Dating Transformation Connell Barrett
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The Dating Transformation podcast helps men overcome self-doubt and attract their dream girlfriends, by being truly authentic. It's about finding love as the best, most real you.
Welcome to the Dating Transformation podcast, where we help single guys gain confidence, get more dates, and find their dream girlfriend.
If you’re a single guy who lacks confidence or dates, you’re in the right place! Dating coach Connell Barrett—author of the No. 1 Amazon bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”—is here to offer you three things:
1: Confidence with wonderful women
2: Tested dating tips and strategies
3: A practical plan to attract your dream girlfriend
Bonus? You’ll learn to date with "radical authenticity," and zero creepy “pickup artist” tricks. Because women like you for YOU.
Join Connell and his expert guests every week, so you can gain confidence and find your dream girlfriend.
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The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!
If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"
Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract
05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences
09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching
10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception
15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable
18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates
20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration
25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection
28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations
32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings
36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations
37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule
38:40 - Outro
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Ask the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”
Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett
"Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App
03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy
04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness
07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love
10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece
12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book
13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach
17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery
19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women
20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love
23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits
24:00 - Outro
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The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly
If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett
"Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Inrtoduction
00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula
05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting
09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames
10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call
14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements
18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits
20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques
23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates
24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date
26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense
29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness
31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication
33:24 - Outro
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Ask the Dating Coach: ‘I’m Short! Should I Have My Legs Broken to Help Me Get Dates?’
Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Women seek a confident, authentic man who values and cherishes them, regardless of height”.-Connell Barnett
"Build a strong sense of self-worth beyond height. Discover ten unique qualities that make you a great catch."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:00 - Connell Barrett, Dating Coach, Tackles Height Hurdles.
06:18 - Rise in Leg-Lengthening Procedures for Men.
08:18 - Building Confidence to Attract Your Ideal Women.
12:20 - Height: An Asset, Not a Dating Prerequisite.
16:35 - Most Women Find Height Inconsequential.
19:12 - Enhanced Profiles Yield Dating Triumphs.
21:19 - Boost Confidence, Showcase Yourself, Attract Opportunities.
23:21 - Outro
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How to Get Over a Breakup, with ‘Letting Go of Your Ex’ author Cortney Warren
Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?
Today’s special guest can help!
Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with.
It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren
"Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney Warren
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Featured Guest
Cortney Warren
Website: http://www.drcortney.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions
08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup
10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak
14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance
17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships
21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development
24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma
28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice
30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry
36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating
37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones
42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love
44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene
46:11 - Conclusion
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How NOT to Be Creepy: The 7 Mistakes Men Make that Creep Women Out
You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts down
The top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
Quotes
"There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell Barrett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure
06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: Struggles with Deceit and Discomfort
07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections
04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there"
09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success
12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect
15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments
18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story
20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy
23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation
24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life
25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia
Customer Reviews
Best Show Ever!!!!!
AWESOME SHOW!!!! ive actually known connell from a few years now and he is such much different than other coaches. he has such a genuine heart and cares bout his clients and tailors his coaching to you. listen to this man!!!!! he is definitely yoda status
Amazing Podcast
Incredibly insightful - highly recommend his book as well
Amazing Podcast
Really great podcast!