197 episodes

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love Kimmy Seltzer

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 112 Ratings

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

    Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears

    Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears

    Most of us recognize that networking is an essential part of advancing in business or a career. But, have you considered using networking to create opportunities to date and find love?  The more well connected you are, the more opportunities you'll have to meet someone you might never have otherwise. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Amber Spears, recognized as a well-connected industry leader, entrepreneur, and Internet Marketing Expert who helps companies develop and optimize their sales and online marketing strategies through networking.
     
    EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Networking:  Interview With Amber Spears

     
    Amber dives in by sharing how she started her current business and how networking has been integral to her success now. Kimmy connects Amber's story to the fact that building a robust network in your professional life can also serve your love life. You'll hear about the pitfalls many people fall into, including being too target-specific looking for their soulmate. Listen in to hear the two key factors in creating a strong relationship where people truly get to know, like and trust you. If you are working on being more present in your conversations, this episode will show you the incredible power of getting curious with everyone you meet. Then, Amber shares a powerful personal story about making the leap from believing that she was only valuable to others based on how she helped their business, rather than who she is as a person. If you have fallen out with a group of friends who haven’t served you or have been blind-sighted by what others thought of you, this episode will help you. Kimmy and Amber talk through some of the steps that Amber took in order to raise her self-worth and demand the kind of respect she knew she deserved. Listen in to hear tips on how to transform what at first was a negative experience into a powerful growth moment for yourself. Finally, you'll hear some incredible insight from Amber about how investing in your success for love and career can be a game-changer. When you commit to making a change in your life, you will start to see different results. 
     
    If you are sick of only swiping right and left and want to build a dating network to attract the right potential partners, here's your first step. Book a time to have a free session with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.  That one call could potentially change the course of your path to love by simply mapping out a plan to get there.
     
    EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Networking:  Interview With Amber Spears.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

    • 42 min
    Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet

    Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet

    Have you ever met someone and immediately jumped on an emotional roller coaster together? You had great chemistry and super high highs, but the lows were even lower. Before you knew it the relationship was over just as quickly as it started. If this sounds familiar, you’ve probably experienced a toxic relationship. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy shares five key steps to help you avoid getting involved in toxic relationships or “situation-ships” in your love life. 
     
    EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Detox From Unhealthy Relationships:  A Healthy Dating Diet
     
    Toxic relationships come in all shapes, sizes, and degrees. While every dynamic created by two people is different, there are some commonalities when it comes to toxic relationships that this episode will break down. Listen in to learn how to clearly see the signs of a toxic date from day one. If you find yourself always attracting narcissists, this episode will give you actionable ways to stop repeating that pattern. You’ll get tips on the importance of setting boundaries early and often and how to hold yourself and others accountable. This episode will help you recognize your own unhealthy patterns and how to stop them by creating a healthy dating diet.
     
    If you want to start attracting reciprocal, growth-focused relationships in your life, it's easier than you think to get started. First, find out your dating archetype (like the Narcissist Magnet!) by listening to Kimmy’s exclusive audio course, This May Be Why You Suck At Dating. https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer/.  This course features conversations between Kimmy and women who fit each of her five dating archetypes. Purchase the course which you can access where you listen to podcasts to see which one aligns most with you and learn concrete action steps to find more success when dating. And, you can always find time to speak with Kimmy in a complimentary breakthrough call here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Now is the time to start to develop new, helpful habits that get you closer to what you want! 
     
    EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Detox From Unhealthy Relationships:  A Healthy Dating Diet.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 30 min
    Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson

    Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson

    Are you hiding your body because you’re embarrassed about how you look? As summer approaches and your world might be opening up, you might be starting to think about looking your best and dressing for the warmer weather.  Feeling attractive on the outside relates to how you feel inside and WILL affect your sexy dating confidence. If you're ready to improve your health and build a better relationship with your body image, listen in! This week, Kimmy interviews Malin Svensson, CEO and Founder of Nordic Body, Jane Fonda's fitness coach(!), and the author of Wake Up: Your Body and Mind After 50. 
     
    EPISODE 197 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence:  Interview With Malin Svensson
     
    Kimmy and Malin dive in to talk about the importance of developing a strong mindset in order to increase your physical strength and dating confidence -- at any age! Exercising is, of course, part of a healthy lifestyle, but this conversation will remind you not to focus on the scale. When you nourish your body and engage in movement, the more you will feel connected to your physical self which is an attraction magnet. The more connected you feel, the more present you'll be and the more you'll radiate confidence in all areas of your life, including love. Malin shares some super useful tips about how to motivate yourself to get moving if you're feeling stuck. One key takeaway you'll learn is that it's better to take on what you *can* do, rather than feeling pressure to attempt what you can't. Kimmy and Malin discuss how to take small steps to achieve little wins both in your health and dating life. Kimmy reviews a few tricks you can use with your mind and body to boost your dating confidence.
     
    If you are ready to build a more positive body image to increase your sexy confidence, sign up for a complimentary coaching session with Kimmy to get started. Book your time here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough Working on your love life IS working on you! Maybe revamping your closet is the best first step for you to get the motivation you need to find the love you truly deserve.
     
    EPISODE 197 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence:  Interview With Malin Svensson.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
     
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
     
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 37 min
    First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson

    First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson

    It's no surprise to hear that making a good first impression is essential, especially when dating.  In fact, it only takes 7 seconds now to make a first impression. So, what steps can you take to ensure you shine as your true self and attract the right kind of attention when you walk into a room or even on your dating profile? This week, Kimmy interviews Scott Carson, an investor, entrepreneur, marketer and host of the Note Closers Show Podcast. As a proven expert in building relationships in business, Scott knows a thing or two about creating an impact with a first impression. 
     
    EPISODE 196 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes:  Interview With Scott Carson
     
    Kimmy and Scott recollect their first impressions of each other at the New Media Summer for podcasters more than a year ago. This conversation is packed with style and conversation tips you can use when getting ready for your next social event IRL. If you find yourself recycling the same drab, boring clothes over and over again, this episode is your sign it's time for a refresh! Listen in to hear about using color to ensure that you stand out in the crowd or leading with being of service to others in your first interaction to set the tone. Scott and Kimmy trade stories on good and bad first impressions that stuck out to them over the years both in love and business. If you have ever stood in front of your mirror and wondered, "Does this dress look good on me?" or, “Does this outfit reflect a sexy dating image?", listen in how you can improve your image. Before you have a chance to get to know someone on a deeper level, first impressions signal how much you care and can make or break the opportunity to get to know someone better.  This lively, fun conversation will remind you to take the time to take care of yourself so that you can start attracting new love and opportunity. It's time to get out there and get noticed!
     
    If you really want to learn how to create a great first impression and get out of your pandemic clothes...get a virtual makeover with Kimmy! You’ll learn about your body type, what clothes flatter your figure, what to stay away from and Kimmy will pick out outfits for your photoshoot, lifestyle and for dates so that you have the confidence you need to attract a potential date.  Click here for more details http://bit.ly/KimVM And, there are still a few spots left for Kimmy's Ultimate Flirt Masterclass, going live TONIGHT at 5pM PST/8p EST. Claim yours while you still can and get the hands-on practice flirting you've been asking for! https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting
     
    EPISODE 196 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes:  Interview With Scott Carson.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    This Podcast is available on:⁣
    Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
    Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.co

    • 43 min
    Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis

    Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis

    Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Alexis, who has gone from struggling with her self-worth to surpassing her dating goals in just 3 short months! Since investing in coaching with Kimmy as a 5-year "divorce-iversary" present to herself, Alexis has made some majors strides in her dating life. 
     
    EPISODE 195 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Sexy Confidence After Divorce:  Where Are They Now With Alexis
     
    Alexis begins by sharing the fears that were holding her back from recognizing her self-worth and believing she was deserving of the cake, not just the crumbs! Alexis shares struggling to even get a date to not letting men earn her due to the lack of setting boundaries and not expressing her needs.   You’ll hear Alexis and Kimmy talk through how she increased her sexy, flirty and feminine confidence through working on her wardrobe, profile and mindset. Listen in to hear great tips about how to diversify the photos on your online dating profiles to showcase every side of you while still highlighting your sexy, feminine side. If you have done a lot of work to build your self-esteem and raise your self-worth, only to be knocked back a few steps after a few bad dates, you will definitely want to listen to this episode! You’ll hear how Alexis went from battling her insecurities to now dating up a storm with great men. 
     
    Old anxiety or troubles from your childhood or earlier dating and relationship experiences will always show up, but if you are equipped with a plan to combat those, you'll start to see success too, just like Alexis! Take the leap like Alexis did and schedule a complimentary call with Kimmy https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough  And, who knows? Maybe you'll be sharing your story on another episode of Where Are They Now?! Plus, reserve your spot HERE https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting for Kimmy's new Ultimate Flirt Masterclass designed for women and men to create irresistible chemistry, stop feeling nervous when flirting and even get tips on how to put together the perfect date outfit. This is your chance to get hands-on practice out there in the dating world. Space is limited, sign up today!
     
    EPISODE 195 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Sexy Confidence After Divorce:  Where Are They Now With Alexis.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    This Podcast is available on:⁣
    Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
    Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
    And many other podcast sites.
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    • 40 min
    Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer

    Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer

    When you walk into a room for a social event or date, do you feel anxious and get in your head?  You want to feel and come across as magnetic, confident, and secure so that you'll make a good impression. But after spending so much time apart from others, your social muscles might be atrophied or maybe you need to work on building them for the first time. This week, Kimmy interviews Robbie Kramer, an expert who specializes in cultivating social confidence and improving men’s interactions and relationships from love to business and beyond. 
     
    EPISODE 194 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Social Confidence And Dating:  Interview With Robbie Kramer
     
    Robbie shares his journey from being a golf geek with no dating experience to coaching men internationally to have successful relationships. If you're out of practice creating chemistry in conversations and experience social anxiety, this conversation is for you. Listen in to hear concrete exercises and tips you can try on your own to break unhelpful patterns and start getting comfortable being uncomfortable. Whether you're a man or a woman, you know dating can be intimidating! This discussion digs into how being stuck in your head on dates or focusing on what you're going to say next can blind you to the social cues you need to pick up on to create chemistry.  Robbie and Kimmy disclose about some surprising tactics you can experiment with to help you decrease your anxiety and become more confident in your approach.
     
    If you want to dive in and work on improving your confidence, you need one thing: experience! Hop on a free 30-minute call with Kimmy here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough and learn how to bring more of your swagger into social and dating situations. And stay tuned for Kimmy's newest Dating Masterclass for both men and women coming to you on May 24th! Click here:  https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ to sign up and get first dibs on your spot in this private class where you will get hands-on practice flirting and creating chemistry on dates. 
     
    EPISODE 194 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Social Confidence And Dating:  Interview With Robbie Kramer.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    This Podcast is available on:⁣
    Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
    Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
    And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter:  https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook:  https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 38 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
112 Ratings

112 Ratings

WendyWilkinsoz ,

Fun and informative podcast about relationships yes please

I love this podcast so many great episodes with advice in a lively way on how to be your best you and in turn attract the best relationships for you. Kimmy is a delight to listen to and she has some wonderful guests.

jk7983 ,

Kimmy has fantastic advice!

Kimmy has really practical and valuable advice of how to present yourself on dates, show up as the best you, and just how to handle all the crazy situations thrown at us all with modern dating! Love this podcast and highly recommend.

KrusherBass ,

Very good.

Some good observations and advice. I would give it five stars but it’s mainly a podcast for women, although there are some points for men. I wish it was more balanced for all to take advantage of.

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