Dating in your 40s, after divorce, after heartbreak, or after years of putting yourself last can feel confusing, overwhelming, and honestly exhausting. Between dating apps, mixed signals, text message decoding, social media advice, and the fear of wasting more time, it can be hard to know where to even begin. In this episode of Creating Sunshine, Sarah sits down with Morgan Barkus, a confidence coach based in Chicago with a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy, to talk about dating, confidence, attachment styles, situationships, and what it really means to choose someone who actually shows up. Morgan shares why she does not consider herself a dating coach. Instead of focusing on how to decode texts, perfect your dating profile, or play games to keep someone interested, Morgan helps women come back to themselves. Her work centers on confidence, clarity, self-worth, and helping women understand what they truly want so they can stop settling for breadcrumbs and start choosing relationships that feel aligned, safe, and consistent. Sarah and Morgan talk about what dating can look like when you are no longer available for low-effort connections, why situationships often stem from low self-worth, and how to stop dating someone’s potential instead of their actual behavior. They also dive into anxious attachment, secure attachment, and practical tools for calming the spiral when dating starts to activate old fears. This conversation is honest, validating, funny, and full of truth for any woman who is ready to stop chasing, stop overthinking, and start trusting herself again. About Morgan Barkus Morgan Barkus is a confidence coach based in Chicago with a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy. After exploring therapy, fitness, medical device sales, and entrepreneurship, Morgan officially launched her coaching business in November 2024. Her coaching helps women build confidence in the areas where they feel stuck, whether that’s dating, body image, career, relationships, or leaving behind patterns that no longer serve them. Morgan’s approach is direct, deeply human, and rooted in helping women reconnect with who they are and what they want. Morgan also hosts the Confidence Club, a free weekly online community for women who want to build confidence, connect with others, and receive support in a welcoming space. Connect with Morgan Website: MorganBarkus.com Instagram: @MorganBarkus Confidence Club: Visit MorganBarkus.com and click Confidence Club Thank you for listening to Creating Sunshine! Your support means the world to me, and I'm so grateful you're part of this community. If this episode resonated with you, I'd love it if you could take a moment to rate and review the show on your favorite podcast platform. Your reviews help other listeners discover Creating Sunshine and find the encouragement they need on their own journeys. Don't forget to hit that follow button so you never miss an episode- there's so much more sunshine to create together! Let's stay connected: Your Next Chapter (1:1 Mindset Coaching)Follow me on InstagramShop my cups on InstagramJoin my email listMindset Reset ChallengeGet your free Sunshine Moments downloadRemember, even in the darkest moments, there's always a way to create a little sunshine. Until next time, keep shining bright!