Actual* Experts

Caitlin and Lundie

The Actual* Experts Podcast is where two millennial BFFs (that’s us - Caitlin and Lundie) sit down with real experts to demystify the big, confusing, and sometimes intimidating topics that shape women’s lives. From mutual funds to egg freezing, prenups to luteal phases, we realized we don't have all the answers, so we're going to ask the questions. Our goal: help women make smarter, more confident decisions with conversations that are accessible, relatable, funny, and actually useful. Because ladies - knowledge is power. LFG!

  1. 2D AGO

    WTF is Breastfeeding?! Ft. Lactation Consultant and Newborn Care Specialist, Brandi Jordan

    Did you know your body can customise breast milk in real time based on your baby’s needs? Neither did we, until now. This week, Caitlin and Lundie sit down with Brandi Jordan, board-certified lactation consultant and postpartum expert, to answer the question: What actually is breastfeeding? In this episode, we answer: What is actually happening in your body when you breastfeed?When does milk production start, and what is colostrum?How do you know if your baby is getting enough milk?Why do babies feed so often, and is that normal?What are the biggest myths that set women up to fail?Can you breastfeed if you’ve had a boob job or nipple piercings?What is mastitis, and how do you know if you have it?Do you really need to “pump and dump” after drinkingHow do you balance breastfeeding with going back to work?What is combo feeding, and when should you introduce a bottle?When should you ask for help, and who do you call? We also learn why most breastfeeding issues happen in the first 48 hours, why pain is not something you should just push through, and why “not enough milk” is often misunderstood. And Brandi makes the case for something we’ve now heard again and again: you don’t have to be a hero, ask for help sooner than you think. This one is for anyone who’s ever thought breastfeeding just “comes naturally”… or worried it might not. Knowledge is power. Support is everything. Let’s get both.

    1h 19m
  2. MAR 31

    WTF is…A Tax Deduction?! Ft. Bookkeeper and Founder, Diana Gleason

    Did you know your hair appointment might be a tax write-off? Neither did we, until now. This week, Caitlin and Lundie sit down with Diana Gleason, founder of DG Accounting Agency and professional bookkeeper to over 150 clients, to answer the question: What actually is a tax deduction, and how do we use one? In this episode, we answer: * What even is a tax deduction, and how does it actually lower your bill? * What's the difference between a hobby and a side hustle in the eyes of the IRS? * Do you need to register an LLC to start writing off expenses? * What counts as "ordinary and necessary" and can you really write off your hair?* What's the difference between a W2 employee and a 1099 contractor, and how does tax work for each? * Should you file your taxes jointly or separately if you're married? * What's the biggest mistake people make when it comes to deductions? * When do you actually need a bookkeeper, and is it worth the cost? * Why should your tax strategy change depending on your life goals? * How far back can you go if you've missed deductions in previous years? We also learn why your tax strategy shouldn't always be "pay as little as possible" because your future mortgage might disagree. And Diana makes the case, both practical and personal, for why every woman needs to understand her own finances. This one is for every freelancer, contractor, side hustler, and creative who has ever panic-filed in April and wondered if the IRS is coming for them. (Less than 1% audit rate. Breathe.) Knowledge is power. Money is also power. Let's get both. Connect with Diana at dianagleason.com

    1h 6m
  3. 12/02/2025

    WTF... Actually happens when you report Sexual Assault? Ft. the Forensic Nurse & Legal team at Providence Hospital, WA

    Content warning: This episode discusses sexual assault, forensic exams, reporting, and survivor experiences. In this episode of Actual* Experts, Caitlin and Lundie sit down with four members of a Washington State hospital sexual assault response team - forensic nurses Paula Skomski and Sherri Weyker, legal advocate Chelsy Sommer, and legal coordinator Michelle DeSoto - to educate us on what really happens when someone goes to the hospital after an assault. We find out what a sexual assault kit actually entails, how long survivors have to make decisions, what “anonymous” really mean, who pays for the exam, and why survivors have far more choice and control than most people realize. They also share compassionate, lived and learned advice on healing, supporting a loved one, and common myths that stop survivors from getting help. We created this episode in the hopes that no survivor or supporter has to navigate this process alone or uninformed. 00:50 - Intro & Actual Stats 16:30 - What happens from the moment you arrive at the hospital? 22:00 - What exactly does a ‘sexual assault kit’ entail? 24:30 - What is a forensic nurse, and how are they different? 30:00 - Staying anonymous vs. reporting with law enforcement 36:30 - Under the influence: What happens legally? 45:08 - What should you know before you go to the hospital? 46:40 - What should you do if you're not sure you want to report? 47:00 - How can friends or partners support survivors? 51:30 - Can survivors heal? (Spoiler: Without a doubt) 01:01:00 - Who pays for the exam? ‘Crime Victims Compensation’ explained 01:03:30 - What every woman should know about sexual assault, according to the actual* experts 01:08:00 - Debrief If you or someone you love has experienced sexual assault, you are not alone. International resources and 24/7 hotlines: USA - RAINN: 1-800-656-HOPE Canada - Sexual Violence Helpline: 1-877-392-7583 UK - Rape Crisis 24/7 Helpline: 0808 500 2222 South Africa - GBV Command Centre: 0800 428 428

    1h 16m
  4. 11/25/2025

    WTF is… A Mortgage?! Ft. The #1 Female Loan Officer in WI, Kristen Ambos

    In this episode of Actual* Experts, Lundie and Caitlin sit down with Kristin Ambos, CPO at Point Mortgage Corporation and the number one female loan officer in Wisconsin, to finally demystify home buying. We get into what a mortgage actually is (beyond “a loan with a fancy name”), how lenders decide what you can afford, and why your debt-to-income ratio and monthly payment matter way more than the interest rate (plus WTF that actually means). We cover: Should you buy or keep renting – and how to actually compare the twoWhat really happens if you sell before your 30-year mortgage is upThe truth about 0–20% down payments (and why 20% isn’t a magic rule)Refinancing, second mortgages & adjustable-rate mortgages (ARMs) – what’s smart, what’s riskyHow to avoid becoming “house poor” and blowing up the rest of your life for four wallsHow to find a good loan officer (and major red flags to run from) Kristin also shares why single women are outpacing single men in buying homes and the one thing she wishes every woman knew before signing on the dotted line. 🎧 Listen, save, and send to the group chat – especially that friend who’s Zillow-scrolling at 1am. 00:55 - Intro & Actual Stats 13:55 - Meet Our Actual* Expert: Kristin Ambos 15:45 - WTF Is a Mortgage (For Real)? 20:00 - Living 'The Big Short' in real life 29:00 - First-Time Buyer 101: What Kristin Looks At First 31:30 - Debt-to-Income: How to avoid becoming 'House Poor' 40:00 - Buy vs Rent: Which Makes Sense For You? 50:00 - WTF is a "Good" vs "Bad" Housing Market - and should we be waiting for something specific? 01:06:30 - Myth Busting: How much cash do you actually need to put down? 01:16:00 - The Debrief 01:23:00 - Sneak Peak: What’s coming next week (Trigger Warning)

    1h 24m

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The Actual* Experts Podcast is where two millennial BFFs (that’s us - Caitlin and Lundie) sit down with real experts to demystify the big, confusing, and sometimes intimidating topics that shape women’s lives. From mutual funds to egg freezing, prenups to luteal phases, we realized we don't have all the answers, so we're going to ask the questions. Our goal: help women make smarter, more confident decisions with conversations that are accessible, relatable, funny, and actually useful. Because ladies - knowledge is power. LFG!

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