250 episodes

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love Kimmy Seltzer

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 121 Ratings

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

    Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching with Kimmy

    Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching with Kimmy

    Do you believe that being vulnerable is TMI on a first date? How do you balance sharing enough of yourself to make an authentic connection without going overboard? Kimmy is here to help you navigate this essential piece of dating in one of our favorite segments, Coaching With Kimmy. Listen in to candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients looking to improve their love lives with practical advice they can use immediately.
     
    EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Vulnerability And Dating:  Coaching With Kimmy
     
    In this episode, you'll meet Garfield who's ready to put herself out there again after divorce and finds it challenging to be vulnerable and trust men when dating. Garfield shares her story and reflects on some of the challenges with scammers on dating apps she's experienced before. Newly single after leaving a long-term relationship, Garfield is working on defining what she wants, getting out of her head, and uncovering her confidence again when meeting new people socially.  Kimmy shares some foundational advice for how to begin to open yourself up to other people again after being hurt. If you're like Garfield and have had a string of traumatic or painful experiences, it can feel overwhelming to begin putting yourself out there again.  Listen in to hear some impactful and emotional breakthroughs Garfield has on this live call. You'll hear about the importance of taking small, intentional steps to work up to your loftiest goals. If you recognize that you are still in the process of healing, setting clear, attainable goals is key to making progress. This transformational conversation is a reminder that you have the power to shine and when ready, will attract people who want to help you shine even brighter!

    If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships due to your walls being up, reach out to Kimmy and find a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You deserve a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship! When you invest in yourself and your growth, you will be able to have the love life you have always wanted.
     
    EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Vulnerability And Dating:  Coaching With Kimmy.
    The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

     

    • 43 min
    Self Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson

    Self Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson

    When you consciously or even unconsciously ruin things to make them end, this is called self-sabotage. They say people who self-sabotage are somewhat afraid of intimacy in various forms and can act in different ways that can hurt themselves or others around them. Brandon Wilson is a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them from fulfilling their dreams. Brandon imparts his experience and story about his business relationship that cost him nearly everything. That experience has helped him develop a sabotage framework, which he wrote down in his book, Sabotage.
     
    On this replay episode of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, host Kimmy Seltzer interviews Brandon Wilson. In this conversation, practical tools will be given to help you notice the patterns in your personal and love relationships that could sabotage your love life. They will also talk about different key signs to know if one is prone to sabotage from others and even yourself. The different red flags when establishing a healthy, growth-minded, and loving relationship. Once you can identify the signs, the more you are enlightened and capable of stopping these behaviors. Tune in on this episode to find out more!
     
     
    The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. 
     
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. 
     
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
    Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 40 min
    How Your Marriage Ends: Relationship-Killing Behavior And Communication Habits With Matthew Fray

    How Your Marriage Ends: Relationship-Killing Behavior And Communication Habits With Matthew Fray

    Is your relationship in a bad place? What are the signs that your relationship is ending? Here to help you get to the bottom of a dying romance is Matthew Fray. Matthew is a relationship coach, writer, and subbed by the New York Times as "the man who coaches husbands on how to avoid divorce." He joins host Kimmy Seltzer to share the things he learned in his own divorce journey to help others save their relationships. They talk in-depth about the different behaviors and habits that lead to a dwindling intimacy you might not even be aware of with insights from his book, This is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships. Tune in and learn valuable lessons on relationships and the value of communication and self-awareness.

    • 40 min
    Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor

    Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor

    Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with her. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you. This week, you'll meet Taylor, a high-achieving entrepreneur who was confident in every area of his life except dating. 
     
    EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating With Confidence:  Where Are They Now With Taylor
     
    Taylor shares that after his divorce, he was struggling with getting into relationships quickly, not sharing his emotions, and ultimately, not making the kind of connections he truly desired. Navigating a brand new dating scene and showing up as his authentic self online was challenging. Once Taylor recognized that he wanted to be in a healthy, lasting relationship he knew he needed to ask for help. Kimmy and Taylor discuss the different phases of dating and the goals for each phase. If you have struggled with focusing on what you can do for another person as opposed to how they make you feel when you're together, listen up! This conversation focuses on the power of shifting your mindset and learning to enjoy the processs while you build skills that will help you create more genuine connections when dating. Taylor shares the story of how he met a wonderful new woman, and how they hit it off! Here's a hint: being open and transparent about what he was looking for helped create a foundation for them both to be emotionally honest with one another. 
     
    If you're like Taylor, and you're ready to understand the tools and strategies to find success in dating and meet higher quality people who are a good fit for you, all it takes is that first call. Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a free 30-minute call. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. But hurry, the program starts soon and only a few spots left! 
     
    EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating With Confidence:  Where Are They Now With Taylor.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

     

    • 32 min
    Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin

    Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin

    We've all heard the phrase "living your best life," but what does that really mean? This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Tracy Pattin, host of the celebrated Wondery podcast Hollywood and Crime, and expert on living her best solo (not single!) life. Tracy and Kimmy discuss the empowering nature of finding comfort and confidence in being alone.
     
    EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Fall In Love With Yourself:  Interview With Tracy Pattin
     
    Kimmy shares a story about the invaluable advice given to her by her mother in the aftermath of her divorce.  Listen in to hear Kimmy identify the difference between internal and external validation and how to detect which one is driving your happiness. When you allow yourself to slow down and not rush towards a new relationship for comfort, but rather focus on relying on yourself to find peace, you will be stronger for it and attract healthier relationships.  The moment you begin to discover that power within you, the more you will attract healthy, secure people into your life. Tracy talks about how she uses the ritual and routine to keep her present, focused and centered each day. Stay tuned for a lesson from Tracy based on a career in entertainment to provide strategies around facing the fear of rejection. You'll hear how having a kind, loving relationship with yourself is a key factor in not attracting relationships that don't serve you. 
     
    If you are struggling with being alone or a crippling fear of rejection, reach out to Kimmy for a FREE 30-minute call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ to map out a strategy to enrich your solo life. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. Space is limited so reach out to Kimmy here to save your spot!
     
    EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Fall In Love With Yourself:  Interview With Tracy Pattin.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 38 min
    Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley

    Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley

    You have always been a high achiever. You know your worth and you’ve been recognized for the value you bring to the table in your professional life. But, when it comes to dating, you can’t seem to figure out why you haven’t been able to find the same success! This week, Kimmy has a fascinating conversation with Executive Coach and Relationship Strategist Dr. Robin Buckely, a leading authority on helping high achievers, executives, and couples improve their careers and relationships through psychology-based strategies. 
     
    EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Strategies For Your Love Life:  Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley
     
    If you have a tendency to conduct your dates like high-pressure job interviews or lead interactions with your long list of accomplishments and have wondered why you rarely get a second date, this episode is for you! Listen in to hear how dating and creating deep, loving connections are rooted in feelings, not facts. You have the power to use your killer business instincts to help improve your love life, but you need a strategy to get there. Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share some key tips you can use to reframe your mindset, lean on your strengths and find success in love.  Listen in to hear some incredible tools you can use right away, whether you are in a couple or not! Dr. Buckley and Kimmy discuss how the foundation of a strong relationship is not love, lust or sexual attraction but more that love can be found through intention, strategy and a concrete plan.  This conversation will help you see that it’s possible to interrupt patterns and behaviors that don’t serve you in love. You can retrain your brain to intake information differently and start to see opportunities where you used to see challenges. And, if you’ve ever felt like a victim, struggling to feel in control, Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share a useful tip to help reframe your perspective to see things in a more positive light. Stay tuned to hear some great tips on how to use quotas in an unexpected way that will make your partner feel seen, heard, and loved every single day.
     
    If you need to ignite your sexy confidence with a dating plan and put strategies in place to break your bad habits, grab one of the few seats at Kimmy’s new program, Spark Your Sexy: Live! It’s a brand *NEW* 6-week course culminating in an in-person retreat in sunny California! Join a group of like-minded single women who are ready to create a plan for their dating life and find the love they’ve always wanted.  Click here to apply and hurry as spaces are limited https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/
     
    EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Strategies For Your Love Life:  Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
    Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 41 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
121 Ratings

121 Ratings

Mimi_X女 ,

Eye opening and heart warming

This podcast gives me hope & opens doors to opportunities that I could never even imagine. Thanks for the inspiration Kimmy!!!

Carolin Hauser ,

OMG I love this so much

What a refreshing approach to dating. I had a very similar experience of reinventing my style and feeling so much better about myself because of it.

I love how much fun and lightness you bring to this topic!

Thanks for doing your good work in the world!!

=3 suscriber ,

Amazing!

Kimmy’s podcast is amazing! Real conversations with real people. Definitely tune in.

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