AskYourselfWhyNot

Ask Yourself, Why Not ?
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Welcome to Ask Yourself Why Not! We’re Jayla and Shaye—two friends and your personal hype squad here to help you ditch self-doubt and live confidently. We’re curious about a variety of topics, from confidence-building to mindset shifts, and each week we share real talk, practical tools, and plenty of laughs. Plus, we interview experts from all over the world to bring you fresh insights. So, whether you’re sipping your coffee or taking us on a walk, hit play on your favorite podcast platform and join our uplifting community. Why not start today? We’re so glad you’re here!

  1. 12/24/2025

    Episode 217: Keeping the Magic Alive (Even When Adulting Hits Hard)

    Keywords holiday spirit, Christmas magic, self-care, festive traditions, mindfulness, family activities, joy, intentional living, holiday rituals, simplifying celebrations Summary In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla explore how to embrace the holiday spirit as adults. They discuss ways to create personal magic during the holidays, emphasizing the importance of small rituals, fun activities, and self-care. The conversation highlights the need to simplify holiday celebrations and prioritize joy, allowing listeners to enjoy the season without feeling overwhelmed. Takeaways Christmas magic feels different as an adult. You are the magic of the holidays. Focus on small rituals to enhance holiday spirit. Choose fun activities that bring joy. Celebrate every day as if it's your favorite day. Don't overthink gift-giving; it's the thought that counts. Simplify holiday preparations to reduce stress. Prioritize self-care during the busy season. Make space for joy to find you. Choose your joy on purpose this holiday season. Titles Rediscovering Holiday Magic as Adults Creating Your Own Christmas Spirit Sound bites "You are the magic." "Choose fun, have more fun." "Make it merrier, Jayla." Chapters 00:00 Embracing Holiday Spirit 00:58 Finding Magic as Adults 02:47 Creating Cozy Rituals 05:02 Choosing Fun and Joy 06:53 Making Life Festive 07:47 Simplifying Holiday Preparations 08:42 Prioritizing Self-Care

    10 min

  2. 12/18/2025

    Episode 216: New Year, New Intentions: Intentions Activate

    Get your tickets here The "New Year New Intentions Setting Workshop" is a transformative event designed to help participants release past energies and set clear intentions for the future. The workshop includes a hot yoga session, a future self meditation, a catered brunch, and a journaling session focused on setting intentions across major life categories. Participants also engage in a burning ceremony to let go of past irritations and create a personalized "word of the year" bracelet. The event emphasizes personal growth, mindfulness, and community support. Keywords New Year, Intentions, Yoga, Meditation, Journaling, Personal Growth, Mindfulness, Community, Workshop, Intention Setting Takeaways Start with a hot yoga session to release energy. Future self meditation to bridge current and future self. Catered brunch with light, refreshing food. Journaling session to set intentions in life categories. Burning ceremony to release past irritations. Create a personalized 'word of the year' bracelet. Emphasize personal growth and mindfulness. Supportive community environment. Encourage participants to focus on feelings and intentions. Limited spots available, book early.

    19 min

  3. 12/12/2025

    Episode 215: Why Not Be in a Movie? Our Late-Night Film Adventure

    Keywords movie set, fashion, David Bowie, extras, creative experience, arts, personal growth, storytelling, film production, friendship Summary In this episode, Shaye and Jayla share their unexpected adventure as extras on a movie set, discussing their late-night experience, the creative process of selecting outfits, and the film's serious premise. They reflect on the importance of stepping out of their comfort zones and embracing artistic opportunities. Takeaways Stop asking yourself why and start asking why not. Experiences can lead to unexpected adventures. Fashion choices can reflect personal creativity. Being an extra in a film can be a fun experience. Supporting the arts is important to personal growth. Late-night adventures can be memorable. The creative process involves collaboration and spontaneity. Embracing unique styles can be empowering. Movies can tackle serious themes. Friendship enhances shared experiences. Titles Why Not Embrace the Unexpected? A Night on a Movie Set Sound bites "I brought a box of clothes." "Mommy's in the movies." "It's based on two cops." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Adventure 02:40 The Movie Set Experience 05:43 Fashion Choices and Styling 08:49 The Premise of the Film

    23 min

  4. 11/21/2025

    Episode 214: The Pre-Thanksgiving Peace Plan

    Keywords boundaries, self-honor, personal growth, self-awareness, mental health Summary In this conversation, Jayla and Shaye discuss the importance of setting boundaries as a means of honoring oneself. They emphasize the need to focus on the current version of oneself rather than past expectations or societal pressures, highlighting that personal growth and enjoyment of life are paramount. Takeaways Boundaries are essential for self-honor. Focus on your current self, not past expectations. Personal growth is a continuous journey. Enjoying the moments is crucial for well-being. Self-awareness leads to better boundary setting. It's important to prioritize your needs. Societal pressures can distort self-perception. Honor your feelings and needs. Setting boundaries can enhance relationships. Personal fulfillment comes from within. Titles Honoring Yourself: The Power of Boundaries Embracing Your Current Self Sound bites "Boundaries are simply permission to honor yourself." "Enjoy the moments, that's what it's all about." Chapters 00:00 Embracing the Holiday Spirit 00:32 Practical Scripts for Setting Boundaries

    21 min
  5. Episode 213: New Season, Who Dis?

    11/14/2025

    Episode 213: New Season, Who Dis?

    Keywords social media, career stages, comparison, highlight reel, envy, personal growth, seasons of life Summary The conversation explores the impact of seasons of life , emphasizing the importance of recognizing different life seasons and avoiding envy. Takeaways Social media often showcases a highlight reel of life. People may feel envy when comparing their journey to others. Different career stages can lead to different feelings of inadequacy. It's important to recognize that everyone is in a different season. Comparison can be detrimental to personal growth. Understanding your own journey is crucial for self-acceptance. Social media can distort reality and create unrealistic expectations. Acknowledging your unique path can foster a healthier mindset. Career success is subjective and varies from person to person. Embracing your own timeline is key to fulfillment. Titles The Illusion of Perfection on Social Media Understanding Career Stages in a Digital Age Sound bites "in this day and age of social media" "you could be just starting out in your career" Chapters 00:00 Navigating Social Media's Highlight Reel 00:10 Career Stages and the Comparison Trap

    28 min

  6. 11/07/2025

    Episode 212: It’s All How You See It: The Truth About Perception (and Why It’s Never the Same for Everyone)

    Keywords perception, reality, experiences, perspectives, personal stories, communication, understanding, life updates, psychological thriller Summary In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Jayla and Shaye explore the theme of perception, discussing how two people can experience the same event yet derive completely different meanings from it. They share personal anecdotes, including life updates and experiences that illustrate the concept of perception in everyday life. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding different perspectives and how shifting one's perception can lead to a more positive outlook. Takeaways Perception shapes our reality and experiences. Two people can interpret the same event differently. Shifting your perception can lead to positive changes. Personal experiences can influence our perceptions. Understanding others' perspectives is crucial for communication. Life is busy, filled with various activities and commitments. The arts can evoke different perceptions based on individual experiences. Late-night events may not appeal to everyone. Finding humor in everyday situations can shift our perspective. We should strive for more inclusive social events. Titles Exploring the Nature of Perception Perception: The Lens Through Which We See Life Sound bites "Perception is reality." "I wasn't the biggest fan of the show." "I promise I looked in my door." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Perception 02:42 Life Updates and Personal Experiences 05:51 The Key Incident: A Lesson in Perception 08:31 Understanding Different Perspectives

    10 min

  7. 10/23/2025

    Episode 211: Believe It’s Working (Even When You Can’t See It Yet).

    Keywords Ask Yourself YNOT, belief, patience, personal growth, podcasting, Taylor Swift, community, resilience, goals, self-improvement Summary In this episode of the Ask Yourself WHYNOT podcast, hosts Jayla and Shaye discuss the importance of believing in the process of personal growth and the power of patience. They reflect on their journey with the podcast, the challenges of achieving goals, and the significance of community support. The conversation also touches on the influence of pop culture, particularly Taylor Swift, and how it relates to their experiences and aspirations. Takeaways The journey of personal growth requires patience and belief. It's common to feel stagnant despite hard work; growth may be happening beneath the surface. Community support is crucial in maintaining motivation and belief in one's goals. Setting big goals can lead to feelings of doubt; it's important to focus on small wins. Believing in the process can help shift your mindset and perception of progress. Growth often occurs in invisible ways before it becomes visible. Detaching from timelines can reduce pressure and enhance focus on the work itself. Daily habits and consistent effort lead to eventual results, even if they aren't immediately visible. Using affirmations like 'Even though I can't see it, I trust that it's working' can build faith. Surrounding yourself with positive voices can help reinforce your vision and goals. Sound bites "What's up, WHYNOTers?" "The power of believing it's working." "Detach from the timeline." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Ask Yourself WHYNOT Podcast 10:41 The Power of Believing It's Working 25:27 Building Patience and Trust in the Process

    33 min
  8. Episode 210: Why Not Make a Wish Come True?

    10/10/2025

    Episode 210: Why Not Make a Wish Come True?

    Keywords podcast, Special Wish Foundation, Lip Sync Challenge, community event, fundraising, children's wishes, nonprofit, local impact, emotional connection, mindset Get your Tickets to the Lip Sync Challenge Here or Here Summary In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Jayla Robinson and Shaye Pentino discuss the impactful work of the Special Wish Foundation, which grants wishes to children battling life-threatening illnesses. They speak with the organizations Director of Funding, Jeremiah Freeland and delve into the details of the upcoming Lip Sync Challenge, a community fundraising event that not only raises money for local children but also fosters a sense of community and joy. The conversation highlights memorable performances, the emotional connection to the cause, and the importance of community involvement in making a difference. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to support the event and the foundation's mission. Takeaways The Special Wish Foundation grants wishes to children with life-threatening illnesses. All funds raised by the foundation stay local, impacting the community directly. The Lip Sync Challenge is the foundation's biggest fundraiser, attracting hundreds of attendees. Community involvement is crucial for the success of the event and the foundation's mission. Contestants in the Lip Sync Challenge experience personal growth and fun while supporting a good cause. Memorable performances often surprise the audience and create lasting memories. The emotional connection to the cause helps volunteers and organizers stay motivated. Seeing tangible results from fundraising efforts is rewarding for everyone involved. The event serves as a therapeutic experience for both participants and attendees. Engaging the community fosters a sense of unity and support for local families in need. Titles Why Not Make a Wish Come True? The Power of Community in Fundraising Sound bites "It's a labor of love." "You never know what to expect." "It's instant therapy." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guests 04:06 Understanding Special Wish Foundation 05:30 The Lip Sync Challenge: A Community Event 11:45 Behind the Scenes of the Lip Sync Challenge 19:08 Mindset and Community Impact 23:12 The Joy of Giving Back 27:24 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

    30 min
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Welcome to Ask Yourself Why Not! We’re Jayla and Shaye—two friends and your personal hype squad here to help you ditch self-doubt and live confidently. We’re curious about a variety of topics, from confidence-building to mindset shifts, and each week we share real talk, practical tools, and plenty of laughs. Plus, we interview experts from all over the world to bring you fresh insights. So, whether you’re sipping your coffee or taking us on a walk, hit play on your favorite podcast platform and join our uplifting community. Why not start today? We’re so glad you’re here!

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    Ask Yourself, Why Not ?
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2025
  • Episodes
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