Beyond the Letter

Beyond the Letter Podcast
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Beyond the Letter, is a podcast that will shake up and challenge the way we think. In a world today that's muddled with hate, divisiveness and separation; this podcast, hosted by Adam Mesa helps us discover everyone has a story to tell. Subscribe and be a part of the movement to challenge the world's thinking. Don't forget to join the conversation by commenting below! BEYOND THE LETTER: LIVE every SUNDAY at 6pm! Instagram: @beyond.theletter TikTok: @beyond.theletter Podcast: Apple Podcast, Spotify, iHeart Radio, Spreaker, Deezer, Castbox, Podcast Addict, Podchaser --

  1. 1D AGO

    How to Disagree Without Turning It Personal | S4E19 BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST

    In today’s episode, Adam and Sammy talk about what it looks like for church leaders to stand firm in a politically charged moment—without turning the pulpit into a weekly news recap or a social media battlefield. They unpack why the loudest voices often live on the “fringes,” how pastors can feel pressured by ultimatums from both sides, and why “I don’t care who gets offended” isn’t a fruit of the Spirit. If you’re leading people (or trying to stay grounded as a believer), this conversation is a guide for clarity, courage, and emotional maturity in a chaotic culture.They also get practical: how to disagree without personal attacks, why asking better questions matters (“why do you ask?”), and how discipleship starts with identity before behavior change. Along the way, they highlight the difference between ideology-shaping and sin-addressing, the dangers of algorithm-driven thinking, and why real influence should build bridges—not burn them. The goal isn’t silence. It’s wisdom. It’s holding the line with conviction and compassion.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

    1h 7m
  2. We Thought Marriage Would Be Bliss… (Valentines Day Special) | S3E18 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

    4D AGO

    We Thought Marriage Would Be Bliss… (Valentines Day Special) | S3E18 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

    Marriage changes you—sometimes in the sweetest ways, and sometimes in the most surprising ones. In this Valentine’s Day special, Adam and Ashlee sit down for a “Then, Now, Next” conversation: what they thought marriage would be like in year one, what’s actually been the biggest surprise along the way, and what they’re hoping their marriage looks like five to ten years from now. It’s honest, funny, and way more relatable than the picture-perfect version of love we all imagine at the beginning.They also revisit the kinds of hard conversations couples tend to avoid early on—friendships, family dynamics, intimacy, and expectations—and why healthy marriages don’t happen by accident. If you’re married, dating, engaged, or even single and preparing for the future, this episode gives you practical questions you can bring to your own table—because sometimes the best Valentine’s gift isn’t a reservation… it’s a real conversation.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

    50 min

  3. FEB 9

    Don’t Let the Crowd Define You | S4E18 BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST

    A viral boxing clip sparks a deeper conversation about identity, perseverance, and what happens when embarrassment hits you mid-fight. Aaron is joined by Gabe and Sanaz as they unpack the moment a boxer gets rocked—his toupee flips back, the crowd goes wild, and he has a split second decision to make: spiral in shame or stay locked in. What makes the clip unforgettable isn’t the hair—it’s that he throws the distraction to the crowd… and keeps fighting until he wins.From there, the conversation turns into a real-life mirror: how often do we lose momentum because of a small mistake, a public moment, or someone else’s opinion? They talk about the difference between feedback in the locker room vs. criticism from the crowd, why distractions feel louder than the mission, and how confidence grows when your identity is anchored in something deeper than performance. If you’ve ever tripped in public (or stumbled in your purpose) and wanted to disappear, this episode is your reminder: don’t quit the fight—keep your eyes on the win.--Connect with:Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/Gabriel Guzman https://www.instagram.com/salinascyy/Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

    54 min
  4. Stop Being the “Mommy Wife” | S3E17 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

    FEB 5

    Stop Being the “Mommy Wife” | S3E17 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

    It’s a Women’s Beyond I Do episode—and Ashlee is joined by Sanaz and Erica for a marriage Q&A that gets real fast. Instead of generic advice, they lock in on one core issue that quietly wrecks a lot of homes: when a wife starts feeling like a mother-manager instead of a partner… and when a husband starts living like he’s being “raised” instead of leading alongside her. They talk about the mental load, the constant “why is this STILL on the table?” moments, and how the smallest repeated patterns can snowball into big resentment if nobody addresses it.From there, they give practical language for course-correcting without blowing up: how to ask for help before you hit your breaking point, why being seen and appreciated matters more than “perfect fairness,” and how to navigate hard conversations without shutting down—especially when one spouse needs resolution now and the other needs time to process. Plus: a powerful perspective shift—learning to love what your spouse loves, and letting marriage become a mirror that shapes your patience, maturity, and relationship with God.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Sanaz Mesa & Erica Levyhttps://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_np/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

    52 min

  5. FEB 2

    Better Together: Teamwork & Healthy Teams | S4E17 BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST

    This week on Beyond the Letter, Sammy hosts a conversation on teamwork—what it really takes to build healthy teams, healthy culture, and healthy leadership in everyday life. Joined by his wife Chandler and their friend Haron, they unpack why collaboration matters more than ever, how unity can exist without everyone thinking the same, and why “going far” requires learning to stay connected even through disagreements. From leadership circles to friendships and family rhythms, the thread is simple: you don’t have to carry everything alone.They also go practical with holistic health—body, mind, relationships, and spirituality—sharing a framework Chandler uses in her counseling work (biopsychosocial + spiritual) and how healthy habits shape strong teams over time. The episode closes with a powerful culture takeaway: culture isn’t just what we do—it’s why we do it… and the language we repeat is what we end up defending. Plus, Andy jumps in with a Gen Z perspective on building “teams” even when you’re introverted or your circle is small.--Connect with:Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/Chandler Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Check out Adam's website!https://www.adammesa.org/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

    1h 4m
  6. Stop Making Marriage Miserable | S3E16 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

    JAN 29

    Stop Making Marriage Miserable | S3E16 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

    Sometimes the quickest way to drain the joy out of marriage is turning your relationship into a strict routine, a running scoreboard, or a daily critique session. In this episode, Adam and Ashlee talk about keeping marriage fun—not by ignoring real issues, but by refusing to nitpick each other to death. They react to a viral “just let them be” video and unpack what it looks like to have a relationship where you support each other’s hobbies, rhythms, naps, and personality quirks… without making everything a fight. Because not every annoyance deserves a confrontation—and not every preference deserves a rule.They also get real about what does need a conversation: when stress, exhaustion, or overwork starts changing who you are. From folded laundry sitting on the table to Disney passes, date nights, and learning to enjoy what your spouse enjoys, this episode is all about grace, teamwork, and healthy communication. Adam and Ashlee also share a serious warning about how “punishment patterns” (like withholding affection or constantly creating tension) can quickly spiral into bigger damage. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s building a marriage that feels safe, light, and full of joy again.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

    54 min

  7. JAN 26

    The Megachurch Debate Isn’t That Simple | S4E16 BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST

    In this episode, Sammy hosts with Haron and Fuego as they react to Druski’s viral “megachurch” skit—and talk about why it hit such a nerve. They unpack the difference between mocking faith vs. mocking the performance of faith, and why so many people take a painful experience and turn it into a blanket statement: “this is why I don’t do church.” From there, the conversation turns into a real look inward: hypocrisy, accountability, and how leaders can invite trusted voices in, “watch the film,” and stay centered on God instead of image.They also zoom out to what people don’t always see behind the curtain: the impact, resourcing, missions, and restoration work that healthy churches are doing quietly. Plus, Andy jumps in with Gen Z perspective—why young people are spiritually curious but often lack biblical foundation, and why a skit shouldn’t become someone’s whole theology. The big takeaway: don’t let viral moments push you away from Jesus or the local church—let it spark honest reflection, deeper discipleship, and a return to the Word.--Connect with:Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/Fuego Padilla https://www.instagram.com/iamfuegopadilla/--Check out Adam's website!https://www.adammesa.org/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

    54 min
  8. Stop Chasing Popular Men | S3E15 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

    JAN 22

    Stop Chasing Popular Men | S3E15 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

    In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack a viral dating idea: “I want my man to be the leader of his friend group.” And they push back hard—because status isn’t the same thing as integrity. They talk about why chasing the “head honcho” can actually be a red flag, and why what you really want to look for is something deeper: initiative, discipline, character, humility, and the ability to lead in a healthy way—not just perform confidence for attention.The conversation goes further into something most people don’t connect to dating: friendships. Adam and Ashlee get real about how unhealthy relationships can spill into your marriage, your peace, and your family—and why maturity sometimes means letting go of friendships you’ve outgrown, setting standards, and refusing to carry someone else’s chaos. They also talk about “surface-level” friendships, one-sided relationships, and what healthy community actually looks like when you’re trying to build something lasting with your spouse and kids.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

    55 min
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Beyond the Letter, is a podcast that will shake up and challenge the way we think. In a world today that's muddled with hate, divisiveness and separation; this podcast, hosted by Adam Mesa helps us discover everyone has a story to tell. Subscribe and be a part of the movement to challenge the world's thinking. Don't forget to join the conversation by commenting below! BEYOND THE LETTER: LIVE every SUNDAY at 6pm! Instagram: @beyond.theletter TikTok: @beyond.theletter Podcast: Apple Podcast, Spotify, iHeart Radio, Spreaker, Deezer, Castbox, Podcast Addict, Podchaser --

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  • Creator
    Beyond the Letter Podcast
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    291
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Beyond the Letter Podcast
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