Break Free From Insecurity | intrusive thoughts, self-confidence, overthinking, people pleasing, perfectionism

Marjorie Broce - Christian Mindset Mentor, Confidence Coach & Inner Healing Guide
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Do you ever feel like you're not enough? Do you find yourself second-guessing your decisions, worrying about what other people think, or trying to earn your worth through performance? What if those struggles aren't the real problem? What if they're simply surface struggles pointing to deeper beliefs about who you are? I'm Marji—a teacher and passionate follower of Jesus who loves helping women uncover lies and replace them with God's truth. For years I lived trapped by insecurity, people-pleasing, and the fear of what others thought of me. I lived with a deep fear of rejection, and it was paralyzing.  Everything began to change when God showed me that I wasn't just struggling with insecurity and rejection—I was believing lies about my identity. As I began replacing those lies with God's truth, I discovered something life-changing: My identity isn't something I have to earn. It's something I already have in Christ. Together each week on Break Free From Insecurity, we'll uncover the lies that keep us stuck, discover what God says is already true about us, and learn to live from our true identity in Christ. We'll explore topics like: • Discovering false identity and true identity • Overcoming insecurity, rejection, and people pleasing • Renewing your mind with God's truth • Hearing God's voice and growing in wisdom • Setting healthy boundaries • Replacing fear, shame, and comparison with confidence rooted in Christ Many of our surface struggles point to deeper core beliefs. Together we'll uncover those beliefs and replace them with God's truth. If you're ready to stop striving, start believing what God says about you, and experience the freedom that comes from living in your true identity, you're in the right place. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Ranked in the Top 3% of Podcasts Worldwide So grab your coffee, open your heart, and let's discover together who you already are in Christ. I'd love to have you join me. Join our Facebook community: Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women)   Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women) Become an Insider and receive my weekly encouraging email and a freebie to help you practice listening to God: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider

  1. 1d ago

    23. What Do You Do When What God Put in Your Heart Still Hasn't Happened?

    What do you do when you believe God put something in your heart to do... but years later, it still hasn't happened? Maybe the waiting has been longer than you expected. Maybe there have been setbacks, delays, or circumstances that seem to contradict what you thought God showed you. You may even begin to wonder: Did I hear God correctly? Did I mess something up? Will this ever actually happen? In this episode, we're looking at Joseph, whose circumstances seemed to take him further away from the dream God gave him. But while Joseph was waiting, God was working. The delay is never wasted time. There is healing, growth, and maturity still happening in us. God may be working in circumstances and in the lives of other people in ways we cannot see. But while you're waiting for what God put in your heart to happen, your life is happening right now. You don't have to put your joy on hold until you reach the destination. God is with you in the process. He sees the end from the beginning, but He also cares deeply about who you're becoming along the way. In this episode, discover how to: Trust God when the dream He put in your heart seems delayed Stop letting insecurity interpret the waiting as proof that you heard God wrong Look for what God may be doing in you during the process Enjoy the life God has given you today instead of putting your joy on hold for tomorrow Make declarations because your tongue is a powerful force.  But leave off when and how it will happen.   Trust God with the destination... and enjoy walking with Him on the journey.   ✨ Take the Next Step Sign up for an Identity Breakthrough Coaching Session!  https://calendly.com/breakfreefrominsecurity/identity-breakthrough-coaching-session Email MarjoriejBroce@gmail for questions regarding the coaching.   Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and the activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity  https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 ___________________________________________

  2. Aug 31

    22. The Lies Moms Believe When Their Child Rejects Them--with Sarah Wall

    When your child pulls away, it can make you question everything—including who you are—but their choices don't get to define your identity. When your own child pulls away or doesn't want a relationship with you, it's natural to replay the past and wonder: Did I fail as a mother? Is this all my fault? What could I have done differently? If my own child rejects me, does that mean there's something wrong with me? Will things ever change? In today's episode, I'm joined by Sarah Wall, host of the Praying Moms of Estranged Children podcast and a Christian estrangement mentor. Having walked through seasons of estrangement with her own adult children, Sarah understands the worry, heartbreak, and uncertainty that moms can carry. Together, we talk about how painful circumstances can become painful beliefs about ourselves—and how to recognize the difference between healthy self-examination and condemnation that keeps us stuck in shame. We also explore how to identify the deeper lie beneath the thoughts and emotions we're experiencing, bring those beliefs to God, and begin receiving His truth. Because you may have made mistakes. We all have. But something that happened in your relationship with your child does not get to define who you are. In this episode, you'll discover: How to recognize when guilt or regret has turned into a lie about your identity The difference between saying “I made a mistake” and believing “I am a failure” How to separate your child's rejection from your identity The difference between healthy conviction and condemnation Why replaying the past isn't always repentance—sometimes it's self-punishment How to identify the deeper belief beneath painful thoughts and emotions A simple process for bringing those beliefs to God and receiving His truth Your child's estrangement may be part of your story, but it doesn't get to write your identity. ________________________ Connect with Sarah Wall Praying Moms of Estranged Children Podcast Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/praying-moms-of-estranged-children-pray-trust-in-god/id1841243613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/58GdQYsiHfKT5Fga0fKhx6?si=4e54943ac3204db3 📚 Schedule a Peaceful Mom Coaching Session with Sarah: https://bit.ly/peacefulmom  ⓕ Facebook: Join my Praying Moms of Estranged and Prodigal Adult Children community 👥 Join the Inner Circle to get weekly faith-based inspiration: awakenedchristianwomaninsider.gr-site.com   Email Sarah: sarah@prayingmoms.co  ________________________________ ✨ Take the Next Step Sign up for an Identity Coaching Session!  https://calendly.com/breakfreefrominsecurity/identity-breakthrough-coaching-session Email MarjoriejBroce@gmail for questions regarding the coaching.   Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity  https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 ___________________________________________

  3. Aug 24

    21. Why You Still Feel Like an Orphan: How to Receive the Father's Love

    Many Christians love Jesus but still live like spiritual orphans. Discover how the Father's love and the Spirit of adoption help you stop striving, break free from the orphan mindset, and live from the security of knowing you already belong. Have you ever wondered why some Christians seem to live with so much freedom and joy while others spend their lives striving to prove they're enough? Why do some people celebrate another person's success while others secretly compare themselves? Why do some rest in the Father's love while others constantly wonder if they've done enough? The answer may surprise you. You can know Jesus... and still live with an orphan mindset. In this episode, we'll explore how the fear of not belonging quietly shapes our relationships, our thoughts, and even the way we relate to God. Through the story of the Prodigal Son, you'll discover that both the rebellious son and the religious son needed the very same thing—the Father's love. We'll also explore what it means to receive the Spirit of adoption in Romans 8 and why Jesus came to do more than save us from sin—He came to bring us to the Father. If you've been striving, comparing yourself to others, trying to earn God's approval, or wondering if you truly belong, this episode will encourage you to stop living like an orphan and begin living as the beloved daughter your Father says you already are. In this episode you'll discover: Why many Christians still struggle with an orphan mindset. The difference between living for identity and living from identity. What the older brother in the Prodigal Son teaches us about performance and comparison. How the Father's love frees us from striving and the need to prove ourselves. What it means to receive the Spirit of adoption and cry, "Abba, Father." Scriptures Luke 15:11–32 Romans 8:15–17 John 14:18 Mentions Episode 2 when I talk about my insecurity being self-centered https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/02-overthinking-relationships-why-you-assume-the/id1892876547?i=1000760965287  Episode 3  when I talk about my year of awe https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/03-why-you-feel-unloved-in-relationships-and-how-god/id1892876547?i=1000761183219  Healing the orphan spirit was taught first to me by Leif Hetland.  You can find him on Youtube and here is a link to his book called The Orphan Spirit https://a.co/d/0aEoW0Ux  This Week's Activation Ask the Holy Spirit: "Would You show me one area where I've been trying to get from another person what my Father has wanted to give me all along?" Then ask the Father: "What do You want me to know about belonging to Your family?" Listen. Write down what you sense Him saying. Then declare: I release the lie that I have to earn love. I release the lie that I don't belong. I receive the truth that I already belong to my Father. I am His daughter. I have a place in His family. ✨ Take the Next Step Identity Coaching: https://calendly.com/breakfreefrominsecurity/identity-breakthrough-coaching-session  Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 _____________________________________________________ Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c

  4. Aug 17

    20. Why You Never Quite Feel Like You Belong: How God Heals the Fear of Feeling Alone

    If you've ever felt like you don't belong, struggled with abandonment, or feared being left, discover how the Father's love gives you the security of knowing you belong in God's family. If you've ever struggled with abandonment issues, the fear of being left, or feeling like you don't belong, this episode is for you. Sometimes the deepest wound isn't that someone left. It's what their leaving taught you to believe. Maybe you've spent years trying to earn love, prove your worth, or keep people from leaving—without realizing those fears have shaped the way you relate to both people and God. In this episode, we look at one of Jesus' most familiar parables through a fresh lens: The Prodigal Son. You'll discover that there weren't just one, but two lost sons. One left home. The other never felt at home. Both needed to experience the Father's heart. We'll explore how the fear of abandonment can quietly become an orphan mindset—and how God's love invites us to stop striving and start living as beloved daughters who already belong. In this episode, you'll discover: Why abandonment wounds often lead to performance and striving What the older brother reveals about living like an orphan The difference between earning acceptance and living from acceptance How the Spirit of adoption replaces the fear of being left Why belonging—not performance—is the foundation of your identity in Christ Scriptures Luke 15:11–32 Romans 8:15–17 Hebrews 13:5 Activation Ask the Father: "Where am I still living like I have to earn a place in Your family?" Then ask Jesus: "What do You want me to know about belonging to You?" Listen. Write. Receive His love. Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c ✨ Take the Next Step Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244

  5. Aug 10

    19. Why Does Being Left Hurt So Much? What It May Be Teaching You About Yourself

    If you've ever struggled with abandonment, fear of rejection, or feeling like you don't belong, discover what those experiences may have taught you about yourself—and how God's truth can begin setting you free. Why does being left hurt so much? Why do some people become people pleasers while others build walls? Why do some pull away from relationships while others constantly need reassurance? In this episode, we explore why the pain of being left often goes much deeper than the event itself. Together, we'll uncover how experiences of abandonment—whether real or perceived—can quietly shape the beliefs you carry about yourself, your relationships, and even your view of God. You'll discover: Why people respond so differently to abandonment How painful experiences can create hidden "core belief saboteurs" Why your feelings are clues instead of your identity How to begin uncovering the lies beneath insecurity and fear of rejection Why the question, "What did being left teach me to believe about myself?" can be the beginning of freedom Scriptures Romans 8:15–17 Hebrews 13:5 Activation Ask the Father: "Would You show me one memory where I first began believing I was alone... or not worth staying for?" Then ask Jesus: "Where were You in that moment?" Listen. Write. Let Him meet you there.   ✨ Take the Next Step Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 ____________________________ Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c

  6. Aug 3

    18. Think God's Peace Depends on Your Circumstances? What if it Doesn't? | Jehovah Shalom

    If your peace disappears whenever life falls apart, discover how Jehovah Shalom—The Lord Is Peace—offers a peace that isn't determined by your circumstances. Do you struggle with anxiety, worry, or feeling overwhelmed by life's circumstances? Do you find yourself thinking, "I'll have peace when this situation is over." "When my marriage gets better..." "When the finances improve..." "When my health changes..." What if your peace was never meant to depend on your circumstances? In this episode of Break Free From Insecurity, you'll discover the meaning of Jehovah Shalom—The Lord Is Peace and learn how to experience God's peace even in the middle of stress, uncertainty, difficult circumstances, and anxiety. Through the stories of Gideon, Jesus calming the storm, and Paul's words from prison, you'll discover that biblical peace isn't something you receive after your problems are solved—it's something God offers you right now. In this episode you'll discover: ✨ Why your circumstances don't have to determine your peace ✨ What the name Jehovah Shalom really means—and why God revealed it to Gideon before the battle was won ✨ How Jesus demonstrated that peace isn't the absence of a storm but the presence of God ✨ Why Paul could write about peace while sitting in prison ✨ How to recognize the lie that says, "I can't have peace until my circumstances change." ✨ Practical steps to receive the peace that already belongs to you because Jehovah Shalom lives in you No matter what you're facing today, God's peace isn't waiting on your circumstances to change. When circumstances change, Jehovah Shalom doesn't. Scripture Mentioned Judges 6 John 14:27 Philippians 4:6–7 Isaiah 26:3   ✨ Take the Next Step Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 _____________________________ Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c

  7. Jul 27

    17. Think God is Waiting for You to Get it Together? What if He Already Made You Righteous? | Jehovah Tsidkenu

    If you've ever struggled with insecurity, comparison, or feeling like you're unworthy, discover why Jesus became your righteousness—and how your true identity in Christ sets you free from striving. Do you constantly feel like you're not enough? Do you compare yourself to other people, worry about what they think, or feel like you have to prove your worth? What if the problem isn't that you're not enough... What if you're believing the wrong thing about yourself? In this episode of Break Free From Insecurity, we're continuing our Lies We Believe About God series by exploring one of God's beautiful names: Jehovah Tsidkenu—The Lord Our Righteousness. You'll discover why righteousness isn't something you earn—it's a gift you receive through Jesus Christ. When you understand what it means that Jesus is your righteousness, you'll begin to break free from insecurity, comparison, people pleasing, perfectionism, and the constant pressure to prove yourself. You’ll begin stepping into this new identity in Christ. In this episode you'll discover: ✨ Why the lie "I'm not good enough" fuels insecurity and fear of rejection ✨ How comparison and people pleasing often reveal a deeper core belief ✨ What Jehovah Tsidkenu really means—and why Jesus became your righteousness ✨ Why your acceptance with God isn't based on your performance but on Christ's ✨ How understanding your identity in Christ changes the way you see yourself ✨ Practical steps to stop striving and begin living from the truth of who God says you are If you've ever wondered whether you'll ever feel "good enough," this episode will remind you that Jesus already met God's standard for you. You'll never become enough by trying harder. You're enough because Jesus already was. ✨ Take the Next Step Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 __________________________ Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c

  8. Jul 20

    16. Think God Is Far Away? What If He Is Closer Than You Think? | Immanuel

    Feel like God is far away? Discover why Immanuel means God has never left you, how His presence frees you from insecurity, and why you can grow in confidence hearing His voice. Do you ever feel like God is far away? Have you ever wondered why you can't seem to feel His presence, while other Christians talk about hearing Him so easily? What if God isn't the one who's distant? In this third episode of the Lies We Believe About God series, we'll uncover one of the most common lies Christians quietly believe—that God comes and goes depending on how we're doing spiritually.  Through the beautiful name Immanuel—God With Us, you'll discover that God's presence isn't based on your feelings. It's based on His promise. In this episode, you'll learn: ✨ Why feeling spiritually dry doesn't mean God has left you ✨ How surface struggles reveal deeper core beliefs ✨ What Immanuel really means—and why God's plan is even greater than "God with us" ✨ The difference between God's presence and your awareness of His presence ✨ Why feelings reveal your experience, but God's Word reveals reality ✨ How believing the truth about God's nearness brings freedom from insecurity If you've ever felt alone, abandoned, spiritually disconnected, or wondered if God is closer to everyone else than He is to you, this episode will encourage you to stop chasing God's presence and begin living from the promise that He is with you—and in you. His presence didn't change. Your awareness did.   Lies we believe about God series: Ep. 11 Think You’re Fighting Alone? Discover the God Who Fights For You | Jehovah Nissi Ep. 15  Think God Is Disappointed in You? What If He Isn't? | Abba Father Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547   Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c  Podbean all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547  ✨ Take the Next Step If you'd like to practice listening to God, receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal and become an Insider: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our private Facebook community: Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women) https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 _____________________________ Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c

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Do you ever feel like you're not enough? Do you find yourself second-guessing your decisions, worrying about what other people think, or trying to earn your worth through performance? What if those struggles aren't the real problem? What if they're simply surface struggles pointing to deeper beliefs about who you are? I'm Marji—a teacher and passionate follower of Jesus who loves helping women uncover lies and replace them with God's truth. For years I lived trapped by insecurity, people-pleasing, and the fear of what others thought of me. I lived with a deep fear of rejection, and it was paralyzing.  Everything began to change when God showed me that I wasn't just struggling with insecurity and rejection—I was believing lies about my identity. As I began replacing those lies with God's truth, I discovered something life-changing: My identity isn't something I have to earn. It's something I already have in Christ. Together each week on Break Free From Insecurity, we'll uncover the lies that keep us stuck, discover what God says is already true about us, and learn to live from our true identity in Christ. We'll explore topics like: • Discovering false identity and true identity • Overcoming insecurity, rejection, and people pleasing • Renewing your mind with God's truth • Hearing God's voice and growing in wisdom • Setting healthy boundaries • Replacing fear, shame, and comparison with confidence rooted in Christ Many of our surface struggles point to deeper core beliefs. Together we'll uncover those beliefs and replace them with God's truth. If you're ready to stop striving, start believing what God says about you, and experience the freedom that comes from living in your true identity, you're in the right place. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Ranked in the Top 3% of Podcasts Worldwide So grab your coffee, open your heart, and let's discover together who you already are in Christ. I'd love to have you join me. Join our Facebook community: Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women)   Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women) Become an Insider and receive my weekly encouraging email and a freebie to help you practice listening to God: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider

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