47 episodes

Slate's premier advice column, featuring Jenée Desmond-Harris, helps you navigate the thorniest questions of relationships, work, and life.

Dear Prudence Slate Podcasts

    • Society & Culture
    • 3.5 • 104 Ratings

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Slate's premier advice column, featuring Jenée Desmond-Harris, helps you navigate the thorniest questions of relationships, work, and life.

Listen on Apple Podcasts
Requires subscription and macOS 11.4 or higher

    My Friend Won’t Stop Buying Me Gifts. Help!

    My Friend Won’t Stop Buying Me Gifts. Help!

    In this episode, the co-hosts of Forever 35, Kate Spencer and Doree Shafrir, join Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about whether it’s okay to reject holiday gifts, how to cope when participating in a charity turkey giveaway pisses you off, and what to do when your best friend won’t read your book.
    If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members. 
    Go to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It’s just $15 for your first three months. 
    Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Vic Whitley-Berry.
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    • 42 min
    I Want to "Cancel" My Bad Boss But I'm Having Doubts. Help!

    I Want to "Cancel" My Bad Boss But I'm Having Doubts. Help!

    In this episode, Elie Mystal (attorney and writer) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters about what to do when you're wary of "cancel culture" but want to hold a bad boss accountable, what to do when it feels like nobody cares about spreading germs, and whether slumber parties are “sending kids into trauma.
    If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members. 
    Go to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It’s just $15 for your first three months. 
    Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Brandon Nix.
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 51 min
    Revisiting Advice from LeVar Burton

    Revisiting Advice from LeVar Burton

    We’re listening back to one of Jenée’s favorite episodes when award-winning actor, director, and educator LeVar Burton joined Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer your letters from readers about stealing from abusive parents, sharing snacks with children, and how to cope as an actor when you don’t land a role you really wanted.
    If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members.
    Go to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It’s just $15 for your first three months.
    Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Brandon Nix.
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 37 min
    My Family Won't Let Me Host for the Holidays. Help!

    My Family Won't Let Me Host for the Holidays. Help!

    In this episode, Dan Kois (writer at Slate) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters about dilemmas around holiday celebrations: what to do when no one will come to yours, what to do when people are trying to force you to come to theirs, and how to move past the time you burnt the pies while wearing a vomit covered shirt.
    If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members. 
    Go to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It’s just $15 for your first three months. 
    Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 41 min
    My Coworker Keeps Kissing Me on the Cheek. Help!

    My Coworker Keeps Kissing Me on the Cheek. Help!

    In this episode, Alison Green (author of Ask a Manager) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters about workplace dilemmas: what to do when you can’t stop crying at the office, whether it makes sense to share an autism diagnosis with your team, and PDA with a colleague.
    If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members. 
    Go to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It’s just $15 for your first three months. 
    Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 39 min
    My Friend Tried to Bring Her Kids to A Winery. Help!

    My Friend Tried to Bring Her Kids to A Winery. Help!

    In this episode, the co-hosts of Slate’s ICYMI, Rachelle Hampton and Candice Lim, join Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about whether the following categories of people are unreasonable: moms who bring their kids to wineries, boyfriends who refuse to hard launch their girlfriends on social media, and husbands who are suspicious of their wives’ friendships with single men.
    If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members. 
    Go to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It’s just $15 for your first three months. 
    Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 43 min

Customer Reviews

3.5 out of 5
104 Ratings

104 Ratings

Christina J 379 ,

Room for improvement

I have enjoyed listening to many of the episodes, and I do find it entertaining!

However, I often feel like the host lacks compassion for the people writing in and almost shames them. Also, she often takes very large leaps as to what the letter writer’s problem actually is (when she needs more details to flesh it out).

I would love to listen to future episodes where she tries to be more thoughtful.

xhensila p ,

Judgmental and lacks nuance

If you’re looking for depth, this isn’t the podcast for you

jzunicorn ,

Disappointing

I really wanted to like this podcast but I feel like the advice is very privileged and skewed. The host lacks empathy and is very judgmental of the letter writers and doesn’t provide practical advice.

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