Blunt But Brilliant

Nikki Ivers and Tary Varnum
  • 5.0 (3)
  • Mental Health

Blunt But Brilliant was created to help you get unstuck. We are here to teach you how to bring out your best self by showcasing topics based in self awareness, self discovery and self reflection.

  1. 3d ago

    Episode 41-Using Fitness to Aid in Trauma Recovery

    In this episode, Nikki and Tary share insights on the transformative power of weightlifting for trauma recovery, mental health, and aging well. They discuss practical tips, recent research, and personal experiences to inspire listeners to connect their body and mind. Nikki's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/3QxC3Ua Tary's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/4uPTRaY *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

    53 min

  2. Jun 26

    Episode 40- We Are Only As Old As We Tell Ourselves

    In this episode, Nikki and Tary explore the fascinating science of aging, mindset, and lifestyle choices that influence how young we feel and how long we live. They share personal stories, recent studies, and practical tips to embrace aging with vitality and positivity. Nikki's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/4oLghJl Tary's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/3SpYQll *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases

    50 min

  3. Jun 19

    Episode 39-Regret vs Remorse and How We Can Get Past It

    In this episode, Nikki and Tary explore the nuanced differences between regret and remorse, sharing personal stories and insights on how understanding these feelings can lead to growth and healing. They discuss how to let go of past mistakes, the importance of self-forgiveness, and lessons learned from relationships and life choices. Nikki's favorite item of the weekhttps://athleta.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=864090122&vid=1&searchText=signature%20rib%20tank#pdp-page-content Tary's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/4vyzSP0 *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

    54 min

  4. Jun 12

    Episode 38-How to Change Your Mindset

    In this episode, Nikki and Tary explore how to change your own mindset and possibly influence others without being aggressive manipulative. They discuss neuroplasticity, the use of clinical psychedelics, the impact of aging, and practical strategies for personal growth and effective communication. Nikki's favorite item of the week:(paid link) https://amzn.to/4vFcUWk*As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases Tary's favorite item of the week:https://www.everand.com/ If you are in the Reno/Sparks Nevada area, and are interested in the Spravato Clinic that is mentioned in this episode, click here: https://www.balancedmindnv.com/

    59 min

  5. Jun 5

    Episode 37: Generativity and How We Are Failing Our Aging Older Generations

    In this episode, we explore the importance of generativity across generations by sharing personal stories and discussing how passing down wisdom enriches lives. We also discuss where we are failing at this by not giving older generations the time and patience to share their hard earned lessons and advice.  Nikki's favorite item of the weekMemory of a Killer starring Patrick Dempsey on Hulu Tary's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/4tIvlc0 *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

    47 min

  6. May 29

    Episode 36-An Honest Discussion on the Realities of Emotional Masculinity and Maturity

    This episode explores emotional masculinity, the importance of emotional intelligence in men, emotional maturity and how it impacts relationships. Featuring insights from Mike Hamm and perspectives on communication, vulnerability, and relationship dynamics, we offer practical advice for fostering healthier connections. Nikki's favorite item of the weekhttps://amzn.to/3OgxPPG Tary's favorite item of the weekhttps://amzn.to/4tFdQcd Mike's favorite item of the weekhttps://www.thenorthfacerenewed.com/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=20647664368&gbraid=0AAAAAqWeN9577slg4r_2bgsxGjLOYKF26&gclid=Cj0KCQjwqPLOBhCiARIsAKRMPZqalu3wPjz27rfzgpVmqWYnRBR6voAxwcCRkVNTNtrkUWw3Nn6EmLEaAmYSEALw_wcB

    58 min

  7. May 22

    Episode 35-Nikki and Tary Examine Their Personal Red and Green Flags

    In this episode, Nikki and Tary share their insights into their own red and green flags in relationships, self-awareness, and everyday habits. They explore how honesty, boundaries, and self-acceptance shape their lives and connections. Nikki's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/4vg0hBK Tary's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/4t7vSUY *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

    51 min

  8. May 15

    Episode 34-Are you Feeling Stuck? Us Too! Here is What We're Doing to Get Unstuck.

    In this engaging conversation, Nikki and Tary explore the challenges of feeling stuck, share personal stories, and discuss practical strategies for overcoming emotional and mental barriers. From handling anxiety and emotional blockages to embracing change and self-care, they offer valuable insights to help listeners navigate their own journeys of growth. Nikki's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/41dfXbj Tary's favorite item of the week(paid link) https://amzn.to/4serJgn *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases

    50 min
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About

Blunt But Brilliant was created to help you get unstuck. We are here to teach you how to bring out your best self by showcasing topics based in self awareness, self discovery and self reflection.

Information

  • Creator
    Nikki Ivers and Tary Varnum
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    41
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Nikki Ivers and Tary Varnum

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