Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love Kimmy Seltzer

Are you always left with feeling no good enough? If you have found yourself writing affirmations to no end or envisioning a future that never seems to arrive, you may feel like you don’t deserve to have the loving, fulfilling relationship you truly want.  This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Kat Polsinelli, a Business Organizing Powerhouse who works with people to overcome their limiting beliefs and build businesses that reflect their true selves.
 
EPISODE 297 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Limiting Beliefs:  Interview With Kat Polsinelli
 
Kat tells Kimmy about having to start her life over multiple times as she dealt with struggles of raising children at an early age and leaving an abusive relationship. Kat shares some of the people pleasing and limiting beliefs she discovered as part of her healing journey. If you have ever been with a narcissist or abuser, you may begin to believe the untrue, negative labels that this person places on you.  Kimmy and Kat talk through some of the factors in Kat’s upbringing that contribute to her people pleasing tendencies. These two talk through how these tendencies can leak into other areas of your life, like in relationships and business. Kat shares the key strategies that she used to begin to overcome these patterns and learn to recognize to her triggers. If you are having trouble setting boundaries, this episode is for you. Kat shares a tip on how to set small, incremental boundaries in order to reinforce the behavior you want.  Stick around to hear an excellent tip from Kat about how to ask questions in order to identify a challenge and rise to meet it. If you are struggling to identify and feel your feelings, Kat shines a light on the method she uses with clients to dig deeper.  This episode is a beautiful reminder to focus on all that you are, rather than all that you are not. 
 
If you are having feelings of low self worth and have constant thoughts of not feeling enough, reach out to Kimmy for a complimentary coaching call to help you override thoughts and thrive in your life: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, working on you is working on your dating life! 

 

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EPISODE 297 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Limiting Beliefs:  Interview With Kat Polsinelli.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Does the thought of making small talk on a date make you cringe? When you think about being social to a total stranger at a bar or on a date, do you want to run and hide? Do you cherish your alone time? If this sounds like you, you might have introvert tendencies which can make dating hard.  This week, we're back with another episode of Coaching With Kimmy, where you'll hear a live, candid conversation with people like you about the challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results. Listen to Kimmy's LIVE coaching session with Bernadette, an introverted woman who wants to come out of her shell and start to communicate in a more open, playful way. 
 
EPISODE 296 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Introvert Dating Challenges:  Coaching with Kimmy
 
After her marriage ended more than a decade ago, she’s ready to master the social skills she needs to find love again.  Kimmy asks Bernadette to share her dating history and experience in relationships. Bernadette talks about the challenges she faces when dating as an introvert such as an aversion to flirting, sharing her feelings and letting go of the intention of an outcome.  Stay tuned to hear key tips from Kimmy about how to start small and build up your ability to be “on” in social situations. You’ll hear how by simply making the choice to dress up with intention or put on a bit of makeup can light you up instantly to attract more attention when you’re out, and how you can use that to your advantage with confidence. This conversation is all about how to make an impactful impression and increasing your social confidence when dating.
 
If you’re ready to get our of your introverted shell and feel sexy, playful and fun when dating, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you.  First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude!  Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com
 
Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit.  She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!

This week, Kimmy plays a classic throwback episode where she tells her story and dives deep on how to flirt, have fun and fall in love with everyone! 
 
EPISODE 295 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirt & Have Fun With Everyone
 
Listen in to hear Kimmy’s story of finding her sexy confidence again after divorce. You’ll hear her talk about how she learned the value of being playful and flirty when dating. When you look the part, turn on the charm and become open to all the possibilities, you can be the most magnetic person in the room.  Kimmy breaks down the definition of flirting. She shares her key tips on how to let go of the intention of an outcome when flirting. Find out what flirting means to you, and use that to find your own style.  Stay tuned to hear how smiling, making eye contact, and talking to anyone can make everyone in the room notice you.
 
If you’re ready to feel sexy, playful and fun when dating again, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you.  First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude!  Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com
Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit.  She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!

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EPISODE 295 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirt & Have Fun With Everyone.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

 

Do you know how to find your JSpot? No you didn’t read this wrong..the “J” stands for joy and if you are not feeling excitement and bogged down with a lot of stress, it will be hard to find dating fun!  You can make the process more enjoyable by approaching dating with a lighthearted joyful attitude, focusing on the present moment, and being yourself. 
This week on the show, Kimmy has a conversation with best-selling author and speaker Shari Alyse, who is known as the Joy Magnet who works with people to live joyful lives. 
 
EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot:  Interview With Shari Alyse
 

Shari shares candidly about experiencing childhood sexual abuse and how that trauma impacted the trajectory of her life and her ability to feel true joy. Shari shares how she felt disconnected from herself and her journey to reconnect to herself, and her happiness.  Kimmy asks Shari what her life was like when she was in a dark place and what strategies she used to move forward. Shari discusses strategies around healing, starting with finding joy and acknowledging where you are and what really feels good to you.  Shari and Kimmy talk about Shari’s dating life and how she started to turn her life around and prioritize what she wanted. Listen in to hear Shari’s top tips about how to ignite joy in your life. 
 
This conversation will remind you that joy, levity and play are within your reach! If you are not feeling the spark of joy or flirtiness in your life, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you.  First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude!  Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com
 
Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit.  She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!
 
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EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot:  Interview With Shari Alyse.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
************************************************⁣
Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
************************************************⁣
Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
************************************************⁣
Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you been attracting emotionally unavailable people? Are you constantly frustrated by the quality of men or women you meet?  This week on Coaching With Kimmy, you’ll hear a candid conversation with someone like you looking to date and find love. Kimmy addresses how to stop attracting emotionally unavailable people. Listen in to hear the signs that you are building walls in order to protect yourself, because of pain you experienced in the past and how it is acting as your love shield. 
 
EPISODE 293 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Attracting The Emotionally Unavailable:  Coaching With Kimmy
 
Kimmy has a conversation with Bianca, a fun-loving person and successful professional who is struggling to make deeper emotional connections with men. Bianca has worked on herself and is aware of dynamics at play growing up that led her to gain confidence based on her achievements, instead of who she is at her core.  If you have trouble expressing your emotions or feel overwhelmed when you’re being vulnerable, this conversation is for you.  Kimmy and Bianca talk through the barriers Bianca feels to diving back into the dating pool. Bianca vulnerably shares her journey with body confidence and self-worth. Kimmy and Bianca discuss her reluctance to open up and let men really get to know her.  If you want to stop attracting people that are not right for you, Kimmy dishes about how to become the Queen Bee and focus on what you really want!
 
If you feel after listening to this that you may have some emotional walls built up which is acting as your love shield, hop on a call with Kimmy to see how she can help you become more available for love. Book it here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
 
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EPISODE 293 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Attracting The Emotionally Unavailable:  Coaching With Kimmy.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
************************************************⁣
Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
************************************************⁣
Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups


 

Are you the hero or the villain in the story of your life? If you have experienced any level of trauma in your past, it’s very likely that you’re bringing remnants of that trauma into your journey to find love.  This week, Kimmy has a raw, vulnerable conversation with Michael Unbroken the Founder of Think Unbroken, best-selling author, award-winning speaker, podcast host, coach, and advocate for adult survivors of childhood trauma.
 
EPISODE 292 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go Of The Past:  Interview With Michael Unbroken
 
Michael shares his heart-wrenching story of trauma, abuse and the pain he experienced growing up. From enduring physical abuse as a child to battling addiction to nearly ending his life, Michael has come out the other side with a completely new perspective on his ability to control his future.  If you have struggled with your mental health and self worth due to trauma in your past, listen up. Kimmy and Michael share countless tangible tips and advice on how to reframe your mindset and get out of your own way to progress towards a new, healthy version of you.  Stay tuned to hear the difference between setting goals and finding true alignment. You may think you know exactly what you want, but have you ever asked yourself if that desire is internal or external?  If you are struggling with insecurity or low self-worth, it’s more likely that you will attract people who hold the same qualities.  If you are struggling with behaviors that numb you out and disconnect you from your body, your mind or from supportive relationships, this conversation is for you.  This episode is packed with tough love and hard truths, but it may just be exactly what you need to hear to decide to make a change for the better. 
 
If you are having a hard time letting go of the past to attract love in your life and want to find ways to move past the fear, take action by signing up for a free coaching call with Kimmy so that she can help you map out a plan to do that here  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

 
 
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EPISODE 292 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go Of The Past:  Interview With Michael Unbroken.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
************************************************⁣
The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
************************************************⁣
Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
************************************************⁣
Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
************************************************⁣
Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups