Dating Intelligence the Podcast

Christopher Louis/ Jamie Villamor
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How are you consistently the best you while dating or in a relationship? We discuss all kinds of crazy scenarios, and more. From the creator of the highly acclaimed Dating Intelligence blog, finally comes Dating Intelligence- the Podcast. Tennis pro Christopher Louis and his cohost, international model, Jamie Villamor, help give relationship advice on dating to marriage, and everything in between. Join the fun as they bring in guests to discuss any and all topics dealing with issues we encounter in our dating and relationship lives. Nothing is off limits.

  1. FEB 10

    Why Successful Women Struggle in Dating & How to Attract High-Caliber Partners! feat. Amanda Carroll

    Why do so many successful, driven women struggle to find emotionally high-caliber partners? In this episode of Dating Intelligence, host Christopher Louis sits down with dating coach Amanda Carroll to unpack the real reasons modern dating feels broken—and what actually works when you refuse to dim your light to be chosen. Together, they break down why financial independence is not a liability in love, how emotional intelligence determines long-term relationship success, and why establishing non-negotiables is the difference between settling and thriving. Amanda shares practical strategies for identifying high-caliber partners, communicating relationship standards with confidence, and resetting your mindset to attract aligned love—without playing games or shrinking yourself. This conversation is a must-listen for women who are accomplished, emotionally aware, and ready to choose a partner who meets them at their level. If you've ever felt like your success intimidates the wrong people—or attracts the wrong ones—this episode will change how you date. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Mentality and Dating Apps 02:31 Empowered Podcast Conference Experience 03:55 Introducing Amanda Carroll: Turning Pain into Power 05:10 High Value Women's Collective: Empowering Women 11:32 The Importance of Financial Independence 15:47 Choosing Partners Wisely: The Importance of Emotional Intelligence 20:15 Navigating Masculine and Feminine Energies in Relationships 25:40 The CEO of Your Love Life: Dating Strategies 32:31 The Four Keys to a Healthy Partner 40:24 Overcoming Scarcity Mindset in Dating 50:22 Establishing Non-Negotiables in Relationships Sponsors:  Men.tality: https://www.datingmentality.com   Amanda Carroll info: Website www.amandacarroll.org Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-carroll-3016896/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealamandacarroll/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therealamandacarroll Podcast :https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-high-value-womans-playbook/id1091365798 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amandacarrollshow/ Substack: https://substack.com/@therealamandacarroll?   Links for show notes of free giveaways! (Magentic Attraction:  How to Design a Dating Profile that Attracts High Value Men 4 Keys to a Healthy Man:  The 4 Questions to Ask Every Man to Decide if He's Worth Your Time Dating Profile Cheat Sheet

    1h 4m

  2. JAN 27

    How to Heal After a Breakup & Find Healthy Love Again! feat. Holly McCusker

    In this episode of Dating Intelligence, host Christopher Louis and guest Holly McCusker delve into the complexities of dating, relationships, and breakups. They discuss the importance of understanding personal patterns, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the significance of self-awareness and self-compassion in navigating love. The conversation emphasizes the need for intentional dating, recognizing when to walk away from unhealthy relationships, and the process of healing after a breakup. Holly shares insights from her work at Love Prescription, offering tools for individuals to understand their relationship patterns and move forward with confidence. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Mentality and Intentional Dating 01:09 New Year Reflections and Personal Growth  03:52 Introducing Holly McCusker and Love Prescription  04:47 Understanding Relationship Patterns and Breakups 07:56 The Impact of Childhood on Adult Relationships 12:14 Recognizing Patterns in Relationships 18:00 When to Walk Away from a Relationship 27:12 Navigating the Breakup Process  30:28 Understanding Attachment Styles in Breakups 37:44 Moving On After a Breakup 43:36 Re-entering the Dating Scene 49:33 Self-Compassion and Trust in Relationships 52:18 Final Thoughts on Love and Relationships Sponsor: Mentality: https://www.datingmentality.com/ Holly McCusker: Instagram: @loveprescriptions https://www.loveprescriptions.com/ Christopher Louis: Instagram: @fetchsport https://dating-intelligence.com/

    56 min

  3. JAN 13

    Why Men Need Emotional Intelligence More Than Ever! feat. Natalie Stavola

    Emotional intelligence isn't a "nice to have" in dating — it's the foundation of real connection. In this episode of Dating Intelligence, host Christopher Louis is joined by life and dating coach Natalie Stravola for a grounded, honest conversation about emotional safety, communication, and why so many relationships struggle to move past surface-level connection. Together, they explore the real differences between therapy and coaching, how past experiences quietly shape our dating patterns, and why learning to process emotions leads to stronger communication and healthier relationships. Natalie also shares her journey into coaching, how she balances multiple careers, and why self-care and joy are non-negotiables — not luxuries — when it comes to love and personal growth. This episode dives into: Why emotional safety is critical in relationships How processing emotions improves communication and intimacy The role of self-care, balance, and joy in dating Why men need permission — and tools — to embrace their emotional side How your relationship depth mirrors your self-awareness. If you're tired of repeating the same relationship patterns, feeling misunderstood, or wondering why dating feels harder than it should… this conversation brings clarity, perspective, and practical insight you can actually use. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Mentality and Intentional Dating 01:07 Meet the Guest: Natalie Stavola 02:48 The Importance of Energy in Coaching 04:14 Therapy vs. Coaching: Understanding the Differences 08:32 The Journey of Becoming a Coach 11:40 Balancing Multiple Careers: Coaching and Filmmaking 15:14 The Role of Self-Care in Personal Growth 16:34 Finding Joy and Passion in Life 20:25 Understanding Emotional Intelligence in Men 30:48 The Importance of Emotional Awareness 37:06 Navigating Relationships: Lessons from the Past 42:10 Tips for Emotional Intelligence and Relationship Growth Sponsored by Men.tality Men.tality is a modern, referral-based matchmaking and relationship strategy platform helping men find the right connection for where they are right now. 👉 https://www.datingmentality.com Follow: Natalie Stravola on Instagram 📸 @NatalieStavola

    59 min

  4. 12/23/2025

    Guys, Stop Sabotaging Your Potential! feat. Mike Radoor

    In this episode of Dating Intelligence, host Christopher Louis welcomes Mike Radoor, a successful entrepreneur and motivational speaker, who shares his incredible journey from a chaotic lifestyle filled with parties and excess to a path of self-discovery and transformation. Mike discusses the importance of confronting one's inner demons, the duality of the self, and practical steps he took to regain control of his life, including the concept of ego mastery and the significance of self-discipline. This conversation is a deep dive into personal growth, recovery, and the lessons learned from a life lived on the edge. In this conversation, Mike Radoor and Christopher Louis delve into the complexities of modern masculinity, the impact of the dopamine economy on behavior, and the importance of accountability and self-improvement. They discuss the significance of letting go of ego to foster genuine confidence, the necessity of facing consequences in life, and the journey of personal growth through Mike's coaching program. The dialogue emphasizes the need for men to embrace their vulnerabilities while also cultivating strength and resilience.  Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Sponsorship 02:19 Meet Mike Radoor: A Life of Transformation 05:06 Mike's Journey: From Success to Chaos 11:11 The Party Lifestyle: A Double-Edged Sword 16:21 The Turning Point: A Father's Realization 18:05 Rebuilding Life: The Path to Recovery 21:30 Ego Mastery: Understanding the Self 23:42 The Battle Within: Higher Self vs. Lower Self 26:27 Confronting Self-Sabotage: A Six-Step Model 29:57 Breaking Patterns: The Power of Routine 31:50 The Importance of Identity and Self-Image  35:24 Resisting Temptation: The Dopamine Economy  40:01 The Comfort Crisis: Survival Mechanisms in Modern Life  41:41 Ego Control: The Key to Attractiveness 46:01 True Confidence: Being Authentic and Self-Aware 47:45 Self-Discovery and Personal Growth 50:21 The Importance of Self-Sacrifice 51:44 Confronting Insecurities and Fears 54:35 Accountability and Consequences  01:01:01 Truth and Honesty in Relationships 01:07:14 Future Aspirations and Closing Thoughts Sponsors: BeFreed: https://bit.ly/44zcBkV Men.tality: https://www.datingmentality.com

    3 min

  5. 12/16/2025

    Why Men Struggle With Modern Dating (And How to Fix It) feat. Blaine Anderson

    In this episode of Dating Intelligence, host Christopher Louis and guest Blaine Anderson, dating powerhouse coach and founder of Dating By Blaine, discuss the complexities of dating, especially during the holiday season. They explore the importance of in-person connections, the challenges men face in dating, and the common mistakes made in online dating profiles. Blaine shares her journey into dating coaching and emphasizes the significance of genuine communication and chivalry in modern dating. The conversation also touches on the importance of experiences over material gifts and how to handle ghosting and unavailability gracefully. Overall, the episode provides valuable insights and actionable advice for navigating the dating landscape. Chapters: 00:00 Navigating the Holiday Dating Scene 03:11 Blaine Anderson's Journey into Dating Coaching 05:59 The Importance of Real-Life Interactions 08:52 Understanding Men's Challenges in Dating 11:45 Building Confidence and Overcoming Nerves 15:05 The Role of Dating Apps in Modern Relationships 18:00 Optimizing Dating Profiles for Success 28:18 The Importance of Taking Action in Dating 29:34 Navigating Texting and Communication 31:18 The Role of Matchmakers in Dating 33:35 Understanding Chivalry and Initiative 36:50 The Ghosting Culture in Modern Dating 40:37 Handling Unavailable Partners 43:43 The Importance of Communication  46:47 Taking Action After Coaching 49:00 Building Genuine Connections 51:43 Gift Ideas for Partners Links: Blaine Anderson: https://datingbyblaine.com/about Sponsors: Men.tality: https://www.datingmentality.com/ BeFreed: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/befreed-learn-anything/id6739747450

    3 min

  6. 11/21/2025

    Navigating The Body Count Debate In Dating! feat. Donna Barnes

    In this episode of Dating Intelligence, Christopher Louis and relationship expert Donna Barnes delve into the complexities of modern dating, focusing on the often-taboo topic of sexual history and its impact on relationships. They discuss the insecurities that arise from questions about a partner's past, the double standards faced by men and women, and the importance of communication and self-growth in fostering healthy connections. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding, open-mindedness, and the role of timing in finding the right partner.  Sponsored Ad by Men.tality. https://www.datingmentality.com/  Dating Intelligence: https://dating-intelligence.com/ 00:00 Introduction and New Ventures 02:52 Exploring East Coast vs. West Coast Perspectives 05:49 The Importance of Communication in Relationships 08:49 Body Count: The Taboo Topic 11:54 The Double Standards in Sexual History 14:51 The Role of Experience in Relationships 17:42 Insecurity and Trust in Relationships 20:54 The Impact of Past Relationships on Current Dynamics  27:19 Navigating Trust and Insecurity in Relationships 29:59 Understanding Past Experiences and Their Impact 34:14 The Role of Judgment in Relationships 38:50 The Importance of Connection Over Past 44:27 The Complexity of Body Count Conversations 49:05 Timing and Attraction in Relationships

    3 min

  7. 10/14/2025

    "Love Without a Lease: The LAT Lifestyle" feat. Brande Roderick

    In the season premiere of Dating Intelligence The Podcast, host Christopher Louis is joined by guest cohost Brande Roderick — actress, author, former Playboy Playmate, and star of the hit TV show Baywatch. Together, they dive into one of today's most intriguing modern relationship trends: Living Apart Together (LAT). Brande shares her personal experience thriving in a committed relationship while maintaining her own space, revealing how this lifestyle fuels both independence and intimacy. Christopher and Brande break down the misconceptions, the magic, and the mindset behind couples who choose connection without cohabitation — proving that love doesn't have to come with a shared lease. Sponsored Ad: Men.tality https://www.datingmentality.com/

    49 min

  8. 03/25/2025

    "Flirt Like a Pro: Verbal and Nonverbal Secrets Revealed" feat. Corrie Yee

    Join us for a sizzling episode of Dating Intelligence as international model and TikTok sensation Corrie Yee returns to co-host with Christopher! In this informative and entertaining episode, we dive into the art of flirting between men and women, uncovering both verbal and nonverbal secrets that can elevate your game. Corrie brings her signature humor and insight, offering women practical advice on how to navigate the often complex world of flirting. From decoding subtle body language cues to mastering witty banter, we explore it all. Tune in for a fun and enlightening conversation that will leave you feeling confident and ready to take on the dating scene like a pro! This episode is also sponsored by Dipsea, the spicy audiobook app that will keep you hooked with all of their amazing stories with voiceovers that will leave you begging for more.   https://www.dipseastories.com/

    40 min
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How are you consistently the best you while dating or in a relationship? We discuss all kinds of crazy scenarios, and more. From the creator of the highly acclaimed Dating Intelligence blog, finally comes Dating Intelligence- the Podcast. Tennis pro Christopher Louis and his cohost, international model, Jamie Villamor, help give relationship advice on dating to marriage, and everything in between. Join the fun as they bring in guests to discuss any and all topics dealing with issues we encounter in our dating and relationship lives. Nothing is off limits.

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  • Creator
    Christopher Louis/ Jamie Villamor
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    138
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2022 Dating Intelligence the Podcast
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