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About Basingstoke is the podcast network for Basingstoke, UK. On this channel we'll share our main shows on topics including Business, Community, Wellbeing, Home & Family, and Leisure. You can also listen to the live stream version of our new daily shows at aboutbasingstoke.com/live or ask Alexa to "Launch About Basingstoke." HUGE THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR We're proud to be supported by IncuHive with their new location at Stephenson Road, Houndmills, Basingstoke offering dedicated offices, hot desks, and amazing business support. Find out more at incuhive.co.uk and tell them you heard about them at About Basingstoke. BE PART OF IT We would love to hear about you, your business, your organisation, your passion! Contact us via aboutbasingstoke.com/contact MESSAGE US Send us a WhatsApp - be brave and make it a voice message and your voice might be on the show!

  1. 20h ago

    YOU ARE NOT ALONE - The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing & Reclaiming Your Boundaries

    In this episode of You Are Not Alone, Marie unpacks the subtle, often praised habit of people-pleasing. While kindness, empathy, and lending a helping hand are foundational to healthy relationships, pleasing others becomes harmful when our drive for validation and fear of conflict arrive at the expense of our own mental and emotional wellbeing. Marie explores how early life experiences condition us to link self-worth with being useful, creating an exhausting pattern of over-commitment, chronic stress, and silent resentment. The conversation delves into the neuroscience behind our desire for belonging, highlighting research that shows our brains register social rejection similarly to physical pain. This survival mechanism explains why turning down a request can trigger genuine alarm and guilt. However, constantly saying "yes" to keep the peace often leaves us burnt out, masking our true feelings, and unknowingly saying "no" to our own health, rest, and peace of mind. To counter this cycle, Marie offers practical tools for setting gentle, healthy boundaries without guilt. Listeners are guided on how to introduce an intentional pause before answering requests, embrace a simple, unapologetic "no", and shift their perspective so boundaries are seen not as selfish barriers, but as honest channels for sustainable relationships. The episode concludes with compassionate reflections and valuable mental health support resources across the UK. Key TakeawaysGenerosity vs People-Pleasing: While true kindness enriches communities, people-pleasing is frequently driven by underlying fears—fear of criticism, conflict, rejection, or feeling inadequate.The Neurobiology of Rejection: The human brain processes social rejection through the same neural pathways as physical pain, which is why saying "no" can trigger an instinctive threat response.The Opportunity Cost of "Yes": Every time you say "yes" to an external demand you lack capacity for, you are implicitly saying "no" to your own rest, wellbeing, and priorities.Boundaries Foster Connection: Boundaries are not selfish barriers meant to push people away; they communicate realistic capacity and foster healthier, more authentic relationships.The Power of the Pause: Creating a buffer with phrases like "Let me check my diary" or "Can I get back to you?" interrupts automatic compliance and allows space for intentional decision-making.Call to ActionTry this week’s micro-challenge: choose one thing to say "no" to—whether it is an uninspiring invitation or a favour you do not have the bandwidth to complete. Notice how the pause feels, and treat yourself with the same compassion you extend to others. If you or someone you know is finding things difficult, help is readily accessible: Directory: Search local NHS, community, and peer support via the Hub of Hope.Helpline: Call the Samaritans free anytime on 116 123.Medical Support: Speak with your GP, or call 999 in an emergency. ====== About Basingstoke is supported by IncuHive.

    YOU ARE NOT ALONE - The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing & Reclaiming Your Boundaries
  2. Oct 26

    EXPERT NETWORK: Collaboration Over Competition: The power of building communities

    In this episode, Lou shares actionable insights on how small and medium-sized businesses can move away from traditional, high-pressure sales pitches and instead build meaningful, long-lasting communities. The conversation explores overcoming networking fears, identifying the real problems your business solves, and leveraging local community involvement—such as working with charities or complementary trade professionals—to foster natural referral networks. Lou also explains why sharing free knowledge and treating competitors as potential collaborators ultimately builds authority and long-term trust. Key Takeaways Shift from Selling to Solving: Focus your messaging on the specific problems you solve for people rather than just listing your job title or services. Collaboration Beats Competition: Building relationships with complementary trade professionals or peers in your field creates referral networks and overflow opportunities that benefit everyone involved. Human-Centric Connection: Authentic engagement—whether through local community initiatives, charity work, or ongoing educational content—builds trusted relationships that naturally attract long-term clients. Call to Action Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share this episode with a fellow business owner looking to grow their community! Have questions or ideas about building your network? Connect with us on social media and join the conversation today!  https://www.facebook.com/activmarketingbasingstoke https://www.linkedin.com/company/activ-marketing-by-lou-eddy/ https://www.activmarketingbasingstoke.co.uk/

    EXPERT NETWORK: Collaboration Over Competition: The power of building communities
  3. Oct 24

    CLOKE COOKS - Autumnal Comfort Food

    In this episode of CLOKE COOKS, Chris focuses on autumnal comfort food 😋 As the cold, wet autumn weather settles in, fancy cooking takes a back seat in favour of proper, hearty comfort food. The drawing-in of dark nights presents the perfect opportunity to embrace slow-cooked stews, rich gravies, and comforting mashed potatoes after a day out in the cold. Embracing autumn cooking does not require spending a fortune, as some of the most flavourful dishes rely on economical cuts of meat that benefit from long, gentle cooking. A central focus of this episode is making full use of the kitchen slow cooker to simplify meal preparation during busy schedules. By pairing affordable cuts of meat with local ales, fresh herbs, and vegetables, home cooks can effortlessly prepare nutritious meals that ready themselves while they are at work. Local butchers serve as an invaluable resource for discovering budget-friendly ingredients and tailoring cut selections to specific recipes. The episode concludes with a detailed walkthrough of a classic beef stew featuring fluffy suet dumplings. From proper browning techniques to mastering dumpling preparation, host Chris Clook breaks down every step to help listeners create warming, freezer-friendly meals to enjoy throughout the season. Key TakeawaysValue Cuts Deliver Maximum Flavour: Economical cuts like beef shank, chuck, brisket, pork shoulder, lamb neck, and mutton contain fat and connective tissue that break down during slow cooking to create tender meat and rich sauce.Crucial Searing Techniques: Avoid crowding the pan when browning meat; searing in smaller batches prevents boiling and seals in flavour.Maximise Liquid and Heat Retention: Keep the slow cooker lid closed during cooking to maintain internal heat, and remember that slow cookers require less liquid than standard oven casseroles.Support Local Butchers: Independent butchers provide tailored advice on alternative meat cuts, helping to stretch budget without compromising quality.Batch Cooking Efficiency: Stews and casseroles freeze exceptionally well, making it easy to cook larger portions to save time on busy weekdays. Cloke Cooks is produced by Chris Cloke and brought to you by ProClean Direct. -- About Basingstoke is Basingstoke's Podcast Network supported by IncuHive, now open at Houndmills.

    CLOKE COOKS - Autumnal Comfort Food
  4. Oct 15

    YOU ARE NOT ALONE - Feeling emotional hurt

    In this episode of You Are Not Alone: Conversations for Mental Health and Wellbeing, host Marie explores the universal experience of emotional hurt. From altered friendships and ended relationships to unexpected disappointment and rejection, emotional pain affects us deeply and often stays with us longer than physical pain. Marie discusses why hurt lingers, how past experiences can amplify present feelings, and actionable steps we can take toward healing through self-compassion, open conversation, and understanding our true needs. Key Takeaways: Emotional hurt is universal and valid: Pain often stems from things that matter deeply to us—like relationships, dreams, or a sense of belonging—and experiencing it is a natural part of being human, not a sign of weakness.Present hurt can touch past wounds: A reaction to a present situation may feel amplified because it connects to deeper, long-held fears or past experiences of rejection and exclusion.Focus on what you need now: Instead of asking "what's wrong with me?", gently check in with yourself by asking "what do I need right now?"—whether that is rest, boundaries, conversation, or simply permission to feel. Call to Action: Take 5 quiet minutes for yourself this week. Pause and ask yourself: "What do I need right now?" Once you have your answer, take one small step to give that to yourself. If you or someone you know is struggling, reach out for local or national mental health support. Remember, whatever you are facing, you are not alone. If you're going through a tough time, please remember that support is always available: 📞 Samaritans: 116 123 (Free, 24/7) 📱 Shout: Text SHOUT to 85258 🏥 NHS Urgent Mental Health: Call 111 (Option 2) 📍 Local Support (Basingstoke area): Andover Mind Wellbeing Cafe in the Park & Beggarwood Community Centre -- About Basingstoke is supported by IncuHIve.

    YOU ARE NOT ALONE - Feeling emotional hurt

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About Basingstoke is the podcast network for Basingstoke, UK. On this channel we'll share our main shows on topics including Business, Community, Wellbeing, Home & Family, and Leisure. You can also listen to the live stream version of our new daily shows at aboutbasingstoke.com/live or ask Alexa to "Launch About Basingstoke." HUGE THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR We're proud to be supported by IncuHive with their new location at Stephenson Road, Houndmills, Basingstoke offering dedicated offices, hot desks, and amazing business support. Find out more at incuhive.co.uk and tell them you heard about them at About Basingstoke. BE PART OF IT We would love to hear about you, your business, your organisation, your passion! Contact us via aboutbasingstoke.com/contact MESSAGE US Send us a WhatsApp - be brave and make it a voice message and your voice might be on the show!