Beyond Vanilla

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Beyond Vanilla is a sex-positive podcast on non-monogamy, hosted by best mates Amy C & Emily Spice. Join us for unfiltered chats on open relationships, boundaries, jealousy, and everything in between. With our hubbies along for the ride, no topic is off-limits. Expect real talk, personal stories, plenty of laughs, and zero judgment. 💋 New episodes weekly. Come for the chat, stay for the chaos. A taste of life Beyond Vanilla awaits…

  1. 2D AGO

    #25: We’re Back! A Swinging Lifestyle Catch-Up | Events, Wobbles & 2026 Plans

    Episode 25 — We’re Back, Bitches! (2026 Catch-Up) Explicit Content Warning: Adult themes, lifestyle chat & unfiltered language. Listener discretion advised. We’re back, bitches — did you miss us? 😘 Our first episode of 2026 is a proper catch-up, recorded the morning after our second Anti-Social Behaviour meet-up (yes… we’re hanging) In this episode we’re chatting about: 🔥 What really went down at the Anti-Social Behaviour events 🎢 Our Butlin’s trip ❤️ An honest update on Amy & Ben’s progress after their wobble 🎄 Christmas chaos, life updates, and everything we’ve been up to 💬 And just generally having a good old natter like we never left No agenda. Just us, catching up, oversharing (as always), and easing ourselves back into 2026 with our usual no sugarcoating, no gatekeeping, no bullshit energy. If you’re new — welcome. If you’re a regular — thanks for sticking with us. Either way… we’re so glad to be back. 💋

    46 min

  2. 12/07/2025

    #24: Merry Swingmas From Beyond Vanilla HQ! Xmas Episode

    🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode includes adult themes, lifestyle chat & unfiltered language. Listener discretion advised. Merry Christmas you filthy animals! 🎄This week we’re bringing you a festive special — recorded on location because apparently we like to challenge ourselves (and your eardrums). So if the audio is slightly chaotic, just pretend it’s snow, crystals, or sleigh bells. You know us — ever the professionals. 😉 In this episode, we’re diving into: ✨ Christmas & New Year events happening in the lifestyle🎉 Our plans for the holiday season🎄 Hilarious stories from festive meets gone by💋 Celebrating our first play anniversary🔥 The first ever Anti-Social DTF event happening the very night of recording📜 Our “F**k It List” for 2026 — what we want to try, explore, experience & maybe survive It’s cozy, cheeky, slightly chaotic and full of festive filth — just the way we like it.Grab a mulled wine, get comfy, and celebrate with us as we wrap up an incredible year with all of YOU. ❤️ Thank you for listening, supporting, laughing, learning and wobbling with us.We love you and we’ll see you in 2026. 🎙️💋

    49 min

  3. 11/23/2025

    #23: Bliss Cruise Breakdown! What Really Happens On A Ship Full Of Swingers?

    🔞 Content Warning: This episode contains explicit discussion of adult themes, ENM, and the swinging lifestyle. Listener discretion is advised. 🔞 This week on Beyond Vanilla, Amy is catching up with Emily and Darren fresh off their Bliss Cruise adventure — and yes, they’ve brought home all the gossip… and a touch of the infamous swinger flu. Expect uncensored stories, naughty tea, and zero gatekeeping as they spill exactly what really goes down on a debaucherous swinger’s cruise and their wild night at a Florida swinger resort. If you’ve ever wondered what these trips are actually like behind the glossy TikToks and filtered posts… buckle up. We recorded this one remotely thanks to the germs they smuggled back from sea 👀 so please excuse a couple of small tech issues — but trust us, the stories more than make up for it. Get comfy, grab a drink, and come sail into the chaos with us.

    1h 11m

  4. 11/09/2025

    #22: When The Lifestyle Gets Real: Solo Play & The Wobbles That Came After.

    🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains open and honest discussions about ethical non-monogamy, solo play, emotional vulnerability, and relationship dynamics. Listener discretion advised. This week it’s just Amy & Ben — and we’re keeping it extremely real. We’re diving deep into what happens after solo play in an open relationship… when the emotions hit, the insecurities creep in, and your attachment style decides to make a surprise appearance. Amy opens up about discovering her anxious attachment style and how it’s changed the way she understands her reactions, communication, and confidence in the lifestyle. We’re breaking down:How solo play can trigger unexpected feelingsHow to communicate through the wobble without blameHow to recognise when it’s your attachment style talking — not your partner And why it’s totally normal to have these feelings, even in a healthy, open relationship No sugarcoating. No gatekeeping. Just the honest, messy, real side of ethical non-monogamy. Because you can be secure and still have wobbles. You’re human.

    1h 7m

  5. 10/26/2025

    #21: Breaking the Ice in the Lifestyle (and Maybe a Few Rules)

    🎙️ Content Warning: Adult themes, explicit language, and way too much laughter. 18+ only. This week on Beyond Vanilla, Amy and Emily are joined by the one and only Doug the Pug in place of the boys! We’re talking about breaking the ice in the lifestyle — creative, funny, and sometimes spicy ways to meet new couples that go beyond the usual bar or restaurant setup. Because let’s be real… not everyone’s a social butterfly or a drinker, and sometimes even us anti-social swingers need a few tricks up our sleeve. From our own hilarious experiences to fresh ideas for first meets, we’re sharing real stories, real talk, and a few chaotic tangents (obviously). Oh — and because it wouldn’t be us without a detour — we’re touching on BDSM in the lifestyle. It’s raw, honest, unfiltered, and full of laughs — just how we like it. 🎧 Tune in to Episode 21 of Beyond Vanilla — where honesty meets hilarity in the world of ethical non-monogamy.

    1 hr

  6. 10/12/2025

    #20: Rejection In The Lifestyle: There’s A Mop For Every Bucket!

    🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes related to the ENM and swinging lifestyle. Listener discretion is advised! This time on Beyond Vanilla, Amy and Emily are diving into one of the trickiest parts of the lifestyle — rejection.How do you handle being rejected? And how do you reject someone kindly without feeling like an absolute villain? As Amy always says, “There’s a mop for every bucket — sometimes your mop just doesn’t fit in their bucket, and that’s okay!” 💦 We’re sharing our top tips and tricks for navigating rejection like pros — from setting boundaries and keeping confidence intact to remembering that it’s never personal.We’re also chatting about neurospicy swingers, the real reasons rejection stings so much, and of course, sharing our usual chaos and funny stories along the way. Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Absolutely no gatekeeping.If you’ve ever felt that little sting of “not chosen,” this one’s for you. 🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes related to the swinging and ENM lifestyle.

    46 min

  7. 09/28/2025

    #19: Think You Know What Swinging Is? Myth Busting Misconceptions Of ENM

    🔞 Explicit Content – 18+ only 🔞 Amy & Emily are back on the sofa for Episode 19 of the Beyond Vanilla Podcast, and this week we’re tackling some of the biggest myths and misconceptions about the swinging lifestyle. We’re breaking down what people think the lifestyle is versus what it’s actually like — from jealousy and relationships, to dogging myths, to whether friendships really exist in the ENM and swinger community. We share our own personal experiences — the good, the bad, and the messy — and talk about how jealousy shows up (and why it doesn’t mean you’re a “bad swinger”), plus the realities of ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and swinging. As always, it’s raw, unfiltered, and unapologetically honest!

    1h 3m

  8. 09/14/2025

    #18: No Filter, No Gatekeeping: Leaving The Lifestyle, Imitate Hygiene & Your Swinging Questions Answered!

    ⚠️ Explicit Content | 18+ Only This episode contains frank, unfiltered conversations about swinging, sex, and everything in between. If you’re under 18, this one’s not for you. Episode 19 of the Beyond Vanilla Podcast with Amy, Emily , Benjamin & the one and only Doug the Pug. This week we’re diving into YOUR questions straight from Instagram — and nothing is off-limits. From intimate hygiene to pegging, our dream club theme nights, going viral on TikTok, playroom etiquette, and even our thoughts on Bonnie Blue we are giving you our opinions in our usual unfiltered way! As always, expect plenty of laughs, swearing, oversharing, and zero sugarcoating. No gatekeeping here — just the real talk about the lifestyle you won’t hear anywhere else.

    1h 10m
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Beyond Vanilla is a sex-positive podcast on non-monogamy, hosted by best mates Amy C & Emily Spice. Join us for unfiltered chats on open relationships, boundaries, jealousy, and everything in between. With our hubbies along for the ride, no topic is off-limits. Expect real talk, personal stories, plenty of laughs, and zero judgment. 💋 New episodes weekly. Come for the chat, stay for the chaos. A taste of life Beyond Vanilla awaits…

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  • Creator
    BeyondVanilla
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    26
  • Rating
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