Euzoia

Cameron King, Christoph Hartmann

We take a holistic perspective on what it means to live a good life. Over the year we will cover ten different areas of life, with the top 80/20 principles for each. One episode every week.

  1. 3d ago

    Work | How to Navigate your Career (With Sofia Balderson)

    https://euzoia.substack.com/https://euzoia.org/https://www.youtube.com/@euzoiahttps://open.spotify.com/show/30qsIDrNDARnpMDBflwGKF?si=951b0e7b65e846b1https://www.tiktok.com/@euzoiaorg Why do some people consistently create opportunities, recover quickly from failure, and shape their careers—while others wait for permission? In this episode of Euzoia, Christoph sits down with Sofia to explore agency: the ability to take initiative, make meaningful decisions, and influence the direction of your life. They unpack whether agency is something you are born with or a skill you can deliberately develop. From experimenting early in your career to building high-agency teams, Sofia shares practical strategies for becoming more proactive, resilient, and impactful. They discuss: • Why exploration is essential early in your career• How to choose work based on impact, autonomy, and culture• The balance between exploration and exploitation• How “duocracy” encourages initiative within teams• Why rejection and failure are necessary parts of growth• How small experiments can increase your tolerance for risk• The hidden danger of waiting for permission• How strong leaders balance freedom with structure• Why emotional recovery speed may matter more than avoiding failure• Practical ways to start building more agency today The biggest lesson? You probably have more permission than you think. Agency is not about having total confidence or knowing exactly what to do. It is about taking the next useful action, learning from the result, and continuing to move forward. Whether you are starting your career, changing direction, managing a team, or building an organisation, this conversation offers a practical framework for creating more opportunities instead of waiting for them.

  2. Jul 31

    Love | How to Think About a Life Changing Event (With Julia Wise)

    https://euzoia.substack.com/https://euzoia.org/https://www.youtube.com/@euzoiahttps://open.spotify.com/show/30qsIDrNDARnpMDBflwGKF?si=951b0e7b65e846b1https://www.tiktok.com/@euzoiaorg Having children may be the most meaningful decision you ever make—but how can you know whether it is the right one? In this episode of Euzoia, Christoph speaks with Julia Wise, licensed social worker, Community Health Lead at the Centre for Effective Altruism, former President of Giving What We Can, and mother of three. They explore one of life’s biggest and most irreversible questions: Should you have children? Julia shares the honest reality of parenthood—from sleep deprivation, lost time and reduced freedom to the extraordinary love, meaning and connection that children can bring. She also explains how she approached the decision through an ethical lens: considering the money, energy and attention that raising children might take away from helping others. The conversation explores: • Whether you can predict how much you will enjoy being a parent• Why parenthood often feels more meaningful than it feels “happy”• The hidden cost of children: not just money, but attention and focus• Whether having a second or third child is really much harder• Why many people may wait until they feel “ready” for too long• How to think about the possibility of future regret• Why becoming a father may not feel real until the child arrives• The pressure to become financially and emotionally perfect first• What contradictory parenting advice gets wrong• Why imperfect parents have successfully raised children for thousands of years Julia also shares what living with a newborn before becoming a parent taught her, why having her own children felt completely different from watching someone else raise theirs, and how parenting created a form of meaning unlike anything she had experienced through work or charitable giving. This is not an argument that everyone should have children. It is an open, thoughtful and unusually honest examination of what the decision involves—and why complete certainty may never arrive. “Children are the most immediate, ongoing and ever-present project that you can do.” 00:00 – Meet Julia Wise01:29 – Living with a newborn before becoming a parent05:11 – Can you practise for parenthood?07:00 – The ethics of having children09:30 – The true cost: time, money and mental focus11:54 – Can non-parents understand the experience?14:28 – Is having more children much harder?18:47 – Do you need to be completely ready?23:01 – Children, commitment and future regret24:22 – Happiness versus meaning27:50 – Why parenting advice is so contradictory30:32 – Why imperfect parents are probably doing better than they think Find Julia’s writing at juliawise.net and on Substack. Subscribe to Euzoia for more conversations about health, relationships, meaning, fulfilment and what it takes to build a genuinely good life. Chapters

  3. Jul 17

    Love | How to Build a Strong Relationship (with Ann Don Bosco)

    Check out Settled: Settledlove.com https://euzoia.substack.com /https://euzoia.org/https://www.youtube.com/@euzoia https://open.spotify.com/show/30qsIDrNDARnpMDBflwGKF?si=951b0e7b65e846b1https://www.tiktok.com/@euzoiaorgW hat if the “perfect relationship” doesn’t exist — and the strongest couples are just the ones who learn how to repair, reassure, and choose each other again?In this episode of Euzoia, Christoph sits down with Ann from SettledLove.com to unpack what actually makes relationships last after the honeymoon phase fades. From attachment styles and emotional safety to texting anxiety, conflict loops, avoidant patterns, and the surprisingly messy reality of long-term love, this conversation gets into the stuff couples usually avoid saying out loud.Ann brings insights from matchmaking, public health, mental health, and her own informal study of 50 long-term couples — including the surprising truth that even “solid” relationships are often full of doubt, conflict, uncertainty, and repair.We explore:Why happy couples still question their relationshipHow anxious and avoidant attachment show up in datingWhy conflict is often about safety, not the surface-level argumentThe power of regular relationship check-insWhy texting speed is a terrible measure of loveHow to stop taking every little thing personallyThe uncomfortable truth about choosing someone long-termWhy your mindset about your partner may matter more than shared hobbiesThis is a conversation for anyone who has ever thought:“Is this normal?”“Do they still love me?”“Why am I pulling away?”“Should relationships feel this uncertain?”Turns out: love is less about finding someone who never triggers you, and more about learning how to become safe for each other.

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We take a holistic perspective on what it means to live a good life. Over the year we will cover ten different areas of life, with the top 80/20 principles for each. One episode every week.