339 episodes

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kimmy and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love Kimmy Seltzer

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 133 Ratings

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kimmy and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

    Discovering Sexy Confidence: Where are They Now with Rachel

    Discovering Sexy Confidence: Where are They Now with Rachel

    Are you ready to be inspired? Ever think it’s too late to learn how to flirt and find the one?  Meet Rachel, an extraordinary woman who overcame immense dating struggles to find true love and happiness.  Episode 338 of The Charisma Quotient, “Discovering Sexy Confidence: Where Are They Now with Rachel” dives into her inspiring journey of self-discovery and the invaluable transformation she experienced after seeking help from Kimmy herself. 
    Rachel's dating journey was riddled with challenges - from attracting the wrong type of partners to battling shyness and anxiety.  She had a ton of confidence issues and found flirting and owning her beauty extremely hard.  But after a breakthrough call, personal coaching and attending a dating retreat with Kimmy, her life took a beautiful turn. Through Kimmy’s coaching, Rachel learned to stand up for herself, own her worth, and navigate dating with sexy confidence. And she learned to let go and flirt and have fun with confidence which made her more present.  She shifted her focus from fleeting chemistry and anxiety to meaningful connections, and the results were nothing short of miraculous as she ended up attracting a great man in her life. If you’ve been yearning for a love story that defies the odds, this episode is a must-listen for you!
    If you want help overcoming challenges of flirting and seeing your self-worth to attract a healthy relationship, hop on a free private coaching call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you. Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there!
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 33 min
    Using Your Alter Ego To Attract Love: Interview With Todd Herman

    Using Your Alter Ego To Attract Love: Interview With Todd Herman

    Are you ready to unleash your inner superhero and take control of your confidence and success? In Episode 337 of The Charisma Quotient, “Using Your Alter Ego To Attract Love: Interview with Todd Herman” Kimmy sits down with the incredible Todd Herman about the transformative power of alter egos and how they can revolutionize your life. 
    Todd Herman has been a powerhouse in the field of elite performance coaching for over two decades. From developing alter egos for elite athletes to harnessing the power of creative imagination, Kimmy and Todd dive into the interconnectedness of body language, appearance, and mindset when it comes to embodying an alter ego. They also explore the concept of "act as if" to overcome self-doubt and anxiety, and share real-life examples of how alter egos have transformed lives.  Listen in to hear the concept of authentic selves and the impact of understanding and embracing different roles in life.  You’ll even hear Todd reveal his personal journey of creating and utilizing an alter ego called "Super Richard" to overcome self-doubt and achieve success.
    Ready to transform YOUR life with your alter ego? Schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you.  Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there!
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 46 min
    Progressing Your Dates With Emotional Attraction: Coaching with Kimmy

    Progressing Your Dates With Emotional Attraction: Coaching with Kimmy

    Ever wonder how to make yourself more emotionally attractive? Get ready to dive deep into emotional attraction and vulnerability with Kimmy’s powerful LIVE coaching segment. In this Episode 336 of The Charisma Quotient: Progressing Your Dates With Emotional Attraction: Coaching with Kimmy, Kimmy coaches Corbin by exploring the challenges of building emotional connections and overcoming self-doubt in relationships.
    Corbin, a passionate ballroom dancer with a heart of gold, joins Kimmy to share his personal struggles with opening up emotionally in relationships. They delve into the impact of childhood experiences on confidence, self-worth, and the ability to connect with others. He is a dedicated and skilled professional in his work life but struggles with socializing in his personal life, especially when it comes to interacting and being vulnerable with women he's attracted to. He's aware of his difficulty flirting and letting his guard down to deepen connections with attractive and powerful women. With Kimmy’s help, he is determined to conquer his nerves and find a way to navigate flirting with confidence and ease.  Listen in while Kimmy gives Corbin on-the-spot exercises for him to do to increase his self worth and express emotions through storytelling.  You’ll hear a shocking revelation Corbin has while doing this exercise live on the show.
    If you have a hard time progressing on dates and finding emotional intimacy in relationships difficult, schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you.  Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    P.S.  If you want to take it one step further and really get a handle on this part of your life, check out Kimmy’s brand new workshop coming up on Mar 26 called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for sparking your sexy again. It's more than just about flirting – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com  But hurry because seats are limited. And you’ll get to interact with Kimmy LIVE there!
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 47 min
    Setting Healthy Boundaries When Dating: Interview with Laura Powers

    Setting Healthy Boundaries When Dating: Interview with Laura Powers

    Ready to unlock your inner compass and harness your personal power? In Episode 335 of The Charisma Quotient:  Setting Healthy Boundaries When Dating: Interview with Laura Powers, Kimmy invites celebrity psychic and intuitive guide Laura Powers to dive deep into trusting your intuition and setting healthy boundaries. With a diverse background spanning politics, acting, writing, entrepreneurship, and more, Laura brings a unique blend of experiences and insights to the table. 
    Kimmy and Laura explore the importance of trusting your gut and techniques for establishing healthy boundaries in all aspects of life, especially dating. Laura shares her remarkable story, and teaches listeners how to tune into their body to release foreign energy in order to connect with their authentic desires.  Tune in to hear the importance of having clear standards and setting even clearer boundaries and how to trust your gut in decision-making and avoid people-pleasing behaviors.  Whether you're navigating romantic relationships or personal growth or both, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and equipped to access your inner wisdom. 
    If you have a hard time listening to your gut to know what is right for you and need help setting boundaries when dating, schedule a free coaching call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to help you.  Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
    ************************************************⁣
    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 41 min
    Dating Hacks for Introverts and High Achievers

    Dating Hacks for Introverts and High Achievers

    Do you find yourself feeling exhausted by the thought of small talk, constantly analyzing conversations, and striving for the perfect outcome? Sounds like you’re either an introvert or a high achiever or BOTH. In Episode 334 of Charisma Quotient- Dating Hacks for Introverts and High Achievers, Kimmy gets into the challenges that introverts and high achievers face when it comes to dating and making connections. 
    She shares personal and client stories and insights into the importance of playfulness and fun in dating and relating. From struggles with small talk, getting in your head to difficulty in flirting, Kimmy offers practical advice and tips to help navigate the dating world with confidences as an introvert and high achiever. She also announces an upcoming interactive workshop designed to help introverts and high achievers boost their conversation and social skills. Tune in to find out how to overcome dating fatigue and fear of rejection in a lighthearted and fun way.
    Sign up for Kimmy’s brand new workshop, Conversation Hacks That Convert To Dates on Wednesday Feb 21 at 4pm PST/7pm EST.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. Just click the link to register www.stophatingdating.com but hurry, spots fill up fast!
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
    ************************************************⁣
    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 24 min
    From Introvert To In Love: Where Are They Now with Vicky

    From Introvert To In Love: Where Are They Now with Vicky

    Are you tired of feeling stuck in your dating life, plagued by anxiety and self-doubt? Wondering if you're doing something wrong, or if you're just not cut out for this thing called “dating”? In Episode 333 of Charisma Quotient- From Introvert To In Love:  Where are They Now with Vicky, Kimmy catches up with Vicky, a former client and success story, who shares her courageous journey in overcoming dating anxiety and transforming her love life. 
    Vicky, being an introvert, struggled with dating, anxiety, and self-confidence before seeking Kimmy's help. This episode delves into her incredible love story, the importance of broadening dating horizons, letting go of rigid expectations, and the impact of cultivating self-acceptance in attracting meaningful connections.  Listen in to hear how a wardrobe consultation and mastering the art of storytelling helped Vicky forge deeper connections and navigate her way to love.  Kimmy gives ninja tips for mingling, presenting oneself, and connecting daily.  Vicky shares her transformation, from feeling anxious and introverted to feeling confident and deeply connected in her new relationship, with valuable insights for listeners looking to break through their own dating barriers.
    If you want help overcoming challenges of flirting and socializing so that you progress on dates, enter the worst flirt in america contest and submit your worst flirt stories to win a flirt and style session www.worstflirt.com.   And if you want to take it one step further, sign up for Kimmy’s brand new workshop, Conversation Hacks That Convert To Dates.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. Just click the link to register www.stophatingdating.com but hurry, spots fill up fast.
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
    ************************************************⁣
    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
     

    • 35 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
133 Ratings

133 Ratings

HeatherWyattWellness ,

Fun & Real 🫶

I had a blast being a guest on The Charisma Quotient with Kimmy Seltzer! 🎙️ She made the experience fun and engaging. Amazing host, great vibes – tune in for some awesome conversations!

Steph Anne S ,

Inspirational!!!

I have been listening to Kimmie for a few
month. She is always giving relevant and thoughtful tips and tricks to better yourself, and your dating life.

dixieabby ,

Intentional dating

I’ve been listening for several years and have worked with Kimmy. I highly recommend her advice.

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