All the Grief

Rebecca Luttrell & Andrea Giron Mathern

A  podcast for everyone touched by grief - which, as our hosts figure, is all the humans.  Hosted by Rebecca and Andrea, a therapist and a social scientist whose friendship deepened when they were connected by each having lost their father. Through the shared bond of being in “the club no one wants to be in,” they explored death, connection, mortality, and life. As they watched grief be bottled up around them they decided to bring grief to light and continue to explore all the ways that we, all the humans, experience it. They hope to inspire honest dialogue, create connections, and obliterate the loneliness that can come from the societal pressure to hold it alone.  We hope you’ll join the conversation.

  1. APR 29

    The Jehovah Wound: From Doctrine to Dirt

    In this heartfelt episode, Andrea and Rebecca welcome author and nature enthusiast, Larry Glover. Together they explore Larry’s life journey from religious trauma to profound nature-based spirituality. Larry offers powerful insights into embracing our wounds and stepping into wholeness. Key Insights: Grief is a wild, transformative force that invites us into deeper understanding and relationship with ourselves and the planet.Larry's sacred encounters with bears and nature helped him heal past trauma and reconnect with the essence of being human.The legacy of religious harm, especially the Jehovah wound, can breed unworthiness but also contains opportunities for reclamation through self-love.The cyclic love of life—emphasized through the metaphor of trees and oceanic pulses—reminds us that self-love is not at anyone else's expense.Cultivating reverence for life's polarities, including rage and sorrow, allows for deep ecological and spiritual integration.Moving from fear to trust—embodying boundaries that honor life—can transform our response to crises, illness, and societal breakdowns.The practice of asking others—especially our inner young selves—to be seen and loved helps heal wounds of disconnection and rejection. Connect with Larry Glover: WebsiteInstagramFacebookWild Joy: Eco-Spiritual Encounters with Nature as Teacher, Healer, and Lover   keywords grief, transformation, nature, belonging, sacredness, healing, trauma, love, resilience, spirituality

    58 min
  2. MAR 5

    Being with Death, Being with Life: with Darnell Lamont Walker

    Darnell Lamont Walker returns to All the Grief in celebration of his new book, Never Can Say Goodbye - The Life of a Death Doula and the Art of a Peaceful End. Darnell shares his journey as a death doula along with his deep belief that we all hold this capacity. Exploring his early conversations about death with his grandmother, and the life changing loss of a young friend, Darnell offers his experiences to share how awareness of our mortality can help us live fully. Andrea and Rebecca’s conversation with Darnell includes normalizing death talk, creating meaningful end-of-life experiences, and living with intention. Listen now for Darnell’s insights on living authentically, embracing mortality, and telling the full story of our lives and loved ones.  Find Darnell Never Can Say Goodbye - The Life of a Death Doula and the Art of a Peaceful End (Book) - https://www.harpercollins.com/products/never-can-say-goodbye-darnell-lamont-walker?variant=43823067889698 Instagram - https://instagram.com/darnellwalker Twitter - https://twitter.com/darnellwalker Website - https://darnellwalker.com Twitter - https://twitter.com/darnellwalker Instagram - https://instagram.com/darnellwalker Keywords death doula, grief, mortality, living fully, end-of-life, mental health, storytelling, peace, life lessons mortality, storytelling, authenticity, healing, grief, life lessons, honesty, family, legacy, self-awareness Resources Never Can Say Goodbye - The Life of a Death Doula and the Art of a Peaceful End (Book) - https://www.harpercollins.com/products/never-can-say-goodbye-darnell-lamont-walker?variant=43823067889698 Support for Grief and End-of-Life Care - https://hospice.org 4000 Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman - https://www.amazon.com/4000-Weeks-Time-Management-Mortals/dp/0593183230 The Power of Storytelling in Healing (Article) - https://www.healingstory.com

    1h 6m
  3. JAN 20

    Grief and the Nervous System: A Chat with Jessica Maguire

    In this episode, Jessica Maguire, a TEDx speaker and nervous system educator, joins hosts Andrea and Rebecca to explore the intricate relationship between grief, emotional resilience, and the nervous system. Jessica shares her personal journey through grief, the impact of losing her brothers, and how these experiences have shaped her professional work in helping others navigate trauma and stress. The conversation delves into the science of neuroplasticity, the importance of understanding our body's responses, and the societal narratives around grief. Find Jessica Online: https://www.jessicamaguire.com/ On Instagram @repairing_the_nervous_system On Facebook https://www.facebook.com/repairingthenervoussystem/ On LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-maguire-vagus-nerve/ Keywordsgrief, emotional resilience, nervous system, neuroplasticity, trauma, stress, Jessica Maguire, TEDx, emotional capacity, neuroscience TakeawaysGrief is a complex emotional experience that affects the nervous system.Understanding neuroplasticity can aid in emotional regulation and healing.Societal narratives often misrepresent the grieving process.Personal experiences of loss can lead to professional growth and empathy.The nervous system plays a crucial role in how we process emotions.Grief doesn't follow a linear path and varies for each individual.Education on the nervous system can reduce the stigma around mental health.Emotional resilience involves accepting and moving through difficult emotions.Support systems are vital in navigating grief and trauma.Cultural expectations can hinder the natural grieving process. ChaptersIntroduction to Jessica MaguireUnderstanding Grief and the Nervous SystemPersonal Journey Through LossThe Role of NeuroplasticitySocietal Narratives and GriefBuilding Emotional ResilienceConclusion and Reflections

    59 min
5
out of 5
28 Ratings

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A  podcast for everyone touched by grief - which, as our hosts figure, is all the humans.  Hosted by Rebecca and Andrea, a therapist and a social scientist whose friendship deepened when they were connected by each having lost their father. Through the shared bond of being in “the club no one wants to be in,” they explored death, connection, mortality, and life. As they watched grief be bottled up around them they decided to bring grief to light and continue to explore all the ways that we, all the humans, experience it. They hope to inspire honest dialogue, create connections, and obliterate the loneliness that can come from the societal pressure to hold it alone.  We hope you’ll join the conversation.

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