profoundly autistic students(00:19:25) - ABA Speech Connection: Growing Membership(00:23:28) - ABA Speech Connection

    26 min
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