The Self-Hype Podcast

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Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.

  1. -4 J

    Why You Don’t Need Closure—Stop Chasing Him, And Start Owning You

    Ever been blindsided by a breakup, replaying every what-if, asking “Was it me?” Eli gets it. This week, he dives into the messy, uncomfortable, and sometimes hilarious reality of closure. Why it’s not always about answers, why secure people get triggered too, and why the “closure you want” isn’t always the closure you get. Through this episode, you’ll learn to parent your inner child, recognize avoidance, and understand that his limitations do not define your self-worth. If you’re ready to stop holding onto someone else’s dysfunction and start owning your healing journey, this episode is your roadmap.   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE   Join the Skool Community https://www.skool.com/heal-your-attachment-style-1096   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

    28 min

  2. 3 OCT.

    Why The Spark Is BS: How To Not Fall For Potential In Dating

    That instant spark, the butterflies, the “oh my God he’s hot” moment—it’s thrilling, it’s intoxicating… and it can make you blind. In this episode, Eli dismantles the myth that chemistry equals compatibility. He shares raw insights from years of coaching, personal experience as a former avoidant, and real stories from clients who got caught chasing sparks instead of substance. Learn how to pump the brakes, ask the right questions, and track emotional competency before you fall too fast. This episode isn’t about killing romance—it’s about making sure your heart doesn’t pay the price for fleeting attraction, and why slow-burn connections with intentional boundaries are the real game-changer.   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

    27 min

  3. 26 SEPT.

    Stop Being Selfish: A Radical Take on Self-Care

    Self-care isn’t spa days and margaritas. It’s facing yourself with intention so you can raise the standard for your whole life. In this episode, Eli breaks down why real self-care is actually selfless, how “survival mode” keeps you burned out, and a simple intention-first system you can use today. He shares the BuzzFeed solo-date story, the backyard picnic that changed everything, and practical prompts to turn any activity into healing work. Plus: details on Eli’s Oct 19 Chicago in-person wellness day benefitting a local nonprofit serving immigrants and refugee human rights. Link in show notes or DM Eli to learn more!   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

    27 min

  4. 19 SEPT.

    Decoding the Avoidant Man: Answering Your Top Questions

    You asked, and Eli answered. In this special community-driven episode, host Eli Vazquez dives headfirst into your most burning questions about dating and heartbreak. Wondering what he’s really thinking in that rebound relationship? Confused about the difference between boundaries and rules? This is the episode for you. With his signature mix of tough love, relatable humor, and actionable advice, Eli tackles everything from avoidant attachment to starting your therapy journey. Get ready for a raw, unedited Q&A session that feels less like a podcast and more like a strategy session with your wisest, most unfiltered friend.   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

    27 min

  5. 11 SEPT.

    The No BS Blueprint To Never Date An Avoidant Again

    You don’t need six months to see the truth—you need a process. In this episode, Eli gives you a three-date blueprint to identify avoidant patterns early: intentional check-ins, direct values alignment (marriage, kids, faith, location), and real talk about conflict and repair. You’ll learn how to calm an anxious attachment by building self-trust, practice reparenting with curiosity and compassion, and recruit a tiny “accountability squad” to keep you from texting your ex. It’s bold, loving, and wildly practical—designed to help you choose the partner who can meet (or exceed) your standard.   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

    35 min

  6. 4 SEPT.

    How To Stay Motivated At Any Age With Coach Suzi Jalowsky

    In a refreshing and honest conversation on the Selfhype Podcast, Eli Vasquez welcomes the infectiously positive Suzi Jalowsky to share the story behind her viral fitness fame. What began with workout DVDs in her garage after putting the kids to bed has blossomed into a million-follower community inspired by her simple and effective approach to health. Together, Eli and Suzi explore the power of starting small, the mental game of showing up for yourself, and how to build a life where fitness feels like a reward, not a punishment. Tune in for a dose of real-world motivation that cuts through the noise and proves you don’t need fancy gyms or complicated diets to transform your life.   Want To Join My Healing Program? JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

    43 min

  7. 28 AOÛT

    How Social Media Is Destroying Modern Dating In 2025 (And How to Protect Yourself From it)

    Why does dating feel like a never-ending cycle of disappointment? Eli dives into the sneaky ways social media rewires our brains to expect heartbreak, distrust, and division in love. From heartbreak content loops that keep wounds open, to confusing growth with potential in relationships, he exposes the traps that leave so many burnt out in the digital streets. But it’s not all bad news—Eli shares how to break free from the heartbreak algorithm, lean into real self-awareness, and start creating connections that actually feel good.   Want To Join My Healing Program? JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

    33 min

  8. 21 AOÛT

    Unpacking Trauma with Erin Valente: How To Redefine And Heal

    Episode Introduction: Erin Valente is a compassionate therapist and content creator whose deep curiosity about people and their stories fuels her mission to make mental health more approachable and relatable. On this episode of the Selfhype Podcast, Erin joins Eli Vasquez to unpack the realities of trauma, healing, and the human experience. With years of experience supporting clients through diverse challenges, Erin empowers others to embrace vulnerability, discover their unique paths to resilience, and recognize that feeling “broken” is simply part of being human. Through honest conversation and her multi-faceted therapeutic approach, Erin—alongside Eli—offers listeners practical insights and encouragement for their own journeys.   Learn More About Erin Here: https://www.erinvalentetherapy.com/    Want To Join My Healing Program? JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

    54 min
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Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.

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  • Création
    Self-Hype
  • Années d’activité
    2020 - 2025
  • Épisodes
    89
  • Classification
    Contenu explicite
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    © Copyright 2025 All rights reserved.
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    The Self-Hype Podcast

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