Dear Son,

Derek Johns
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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

  1. Better Together | Ep 2 | Exploring Growth, Challenges, and Purpose

    2D AGO

    Better Together | Ep 2 | Exploring Growth, Challenges, and Purpose

    Better Together - Episode 2 | Exploring Growth, Challenges, and Purpose In this engaging episode of Better Together, our hosts dive deep into their personal and professional journeys. They discuss their thoughts and experiences on collaboration, the importance of purpose, handling adversity, and navigating new spaces. From entrepreneurial challenges to maintaining relationships, this episode encapsulates the essence of growing and thriving together. Join us for insightful conversations, practical advice, and a celebration of unity and individual contributions. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to our channel and leave a comment on your favorite part of the episode! 00:00 Introduction and Initial Setup 00:25 Discussing Shooting Schedules 00:56 Momentum and New Beginnings 02:09 The Importance of Activity and Engagement 03:03 Navigating Transitions and Challenges 06:43 Personal Growth and Maturity 12:42 Balancing Relationships and Responsibilities 15:53 Communication and Partnership 28:11 Asking for Help and Collaboration 31:03 Overcoming the Victim Mentality 31:15 The Power of Reaching Out 33:17 Assessing Capacity in Entrepreneurship 36:14 Delegation and Team Building 41:22 Balancing Joy and Growth 43:44 Staying Aligned with Purpose 47:39 Navigating Life's Forks in the Road 54:01 The Importance of Being Present 56:27 Conclusion and Final Thoughts #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital  Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/ Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac   Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii  Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparel Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    59 min
  2. Trust the Process | Stop Looking for Results | Ep 170 | The Dear Son, Show

    6D AGO

    Trust the Process | Stop Looking for Results | Ep 170 | The Dear Son, Show

    Trust The Process: Growth, Family, and the Dear Son Show's Journey Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts D Johns and Jeyblac dive deep into meaningful conversations concerning life, growth, and fatherhood. They discuss the inspirational journey of the show, the importance of trusting the process, and the significant transitions happening in their personal lives. The hosts also touch on the balance between professional and personal commitments, and share insights on creating a nurturing environment at home. Join them as they reflect on the show's beginnings, their experiences from their recent live show, and their excitement for the future. Don't miss this engaging discussion and remember to like, share, and subscribe! 00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:30 Studio Updates and Personal Reflections 03:23 Trust the Process 04:17 Live Show Success and Audience Engagement 11:47 The Importance of Diverse Perspectives 15:33 Building a Network and Expanding the Platform 20:19 Engaging with the Audience 21:18 Meaningful Conversations and Personal Connections 21:59 Parenting and Community Influence 22:50 Inclusivity in the Dear Son Network 25:54 Consistency and Growth in Podcasting 35:27 Trusting the Process in Personal and Professional Life 45:48 Excitement for Future Live Shows #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    48 min
  3. Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went | DSN Live! Experience | Ep 169 | The Dear Son, Show

    JAN 21

    Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went | DSN Live! Experience | Ep 169 | The Dear Son, Show

    Dear Son: Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went - Real Talks on Accountability and Relationships On this first-ever live episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss the importance of intent versus outcome in personal and family relationships. The conversation covers multiple angles, including father-son dynamics, the impact of delivery over intent, and the nuances of loving someone the way they need to be loved. Insightful audience interactions address practical examples such as dealing with curfews, academic standards, and maintaining relationships. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes accountability and self-awareness in nurturing healthy relationships, both within families and with significant others. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:13 First Live Show Excitement 01:10 Topic Introduction: Intent vs. Outcome 02:21 Parenting Insights: Intentions and Actions 07:02 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons 10:02 Setting Standards and Consequences 21:05 Relationship Advice: Understanding Love 26:07 Lessons from My Marriage 27:11 The Importance of Communication 28:43 Intent vs. Action in Relationships 32:21 The Role of Accountability 35:03 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections 37:58 Navigating Expectations and Standards 48:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    52 min
  4. Emotional Regulation for Fathers w Jason Schnitzer | Ep 168 | The Dear Son, Show #emotionaliq

    JAN 20

    Emotional Regulation for Fathers w Jason Schnitzer | Ep 168 | The Dear Son, Show #emotionaliq

    Mastering Emotional Intelligence in Fatherhood with Jason Schnitzer | The Dear Son, Show Join us for a profound episode of 'The Dear Son, Show' as host D Johns engages in a heartfelt and candid conversation with Jason Schnitzer. You’ll explore the complexities of fatherhood, emotional intelligence, and how previous life experiences shape who we become as men and fathers. Jason shares his own journey from aspiring Major League Baseball player to emotional intelligence coach, offering invaluable insights on regulating emotions, effective communication, and the importance of self-awareness. Whether you're a father, soon-to-be father, or simply interested in self-growth, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Don’t miss it! Remember to subscribe and share your favorite part in the comments below. 00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sun Show 00:17 Guest Introduction: Jason Schnitzer 01:28 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence 04:40 Family Dynamics and Childhood Experiences 07:56 Marriage and Personal Growth 22:12 Coaching and Self-Reflection 30:35 Reflecting on Near-Death Experiences and Fear 31:09 Parenting Challenges and Passing on Wisdom 31:53 The Impact of Social Dynamics and Shame 33:38 Navigating Fear and Emotional Suppression 35:49 The Struggle with Failure and Identity 38:05 Overcoming Past Failures and Embracing New Challenges 39:39 The Journey from Baseball to Personal Growth 46:25 Helping Others Navigate Emotional Challenges 54:09 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow Jason: https://instagram.com/jasonschnitzercoaching   Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    57 min
  5. Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself | Fatherhood Guide | Ep 167 | The Dear Son, Show

    JAN 18

    Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself | Fatherhood Guide | Ep 167 | The Dear Son, Show

    Dear Son: Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself - Meaningful Conversations for Men On this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a dynamic and heartfelt discussion on the theme 'Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself.' They delve into personal and family life, sharing how they balance personal growth with maintaining their true selves. The episode covers a broad range of topics including the importance of physical and mental health, navigating relationships, parenting strategies, and maintaining individuality in the face of societal and personal pressures. With an emphasis on real-life experiences and personal accountability, this conversation is designed to inspire and provide practical advice to both men and women on their individual journeys. Tune in for an engaging, humorous, and insightful episode. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:32 Catching Up on Life 01:17 School and Future Plans 02:34 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Don't Lose Yourself 03:14 Personal Reflections and Podcast Journey 07:08 The Importance of Seeking Help 13:18 Parenting Challenges and Approaches 20:57 Teaching Life Lessons to Young Men 26:13 A Father's Awareness and Involvement 27:23 Balancing Work and Family Life 28:13 The Importance of Being Present 30:21 Navigating Relationships and Expectations 32:25 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth 37:34 The Impact of Change on Identity 42:48 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ®Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself | Fatherhood Guide | Ep 167 | The Dear Son, Show Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    53 min
  6. Do As I Say, Not As I Did | Ep 166 | The Dear Son, Show

    JAN 11

    Do As I Say, Not As I Did | Ep 166 | The Dear Son, Show

    Dear Son, Do As I Say, Not As I Did - Lessons for the New Year | The Dear Son, Show In this engaging episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations centered around fatherhood, discussing their personal experiences and the challenges of raising sons. They touch upon topics such as the importance of aligning actions with words, the lessons they've learned from their own fathers, and the significance of being intentional with parental guidance. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about their holiday experiences and offer insights on various life lessons they wish to impart to their sons as they journey through manhood. This episode is packed with valuable advice and relatable stories aimed at fostering better father-son relationships. 00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show 00:19 New Year Vibes and Studio Updates 00:40 Family and Holiday Reflections 03:26 Live Show Announcements 04:33 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Do as I Say, Not as I Did 06:29 Father-Son Conversations and Lessons 11:45 Conflict Resolution Among Young Men 16:10 Teaching Practical Skills to Sons 20:12 Generational Criticism and Changing Times 21:20 Handling Confrontation with Wisdom 22:20 Teaching Moments and Personal Growth 27:37 Communication and Responsibility 40:57 Aligning Actions with Words 45:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac   Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    46 min
  7. Accepting Help | Better Together | Ep 1

    JAN 8

    Accepting Help | Better Together | Ep 1

    Seeds of Growth: Building Bonds, Overcoming Challenges, and Embracing Obedience In this heartfelt episode of the Dead Sun Show, hosts Joe T, Jey Blac, Reggie George, and D Johns delve into the importance of accepting help, the impact of past experiences, and the power of genuine connections. They share personal stories of struggle and resilience, discuss the significance of obedience, and offer powerful messages about trust and community. Join them as they reflect on growth, celebrate progress, and look forward to the collective success of their journey. Don't miss this inspiring conversation, and be sure to subscribe to the channel and leave a review! 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene 00:33 Reflecting on Connections and Serendipity 02:04 Welcoming Guests and Sharing Stories 03:17 The Power of Genuine Connections 08:28 The Importance of 'Why' and Personal Motivations 19:56 Learning to Ask for Help 27:07 The Struggles of Asking for Help 27:39 Trust and Vulnerability in Relationships 30:23 Dealing with Grief and Loss 35:37 Building Skills Through Adversity 38:29 The Importance of Communication 49:26 Encouragement and Moving Forward #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow us: Reggie - https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparel Joe T - https://instagram.com/bakeriii Jey Blac - https://instagram.com/jeyblac D Johns - https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    53 min
  8. Marriage Is for the Young | Growing As A Man | Ep 165 | The Dear Son, Show

    12/30/2025

    Marriage Is for the Young | Growing As A Man | Ep 165 | The Dear Son, Show

    Fatherhood Lessons & Life Conversations  In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' we dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood with special guest, Antoine Clark. D Johns, the host, leads the discussion on the dynamics of growing up with different parental structures, the influence of parenting on shaping futures, and the vital lessons about responsibility and growth. From childhood experiences to navigating adulthood, both speakers reflect on their journeys, share personal stories, and offer insights into fostering strong family bonds. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion that bridges the gaps between parents and children and explores how we can lead by example. Subscribe to the channel and let us know in the comments which part of the discussion resonated with you the most! 00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:17 Guest Introduction: An Swan Clark 00:30 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics 01:17 Father's Influence and Life Lessons 04:37 Marriage and Commitment Perspectives 08:40 Raising Children and Parental Reflections 26:01 Learning Through Experiences 26:26 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility 26:45 Navigating New Experiences 28:28 Conversations About Relationships 29:24 Blended Families and Parenting 29:49 Setting Standards and Discipline 41:01 Financial Wisdom and Legacy 46:15 Reflections on Fatherhood 51:28 Closing Thoughts and Farewell #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow Antoine: https://instagram.com/iamadotclark   Follow ClarkWork Productions: https://instagram.com/clarkworkproductions Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    53 min
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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

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  • Creator
    Derek Johns
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    170
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Derek Johns
  • Show Website
    Dear Son,

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