Confident Speaker: Build Your Public Speaking Confidence and Platform

Carol Cox

Get quick, practical advice to help you speak with clarity, presence, confidence, and impact, whether you're presenting in a meeting, on stage, or on camera. This show delivers bite-sized episodes that answer the most common questions about public speaking and presentations, based on the Speaking Your Brand® podcast and narrated by host Carol Cox's professionally cloned AI voice. If you want to feel more confident and sound more compelling every time you speak, you're in the right place.

  1. 3D AGO

    Get More Stage-Side Referrals with These Proven Strategies

    You’ve just wrapped a presentation. The audience is buzzing, a few people compliment you…and then what? How do you turn that excitement in the room into a steady stream of bookings and paid speaking gigs? In this episode of the Confident Speaker podcast, I’m diving into a powerful and often overlooked strategy: stage-side referrals. Getting booked from the stage—by someone who saw you speak and wants to bring you into their company or event—is one of the most organic and effective ways to grow your visibility *and* your revenue as a speaker. It’s how so many of our clients gain momentum, get paid engagements, and turn one opportunity into an entire pipeline.  I share a story from my early days of speaking and give you the exact three strategies you can use to maximize your visibility and referrals *right in the room* while the impact of your talk is still fresh. You’ll learn:- How to **design your talk to attract referrals** without sounding pitchy- Exactly what to put on a **feedback form** to generate warm leads- Why being **referral-ready** with a polished speaker page and materials creates a lasting impression  This episode is perfect for business owners, coaches, corporate professionals, and anyone ready to transform their expertise into a speaking platform that attracts the right clients—right from the stage.  You don’t have to cross your fingers and hope someone messages you later. You can plan for it, prepare for it, and make it easy for people to say, “We need her.”  Want support developing your standout signature talk and creating a strategy to get booked and paid as a speaker? Visit https://www.speakingyourbrand.com to learn more about how we can work together.  Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you. For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast. The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

    4 min
  2. SEP 17

    How to Write a Winning Speaker Proposal: Stand Out and Get Booked for More Speaking Opportunities

    Pitching yourself for speaking opportunities can feel nerve-wracking — but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode, I (AI Carol) walk you through exactly what to include in your speaker pitch or proposal so it resonates with organizers and increases your chances of getting booked.  Whether you're submitting directly to a conference or posting your speaker info on your website, you'll learn how to position your talk and experience in a way that highlights your value — not just your resume.  You’ll discover:- How to craft a captivating title and talk description that stands out- What to include in your speaker bio to establish credibility without sounding boastful- The often-overlooked section that shows event organizers you truly understand their audience- What to include on your website’s speaker page to make it easier for organizers to say “yes”  Plus, I share a story of a pitch I sent to a major marketing and AI event—and how strategic writing made the difference.  Your pitch is more than a formality. It’s your first opportunity to connect, inspire, and demonstrate the transformation you can deliver from the stage. Your message matters—this episode will help you pitch it with clarity and confidence.  We’d love to help you take your speaking to the next level. Visit https://www.speakingyourbrand.com to learn more about working with us. Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you. For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast. The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

    4 min
  3. SEP 10

    Should You Pay to Speak? The Answer May Surprise You

    You’ve probably come across speaking opportunities where the event organizer expects *you* to pay a fee or buy a ticket just to be on stage. It feels off, doesn’t it? After all, you’ve honed your expertise and crafted your message—shouldn’t they be paying *you*? In this episode of the Confident Speaker Podcast, I dig into the nuances of when it *can* make sense to speak for free—or even pay to speak—and when it’s time to say no (or charge your worth). I share personal insights from my own early speaking days, along with three powerful strategies to help you make thoughtful, strategic decisions about unpaid opportunities: **1. Know What You're Getting in Return** Not all free or pay-to-play talks are created equal. Visibility, great video footage, and connections with your ideal audience *can* make it worth your while. **2. Set a Limit on Free Speaking** Create and stick to a personal policy: How many unpaid talks will you say yes to per year? Having a clear boundary not only keeps you focused, but it also makes turning down less-aligned gigs that much easier. **3. Position Yourself as a Paid Speaker** From your website to your pitch emails, small tweaks in how you present yourself can send clear signals that you’re a professional who gets paid to speak. Being strategic doesn’t mean being rigid—it means honoring the value of your time, your message, and your goals. You have the power to decide which stages deserve your voice—and which ones don’t. For more support and to work with us to grow your speaking business, head over to speakingyourbrand.com. Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you.  For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast. The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

    4 min
  4. SEP 3

    What Event Organizers Really Want in a Speaker (And How to Get Invited Back)

    What do event organizers *really* want in a speaker - and how can you position yourself to be the one they rave about (and invite back)? In this episode, I pull back the curtain on what truly matters to event organizers. Yes, being a dynamic speaker on stage is important, but it's only part of the equation. The rest? It happens behind the scenes. Drawing from years of working directly with events and conferences, I share the top three qualities organizers consistently look for in speakers and how you can embody them: **1. Be a Dream to Work With Behind the Scenes**   Professionalism isn't just appreciated; it's expected. From submitting your materials on time, to showing up early for tech checks, to being responsive throughout the planning process - small actions build your reputation as someone organizers trust and recommend. **2. Customize Your Talk for Their Audience**   A great talk isn't a one-size-fits-all. The best speakers tailor their message to the specific audience in the room. I give you practical tips for adapting your topic so it aligns with the goals and challenges of attendees and stands out in the speaker selection process. **3. Lead with Value—Not a Sales Pitch**   Yes, you can grow your business through speaking, but you have to do it the right way. Learn how to be seen as a generous expert who leaves the audience inspired, not sold to (and leaves the organizer relieved and impressed). The key takeaway? If you want to be the kind of speaker who gets booked again and again, it’s about more than just what you *say* - it’s about who you are throughout the entire process. If you're ready to elevate your message and become that speaker, you can find ways to work with us at speakingyourbrand.com. Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you.  For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast.  The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

    4 min
  5. AUG 27

    Overcome Stage Fright: Proven Strategies to Calm Nerves and Speak with Confidence

    Feeling the flutter of stage fright before stepping onto a stage—or even into a Zoom room—is more common than you think. But those nerves? They’re not a sign of weakness; they’re a sign that you care. In this episode, I share a personal story from my TEDxWomen talk that didn’t go exactly as planned—and how that moment sparked some of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned about managing nerves before speaking. You’ll learn:- Why preparation goes beyond memorizing your content—and the exact steps to practice the right way- How mental rehearsal (yes, visualization really works!) can turn fear into familiarity- Simple, science-backed ways to reconnect with your body and bring your most grounded, confident self to the stage Whether you're stepping up for a keynote, webinar, team meeting, or podcast interview, these strategies will help you channel your nervous energy into a powerful, connected delivery. If you’d like coaching support to feel more confident and prepared on stage and in any speaking situation, check out ways to work with us at speakingyourbrand.com. Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you. For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast.  The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

    4 min
  6. AUG 20

    How to Stop Saying "Um" and "Uh": Embrace the Pause and Ditch Perfectionism

    Worried that you say “um” and "uh" too much when you speak? In this short but powerful episode, I explore why we use filler words like “uh,” “you know,” and “like” - and how to start reducing them without sounding stiff or over-rehearsed. I’ve heard from so many of our clients how frustrating it feels to listen back to a presentation and hear those filler words take over. But you don’t need to eliminate them completely to sound confident - you just need the right strategies. I walk you through 3 simple, effective tips you can start using right away to become more aware of your speaking habits and to communicate with more clarity and presence: - Embrace the power of pausing and let silence work for you - Practice out loud to train your brain and recognize filler word patterns - Slow down and speak for connection, not perfection This episode is your quick yet meaningful guide to sounding more assured and grounded every time you speak, whether you’re presenting on Zoom, leading a meeting, or recording your next podcast. Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you. For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast. The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

    4 min
  7. AUG 13

    Is Your Presentation Repelling Clients? 3 Proven Strategies to Make Your Speaking Attract the Right Audience

    Is your presentation attracting the right clients—or just checking a box? Too often, I see entrepreneurs and professionals settle for “good enough” talks. Maybe it's a reused slide deck, a quick rehearsal, or a surface-level outline that feels... fine. But those kinds of presentations could actually be doing more harm than good when it comes to building your reputation and growing your business. In this episode, I share what’s at stake when you play it safe—and exactly what to do instead to elevate your presentation from passable to powerful. You’ll learn three key strategies to instantly uplevel your speaking: **1. Understand where your audience is in their journey.**Tailoring your message to meet your audience where they are is essential—whether they’re beginners or seasoned professionals. I’ll show you how to assess their needs before you even step on stage. **2. Structure with intention, not overload.** Avoid the temptation to cram everything you know into your talk. Instead, I walk you through how to build your presentation using a story arc that captures attention and delivers depth. **3. Align your content with your business goals.**Your talk should attract the types of clients and opportunities you truly want. I share how to shape your message so it speaks directly to your ideal audience—and repels the rest (yes, that’s a good thing!). You’ve invested too much in your expertise to let your message fall flat. This episode reminds you to stop settling—and start speaking with the clarity and confidence your brand deserves.  Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you.  For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast. The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

    5 min
  8. AUG 6

    From Breakout Speaker to Keynote Star: How to Land the Main Stage with Your Signature Talk

    Attending conferences and leading breakout sessions is a fantastic achievement—but what if your sights are set higher? If you’re ready to claim your place on the main stage as a keynote speaker, this episode is for you. I walk you through how to make the leap from breakout sessions to delivering powerful keynotes that leave an impact. You’ll learn:- Why you should treat your breakout like a TED Talk, not a training session- How to develop a signature talk that reflects your big idea, not just your business- What steps to take to build relationships with organizers and confidently pitch yourself for that keynote slot This isn't about being flashy. It’s about being intentional with your message, your presence, and your performance.  I share a real-world success story of one of our clients who went from breakout speaker to keynote success, and how you can do the same. It's time to step into the spotlight with a message that moves audiences and positions you as a true thought leader.  Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you.  For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast.  The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

    4 min

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Get quick, practical advice to help you speak with clarity, presence, confidence, and impact, whether you're presenting in a meeting, on stage, or on camera. This show delivers bite-sized episodes that answer the most common questions about public speaking and presentations, based on the Speaking Your Brand® podcast and narrated by host Carol Cox's professionally cloned AI voice. If you want to feel more confident and sound more compelling every time you speak, you're in the right place.

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