Diary of the Devoted

Destine Dumetz

Welcome to Diary of the Devoted. This podcast is for anyone passionate about God, wellness, and living life intentionally. Let's dive into this journey together, choosing to nurture what's innate, while becoming the women God has called us to be. You can also expect topics on creativity, heart-led leadership, immersive reading of poems with insightful commentary, and non-mainstream perspectives that meet you on your unique path of life. 💛 To live is to be heart-led.

  1. 08/19/2024

    A Non-Mainstream Lens On Beauty

    Peace Family, Today I went deeeep, lol. As expected, but I brought a non-mainstream perspective on the beauty industry and tangible tips to combat vanity. I'm coming from the perspective of being a somewhat natural girlie who has never and don't plan to alter(or inject) my face or body ever. I know this is a sensitive topic, but I encourage you to listen to the heart behind this episode. Let me know how this lands for you Segment 1: Embracing the Value of Beauty (1:40) ​Addressing common mindsets around beauty ​Importance of recognizing beauty as part of feminine nature.​The two extremes: villainizing beauty and the pursuit of impossible perfection.​Increasing trend of women discontinuing fillers and Botox.Segment 2: Defining True Beauty: Embracing your feminine nature and staying rooted in God’s view of you (8:14) ​Distinction between beauty and vanity.​The need to move beyond narrow definitions of beauty.​Encouragement to embrace unique beauty and true identity.Segment 3: Society's Standards and Personal Influences (11:06) ​Societal emphasis on outward appearance and influence from a young age.​The cycle of insecurity and altering appearance​Statistics: Over 15 million cosmetic procedures in the US in 2022.​Potential mental health impacts, such as body dysmorphic disorder (BDD).​Influence on the next generation: Unrealistic beauty standards and early cosmetic procedures.Segment 4: Beauty Standards and Modern Society (18:00) ​Shift in beauty standards with social media influence.​Comparison between 90s natural beauty and current AI-rendered "Instagram face."​Controversy in discussing societal pressures and decisions women make.Segment 5: Combatting Vanity and Embracing Authentic Beauty (21:29) ​Restoring daughters' identity beyond physical appearance.​Celebrating natural beauty.​Spiritual perspective: God’s heavenly dwelling in us.​True confidence from knowing Jesus.​Importance of strengthening relationship with GodSegment 6: The Importance of a Balanced Beauty Regime (27:27) ​Maintaining a balanced beauty regime for well-being.​Personal beauty regime: Simple steps and healthy choices.​Role of diet and community in beauty and health.Segment 7: Learning from Queen Esther (29:46) ​Queen Esther’s story and beautifying rituals.​Esther’s outward beauty reflecting inner strength.​God’s use of beauty for His purposes.​Importance of feeling beautiful and valuing beauty without vanity.Segment 8: Embracing Authentic Health and Aging Gracefully (32:01) ​Promoting authentic health over artificial appearances.​The fine line of conveying true health in social media landscape.​Aging gracefully by accepting changes and recognizing inner beauty.Conclusion (34:24) ​Embracing true beauty involves cherishing your feminine nature and combatting vanity.​Journey of appreciating inner and outer beauty.​Encouragement to stay true to the beautiful woman God created you to be.Thank you for joining me on this episode of Diary of the Devoted. Until next time, prayers to you as our paths weave parallel, Destine xx

    37 min
  2. 08/17/2024

    Wedding Recap! & Tips For You

    Peace Family, In this heartfelt episode, I take you through the journey of our wedding, pre-wedding events, to the joyous reception. Join us as I share personal stories, lessons learned, and the significance of cultural traditions in our celebration. Segments: ​Proposal Story - A romantic proposal atop a lighthouse, filled with love, poetry, and excitement​Elopement - Why we chose to elope in December 2022, and how this decision shaped our early married life.​Wedding Planning - The highs and lows of planning, finding the perfect venue, and the importance of family and faith.​Pre-Wedding Events - A memorable bachelorette party, wine tasting, and the significance of the dowry dinner in Congolese culture.​Wedding Day - A day of peace, joy, and a few surprises, including the emotional walk down the aisle.​Reception - An evening filled with love, laughter, and precious memories.​Family and Friends - Acknowledging the incredible support from our loved ones.​Lessons and Future Plans - Practical tips for future brides and a look ahead at our next chapter.Takeaways: ​Embrace the unexpected in your engagement and wedding journey.​Be intentional when packing for your wedding day to prevent any miscellaneous items. In my case, my veil lol. ​Lean on your family and friends—they are your biggest support system.​If you're customizing your wedding dress online, know it can be risky despite all the "verified reviews.">> If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review our podcast, and stay tuned for the rest of Season 4 here on Diary of the Devoted! >> Groomsmen Boutonniere Link - ⁠https://amzn.to/3YLnFcr⁠ >> If you’d like to support us through our wedding registry, here’s the link - https://www.amazon.com/wedding/registry/2E6FWVZ1LITVP Prayers to you in the way our paths weave Parallel, Destine xx

    45 min
  3. 04/29/2024

    Rewiring The Feminine Psyche

    Peace Family, Love to those who are on this journey of feminine descent. Love to those who are curious about feminine restoration. Love to those who have God wounds. Love to those who have been hurt by the church. Love to those who are healing from trauma regarding men\the masculine. Love to those who are living life devotionally. You're welcome here. Thank you for being here. Time Stamps: 3:24 - Femininity is baseless without God. 5:02 - Heart transformation is active. 6:18 - I'm here for all phases of your womanhood. 11:22 - There's so much value in investing in your growth and wellbeing of your heart. 11:52 - Anti-union rhetoric has plagued the collective feminine. 14:58 - Are you capable of receiving what you're praying for? What dwells in your soma? 16:12 - Real life example of the "wounded feminine." 21:09 - What is the "wounded feminine." 21:22 - Listen to "Feminine Power - What Is It?" 22:24 - The power of your subconscious mind. 25:23 - You need more than a "revelation," you need community. 28:41 - I let God refine me and you can too. 30:57 - Dive deeper with me on my other spaces online 3 32:00 - DM me on instagram to get the link to our private prayer telegram groupchat! Lastly, if you'd like to hear more unfiltered episodes, join us on Patreon! (There's preview videos up as well if you're on the fence). Here is the link to join us today! - ⁠⁠⁠⁠Femininity Lovers Tier⁠⁠.⁠ Email me at deekyubwa@gmail.com if you have any questions regarding the 1:1 mentorship program or joining our private telegram group chat! Prayers to you in the way our paths weave parallel, Destine xx

    36 min
  4. 04/04/2024

    Restoring Your *Cherished Girl* Identity

    Peace Family, Happy April!! I hope all is well your way. 3 Imagine a world where women were moving from this knowing that she's forever cherished, chosen, called and claimed by God. It's a remembrance that speaks to the heart. Let's get into it! Listen to "Feminine Power - What Is It?" episode to understand more about the "power" women ooze from our essence alone. 4:46 - Why the Art of Daughterhood changes everything 6:09 - How this remembrance helped me 6:60 - Media has lied to us about societal beauty standards Listen to Redefining "Self-Love" (One of the most played episodes on this podcast) 9:13 - Reminders for your femininity journey 10:00 -Who does God say you are? (Bible verses) 12:28 - What does this remembrance look like relationally 14:40 - Having a new level of appreciation for everything that is *you* 16:35 - Godfidence can create stability within your spirit 16:60 - God says you are Royal, Special, Holy 19:40 - Collective wounds and healing 20:48 - Journal Prompts for you 3 I hope this episode helped you on your own personal journey. DM me and let me know how it lands for you! Listen to the "Feminine Descension - What Is It" episode for an explanation on what it means to drop in and into your feeling body. Lastly, if you'd like to hear more unfiltered episodes, join us on Patreon! (There's preview videos up as well if you're on the fence). Here is the link to join us today! - ⁠⁠⁠Femininity Lovers Tier⁠⁠. Prayers to you in the way our paths weave parallel, Destine xx

    29 min
  5. 03/22/2024

    *Healthy Girl* Habits (Physically, Mentally, & Spiritually)

    Peace Family, Happy Spring!! 3 I created a poll on my Instagram story to get some input about topics you're interested in hearing from me. This was the most voted on topic so I'm excited to share what has helped me over the years physically, mentally, and spiritually. At 12:02 I shared about physical *healthy girl habits* that I've implemented over the past two years. Being a well nourished woman is foundational to assist you hormonally on all levels. I have personally introduced bone broth, raw milk, grass-fed unflavored beef gelatin in my teas and baked treats and grass-fed beef liver to my diet. I also cook with ghee(clarified butter) and organic pasteurized butter to avoid seed oils. I forgot to mention on this episode that I do use extra virgin olive oil from time to time. In the past few years I haven’t been on a diet, but I’ve managed to lose a substantial amount of weight by learning to eat with my natural hormonal cycle to optimize my metabolism and maintain bodily homeostasis. I don’t calorie restrict at all. I keep it simple focusing on protein, carb, fat - for a balanced diet. I also focus on eating whole foods more than processed foods. (If you'd like to hear more details about my specific meals and routine, let me know on IG or email me at deekyubwa@gmail.com so I can share in detail on here or substack). At 25:29 I shared about mental girl habits I've implemented over the years. Avoiding morning phone use, prioritizing movement, staying connected to your creativity and opening up the living Word! Irreplaceable Creatrix Audio Immersion Sacred Rebirths - Poetry Collection At 37:02 I shared about spiritual girl habits that's helped keep me stay sane in this wild world! Use your voice to commune, to receive, to pray, and connect with God deeper. Talking about God with others and cultivating your own personal relationship with him is game changing to live a more meaningful life. I invite you to find the community that speaks to you and calls you higher at the same time. If you don't have anyone else to talk to about in this area of your life, I gotchu. DM To Join Private Prayer Telegram Chat Lastly, if you'd like to hear more unfiltered episodes, join us on Patreon! (There's preview videos up as well if you're on the fence). Here is the link to join us today! - ⁠⁠Femininity Lovers Tier⁠⁠. Thank you for being here. Until next time 3 Prayers to you in the way our paths weave parallel, Destine xx

    46 min

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Welcome to Diary of the Devoted. This podcast is for anyone passionate about God, wellness, and living life intentionally. Let's dive into this journey together, choosing to nurture what's innate, while becoming the women God has called us to be. You can also expect topics on creativity, heart-led leadership, immersive reading of poems with insightful commentary, and non-mainstream perspectives that meet you on your unique path of life. 💛 To live is to be heart-led.

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