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UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

  1. Chaps Out Culture: Elliot Juby's recommendations

    18H AGO ·  BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Elliot Juby's recommendations

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture- the companion podcast to #ChapsOut- host Grant Philpott is joined again by guest Elliot Juby who highlights some important TV and films that influenced his life and helped him make sense of his journey. From the emotional impact of ‘All of Us Strangers’ to the camp joy of ‘The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert’ and the depth of ‘Bad Education’, Elliot reflects on how queer storytelling gave him the conversations and emotional connections he didn’t always have in real life. Elliot also recommends the films Y Tu Mamá También and I’m So Excited!, as well as the original UK version of groundbreaking TV series Queer as Folk as some of his favourite influences. Elliot talks about representation, chosen family, and how LGBTQ+ stories can become a form of healing when real-life conversations are missing. A moving and personal exploration of queer culture and the importance of being seen. If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #chapsout #chapsoutculture #lgbtqpodcast #queervoices #queerstories #representationmatters #chosenfamily #comingoutjourney #queerculture #GayUK #ukpodcast #podcastrecommendations #allofusstrangers #PriscillaQueenOfTheDesert #badeducation #YTuMamaTambien #ImSoExcited #queerasfolk #queercinema #LGBTQFilms #queertv #filmrecommendations Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    6 min
  2. Coming Out at 31: Disowned, I made a family- Elliot Juby | CHAPS OUT

    3D AGO

    Coming Out at 31: Disowned, I made a family- Elliot Juby | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, Grant Philpott speaks with Elliot Juby who shares his journey growing up in a Jehovah’s Witness family, leaving the religion at 19, and coming out multiple times across different stages of his life. Elliot discusses the profound impact of being rejected by his family due to his sexuality and how he rebuilt his life from scratch. He demonstrates his resilience and the importance of having the support of his friends. The conversation explores the emotional reality of living authentically, when it comes at a cost and touches on loss, mental health, and self-acceptance. A deeply honest discussion about rebuilding life, finding strength in community, and learning to be yourself at any age. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving #comingoutlaterinlife #lgbtqstories #latebloomer #LGBTQUK #GayPodcast #QueerVoices#authenticliving #ItsNeverTooLate #pride #GayUK #MenWhoLoveMen #PodcastRecommendation #queerstories Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    41 min
  3. Chaps Out Culture: Grant Philpott on Midnight Cowboy

    APR 10 ·  BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Grant Philpott on Midnight Cowboy

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, regular host, Grant Philpott is joined once again by guest ‘takeover’ host, Jonathan Welford, who returns to turn the spotlight on Grant’s personal queer cultural recommendation. Their conversation explores the classic 1969 film Midnight Cowboy, which Grant describes as his all-time favourite for its emotional depth, complex relationship between its male lead characters, and iconic soundtrack featuring artists like Harry Nilsson and Elephant’s Memory. They reflect on how the film captures themes of loneliness, connection, and survival, while also discussing how queer stories were historically portrayed on screen. Jonathan also shares his own recommendations, including lesser-known German LGBTQ+ comedies, ‘Regular Guys’ (1996) & ‘Balls’ (2004) that bring a lighter, more humorous take on identity and relationships. The episode celebrates the power of film and media in shaping queer narratives, highlighting both the heavier, darker, more nuanced stories of the past and the more playful, diverse representations that have followed.If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    9 min
  4. Coming Out at 53: Grant Philpott | CHAPS OUT

    APR 7

    Coming Out at 53: Grant Philpott | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, guest host Jonathan Welford takes over the mic to turn the tables and interview regular host Grant Philpott about coming out as bisexual later in life and what inspired Grant to start the #ChapsOut podcast. In this conversation, Grant reflects on growing up in the 70s and 80s, a time marked by limited sex education, a lack of gay role models in his immediate circle, and the shadow of the AIDS crisis, all of which shaped his understanding of identity and sexuality. He shares his journey of self-discovery, from navigating a creative yet heteronormative upbringing and internalised shame, to marriage, fatherhood, and the gradual realisation of his bisexuality. He opens up about the pivotal moment that led him to come out, and explores themes of identity, mental health, neurodiversity, and self-acceptance, as well as the challenges of dating and starting again later in life. The episode also highlights the importance of representation and intergenerational perspectives on sexuality, underscoring how sharing these stories can help others feel seen, understood, and less alone. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our weekly companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    48 min
  5. Chaps Out Culture: Steve Freeman recommends

    APR 3

    Chaps Out Culture: Steve Freeman recommends

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture host Grant Philpott is joined again by his Chaps Out guest, Steve Freeman who shares three powerful LGBTQ+ screen recommendations that shaped his perspective at different stages of life: Queer as Folk, It's a Sin, and God's Own Country. From secretly watching Queer as Folk in the late ’90s and discovering a whole new world of gay life, to reflecting on the devastating yet important portrayal of the HIV/AIDS crisis in It’s a Sin, Steve explores how representation has evolved over time. He also highlights the raw, heartfelt storytelling of God’s Own Country, a moving rural love story that breaks stereotypes and celebrates authenticity. Alongside these recommendations, the conversation touches on changing attitudes, discussing sexual health awareness at length, and the importance of visibility- making this an insightful, honest, and thought-provoking look at queer culture across generations.Chaps Out Culture is the companion podcast to Chaps Out and explores essential LGBTQ+ culture through conversations about films, music, literature, theatre, and art that shape queer lives and experiences.If you enjoy this podcast, please consider liking the video, sharing your thoughts in the comments and rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. Subscribe to the Chaps Out channel for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/#ChapsOut #ChapsOutPodcast #LGBTQ #LGBTQPlus #GayPodcast #QueerCulture #QueerVoices #Pride #LGBTQCommunity #GayLife #ComingOut #Authenticity #PodcastClips #UKPodcast #MentalHealth #SexualHealth #HIVAwareness #ItsASin #QueerAsFolk #GodsOwnCountry #QueerFilm #QueerTV #RepresentationMatters #LoveIsLove #PodcastRecommendations Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    31 min
  6. Coming Out at 38: Steve Freeman | CHAPS OUT

    MAR 31

    Coming Out at 38: Steve Freeman | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott speaks with Steve Freeman who shares his story. From a happy childhood growing up in rural Suffolk to a 30-year career in the police, and ultimately coming out as a gay man later in life. In this candid episode, Steve opens up about navigating marriage, fatherhood, the challenges of coming out in a traditionally macho profession, and the unexpected way his truth was revealed at work. He reflects on resilience after a life-changing accident, the impact on his family, and how honesty reshaped his life for the better. With warmth, humour, and wisdom, Steve offers heartfelt advice for anyone struggling with their identity, proving that while the hardest choices can be painful, they often lead to the most authentic and fulfilling life. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    41 min
  7. Chaps Out Culture: Introducing Mike Nash Whitmore

    MAR 27 ·  BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Introducing Mike Nash Whitmore

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott chats with #chapsout guest Mike Nash Whitmore who shares the inspiring story behind his creative journey, from publishing his debut LGBTQ+ inspired novel Shadow of the Moor to releasing his first album Last Train Home. He talks about writing authentic gay stories later in life, creating characters that reflect his own experiences, and why representation beyond youth matters. Mike also opens up about his path to love, coming out later in life, and how that journey shaped both his music and storytelling. A heartfelt and uplifting conversation about creativity, identity, and proving it’s never too late to follow your passions.If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #ChapsOutCulture #Gayculture #lgbtqfilm #chapsout #lgbtqpodcast #GayRomance #lgbtqstories #ShadowOfTheMoor #GayLoveStory #lgbtqcommunity #LastTrainHome Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    21 min
  8. Coming Out at 57: Mike Nash Whitmore | CHAPS OUT

    MAR 24

    Coming Out at 57: Mike Nash Whitmore | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott speaks with Mike Nash Whitmore about coming out later in life, navigating faith, family expectations, and the long journey toward living authentically. Mike grew up in Manchester, spent most of his career as a computer programmer, and for many years struggled to reconcile his sexuality with his involvement in the evangelical church. In this honest and reflective conversation, he shares the moment he first realised he might be gay while at university, the quiet decades that followed, and how the internet eventually helped him connect with other gay men and build a supportive community. Mike also talks about meeting his husband Keith during the COVID lockdown, their Quaker wedding in 2022, and why he believes coming out doesn’t have to be a dramatic public moment. It can simply be about finding someone who understands you. A thoughtful and reassuring conversation for anyone navigating their own coming out journey, wherever they may be. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    26 min
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UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Men Coming Out Later in Life
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    32
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © ChapsOutPod
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    Chaps Out