What does real progress look like for a man who has already built the business, made the first million, and still felt like it wasn't enough? For J.P. Avekoe — CEO of Hardy Global and co-founder of Rise and Shine Africa, a 240-acre initiative in Togo — that question took decades, three strokes, a failing heart, and a near-fatal motorcycle crash to answer. In this episode of the Canyon Pathways Podcast, host Luke Smith sits down with J.P. to trace the arc of one of the most remarkable sonship journeys in the CP community. J.P. grew up in Togo not knowing his own mother — raised by his grandmother, he called his mom 'Sister Lily' because that's what the culture taught him, and didn't learn the truth until he was an adult trying to make amends. Before he was born, his mother had heard a voice while sitting in a car on the way to an abortion clinic: don't do this. She stopped the car, fled into a field, and changed the course of both their lives. Years later, after immigrating to the United States, building an IT consulting firm, and reaching the external markers of success, J.P. found himself living what he describes as 'on borrowed time' — three strokes, a heart crisis, five days in the ICU, and one last push: 13,000 miles on a motorcycle in five weeks, which ended when an 18-wheeler crushed him between cars. A bystander told him afterward: 'I saw you gliding.' In early 2025, J.P. made a resolution: draw near to God, whatever it takes. That led him to three retreats in three months — a Canyon Pathways retreat in Spearfish, South Dakota; a Tres Dias retreat in East Texas where he received a vision and a calling ('Go build my church'); and a Canyon Pathways retreat in Broken Bow, Oklahoma, where the work of forgiveness began. Along the way, Noel Bouché gave him a word — 'journey' — that he had been writing in his journal without knowing it. The thread running through all of it: the difference between faith and trust. J.P. had faith his whole life. Trust — the confident expectation that God will fulfill his promises — is what he's learning now, as he prepares to leave America and return to Togo with his wife Lindsay to build a church, a school, and a sustainable agriculture initiative. Progress, J.P. says, isn't just advancement. It's alignment. And for the man who was told by his own mother 'you messed up my life,' learning that his heavenly Father had claimed him before he was born is the turning point that changes everything. If you're in a season where the grind feels like Groundhog Day — or you've hit every external marker and still feel hollow — this conversation is for you. Use the discussion questions in the show notes for personal reflection or with your small group. Key takeaways Progress is alignment, not just advancement — J.P. distinguishes between moving forward and moving toward God, and describes this as the central shift in his own life.Faith and trust are not the same thing — faith is belief; trust is the confident expectation that God will fulfill his promises. J.P. grew up with faith and is only now learning trust.Sonship means receiving what you couldn't earn — J.P.'s story of being claimed by God before birth, rescued repeatedly through near-death experiences, and finally 'coming home' mirrors the prodigal son's return in Luke 15.Don't let the metrics define your progress with the Lord — J.P.'s closing prayer addresses men stuck in the grind of external scorekeeping: money, houses, family outcomes. The invitation is to let God's alignment redefine what counts.Play your own game — J.P.'s word to his younger self: don't compare. Everybody's time is different. The rules will change, and you will be cheated. Keep doing what you have to do.Resources Subscribe so every episode drops right into your feed.More field notes: canyonpathways.org/blogBring our table to your inbox — the weekly devotional: canyonpathways.org/meditationsAbout Canyon Pathways: https://www.canyonpathways.org/aboutLearn about our retreats: https://www.canyonpathways.org/retreatsThe Heart of Man Film: http://heartofmanmovie.comThe Canyon Pathways Spotify playlist: https://canyonpathwayspodcast.com/cpspotify Produced by the team at Maroon Harpoon LTD. Thank you to our donors who make this venture possible — and thank you, friend, for being part of this Canyon Pathways community as we together live like sons and lead like fathers.
