Chaps Out

Men Coming Out Later in Life

UK-based Podcast where Gay and Bisexual Men share their stories of Coming Out Later in Life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

  1. 6h ago

    I Confronted My School Bully- Coming Out at 39: Chris Ebbs | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott talks to Chris Ebbs, who came out at 39 after years of questioning his sexuality while married to a woman. Chris shares how the support of his parents, friends and colleagues helped him find the confidence to come out in his own time, the challenges and acceptance he experienced at work, and how coming out ultimately gave him the strength to be his true self. Chris also opens up about being badly bullied at school, the impact that had on him, and his decision years later to confront one of the people who bullied him and finally find closure. Chris offers honest and encouraging advice for anyone considering coming out later in life. Most of all, his story is one of resilience, acceptance and the freedom that comes from finally being yourself.Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ComingOut #LGBTQ #Bisexual #ComingOutStory #Fatherhood #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #LGBTQStories #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    I Confronted My School Bully- Coming Out at 39: Chris Ebbs | CHAPS OUT
  2. 4d ago ·  Bonus

    Why Heartstopper Matters- Alan Hill | CHAPS OUT CULTURE

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott is joined again by Chaps Out guest Alan Hill who shares the LGBTQ+ films and TV shows that have stayed with him over the years. From the impact of TV shows such as Heartstopper to memorable films like The Birdcage and Torch Song Trilogy. Alan also discovers some of the other titles recommended by previous guests. If you’re looking for inspiration, this episode is packed with plenty of heartfelt recommendations. If you enjoyed this episode of Chaps Out Culture please subscribe or follow wherever you listen, give us a 5-star rating and Share to help the podcast reach anyone who may need to hear it. Your feedback helps me make the best podcast I can. And if you missed it, don’t forget to check out the full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. Thanks again for listening and take care.If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #LGBTQ #QueerCulture #Podcast #ChapsOut #LGBTQPodcast #QueerVoices #RepresentationMatters #Pride #TorchSongTrilogy #Heartstopper #Skins #WillandGrace #Birdcage #GayCulture #LGBTQStories #LGBTQHistory #PodcastRecommendations #ListenNow #QueerMedia #LGBTQCommunity #InclusiveVoices Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Why Heartstopper Matters- Alan Hill | CHAPS OUT CULTURE
  3. Aug 4

    I Didn't Know I Was Gay- Coming Out at 30: Alan Hill | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of #ChapsOut, host Grant Philpott is joined by Alan Hill who shares his journey of realising he was gay at the age of 30 and how the family life he had always wanted was turned upside down. Alan talks about the struggles of his early childhood and his confusion when he discovered himself. He reflects on the reactions of friends and family, and the challenges of coming out to his wife and children. This is a moving story about courage, understanding and the impact that honesty can have on the people we care about most. If you've ever struggled with being yourself or wondered whether authenticity is worth the risk, this conversation contains essential advice and lived experience. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ComingOut #LaterInLife #LGBTQ #ComingOutStory #Fatherhood #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #LGBTQStories #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    I Didn't Know I Was Gay- Coming Out at 30: Alan Hill | CHAPS OUT
  4. Jul 21

    Coming Out at 47: Graham | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott meets Graham who shares what it was like to come out at the age of 47 after years of hiding who he was. Married with two children, he spent decades wrestling with fear, shame and the worry that telling the truth would cost him the people he loved most. Then, on one day in July 2000, everything changed.Graham talks candidly about the moment he realised he could no longer live a lie, the surprising reactions from family and friends, the relief that followed, and why he believes "the most difficult person I had to come out to was myself." He also reflects on catastrophising, the fear of rejection, finding love later in life, and why he says, "You are the same person as you were yesterday before you came out." If you've ever questioned whether it's too late to live authentically, Graham's story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to be yourself.If this conversation resonated with you, remember: you are not alone. If you'd like to hear more from Graham, make sure you listen to the companion episode, Chaps Out Culture.If you enjoyed this episode, please like, rate, review and share the podcast, because it really helps more people find these conversations. And please subscribe or follow Chaps Out wherever you tune in.And if you grew up in the UK or Ireland and would like to share your coming out later in life story on the podcast, you can email me at chapsout@gmail.com. Thanks again for listening to Chaps Out. And as always, take care.If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #ComingOut #ComingOutStory #LGBTQ #Gay #LaterInLife #Authenticity #MentalHealth #ChapsOut #Podcast #personalstory Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Coming Out at 47: Graham | CHAPS OUT
  5. Jul 17 ·  Bonus

    Chaps Out Culture: Steve recommends...

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture- the companion podcast to #ChapsOut- host Grant Philpott is joined again by guest Steve, who shares some of his LGBTQ+ cultural highlights.He chooses the film 4th Man Out and TV series Big Boys. While each tells a very different story, both celebrate friendship, identity and the courage to embrace who you are. Whether it's navigating university life, coming out or redefining masculinity, these two recommendations remind us that growing up is rarely straightforward- but it's always worth the journey. Join us as we explore two funny, moving and uplifting queer coming-of-age stories that prove there's no single path from boys to men. If you enjoyed this episode of Chaps Out Culture please subscribe or follow wherever you listen, give us a 5 star rating and Share to help the podcast reach anyone who may need to hear it. And if you missed it, don’t forget to check out the full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. Thanks again for listening and take care.If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #LGBTQ #QueerCulture #Podcast #ChapsOut #LGBTQPodcast #QueerVoices #RepresentationMatters #4thManOut #BigBoys #LGBTQStories #LGBTQHistory #PodcastRecommendations #ListenNow #QueerMedia #LGBTQCommunity #InclusiveVoices Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Chaps Out Culture: Steve recommends...
  6. Jul 14

    Coming Out at 40: Steve | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined by Steve who shares his coming out story. Steve spent over 30 years hiding who he really was. Growing up in the UK during the 1980s, he convinced himself that if anyone discovered he was gay, he would lose everything. It wasn't until he was 40 that he found the courage to tell his wife, his children, his parents and the people closest to him. Steve shares the fear, shame and hope that shaped his journey, and why he now says, "My head was my biggest demon." This is a powerful conversation about coming out later in life, overcoming fear, and discovering that the reality was very different from the one he'd imagined. If you're questioning your own path, or supporting someone on theirs, Steve's story is one you won't forget. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ComingOut #LGBTQ #Bisexual #ComingOutStory #Fatherhood #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #LGBTQStories #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Coming Out at 40: Steve | CHAPS OUT

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UK-based Podcast where Gay and Bisexual Men share their stories of Coming Out Later in Life. chapsoutpod.substack.com