A Brothers Mind

A Brother's Mind Podcast

Two brothers, one mind. Luke and Heath strip back the ego for raw, unfiltered conversations about the realities of men's mental health, fatherhood, and navigating life's hardest chapters. From the heavy truths of divorce, co-parenting, and rebuilding yourself, to finding resilience in business, property, and investing—no topic is off the table. Real talk, real struggles, and real growth.

Episodes

  1. Luke’s IVF Journey (Part 2) | 10 Miscarriages, A Second Donor & An Unbelievable End

    MAR 17

    Luke’s IVF Journey (Part 2) | 10 Miscarriages, A Second Donor & An Unbelievable End

    After 10 rounds of IVF and 10 heartbreaking miscarriages, Luke and his partner were told they had a 1% chance of ever becoming parents. In the conclusion of their gruelling path to parenthood, Luke opens up about the silent trauma of recurrent pregnancy loss from the male perspective. He details the emotional pivot to using a known egg donor, navigating the strict legal hurdles of South Australian IVF law, and the incredible moment a close friend stepped in to change their lives forever. But the struggle didn’t end with a positive test. Luke recounts a traumatic mid-pregnancy medical emergency that threatened everything, and the long, terrifying road through the NICU with their premature twins... yes, twins! Finally, Luke breaks down his "Service the Engine" philosophy. He explains why men need to prioritize their mental health earlier in the fertility journey, and why seeking professional counseling isn't a weakness—it’s mandatory maintenance to keep your relationship united when life is at its most fragile. If you missed Part 1, go back and listen to the start of the journey! CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Facing a 1% Chance: Donor Paths, US Market, and Male Identity in Fertility 5:44 - Strict SA Donor Laws and a Close Friend's Offer of Help 9:39 - The First Donor Attempt Fails, But They Kept Pushing Forward 15:55 - A Second Donor Brings Hope and Successful Embryo Freezing 19:09 - Keeping the IVF Journey Private and the Male Taboo Around Fertility 22:10 - Traumatic Mid-Pregnancy Haemorrhage and the NICU Journey with Twins 26:57 - Reflecting on the Journey's Worth and Prioritising Mental Health If this episode shifted your perspective or helped you in any way, please consider leaving a 5-star rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It is the number one way to help us reach more people who need to hear these stories. Like, Follow & Subscribe YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/abrothersmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@abrothersmind⁠

    34 min
  2. Luke’s IVF Journey (Part 1): 18 Months of Silence, $100k Costs, and Relationship Survival

    MAR 10

    Luke’s IVF Journey (Part 1): 18 Months of Silence, $100k Costs, and Relationship Survival

    For 18 months, Luke and his partner smiled through the pain of watching friends build families while secretly fighting a grueling, $100,000 battle just to have a chance. In Part 1 of this incredibly raw conversation, Luke opens up about the crushing reality of 10 failed IVF cycles. From the intense physical toll of daily scans and day surgeries to the silent grief that almost broke them, we break down what the fertility industry looks like from the inside. When the medical options ran out, they were handed a devastating ultimatum: walk away, or accept an egg donor. If you or someone you know is navigating the isolating world of infertility, you are not alone. Reach out to us on our socials and let us know your story. Part 2 also out now! CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Unpacking the Male Experience of IVF 02:20 - From Natural Attempts to Assisted Fertility 05:24 - Navigating Emotional Burdens in IVF 08:22 - The Highs and Lows of Each IVF Round 14:41 - The $100k Cost and Silent Grief 22:24 - Facing the Reality of Needing an Egg Donor If this episode shifted your perspective or helped you in any way, please consider leaving a 5-star rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It is the number one way to help us reach more people who need to hear these stories. Like, Follow & Subscribe: - YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠ - Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠ - Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/abrothersmind⁠⁠⁠ - TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@abrothersmind⁠

    29 min
  3. Scaling a Concreting Business & Finding Your Core Purpose

    FEB 24

    Scaling a Concreting Business & Finding Your Core Purpose

    What does it actually take to build a successful concreting business from the ground up? In this episode, we sit down with Steve Reeves from SR Construct to unpack the raw reality of scaling a blue-collar business. It’s not just about moving dirt and pouring concrete. Steve gets real about the brutal early morning starts, the massive lifestyle changes required to succeed, and the daily grind of balancing a trade business with showing up for your family. We also dive deep into mindset, uncovering your core values, and putting your mission and purpose into actual practice on the job site. CHAPTERS: 00:00 - From Surf Instructor to Concreter: John's Influence 05:56 - Social Media, Scaling, and Business Growth Challenges 16:10 - Leading with Purpose: Understanding Staff Values 24:44 - The Highs and Lows of Commercial Concreting 33:33 - Property, Lifestyle, and Future Financial Decisions If this episode shifted your perspective or helped you in any way, please consider leaving a 5-star rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It is the number one way to help us reach more people who need to hear these stories. Like, Follow & Subscribe YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/abrothersmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@abrothersmind⁠

    39 min
  4. Building a Trade Empire & Surviving When Builders Go Bust

    FEB 17

    Building a Trade Empire & Surviving When Builders Go Bust

    What is the true cost of building a successful trade business from scratch? In this episode, we sit down with Chris Reed from Reed Brothers Electrical to unpack the raw, unfiltered reality of scaling a massive operation. We dive into the unique dynamics of running a family business with your brother, the discipline required to balance a 50-hour work week, and the devastating reality facing many tradies today: surviving when major builders go bust and owe you money. If you are in the trades, run a family business, or want to know what it really takes to scale, this episode is a must-listen. CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Welcome Chris Reed: Sacrifices in Business 02:06 - From Solo Tradie to Reed Brothers Electrical 04:10 - Working with Family: Brotherly Business Challenges 05:55 - Sharing Success and Surviving Builder Bankruptcies 07:54 - Lessons Learned from Builders Going Bust 10:01 - The Business Education Gap for Tradespeople 13:43 - The Hard Truth of 50-Hour Work Weeks 15:39 - Serving Three Masters: Work, Family, Health 18:19 - Business Growth and Wealth Through Property 21:43 - Trial and Error vs. Business Coaching 23:48 - Essential Tips for Starting Your Own Trade Business 26:01 - Lavish Rewards and Podcast Conclusion If this episode shifted your perspective or helped you in any way, please consider leaving a 5-star rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It is the number one way to help us reach more people who need to hear these stories. Like, Follow & Subscribe YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/abrothersmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@abrothersmind⁠

    28 min
  5. A 3-Year Chemotherapy Marathon, Business Survival & Divorce

    FEB 10

    A 3-Year Chemotherapy Marathon, Business Survival & Divorce

    When you are fighting for your child's life, the value of time changes forever. Heath opens up about the harrowing reality of his 18-month-old daughter Poppy’s three-year chemotherapy marathon. We discuss what it actually takes to survive life in the hospital ward, the brutal reality of "scanxiety," and the immense collateral damage it causes—including navigating a marriage breakdown and having to completely restructure a business just to stay afloat. How do you keep moving forward when your world is falling apart? If you've had to navigate a family crisis while keeping a business alive, let us know how you managed it over on our socials. CHAPTERS: 00:00 - The Gut-Wrenching Diagnosis and Immediate Hospital Return 5:07 - Navigating the Three-Year Chemotherapy Marathon and Emotional Toll 14:19 - Life in the Hospital Ward and Poppy's Toughest Moments 20:29 - The Immense Sacrifices: Family, Business, and Marriage Breakdown 26:56 - Living with Scanxiety and Redefining the Value of Time 31:41 - The Anti-Climactic 'All Clear' and Enduring Life Lessons If this episode shifted your perspective or helped you in any way, please consider leaving a 5-star rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It is the number one way to help us reach more people who need to hear these stories. Like, Follow & Subscribe YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/abrothersmind⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@abrothersmind⁠

    41 min

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Two brothers, one mind. Luke and Heath strip back the ego for raw, unfiltered conversations about the realities of men's mental health, fatherhood, and navigating life's hardest chapters. From the heavy truths of divorce, co-parenting, and rebuilding yourself, to finding resilience in business, property, and investing—no topic is off the table. Real talk, real struggles, and real growth.

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