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Looking for answers to the questions you don't want to Google? Not sure where to get help when your sexual life is on the rocks and everything the secular culture has to offer is only making things worse? Welcome to Charting Toward Intimacy where you learn to actually enjoy and desire good, holy sex with your spouse. Hosted by Ellen Holloway, Catholic Sex and Intimacy Coach.

Charting Toward Intimacy Ellen Holloway

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.9 • 67 Ratings

Looking for answers to the questions you don't want to Google? Not sure where to get help when your sexual life is on the rocks and everything the secular culture has to offer is only making things worse? Welcome to Charting Toward Intimacy where you learn to actually enjoy and desire good, holy sex with your spouse. Hosted by Ellen Holloway, Catholic Sex and Intimacy Coach.

    Thank God for Your Husband's Sex Drive | Ep. 165

    Thank God for Your Husband's Sex Drive | Ep. 165

    This episode focuses on the common issue among couples regarding the disparity in sex drives, a topic frequently brought up by listeners. We propose a perspective shift, suggesting couples view these differences as blessings that can forward the relationship and increase intimacy. 
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    Looking for support around sexuality, NFP, sexual ethics, or something we talked about in this episode? Click here to learn more about Ellen's 12 week coaching program.


    Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.com

    The Charting Toward Intimacy Exclusive Community is now closed, if you would like to support the podcast, please consider purchasing one of our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

    • 29 min
    What Does the Church Actually Teach about Manual Stimulation? | Ep. 164

    What Does the Church Actually Teach about Manual Stimulation? | Ep. 164

    In this episode, the focus is on the church's teachings regarding manual stimulation and masturbation within the context of marriage. We'll go through basically all of the different scenarios of manual stimulation from masturbation to stimulating the other person. 

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    Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit questions!


    Looking for support around sexuality, NFP, sexual ethics, or something we talked about in this episode? Click here to learn more about Ellen's 12 week coaching program.


    Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.com

    The Charting Toward Intimacy Exclusive Community is now closed, if you would like to support the podcast, please consider purchasing one of our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

    • 20 min
    Stop Treating Good Sexual Thoughts Like Intrusive Thoughts | Ep. 163

    Stop Treating Good Sexual Thoughts Like Intrusive Thoughts | Ep. 163

    In this episode of Charting Toward Intimacy, Ellen and Kathleen tackle the challenge of internalized purity culture and its impact on women's sexual thoughts. They discuss the phenomenon where healthy sexual desires within the context of marriage are mistakenly treated as intrusive thoughts due to purity culture's teachings. The discussion includes defining intrusive thoughts, sharing personal struggles with accepting sexuality, and the journey of healing the relationship with sex from the perspective of Catholic women.

    Check out the 12 week Renewed Intimacy Coaching Program
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    Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books!


    Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit questions!


    Looking for support around sexuality, NFP, sexual ethics, or something we talked about in this episode? Click here to learn more about Ellen's 12 week coaching program.


    Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.com

    The Charting Toward Intimacy Exclusive Community is now closed, if you would like to support the podcast, please consider purchasing one of our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

    • 29 min
    Your Hormones Aren't the Reason You Have Low Sexual Desire | Ep. 162

    Your Hormones Aren't the Reason You Have Low Sexual Desire | Ep. 162

    In this episode we'll address the misconception among individuals practicing Natural Family Planning (NFP) that their sexual desire only peaks during the fertile window due to hormonal influences. 
    Listen in to see what you really need to change to experience more desire for sex!
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    Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books!


    Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit questions!


    Looking for support around sexuality, NFP, sexual ethics, or something we talked about in this episode? Click here to learn more about Ellen's 12 week coaching program.


    Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.com

    The Charting Toward Intimacy Exclusive Community is now closed, if you would like to support the podcast, please consider purchasing one of our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

    • 17 min
    Postpartum Sex! | Ep. 161

    Postpartum Sex! | Ep. 161

    This episode addresses the complexities and challenges couples face regarding postpartum sex. The episode covers the expectations, fears, and physical changes women and their partners might experience, emphasizing the importance of communication, understanding, and patience. Techniques such as perineal massage and the use of lubricants are suggested to ease discomfort and anxiety during postpartum sexual activity. Additionally, discussions include men's perspectives on postpartum sex, the importance of pelvic floor therapy, and the possible impact of SSRIs on sexual function. The episode is designed to equip couples with knowledge and tools to navigate postpartum sex, enhancing intimacy and relationship satisfaction.


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    Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books!


    Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit questions!


    Looking for support around sexuality, NFP, sexual ethics, or something we talked about in this episode? Click here to learn more about Ellen's 12 week coaching program.


    Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.com

    The Charting Toward Intimacy Exclusive Community is now closed, if you would like to support the podcast, please consider purchasing one of our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

    • 27 min
    Your Marriage Doesn't Need to Be Perfect | Ep. 160

    Your Marriage Doesn't Need to Be Perfect | Ep. 160

    Ellen addresses the common pursuit of perfectionism in marriage and sexual relationships, emphasizing that perfection is not a prerequisite for intimacy or spiritual growth. She discusses how striving for a perfect relationship or sexual encounter can be paralyzing, whereas embracing the imperfection can lead to significant growth, healing, and a deeper bond. Trial, error, and grace-filled perseverance in sexual intimacy can transform and sanctify marriage.




    Get the Orgasm Course for Catholic Women at vinesinfullbloom.com/orgasm


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    Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books!


    Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit questions!


    Looking for support around sexuality, NFP, sexual ethics, or something we talked about in this episode? Click here to learn more about Ellen's 12 week coaching program.


    Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.com

    The Charting Toward Intimacy Exclusive Community is now closed, if you would like to support the podcast, please consider purchasing one of our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

    • 12 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
67 Ratings

67 Ratings

crazy shipping ,

Refreshing

Finally a refreshing and practical CATHOLIC conversation about sex. Great podcast!

isabella972 ,

A blessing

This podcast has been such a blessing! I’m a 20-something newlywed but started listening to this podcast well before getting married and I feel like it has given me the tools to be confident, communicative, and compassionate in our sex life. Also when things get difficult (as they inevitably do) I can always rely on an episode to help me work through it and provide me with some peace.

ghost326106 ,

I only wish I found this sooner

S*x has been the absolute biggest struggle in my marriage, and Ellen honestly is providing life changing information through her podcast and ministry. I have hope for the physical aspect in my marriage where for a long time I had none.

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