Don't Force It: How to Get into College without Losing Yourself in the Process

Sheila Akbar, PhD
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For all the stressed-out parents trying to help their teenagers navigate the complicated world of college admissions. Each episode offers insightful and in-depth conversations with admissions experts and professional educators with practical advice for getting through the process without losing sight of yourself, your kid, or your sanity. From building a strong academic and extracurricular profile, developing the college list, managing standardized tests, to crafting the perfect essay, we've got you covered. Whether you're a seasoned high school parent or a first-timer, join us for candid conversations and expert guidance on making it to, through, and beyond college.

  1. Let’s Get Tactical: What do you need to know about the new ACT?

    OCT 8

    Let’s Get Tactical: What do you need to know about the new ACT?

    ACT rolled out a digital version of it’s enhanced exam last spring. Earlier this month, we saw the paper version of that exam. Let’s talk about what you need to know! Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

    31 min
  2. Your College Admissions Roadmap: Plan Ahead Now to Position Your Kid for Success

    SEP 25

    Your College Admissions Roadmap: Plan Ahead Now to Position Your Kid for Success

    Feeling overwhelmed by the college admissions process? In this episode, I walk through a clear, grade-by-grade roadmap to help families plan ahead, lower stress, and keep the parent-teen relationship strong. From early high school habits to senior-year strategy, this is your guide to making thoughtful, values-driven choices every step of the way. Tune in to learn how to stay ahead—and support your teen with confidence.  Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

    46 min
  3. 35 College Essays?! The Overlooked Prompts that Unlock Acceptance

    SEP 11

    35 College Essays?! The Overlooked Prompts that Unlock Acceptance

    Struggling with supplemental essays like “Why Us?” or “Diverse Community”? You’re not alone—and these underrated prompts can make or break an application. In this episode, I’m joined by experts Joanna Graham, Holly Schreiber, Alex Greco, and Andrew Friedman to uncover what colleges are really looking for, how to avoid common clichés, and how to craft responses that feel authentic, specific, and powerful. Tune in to get the strategies that will help your student’s application stand out where it counts. Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

    53 min
  4. The Complete Guide to College Transfer: Find Your Ideal School, Maximize Your Credits, and Earn Your Degree

    AUG 28

    The Complete Guide to College Transfer: Find Your Ideal School, Maximize Your Credits, and Earn Your Degree

    Thinking about transferring colleges—or guiding someone who is? In this episode, I sit down with independent educational consultant Jamie Smith about her just-released book on transfer admissions, the surprising data behind who actually makes the leap, and why the process is so much more complex than people realize. If you're navigating the transfer path or supporting someone who is, this one’s worth a listen! Bio Jaime Smith, M.A., MS.Ed., is a Certified Educational Planner with 25 years of experience in the field of education. After many years of teaching English at the middle, high school, and college levels, Jaime turned to online education and founded a virtual K-12 supplementary education program, Online G3, where she continues to teach gifted and twice-exceptional homeschooled students. As a college advisor, Jaime specializes in transfer admissions, application essays, homeschoolers, neurodiverse learners, and other non-traditional applicants. In 2023, she completed a Post-Master's Certificate in Transfer Leadership and Practice at the University of North Georgia in collaboration with the National Institute for the Study of Transfer Students and is a fervent advocate for transfer support. Connect with Jamie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaime-smith-cep Learn more about Jaime at https://jsmithiec.com/ Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

    29 min
  5. Live Coaching: Why this school?

    AUG 14

    Live Coaching: Why this school?

    Choosing the right college can feel overwhelming, especially for creative students exploring paths like art and animation. In this episode, I chat with a parent navigating this very journey—we unpack how to center student interests, explore interdisciplinary options, and look beyond just academics when building a school list. Tune in for a practical, thoughtful conversation that might just reframe how you think about fit. Register to attend or receive the recording of our upcoming webinar, 35 College Essays?! The Overlooked Prompts that Unlock Acceptance & How to Get Your Rising Senior Started Before They’re Neck-Deep in Supplemental Essays https://signeteducation.com/events Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights! Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

    37 min
  6. Protect Their College Options: What Rising Juniors Must Do Around Testing This Summer

    JUL 3

    Protect Their College Options: What Rising Juniors Must Do Around Testing This Summer

    In today’s episode, I’m sharing a recent webinar I had with testing expert Akil Bello on how rising juniors can approach standardized testing strategically. We walk through the steps families can take this summer to avoid stress later and keep more college options open. Whether you’re considering test-optional or full prep, this session will help you make a smart, informed decision. Tune in! Akil's bio:  Akil Bello is an educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and testing expert. Akil has worked at every level of the supplemental education industry, advising universities, launching multiple companies, developing dozens of admissions and test preparation programs, training hundreds of instructors, and helping thousands of students achieve success. Akil Bello is an admissions testing expert with no psychometric training, a nationally recognized college admissions policy wonk with no advanced degree, and an entrepreneur of the week and 40 under 40 award winner who never attended business school.  Akil started his career as a proctor but eventually left to launch Bell Curves, a test preparation company where he worked extensively to improve outcomes for low-income and under-represented students. After successfully selling Bell Curves, Akil worked at a leading test preparation company from 2014 to 2018, serving as the Director of Equity and Access, where his focus was on helping public schools, non-profit organizations, and community based organizations understand standardized tests and develop affordable solutions for their students. Since leaving test preparation, Akil has consulted on educational policy and access with universities, political candidates, and even participated in two documentary films, one of which is available on Amazon Prime for a mere $4.99.  Akil recently served as Senior Director of Advocacy and Advancement at FairTest, where he works to build resources and tools to ensure that large scale assessment and evaluation tools are used responsibly and transparently. Currently, he is the Director of College Access and FAFSA Advising at SUNY.  Akil attended the most illustrious HBCU, Atlanta A&T University, and currently resides in New York City with his beautiful wife, two amazing sons, and his internet daughter Enid-Michelle.  Follow Akil at https://www.linkedin.com/in/akil-bello/ Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

    53 min
  7. Standout College Essay Secrets: What Parents Must Know by June of Junior Year

    JUN 18

    Standout College Essay Secrets: What Parents Must Know by June of Junior Year

    In today’s episode, I’m joined by Holly Schreiber, Joanna Graham, and Andy Friedman for a deep dive into what really makes a college essay stand out. We share why students should start early—way before senior year kicks in—and how the best personal statements reveal something real, not rehearsed. From creative brainstorming techniques to honest talk about why AI won’t cut it, we cover what works (and what doesn’t). If you want the inside scoop on writing essays that actually matter, don’t miss this one! Register to attend or receive the recording of our upcoming webinar, Protect Their College Options: What Sophomores Must Do Around Testing This Summer: https://signeteducation.com/events Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights! Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

    57 min
  8. Elizabeth Hamblet: Seven Steps to College Success

    JUN 5

    Elizabeth Hamblet: Seven Steps to College Success

    In today’s episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Elizabeth Hamblet, a leading expert in college disability services, about what families often don’t realize when it comes to accommodations in college. We unpack how support systems shift after high school, which accommodations students can and can’t expect, and how to help your student build the self-advocacy and independence they’ll need to thrive. Whether your student has a 504 plan, an IEP, or simply needs extra support, this episode is full of practical guidance and honest insight you won’t want to miss. Bio Elizabeth C. Hamblet has worked as a learning disabilities specialist in college disability services offices for more than two decades. In addition to working at a university, she is a nationally-requested speaker on preparing students with disabilities for successful college transition. Hamblet is the author of Seven Steps to College Success: A Pathway for Students with Disabilities  (Rowman & Littlefield, 2023) and a concise guide on transition, and her work has appeared in numerous journals and online platforms. She offers advice and information on her website at www.LDadvisory.com and shares resources on numerous social media platforms.  Follow Elizabeth for more expert advice and resources on supporting students with disabilities in the college transition process: Instagram – @ld_advisory Facebook – Elizabeth C. Hamblet, LD Advisory LinkedIn – Elizabeth C. Hamblet Threads – @ld_advisory Bluesky – @echamblet.bsky.social Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

    39 min
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For all the stressed-out parents trying to help their teenagers navigate the complicated world of college admissions. Each episode offers insightful and in-depth conversations with admissions experts and professional educators with practical advice for getting through the process without losing sight of yourself, your kid, or your sanity. From building a strong academic and extracurricular profile, developing the college list, managing standardized tests, to crafting the perfect essay, we've got you covered. Whether you're a seasoned high school parent or a first-timer, join us for candid conversations and expert guidance on making it to, through, and beyond college.

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