56 episodes

It's time to ChaseLife with Kelly! I am your host, Kelly Chase! I am a Business & Mindset Coach, Reality TV Celeb, and small town girl from "the 'Ville", who is on a mission, through vulnerability and raw storytelling, to inspire, motivate, and empower you to create the life you crave! Ya know, launch the business, become a boundaries setting badass, Be Do and Have what you desire!?! YAH, ALL THAT! On this show, you'll hear from incredible people who, like myself, have turned messes into successes; and who are also on a mission to ignite a flame within your soul! I am so grateful to have you here! If this show resonates with you, please rate, review, and subscribe! To connect further, follow me on IG at @chaselifewithkelly, at www.chaselifetogether.com, and check out my YouTube channel! Love Always, Kelly xoxo

ChaseLife with Kelly Kelly Chase

    • Business
    • 4.9 • 32 Ratings

It's time to ChaseLife with Kelly! I am your host, Kelly Chase! I am a Business & Mindset Coach, Reality TV Celeb, and small town girl from "the 'Ville", who is on a mission, through vulnerability and raw storytelling, to inspire, motivate, and empower you to create the life you crave! Ya know, launch the business, become a boundaries setting badass, Be Do and Have what you desire!?! YAH, ALL THAT! On this show, you'll hear from incredible people who, like myself, have turned messes into successes; and who are also on a mission to ignite a flame within your soul! I am so grateful to have you here! If this show resonates with you, please rate, review, and subscribe! To connect further, follow me on IG at @chaselifewithkelly, at www.chaselifetogether.com, and check out my YouTube channel! Love Always, Kelly xoxo

    55: Why Are “Bad Boys” So Good In Bed? with Dr. Morgan Anderson Part 2

    55: Why Are “Bad Boys” So Good In Bed? with Dr. Morgan Anderson Part 2

    This episode is a continuation of the discussion with clinical psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Morgan Anderson, who dives deep with us into the various attachment styles to help us understand how we can work through the challenges each style faces, heal and become more secure in who we are to attract more secure relationships. 
    Avoidant Attachment and Its Difficulties  [5:23] “People with avoidant attachment struggle with reassurance. There is a lot of uncertainty. Everything in the relationship is confusing, but the sex is good.   ”
    The Shame in Needing Sex  [13:42] “Women feel guilty about needing it, but hey maybe the way your relationship has functioned only allows you to feel connected and safe when you have sex. Sex is one of the many ways you can connect with your partner.”
    Securely Attached Sex  [15:02] “What a lot of people need to realize is that when your energy is not going to the drama or the unpredictability, it can go into the deepening of building a life and having wonderful experiences with someone. Safe and secure is sexy.”
    Having the Courage to Say Something [20:54] “In order to have the relationship that you want and make it sustainable of course, you have to tune in to yourself, speak up and voice what’s going on. We can be assertive and redirect.”
    Fear of Starting the Life Over [26:19] “Do you want to spend a life of suffering for the rest of your life or do you want to go through the temporary pain of leaving the relationship? Go through the temporary pain, avoid the lifetime of suffering.”
    Couple’s Therapy and Uncoupling [28:52] “Successful couple’s therapy is not the couples staying together, it’s doing what’s best for the couples and individuals and sometimes that is uncoupling. Sometimes, that is the very best thing.”
    “Uncoupling is intentionally dissolving a romantic relationship, and creating a new type of relationship in that process.”
    Failures in Dating [37:56] “There’s no failure in dating, there’s only learning.” 
    Forgetting and Forgiveness [42:06] “Your pain is valid. Your experience is valid. Forgiveness is just deciding you’re not going to carry around the anger.”
    Being Honest with Yourself [49:00] “You get to be honest with yourself about the kind of relationship that you want, and how you want to feel.” 


    Follow Dr. Morgan Anderson: @drmorgancoaching
    Connect further with Dr. Morgan
    Please download, rate & review this episode and share it with friends! 
    Connect with Kelly here: 
    Courses & Coaching
    Kelly’s Favorites
    Follow Me on Instagram
    Join the ChaseLife with Kelly Community!
    Subscribe to My YouTube Channel
    Visit My Website!

    • 52 min
    54: Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? Talking Attachment Style with Dr. Morgan Anderson

    54: Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? Talking Attachment Style with Dr. Morgan Anderson

    This episode features clinical psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Morgan Anderson, who dives deep with us into the various attachment styles to help us understand how we can work through the challenges each style faces, heal, and become more secure in who we are to attract more secure relationships. 
    Getting to know Dr. Morgan Anderson  [2:13] “I knew from a very young age that I wanted to help people. Even from a young age I just wanted to help people and get to know people ”
    Dealing with Pain [7:58] “I knew that not dealing with the wound is going to hurt me again and again.”
    To the People Who Are Stuck [11:00] “We actually owe it to ourselves to stop numbing and to feel the pain that we are feeling. I am in pain and I need to change.”
    Healing and Relationships [15:30] “Some people come into your life to open your eyes to something different. Rejection is redirection.”
    The Attachment Theory [22:35] “There is a unique attachment style for every person. All of us have different pieces from each attachment style.”
    Anxious Attachment [27:52] “Fear of abandonment is very strong. You’re not just born with anxious attachment.”
    “Sometimes we get so fearful of speaking what’s on our mind and being vulnerable because they’re going to think something about us and leave us.”
    Dismissive or Avoidant Attachment Style [29:57] “It is the fear that I’m not good enough or this person isn't gonna be there for me.” 
    Disorganized Attachment Style [31:36] “A mix of anxious and dismissive. You might just go back and forth.”
    Secure Attachment Style [36:15] “Both should decide that they want a secure relationship. You need someone who’s willing to create that secure attachment with you.” 
    Tips on Becoming More Secure [44:56]  “Awareness is the first step. Do a relationship inventory.”

    Follow Dr. Morgan Anderson: @drmorgancoaching
    Connect further with Dr. Morgan

    Please download, rate & review this episode and share it with friends! 
    Connect with Kelly here:

    Courses & Coaching
    Kelly’s Favorites
    Follow Me on Instagram
    Join the ChaseLife with Kelly Community!
    Subscribe to My YouTube Channel
    Visit My Website!

    • 1 hr 3 min
    53: Arranged Marriage, Dating & Billionaires feat. Nadia Jagessar of Indian Matchmaking

    53: Arranged Marriage, Dating & Billionaires feat. Nadia Jagessar of Indian Matchmaking

    This episode features Nadia Jagessar of Indian Matchmaking. She talks about dating, her experience as an immigrant and a southeast Asian millennial, cultural identity and how it affected her life.
    Getting to know Nadia Jagessar [3:10] “ It took me after college to realize how my story is unique, I am unique, and that it was a benefit for me growing up. I just saw myself as being different from others.”
    The Indian Matchmaking Opportunity [5:06] “I’ve got nothing to lose, and I’ve tried so many forms of dating. I did it, and 6 months later, that was it.”
    What She Learned from Her Time on Indian Matchmaking [11:04] “Some things are done purposefully. I needed to have those happen. It’s learning that I need to put my foot down and stand up for myself.”
    Situationships and Relationships [16:33] “When is this going to work? When is someone going to stick? But you know, it's always redirecting you to a more aligned person of you.”
    Dating Before Indian Matchmaking and After [20:40] “I went into situations with really low expectations because I get disappointed easily when things don’t work out how I beautifully painted them in my head. Going on dates now, I’m careful on what I’m sharing.”
    Dealing with and Addressing Intimidations [31:03] “It’s making me feel things that I don’t want to feel and I want to talk about it.”
    “Sometimes we get so fearful of speaking what’s on our mind and being vulnerable because they’re going to think something about us and leave us.”
    Nadia’s Culture - Growing Up and More [38:14] “People were coming from different parts of the world and it was a melting pot. It was great to have that. But I never really shared much that I did Indian dancing. It was until after college that I realized that everything was wonderful.”
    Parents’ Take on Doing the Show [46:49] “I am super grateful for parents who are incredibly supportive of whatever I bring to the table. They’ve never pushed the idea of arranged marriage. They’re very supportive.”
    Passion Projects [51:00] “What am I going to bring to the table? Is a wonderful opportunity to be able to share your message.” 


    Follow Nadia on Instagram @nadiajagessar
    Please download, rate & review this episode and share it with friends! 
    Links/Resources:
    Courses & Coaching
    Kelly’s Favorites
    Follow Me on Instagram
    Join the ChaseLife with Kelly Community!
    Subscribe to My YouTube Channel
    Visit My Website!

    • 58 min
    52: Mental Health and Marriage feat. Danielle Ruhl Thompson of Netflix’s Love is Blind S2

    52: Mental Health and Marriage feat. Danielle Ruhl Thompson of Netflix’s Love is Blind S2

    This episode features Danielle Ruhl Thompson of Netflix’s Love is Blind Season 2. She shares about mental health, how to work around it, and how she uses different platforms to advocate for it.
    Getting to know Danielle Ruhl [3:10] “ There are so many aspects of who I am. I wanna show the 360 version of who I am instead of just an element.”
    Feeling Off [5:51] “I wished that anxiety and depression were taught in school so that people can understand what they’re going through. You don’t necessarily need to have triggers to have anxiety and depression.”
    Navigating Anxiety and Depression for a Long Time [10:20] “I didn’t know what it was, I just thought I was abnormal and I didn’t address any of it until after college. A lot of people actually relate to it so I started deep-diving. It’s never too late to start that process.”
    Having Conversations with your Partner [15:26] “There are a lot of external factors and it is important to understand those in order to make space.”
    Self-Care Routines [19:06] “It is important to write them down to remind yourself of how happy it made you because it is easy to forget.”
    Going to Therapy [24:30] “There really is a stigma about it and medication. Normalizing it would help other people.”
    Danielle’s Relationship with Nick  “Being able to connect on deep levels, similarities, and differences, but also the energy. We both knew it was each other before they turned the mics on.”
    Continuously Working with Different Mental Health Organizations [45:00] “Always just continuously mobilizing mental health.”
    If you know someone struggling with their mental health, reach out. Or if you are someone struggling, don’t hesitate to communicate and seek help. 
    With each conversation, together, we can break the stigma around mental health.
    Follow Danielle on Instagram @dnellruhl
    Please download, rate & review this episode and share it with friends!

    Links/Resources: 
    Courses & Coaching
    Kelly’s Favorites
    Follow Me on Instagram
    Join the ChaseLife with Kelly Community!
    Subscribe to My YouTube Channel
    Visit My Website!

    • 50 min
    Season 2 Coming Soon!

    Season 2 Coming Soon!

    Links/Resources: 
    Courses & Coaching
    Kelly’s Favorites
    Follow Me on Instagram
    Join the ChaseLife with Kelly Community!
    Subscribe to My YouTube Channel
    Visit My Website!

    • 17 sec
    51: First Orgasm at Age 33…

    51: First Orgasm at Age 33…

    As we prepare for the end of the year, and a new year arriving, I have decided that this is my last podcast episode… for now.  I felt a really big pull to take the month of December to reset so I can jump into 2022 with more clarity and heart. With that said, I’m going out with a bang! So for this last episode, I am gonna share a pretty private story. First, I want to say thank you! I’m so incredibly grateful for all of the guests that I’ve had on this podcast and of course every single one of you listening; you are incredible human beings! I don’t want to discredit that because every single one of us has a story to share. That’s the magic in that. I hope this podcast has inspired you to live with more gratitude, share that light, and create the life you crave!
    Having my first orgasm at the age of 33 - How? [7:29]
    “We don’t know what we’re doing the first time. You don’t. But then you learn. I didn’t. ”
    “I am a survivor of sexual abuse and emotional abuse.”
    I didn’t even know to feel [9:47]
    “I was never still, because I was bypassing emotions.”
    Reprogramming the Unconscious Mind [11:46]
    “Two ways: (1) Constant Repetition or (2) Through sudden impact.”
    The Facade [12:40]
    “With interhealing, I am so much more confident. I was looking for validation, love and acceptance externally.” 
    Disconnected [15:31]
    “I didn’t know what I liked. I didn’t even know how to tell them what could feel good.”
    “I didn’t know who I was.”
    The Trauma [17:01]
    “I had to perform a sexual favour, in order to get out of a situation.”
    Avoiding Feelings [18:50]
    “Many of us avoid feeling because it feels better to numb ourselves, drinking alcohol or drugs or sex.” 
    “We disconnect instead of connecting.”
    Orgasmic Manifestation [22:04]
    “Manifestation is getting to the feeling of it already happening. Getting to the feeling of having an orgasm.”
    “Connect to yourself. Know what you like.”
    Boardroom Vs. Bedroom [24:04]
    “How you communicate in the boardroom is how you should be communicating in the bedroom.”
    Self Pleasure is Self Love [26:31]
    “It is so amazing.”
    In that moment when you’re radically present is where nothing else matters. The more you can be present in your life, the better it’s gonna be. We want to feel love, joy, peace, etc. What are you doing in your life that is making you feel otherwise? Let that go. Find a new way to do it. Learn how to do things that will create joy in your life. Use it for self-love and self-care. On another note, talking about sensuality should be normalized. I lived in more pain than pleasure, now I live in more pleasure than I do pain. When pain comes to me, I address it, bring awareness to it, and create a new behavior that will bring in more love, joy and peace. I only wish the same for you! I only wish you to feel more pleasure than pain! 



    Connect with me at:
    Instagram @chaselifewithkelly
    Youtube ChaseLife with Kelly
    Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/chaselifetogether/
    Website www.chaselifetogether.com
    Review this podcast and share with friends!

    • 35 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
32 Ratings

32 Ratings

MooreMomentum ,

Such a bright light!

Such a joy to go at with and learn from, she is on a path of growth and wants to take listeners along for the ride. Keep it up!

fashionablyyours ,

Incredible, inspiring, and motivating

I love Kelly and all she stands for!! Kelly is such a bright light and her podcast is amazing! Challenging our own beliefs in the most divine way! I loved getting to be a guest on her podcast too. Our convo lit me up inside!

Kirstin Schladt ,

Such an inspiration!

Kelly’s podcast is truly incredible. From money mindset, all the way to self love with everything in between is just amazing! The knowledge Kelly has is just truly speechless! She has grown so much over the years and is continuing to grow! She is a leader, a great communicator, and always open minded! She inspires me to the fullest!

Top Podcasts In Business

Ramsey Network
Andy Frisella #100to0
iHeartPodcasts
NPR
Jocko DEFCOR Network
BiggerPockets

You Might Also Like

Lacy Phillips
Sahara Rose
Kast Media
Lauryn Bosstick & Michael Bosstick / Dear Media
Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg
PodcastOne