What was your biggest Takeaway from this Episode! I would Love to hear from you! What if your “little food problem” — the restriction, bingeing, or rigid food rules — is actually your nervous system trying to survive? In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Marnie Davis, LMHC, Certified Eating Disorder Specialist and Consultant, Certified EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA-Approved Consultant, and HAES®-aligned clinician. Together, we explore the hidden link between people pleasing, trauma, neurodivergence, and eating disorders — and why so many women, clinicians, and families completely miss what’s really happening beneath the surface. This is a compassionate, non-shaming, neurodivergent-affirming episode that reframes eating disorders from “What’s wrong with me?” to “What happened to me, and how did my system try to keep me alive?” ⚠️ Content Note: We discuss eating disorders, body image, trauma, dissociation, and co-occurring mental health struggles. Please listen with care and take breaks as needed.✨ In This Episode, We Explore: How, from a trauma lens, eating disorders are maladaptive coping strategies that once made sense to your systemThe impact of attachment injuries, perfectionism, and people-pleasing on food, body image, and controlWhy eating disorders are not about vanity or willpower, but about safety, power, and relief from overwhelming sensations and emotionsThe role of culture, family rules, and “finish your plate” messages in shaping food beliefsHow neurodivergent brains (ADHD, autism, sensory sensitivities) can be especially vulnerable to disordered eatingWhy one person dies every hour from an eating disorder and why a comprehensive medical + therapeutic team is crucialWhat healing can look like: becoming more self-led, value-driven, and authentically you👤 Connect with Our Guest: Marnie Davis, LMHC, CEDS Website: 🔗 www.MarnieDavisLMHC.com Email: 📩 Marnie@MarnieDavisLMHC.com LinkedIn: 🔗 https://www.linkedin.com/in/marnie-davis-lmhc-ceds-c-33187b45/Instagram: 🔗 @marniedavislmhcFacebook: 🔗 MarnieDavisLMHC 🔗 Davis Counseling and Consulting 🌿 Connect with Your Host, Anita Sandoval, MA, LPC-S 🔗 All My Links & Resources: Start here for everything: podcast, free tools, courses, communities & more. 👉 https://www.anitasandoval.com/empowerher/links 🎧 Listen on Your Favorite Podcast Platform: Find Empowering Women in Conversations on all major podcast directories. 👉 https://www.anitasandoval.com/podcast-directories 💌 If This Episode Spoke To You… Share it with a friend, client, or loved one who struggles with food, people pleasing, or feeling “never enough.”Subscribe so you don’t miss future conversations on people pleasing, boundaries, trauma, neurodivergence, and empowered living.Take a quiet moment after listening to ask yourself:“If my eating, my people-pleasing, and my burnout are all parts of me trying to keep me safe… what would it look like to meet them with kindness instead of shame?”You’re not broken. You’re a system that learned how to survive. 🩷