357 episodes

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kimmy and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love Kimmy Seltzer

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 135 Ratings

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kimmy and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

    Your Dating Attachment Style: Interview with Thais Gibson

    Your Dating Attachment Style: Interview with Thais Gibson

    Are you an anxious or avoidant dater? Knowing your attachment style can help you know when your anxiety might be hurting your dating life and affect your love life overall. In Episode 356 of The Charisma Quotient, “Your Dating Attachment Style: Interview with Thais Gibson,” Kimmy sits down with Thais Gibson, the owner of Personal Development School and author of “Learning Love”, to talk about the importance of learning your attachment style - whether it’s anxious, avoidant, or secure and how knowing your style will help you find success in your love life. 
    In this episode, Kimmy and Thais delve into the core of attachment theory, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery, communication, and the impact of core wounds on relationships. Thais' journey of self-healing and the power of neuroplasticity in reprogramming attachment styles will leave you inspired and hopeful for your own transformation. You’ll leave knowing what your attachment style is and what to watch out for when it comes to love.
    If you are struggling with your love life due to your attachment style, learn to uncover practical tools and invaluable insights for rewiring your style with Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop happening July 24 called Authentic Dating.  You’ll learn how to express yourself differently and get over some subconscious fears you might have that are sabotaging who you are attracting in your life. Just go to www.stophatingdating.com and register now as spots go fast.
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 41 min
    Attracting the Wrong People: Coaching with Kimmy

    Attracting the Wrong People: Coaching with Kimmy

    Are you attracting the wrong people? You’ve spent so much time learning how to attract someone but the ones you like aren’t into you and the ones you don’t like are!  In Episode 355 of The Charisma Quotient, “Attracting the Wrong People: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy sits down with Tejas and does a LIVE coaching session with her around the perplexing challenge of attracting men she’s not interested in while struggling to draw in those she truly desires.   
    In this episode, Tejas opens up to Kimmy about dating expectations in India and how that has impacted her love life. They talk about how coming from a culture of arranged marriages can create a lot of confusion when it comes to dating on your own and looking for a partner. Tejas shares the 3 things she’s looking for in a man which Kimmy reveals might be part of the problem.  Tune in to hear how Kimmy uncovers the truth of why Tejas isn’t attracting or connecting with the men she thinks she wants.  HINT:  It has nothing to do with the men.  You’ll hear more topics around reasons why you might not attract someone you’re attracted to, how to prioritize emotional connection over rushing to find a partner and the importance of acknowledging personal and emotional growth and self worthiness.
    If you are looking at breaking some patterns of who you are attracting then you’ll definitely want to come to Kimmy’s next co-ed interactive workshop happening July 24 called Authentic Dating to learn how to express yourself differently and get over some subconscious fears you might have that is sabotaging who you are attracting in your life.  Just go to www.stophatingdating.com and register now as spots go fast.
      
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
     

    • 49 min
    ICYMI 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40

    ICYMI 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40

    Does dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s feel completely foreign to you? A lot has probably changed since you were dating in your 20s and 30s. With online dating now taking over the scene, dating can feel overwhelming. In Episode 354 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40,” Kimmy goes over red flags to look for when dating in your second act and how to slow down your dating game to pick the right partner.
    In this episode, Kimmy teaches you to pay attention to the type of people you are attracting and how to discern who genuinely cares for you in the initial stages of dating. If you’re rushing to get out of the dating game because you hate going on dates, you might end up with the wrong person. Dating over 40 can feel different, and it's important to pay attention to red flags that may arise and affect your love life. This episode is full of useful tips to make dating fun again so you know how to stay away from the red flags.
    If you are finding dating frustrating and overwhelming as you are trying to get back out there, click here to book a private call with me to help you map out a personal plan so that you can start making dating fun https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
     

    • 23 min
    Struggles High Achievers Face When Dating: Interview with Chris Guerriero

    Struggles High Achievers Face When Dating: Interview with Chris Guerriero

    Are you a self-described introvert? Does the idea of opening up to someone new make you want to crawl right back into bed? In Episode 353 of The Charisma Quotient, “Struggles High Achievers Face When Dating: Interview with Chris Guerriero,” Kimmy chats with Chris about the struggles of dating as a high achieving introvert and how it can hold you back from being vulnerable. Chris is a serial entrepreneur whose journey from personal fitness trainer to building nearly a dozen successful companies. He is also a bestselling author and a business growth expert. So if he can find success and connection as an introvert, you can too!
    In this episode, Kimmy and Chris explore the delicate balance between work and personal life, the complexities of dating for busy professionals, and the profound importance of vulnerability and connection in forging genuine relationships. They delve into Chris's personal dating preferences, sharing eye-opening stories about finding equilibrium and joy in love and life.
    If you are having a hard time dating due to being a successful, high achiever then sign up for a FREE private session with Kimmy so that she can map out a plan to help you do the work for once https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Image Expert and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
     

    • 45 min
    Mastering the Dating Game

    Mastering the Dating Game

    Do you have a list of excuses for why dating feels impossible? Does it seem like dating is just a skill that everyone has but you? In Episode 352 of The Charisma Quotient, “Mastering the Dating Game,” Kimmy goes over how dating is actually a skill you can learn, just like cooking or painting. And Kimmy is here to guide you through the process with expert advice and success stories from her actual clients.
    In this episode, Kimmy dives deep into the art of attraction and building dating skills, focusing on genuine connections and personal growth. She shares how a shift in mindset from viewing dating as a jungle to seeing it as a playground and adopting a childlike mentality will lead to find confidence in your dating life. Kimmy discusses practical strategies and techniques to break down barriers and make genuine connections. She goes over her flirting tips that you usually only get in her workshops!
    If you are feeling a bit rusty at the dating game and are growing frustrated with it all, click here to book a private call with me to help you map out a personal plan to reduce frustration now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
    Or sign up for Kimmy’s virtual playdate on June 26th at the www.stophatingdating.com.
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
     

    • 37 min
    Learning To Trust To Attract Love: Interview with Summer McStravick

    Learning To Trust To Attract Love: Interview with Summer McStravick

    Are you a wary dater? Are you checking every box before you even allow yourself to find a connection? In Episode 351 of The Charisma Quotient, “Learning To Trust To Attract Love: Interview with Summer McStravick,” Kimmy chats with Summer McStravick, a personal growth coach and the creator of Flowdreaming an energy technique for manifesting.
    In this episode, Kimmy and Summer lay the groundwork for understanding the trifecta of trust: trust of self, trust of others, and trust of the universe. They go over valuable insights into repairing broken trust, embracing self-empowerment, and creating authentic emotional intimacy. From addressing resistance to shifting mindsets, this episode is a comprehensive roadmap for personal growth and fostering meaningful connections by entering your flow state.
    If you’re ready to find your flow, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to learn the secrets to loving who you are and letting that shine in your dating life. Click here to book that now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.
    If you want to take it one step further and learn this stuff LIVE in person, ask Kimmy about her upcoming LIVE retreat, Spark Your Sexy by going to askkimmy.com. Hurry, there’s only 1 spot left! 
     
    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 42 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
135 Ratings

135 Ratings

HeatherWyattWellness ,

Fun & Real 🫶

I had a blast being a guest on The Charisma Quotient with Kimmy Seltzer! 🎙️ She made the experience fun and engaging. Amazing host, great vibes – tune in for some awesome conversations!

Steph Anne S ,

Inspirational!!!

I have been listening to Kimmie for a few
month. She is always giving relevant and thoughtful tips and tricks to better yourself, and your dating life.

dixieabby ,

Intentional dating

I’ve been listening for several years and have worked with Kimmy. I highly recommend her advice.

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